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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

885 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 2.3K ratings

Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

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Episodes

(Rewind) How To Stand Out In Modern Dating

September 29, 2023 21:25 - 9 minutes - 12.6 MB

Do you keep getting flat responses to your text messages? Or find it hard to get things moving in the early stages of dating?  In this episode, Matthew and Stephen talk about why trying to play it too cool can be counter-productive in dating, and how you can show your personality to stand out and create connection in the first few conversations. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Discover the 3 Secrets to Taking Control in Your Love Life. ...

(Matt Monday): Surviving Heartbreak

September 25, 2023 18:20 - 4 minutes - 6.38 MB

Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end. If you feel stuck in heartbreak—or just need some encouragement to pick yourself up—don’t miss today’s new video. I’ll show you how to stop this breakup from defining who you are, and give you the first step to getting the confidence you need to start again. --- Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in ...

(Rewind): Don't Be Afraid Of Your Weirdness...

September 22, 2023 19:12 - 6 minutes - 8.92 MB

Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else. But I'm here to tell you... It's ok to be weird. In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, your productivity, or what makes you charismatic. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle wit...

(Matt Monday): Doomed to Never Find Love? This Will Change Your Story...

September 18, 2023 13:54 - 26 minutes - 36.2 MB

I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started.   Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on this subject. I’m so excited for you to see it. If you want to feel more confident in dating (and in life!) you can’t...

(Rewind): If You Love Them, But They Won't Change...

September 15, 2023 21:06 - 13 minutes - 18.4 MB

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.   Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.   With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.   Today’s clip could end up saving you months ...

(Matt Monday): 19 PRACTICAL Ways to Flirt and Create Chemistry in Early Dating

September 11, 2023 16:30 - 21 minutes - 29 MB

What’s the secret formula for flirting? It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it. The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do to subtly add flirtatious chemistry into any conversation and make it feel completely natural. In today’s new compilation episode, I’ve gathered my best flirting advice from over the years, giving you a total of...

(Rewind) "What if we have different love languages?"

September 08, 2023 20:57 - 9 minutes - 12.7 MB

Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. In this episode, Matt and Stephen talk about whether it matters if you and your partner have different love languages and how you can navigate these differences in a relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---   ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating ...

(Matt Monday): Dating Advice That Will Change Your Entire Life

September 04, 2023 19:22 - 24 minutes - 34.4 MB

Get ready to put yourself in the shoes of some of the incredible women who attended our last Retreat, and hear the stories of how they’ve been able to find reserves of strength, resilience, and hope they didn’t even know they had. Plus, you can see the dedication of my team, the absolute blast we have, and the deep work and lightbulb moments that happen throughout the event. It’s my wish that as you listen to this episode (and make sure to go watch on YouTube as well to see the Retreat li...

(Rewind): If You Want To INSTANTLY Heal Your Heart Break, Listen To This.

September 01, 2023 08:28 - 9 minutes - 12.9 MB

I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get o...

(Matt Monday): How To Get Over Your Ex (When You Still Obsess Over Them)

August 28, 2023 12:12 - 12 minutes - 17.3 MB

Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup. But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the person we broke up with, anger lingers long after it’s productive. We become captive to this toxic emotion, unable to move on and get over what happened, rendering closure impossible.   So how can we truly heal from this type of pain? In today's new episode, we'll discuss how. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. ...

(Rewind): Are You Most Productive When Single or In A Relationship?

August 25, 2023 14:36 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone". If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen talk about the benefits of being single vs. a relationship and how to reframe your lens to be able to make either work for you. --- ►► Tr...

(Matt Monday): What You Need to Know BEFORE You Get Into a Relationship

August 21, 2023 20:05 - 14 minutes - 20 MB

Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”? This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get your life together and you’re totally fulfilled and happy, the right person will come along.” It sounds good. But is it true? In today's episode, I’ll give you the truth about what you need to do when looking for love so you can find the right person for you without needing to be perfect! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magi...

