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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

885 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 2.3K ratings

Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

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(Matt Monday): THIS Is The Most Dangerous Moment In Dating

May 13, 2024 14:58 - 13 minutes - 20.2 MB

So you just realized you actually like someone?  Hold up a second . . .   When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule.    This situation is especially dangerous for people who have a more anxious attachment style and tend to respond to relationship uncertainty by bending over backwards to keep someone h...

(Rewind): 5 Dating Hacks That Raise Their Attraction

May 10, 2024 16:10 - 6 minutes - 9.18 MB

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?”  That’s often true in attraction too.    So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results.  As you’ll hear in this episode, turning someone’s head doesn’t have to be complicated. --- ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Pers...

(Matt Monday): Afraid You'll Never Find Love? You NEED to Hear THIS

May 06, 2024 17:04 - 27 minutes - 38.9 MB

Over the past week, so many of you have expressed how much Angela’s story in my new book, Love Life, touched you deeply (in the chapter titled “Have Hard Conversations”). So this week I thought I’d share the actual interview with her from my Live Retreat. I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Our looks, our age, our past, even the fact that we have kids—the fear of rejection for who we a...

(Rewind): 11 Signs They're Serious About You

May 03, 2024 21:01 - 11 minutes - 16.4 MB

Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express what we feel.  As a result, so many people come to me asking . . . “Are we living in a time when people just don’t want to commit anymore?” “How do you know if someone is ready?”   These two questions pop up A LOT, and that got me thinking about my own thoughts on the subject . . .   In this rewind episode, I give you 11 specific ...

243: How To Attract and Keep The Relationship You Really Want

May 01, 2024 16:29 - 50 minutes - 72.7 MB

Today Matt sits down with Lisa Bilyeu, author of Radical Confidence, to talk about how to escape our toxic cycles in relationships, overcoming low self-esteem, communicating with your partner (even when you have different love languages), attracting the right person, and how to figure out who is right for you. ►► Follow Lisa @LisaBilyeu ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to E...

(Matt Monday): Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead

April 30, 2024 00:45 - 11 minutes - 15.5 MB

When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this clip I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation.   ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order You...

242: 5 Things to Know Before You “Netflix and Chill” With Someone

April 26, 2024 21:41 - 12 minutes - 18.3 MB

You’ve been on a date or two with someone and things are going pretty well. Then suddenly they ask you, “Wanna come over to my place and watch a movie tonight?” Is it too soon? What if you like this person but you feel it’s moving a little too fast? In today’s video, I share 5 things you need to know before you “Netflix and chill” if you want more than just a casual hookup. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” ...

241: If You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People, Listen To This...

April 25, 2024 15:23 - 32 minutes - 45.2 MB

We may not realise it, but many of us subconsciously hide from real love because it forces us to be honest and show who we really are. And when we get threatened, we either go cold, hide, or lash out with passive aggression.  If you've struggled with emotional unavailability or always choosing the wrong people, this might be why... ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter ...

240: My Brother Stephen Interviews Me About My New Book!

April 24, 2024 12:47 - 58 minutes - 82.6 MB

My brother and I sit down to talk about why I wrote my new book "Love Life", how dating has changed in the last 10 years, choosing the right person, and how to break toxic cycles in relationships.  ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com 

239: 4.5 Years Later... It's Here! (Huge Announcement)

April 23, 2024 14:45 - 21 minutes - 55.6 MB

Friends...it's finally happening :) ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

(Matt Monday): How to Deal With the Fear of Never Finding Your Person

April 22, 2024 18:08 - 19 minutes - 28.2 MB

I’ve been asked this question several times a week for the last 10+ years. You may feel SO ready to share your life with someone . . . only to have had dates that fizzled out or incompatible relationships . . . or perhaps you’ve remained single with no such person on the horizon. It can even begin to feel like that’s the way it will always be.   If you’re working through feelings of longing, loneliness, or sadness—or just want to feel more excited about dating—in today’s new episode, I sha...

(Rewind): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY

April 19, 2024 21:07 - 9 minutes - 13.4 MB

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard ...

238: Why You SHOULDN'T Always Trust Your Instincts In Dating

April 18, 2024 20:19 - 28 minutes - 40.6 MB

We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad patterns we have learned that cause us to self-sabotage. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to question your instincts and make the right decision when you have an emotional reaction or become anxious in dating. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Re...

237: How To Find Love With Anxious Attachment

April 17, 2024 19:41 - 50 minutes - 71.4 MB

Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "Liberated Love" and host of the Mark Groves podcast. In this episode, we discuss anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles in love, how to overcome co-dependency, getting back together after a break up, and the crucial importance of TRUE honesty and facing reality in having fulfilling relationships. ►► Follow Mark on Instagram createtthelove ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → htt...

(Matt Monday): 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Dating

April 15, 2024 18:19 - 18 minutes - 29.4 MB

You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)!   If you’ve ever found yourself giving more than the other person in your relationship, felt heartbroken that someone doesn’t like you back, or chased the wrong person, you can’t miss this! ►► Pre-Order ...