(Rewind): One of the MOST Important Qualities For Any Relationship To Last

August 18, 2023 08:42 - 7 minutes - 9.9 MB

There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list traits or things they like in an ideal partner: sexual chemistry, a sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness. But there are also essential qualities that pertain to how we actually relate to the person in front of us on a day-to-day level. In this clip, Matthew and Stephen explain one of the most underrated things you need that keeps a...

(Matt Monday): 3 Ways to Stop Obsessing Over Someone in Early Dating

August 14, 2023 14:07 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

When you get excited about someone, it's easy to get caught in the trap of obsessive thinking. You try to move too quickly. You check your phone constantly waiting for their texts. You worry they might lose their attention at any moment. When this happens, you can easily end up self-sabotaging, lowering your value, and pushing someone away. So if you want to keep your confidence and maintain attraction throughout the dating process, use these 3 keys to avoid moving too quickly in early...

(Rewind): Why You Should Stop Thinking They’re “The One That Got Away”

August 11, 2023 09:01 - 11 minutes - 16 MB

"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?" "Will I ever love someone that way again?" It's normal to go through feelings of panic and regret when someone breaks up with us whom we love and admire. Or when we look back on the good qualities they have and worry if they were the ONLY person who can make us happy. But this kind of thinking can be a trap for many reasons. In this clip, Matt explains an unexpected way of looking at the situation after a breakup that ...

Is Your Ego Destroying Your Love Life?

August 09, 2023 19:29 - 9 minutes - 12.7 MB

Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle. What's holding them back? FEAR. They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is clear their ego is getting in the way of being happy.

219: Is Your Ego Destroying Your Love Life?

August 09, 2023 19:29 - 9 minutes - 12.7 MB

Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle. What's holding them back? FEAR. They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is clear their ego is getting in the way of being happy.

(Matt Monday): Don’t Fall Into Another Casual Situationship! Say THIS Instead…

August 07, 2023 11:01 - 1 hour - 101 MB

In today’s new episode, I talk with author and radio host Tanya Rad, who shares what she did to get what she wanted in dating and how she found her current boyfriend in the process. Her honesty is refreshing, and whether you’re in a relationship or not, I think you’ll learn something new about setting standards (and going easy on yourself when things don’t go as planned!) Moreover, her insights will help you weed out the people who are just looking for something casual so you can find the...

(Rewind): How To Stop Comparison From Ruining Your Happiness

August 04, 2023 13:42 - 11 minutes - 16.3 MB

Do you find yourself always measuring your life against other people you know? Or are you worried about whether you have achieved enough, made enough money, or got the right partner by a certain age? If so, you know what it's like to be stuck in the "comparison trap". While it can be useful to have goals to keep us motivated, we have to remember we are often comparing ourselves to people with completely different lives and experiences than us. In this clip, Matt explains his own strugg...

(Matt Monday): If Your Ex Moved On and Crushed You Completely, THIS Is How You Heal

July 31, 2023 16:29 - 15 minutes - 20.7 MB

When someone we hoped we would be with forever breaks up with us, the pain of heartbreak that follows can be akin to torture. Most of us have been there before, and we all know it can take all the strength we possess to adapt to this new reality . . . but what about when, in addition to this pain, we have to watch as our ex moves on with someone else? Today's new episode will give you a new approach that will show you how to rebuild step-by-step so you can feel confident in your abilit...

(Rewind): Two Questions You Can Ask To Test The Health Of Your Relationship

July 28, 2023 14:10 - 11 minutes - 16.5 MB

What are some of the ways to know if you're in the right relationship? Are there ways you can stress test to see if it has long-term potential? In this clip, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about 2 of the most important questions you can ask to better understand the health of your relationship and see if you and your partner have a positive dynamic. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical...

(Matt Monday): Want MORE From Someone... DO THIS Now

July 24, 2023 10:11 - 7 minutes - 10.9 MB

Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met.   If you know your insecurity can lead your thoughts down irrational pathways, how can you figure out if something you’re stressing about is a real concern? For instance, if you had the most amazing date last weekend but they haven’t texted you for a few days, should you be worried? And most importantly of all, how do you get more investment from someone if you’re feeling this way? Instead...

(Rewind): The Most Important Qualities To Look For In A Long-Term Relationship

July 21, 2023 19:12 - 10 minutes - 14.6 MB

Do you find yourself with enormous checklists for your romantic partner? Are you often paralysed by a list of standards that no-one can live up to? In this clip, Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson talk about what matters most when choosing a partner and the long-term qualities we often undervalue. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

(Matt Monday): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS

July 17, 2023 22:06 - 7 minutes - 10.1 MB

The question Audrey and I answer in this week’s new episode is an important one, because it happens to people All. The. Time! We’re all familiar with obvious red flags, but some red flags feel so good, they’re easy to miss . . . you know, like when someone is saying the most romantic things, wanting to spend all of their time with us, and making plans for the future . . . In that scenario, it can be a little trickier to discern someone who’s pretending to be interested from someone who...

(Rewind): Use THIS Mindset If You're Starting Over In Love

July 14, 2023 19:59 - 9 minutes - 13.1 MB

When you have to find love after heartbreak, it can shatter your world. You are in a world you never thought you would be in, and life can feel very different than you planned for it to be. In this clip, Matt and the team look at an important reframe to change your mindset and get excitement for finding love back when you feel like you've faced a setback. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical D...

(Matt Monday): Why You Want Them MORE When They’re “Not Sure” About You…

July 10, 2023 15:29 - 8 minutes - 11 MB

Are you one of those people who “loves the chase” in dating? You meet someone, you find them attractive, maybe even go on a date, and you start to become MORE obsessed when they show you less attention, less affection, or when they play hot and cold. Or worse, when someone shows you kindness and loyalty, and treats you with the kind of affection you so crave deep down, it pushes you further away from them. What is going on here?! In this week’s new episode, I reveal the truth abo...

(Rewind): How To Go From Dating App To REAL Conversation

July 07, 2023 14:23 - 10 minutes - 14.4 MB

Find yourself stuck with endless texting on dating apps? How much contact should you make before an in-person date? It's always tricky knowing when to upgrade your conversation in modern dating. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey look at how to go from texting to phone call, and elegant ways you can do it. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ...

(Matt Monday): 3 Ways to Make Him Take You Seriously

July 03, 2023 18:26 - 8 minutes - 11.5 MB

How do you tell the difference between someone who is avoidant, and someone who just takes things slowly? Are you tired of someone who waste your time, only to say they don't want anything serious once you're already emotionally invested? In this brand new episode, you'll learn the 3 most important strategies to protect your heart and make sure you're investing in the right person. ►► Unlock the 67 Texts That Get You Off Your Phone & Into A Real Relationship Go to . . .  → http://www....

(Rewind): When You’re Afraid Of Getting Too Invested Too Quickly…

June 30, 2023 15:06 - 11 minutes - 16.1 MB

What do you do if you fall for someone too fast? Or you find yourself waiting by the phone for their next text? If this happens to you frequently, it can be a sign of bigger issues to do with (a) your confidence, or (b) your perception of someone you're attracted to. In this clip, Matt and the team discuss how to avoid this trap and invest in a way that makes sure you protect yourself when you fall in love. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ...

218: Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...(Part 2)

June 28, 2023 13:39 - 44 minutes - 62.6 MB

What's your most repeated dating mistake?  Sometimes it takes looking back in our past relationships to notice the patterns that have reoccurred several times, or choices we've made over and over again.   Following on from last week's episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey are BACK for part two, where we respond to YOUR dating struggles and look at ways you can break your negative patterns for good.   --- Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October ...