(Rewind): Feeling Insecure About Their Ex? WATCH THIS

April 12, 2024 20:05 - 12 minutes - 16.6 MB

Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history. In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affects us psychologically, and how to let go of it.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

236: Why You Should Feel Confident NOW

April 11, 2024 16:36 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal.  Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those are true. You can actually feel confident right now - and it starts with changing what part of your life you focus on. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Orde...

235: THIS Is a Common Tactic Used to Avoid Commitment

April 10, 2024 19:17 - 37 minutes - 53.1 MB

Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway. Learn More At. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dati...

(Matt Monday): Is A Great First Date A Red Flag?

April 08, 2024 22:24 - 12 minutes - 18.3 MB

A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice. It leaves us wondering: “What happened?? I thought we had real chemistry!” In this episode, I explain exactly why someone pulls away after a first date… (and how you can tell the difference between someone who’s a keeper vs. someone who’s just telling you what you want to ...

(Rewind) Why Did They Stop Chasing You?

April 05, 2024 21:10 - 12 minutes - 17.4 MB

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.   Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training...

234: How To Have Honest Conversations About What We Want In Love

April 03, 2024 13:00 - 55 minutes - 78.5 MB

Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship? It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line. Or to open up. Or to even admit to ourselves that we want to find love.  In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down to talk about why we act aloof in dating, fear of rejection, how we put up barriers that stop us truly connecting, and how to be honest about what we really want in love. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:/...

(Matt Monday): If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner... RUN!

April 01, 2024 20:33 - 11 minutes - 17.9 MB

Long-distance relationships are a tough gig. You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends. Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if it’s likely to work long-term. In fact, there’s one thing someone can SAY to you that basically guarantees a long-distance relationship won’t last, and I share it in this episod...

(Rewind): 5 Shortcuts to Finding Love (Even if You Hate Dating)

March 29, 2024 19:10 - 9 minutes - 13.4 MB

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s video, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-deple...

233: What We Wish We Knew BEFORE Planning Our Wedding

March 27, 2024 17:40 - 1 hour - 103 MB

Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding! In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest memories with as little stress as possible. --- ►► Connect with Lynden Lane @lyndenlane ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://...

(Matt Monday): How Me and My Wife Met... (It's Not What You Think)

March 25, 2024 18:43 - 12 minutes - 18.4 MB

People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?” Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did. I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you eve...

(Rewind): Don't Like Their Behavior? Use These 3 Simple Tips!

March 22, 2024 20:58 - 9 minutes - 13 MB

If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted. It might not be terrible behavior, but you know it’s behavior you don’t want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship. So how do you handle the conversation without lett...

232: How To Feel Worthy Of Love

March 20, 2024 15:10 - 15 minutes - 21.2 MB

What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel unloveable. In this episode, Matthew explains how to build the foundations of self-compassion and stop basing our worth on the wrong things. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fe...

(Matt Monday): Are They Emotionally Unavailable? DON'T CHASE, Do THIS!

March 18, 2024 16:30 - 10 minutes - 15.5 MB

Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back? Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more. This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new episode, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable. ...

(Rewind): Do You Give Too Much In Relationships? Listen To This...

March 15, 2024 21:26 - 8 minutes - 11.5 MB

Do you ignore red flags? Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships? Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your boundaries? If so, this week’s episode is specifically for you… The richness and depth of a true connection can only come from giving other people the chance to reciprocate your warmth, kindness, and giving nature… Because, while it might feel selfless or nurturing to pour into others without receiving in return – it can actually ba...

231: The Danger of Holding Out for "The One"

March 13, 2024 14:26 - 43 minutes - 60.8 MB

Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone who remains a fantasy, how the love stories we tell can be intoxicating but also dangerous, and why we need to chase the right things in life. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spo...

The Danger of Holding Out for "The One"

March 13, 2024 14:26 - 43 minutes - 60.8 MB

Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone who remains a fantasy, how the love stories we tell can be intoxicating but also dangerous, and why we need to chase the right things in life. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spo...

(Matt Monday): The Most Dangerous Person in Dating...

March 11, 2024 17:09 - 14 minutes - 21 MB

Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together? Turns out there is a solution for this (and you don’t need to be a mind reader). In today’s episode, I’ll show you some simple ways you can find out what your future would look like with someone—even early on in dating. Be sure to watch now to learn how you can tell the difference between some...

(Rewind): 5 First-Date Moves That Make Them Want More

March 09, 2024 06:44 - 5 minutes - 7.24 MB

People think going on a date with someone is simple. You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story. Well... that’s not bad. But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head? Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day? ...

230: Why Men Don't Open Up | Rob Dial

March 06, 2024 19:51 - 1 hour - 138 MB

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, the inner beliefs that affect our romantic relationships, healing our wounds, self-love, and how to be truly fulfilled.  ►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com  ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Follow Rob Dial...

Why Men Don't Open Up | Rob Dial

March 06, 2024 19:51 - 1 hour - 138 MB

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, the inner beliefs that affect our romantic relationships, healing our wounds, self-love, and how to be truly fulfilled.  ►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com  ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Follow Rob Dial...