(Matt Monday): 3 Signs He's Not Serious About You

June 26, 2023 07:09 - 11 minutes - 15.3 MB

Can you relate to this . . .  You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm, but at the same time, things aren’t really moving forward either. You’re wondering: “Do they like me? I feel like they do, and yet, I don’t know whether this is going anywhere . . .”   In this week’s brand-new episode, I give you 3 specific things to look for when you want to know if someone’s serious (or headed in that direction). --- ►► D...

(Rewind): When He Fears Commitment Because He Doesn’t Want To Be Changed…

June 23, 2023 06:14 - 11 minutes - 16.3 MB

Ever dated someone who is afraid of commitment? There are many reasons a person can prefer to be unattached, or even fear getting into relationships. It can be a fear of changing who they are, or losing something they value, or feeling like they're compromising. In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew talk about what it means if a guy doesn't want to commit because he's scared of someone else changing him. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ...

217: Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...

June 21, 2023 05:59 - 34 minutes - 49.5 MB

Have you noticed a recurring pattern in your dating life? Or have you maybe repeated certain mistakes in relationships that you can't seem to stop doing? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey respond to YOUR replies on your repeated dating struggles and talk about how you can break these patterns and stop being caught in the same cycles. --- Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals,...

(Matt Monday): For Anyone Who Feels Rejected or Invisible in Dating

June 19, 2023 07:04 - 14 minutes - 20 MB

Dating doesn’t feel magical and fun when nothing seems to be going our way.    Sometimes it feels as though love and attention come easy to everybody else, meanwhile, for us, dating feels like a string of painful rejections or endless cycles of feeling used and overlooked.    The reality is that some people simply have an easier time in dating than others. So if you are someone who doesn’t identify with getting a lot of attention or having much luck, how can you combat the insidious ...

(Rewind): What Makes The “Bad Boy” Attractive To Chase…

June 16, 2023 10:51 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

We've all heard the cliche of why it's more intoxicating to date a "bad boy", but why do people so often pursue people who put them on an emotional rollercoaster? And why do we often assume people are more worth having when they make things more difficult? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about various aspects of the bad boy and look at some mindset shifts that can help us choose someone who is actually healthy for a long-term relationship. --- ►► Discover ...

216: Sexual Confidence & How to Show It (with Emily Morse)

June 14, 2023 17:15 - 1 hour - 92.4 MB

Today I'm joined by the fantastic and insightful Emily Morse. Emily is a sex therapist, author and media personality and host of the 'Sex With Emily' podcast. In this conversation we discuss: How to improve your sex life by understanding your own body Being confident enough to feel sexy in your own skin Talking about sex with your partners to have a fulfilling sex life Getting rid of shame around sex and exploring your sexuality  --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casua...

(Matt Monday): DON'T CHASE After Sleeping Together DO THIS Instead

June 12, 2023 21:48 - 7 minutes - 10.9 MB

Sex can either be a massive turning point for a new relationship, or a gateway to more anxiety and pressure . . . This is because even though we may want to, it can feel hard to ask for more from the person we’re sleeping with when we’re afraid we’ll scare them away. But what if I told you there’s a high-value way to approach this situation—one that can pave the way for a more meaningful connection? Don’t miss this week’s brand-new episode to learn the three ways you can approach these...

(Rewind): How To Stop Obsessing Over "The One"

June 09, 2023 22:46 - 10 minutes - 15.1 MB

 Does the pursuit of a “soulmate” hold you back from finding love? In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew look at what happens when we get caught in the obsession of trying to find “The One” and how best to decide what you’re looking for in the right relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  ►► Become a Love Life Member for FREE! Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at. . . . → http://www.JoinLoveLife.com

(Matt Monday): Afraid to Ask Where It's Going? WATCH THIS

June 05, 2023 17:53 - 11 minutes - 15.9 MB

When is the appropriate time to ask where a relationship is going? If you’ve been seeing someone for a month and are sleeping together . . . can you ask then? Should you wait four months to make sure you don’t come on too strong? Or maybe you should wait for THEM to ask you? And if they don’t bring it up . . . is that a bad sign? The truth is, we often don’t feel like we can ask because we’re afraid of the answer. In today’s episode, I share three perspectives that can shift your mi...