(Matt Monday): Want To Find Love In 2024? AVOID This Mistake...

March 04, 2024 15:23 - 14 minutes - 22.3 MB

There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection. In today’s new episode, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Don’t miss it! ►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset...

(Rewind): These TEXTING MISTAKES Keep You SINGLE...

March 01, 2024 20:25 - 8 minutes - 11.4 MB

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating... If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere… And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that… This video is for you. (It also contains a very special guest who hasn’t been seen in a long time, but is demanded on a daily basis. You’re welcome.) Can’t wait to hear what you think.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Deep...

The Biggest Lessons From Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone

February 29, 2024 22:03 - 13 minutes - 18.5 MB

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway. Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance. ►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life...

229: The Biggest Lessons From Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone

February 29, 2024 22:03 - 13 minutes - 18.5 MB

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway. Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance. ►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life...

(Matt Monday): Why They Weren’t “THE ONE"

February 26, 2024 18:20 - 15 minutes - 22.8 MB

Why does the end of a passionate short-term romance sometimes feel more devastating than a longer-term relationship? It’s because short-term romances are like fireworks—explosive and exciting—only to fizzle out soon after. We get addicted to the feeling of intensity they give us, and feel empty when they disappear. In today’s episode, I’ll show you the best way to move on from a short-term romance and stop obsessing over “the person who got away.” ►► Access My Happiness After heartb...

(Rewind): Top 5 Reasons Why They Disappear On You

February 23, 2024 19:30 - 7 minutes - 9.75 MB

It’s so annoying. You finally decide you like someone. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine them as “future life partner” material. And then suddenly...they start fading out. They stops calling… They become colder in conversation… They don’t step up and commit… It’s like the universe knows when you’ve met an amazing person, and decides to dangle them just out of reach. Whyyyyy? In this week’s episode, I reveal the top 5 reasons...

How to Spot a Narcissist When Dating | Dr. Ramani

February 22, 2024 15:57 - 1 hour - 100 MB

How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today? In this episode, Matthew sits down with world expect Dr. Ramani Durvasula to talk about her new book “It’s Not You”, narcissistic patterns, and how to protect yourself from unacceptable behaviour in relationships. Follow Dr. Ramani:  Instagram: @Doctorramani YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani ►► Get Dr. Ramani’s book “It’s Not You” → ...

228: How to Spot a Narcissist When Dating | Dr. Ramani

February 22, 2024 15:57 - 1 hour - 100 MB

How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today? In this episode, Matthew sits down with world expect Dr. Ramani Durvasula to talk about her new book “It’s Not You”, narcissistic patterns, and how to protect yourself from unacceptable behaviour in relationships. Follow Dr. Ramani:  Instagram: @Doctorramani YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani ►► Get Dr. Ramani’s book “It’s Not You” → ...

How To Eliminate Self-Doubt TODAY w/ Jamie Kern Lima

February 21, 2024 18:35 - 1 hour - 99.4 MB

Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt?  Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” and the topic of self-doubt, eliminating self-sabotage and how to get real confidence. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with...

227: How To Eliminate Self-Doubt TODAY w/ Jamie Kern Lima

February 21, 2024 18:35 - 1 hour - 99.4 MB

Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt?  Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” and the topic of self-doubt, eliminating self-sabotage and how to get real confidence. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with...

(Matt Monday): To Anyone Going Through a Breakup

February 19, 2024 17:44 - 12 minutes - 19.8 MB

Nothing leaves you feeling more alone than heartbreak. You feel lost, afraid, and sometimes you also feel deeply unworthy. The worst part is wondering if you’ll ever feel happy again. But there is a way to heal, and it starts with first understanding what the source of your pain actually is. In today’s new episode, I share a way you can rewire your brain . . . not to ignore your grief, but to see it with fresh eyes and start to mend your broken heart. ►► Access My Happiness After Heart...

(Rewind): THIS Could Be Sabotaging Your Relationships . . .

February 16, 2024 21:25 - 7 minutes - 10.8 MB

Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times.  And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted.  What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back? It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of anger o...

(Matt Monday): Playing Games Gets You More Attention - True or False?

February 12, 2024 21:24 - 13 minutes - 21 MB

 Have you ever tried to keep someone’s attraction by “playing the game”? Maybe you’ve been tempted to respond less to texts, or try to hide the fact you like someone, or followed dating advice that tells you to act aloof and indifferent. In today’s episode, I want to get to the truth about “playing hard-to-get” and what really happens when you try to win attraction by playing games . . . ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your pers...

(Rewind): 8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Someone On A Date

February 09, 2024 22:01 - 9 minutes - 12.8 MB

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?  The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.  I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of.  But in today’s episode, I cover the “what to say” part—spec...

8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Someone On A Date

February 09, 2024 22:01 - 9 minutes - 12.8 MB

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?  The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.  I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of.  But in today’s episode, I cover the “what to say” part—spec...

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