(Rewind): Are You Choosing The Right "Type" Of Person To Date?

June 02, 2023 16:06 - 11 minutes - 16.9 MB

We often feel like attraction is not a choice in dating. But the decision of who we choose for a life partner is 100% a decision, and it requires us to deeply understand what we value and what qualities will make us happy long-term. In this episode, Matt and the JAMS team discuss how to think about your "type" in dating, the mistakes we make in choosing certain partners, and how to escape toxic cycles in our dating life. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhu...

215: Let Go, Move On, and HEAL Your Broken Heart

May 31, 2023 22:52 - 9 minutes - 13.1 MB

"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?" It's such a common story: we fall for someone, find ourselves thinking we can't live without them, and compromise on everything in the hopes of making them happy.  Today, Matthew explains how to deal with this scarcity mindset and keep your confidence and self-worth even when you're afraid your standards might cause you to lose someone... --- ►► Stop Waiting a...

(Matt Monday): Scared It Won't Work Out? Use These 5 Questions to Know...

May 29, 2023 09:21 - 12 minutes - 17.8 MB

How do you really know if you're dating "The One"? Do you just know when it's right, or are there signs this person is the perfect partner for you? In this episode, you'll learn 5 of the most important questions you must answer before you decide on long-term commitment. > Become a Love Life Member for FREE Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at www.JoinLoveLife.com

(Rewind): Don’t Mistakes These Behaviours As Signs Of Commitment

May 26, 2023 18:41 - 11 minutes - 16.6 MB

When you fall for someone, it's all-too-easy to misinterpret signs of their affection or presence as signs of them wanting a future commitment. But unfortunately, there are all kinds of reasons someone might keep you close even if they don't want something serious. In this clip, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to protect yourself and be aware when your situation doesn't have a future. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and S...

(Matt Monday): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Him Want MORE With You

May 22, 2023 16:26 - 15 minutes - 21.1 MB

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start...

(Rewind): Don't Do THIS If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist...

May 19, 2023 15:47 - 12 minutes - 17.3 MB

It's hard enough dealing with a toxic relationship, but it's even worse if you don't have a strong sense of boundaries to put up when you see behaviour you shouldn't tolerate. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson discuss how to implement self-care to protect yourself when you have the tendency to sacrifice your needs for others. Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim ...

214: Choosing The Relationship You Want, Overcoming Jealousy, and Understanding Men/Women (w/ Candice Horbacz)

May 17, 2023 15:57 - 1 hour - 89.2 MB

I'm super excited to share this excellent conversation I had with podcaster Candice Horbacz, host of "Chatting With Candice". In this episode, we talk about: - Finding the relationship that works for YOU - The journey of trust and opening up to your partner - Understand the truth about men and their feelings - Overcoming jealousy in a relationship There's tons of great takeaways and Candice has some really powerful insights from her own past and experience. I can't wait for you t...

(Matt Monday): They’ve Pulled Away?? AVOID THIS MISTAKE

May 15, 2023 14:49 - 14 minutes - 19.5 MB

Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new episode, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging ...

(Rewind): Why People Disappear When You Show Interest

May 12, 2023 14:25 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest? It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play games or be "hard-to-get" in order to keep their attention. But is this really true? In this episode, Matthew and Stephen explain the reasons this can happen and what it really means if someone backs off when you decide you like them. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start ...

(Matt Monday): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without "Playing It Cool"

May 08, 2023 15:05 - 20 minutes - 28.3 MB

We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we'll lose all our "power," but if we show too little, they may not even realize we're interested. In today's brand-new episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of inter...

(Rewind): The Subtle Art Of Effective Flirting

May 05, 2023 14:06 - 10 minutes - 15.1 MB

We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it? In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtle, practical ways you can go from casual conversation to flirtation on a first date. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

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