The Hidden Drive Podcast
190 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 months ago - ★★★★★ - 94 ratingsSuccess has very little to do with what people see of your life. Success is what happens when no one is looking and who you are behind closed doors. Most people do what they do only so others will see their accomplishments, but what if you were unstoppable and lived with such intention when nobody knew. Who would you become? What would you actually accomplish? What joy would you experience?
The things you do in secret is what will shape every aspect of you.
Welcome to our Podcast! I'm Callie Ammons. My husband and I own a handful of businesses and are parents to our two young sons! This space is a behind the scenes of my daily life and it's all about helping you and I live with deeper intention.
I believe it's the most important thing you can do in your life!
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How an Enneagram 9 Defeats Tension & Conflict with Heather Bailey
July 13, 2021 07:30 - 44 minutes - 82.4 MBIf you're an enneagram type 9, you're going to love this episode or if you have a 9 in your circle of life, buckle up! Today I have the honor of interviewing one of my clients, Heather Bailey. We dive deep into life as an enneagram type 9 and what it's like to ACTUALLY work through conflict and tension. As a enneagram 9, the peacemaker it is easy to live your entire life running away from tension within yourself or others, but there is a way around it and we're going to teach you HOW to do...
The Most Common Enneagram Mistypes
July 06, 2021 07:30 - 16 minutes - 30 MBTired of resonating with two or six different enneagram types? You're not alone and there are very valid reasons as to why you resonate with so many different enneagram types. This episode is a replay where I walk you through the most common mistypes and how to navigate your real enneagram type. https://callieammons.com/discover-your-type www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
How To Know What Career You Should Be In
June 29, 2021 07:30 - 30 minutes - 57.6 MBDo you ever find yourself overwhelmed by making the "right" decision when it comes to your career? Should you stay home, work full time, part time, own a business, etc. The list can go on and on and this topic can be overwhelming! Have you ever considered how your personality impacts the career you choose? And have you ever felt the pressure to choose the right career. In today's episode we're going to talk about the process of choosing the right career for you and factoring in things l...
To The Girl Who Feels Like She'll Be Happy Once...
June 22, 2021 07:30 - 14 minutes - 26.2 MBTo the girl who feels like she just needs to start the business, get married, have kids, find the right job, go to college... You're doing okay, my friend. We're chatting about all of these deadlines we often feel like we have to meet or achieve. We're going to look at truth and how to move past all of these rules and expectations we often place on ourselves. www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
What Type 6's Really Look For In Relationships with Elizabeth McCravy
June 15, 2021 07:30 - 43 minutes - 80.6 MBToday I'm having a conversation with my friend about life as an Enneagram type 6. We're asking Elizabeth what 6's really desire in a relationship, what makes them feel loved and supported. The more we understand each other, the more we know how to show up in the relationships in our lives! https://callieammons.com/discover-your-type https://callieammons.com/enneagram-basics https://callieammons.com/purpose-passion www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie A...
Strategies For Handling Toxic Relationships
June 08, 2021 07:30 - 16 minutes - 31.7 MBLet me guess...you've encountered some toxic relationships in your lifetime and you have no idea how to handle it when you KNOW that person is unhealthy. I think we've all been there! In today's episode we're talking about some practical strategies of how to handle these situations when you find yourself in toxic relationships and feeling nothing but defeat. Enneagram Resources www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
Overview of the 9 Enneagram Types
June 01, 2021 07:30 - 12 minutes - 23.7 MBToday we're going back to the basics of the Enneagram. I'm explaining each enneagram type and it's core motivation along with a little story to help drive the points home! This episode is a great place to start if you don't know your type or you're wanting to learn a little more about all 9 types! www.callieammons.com/type www.callieammons.com
Enneagram Resources You Need
May 25, 2021 07:30 - 6 minutes - 13.1 MBToday we're talking about the enneagram resources you can utilize to help you grow in your awareness of self and the enneagram! My Courses: https://callieammons.com/courses www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
How To Apply The Enneagram To Your Daily Life
May 18, 2021 07:00 - 15 minutes - 28.6 MBThe Enneagram is so interesting and fun to learn about our personalities, but have you ever wondered what it actually looks like to apply this wisdom to your life? What good does it do if we have all of this head knowledge but never experience transformation in our daily lives. This is my favorite part about my work is helping individuals actually apply this wisdom to their life and I'm going to show you the process in today's episode! Resources Mentioned in Today's Show: www.callie...
How To Stop Sleeping Walking Through Life
May 11, 2021 07:30 - 24 minutes - 45.7 MBWe've all had those moments where we arrived to a place and don't even remember driving there. The scary thing is that this can happen in our personally lives too. We start to sleep walk in the daily life and are unsure of why we're depressed, struggling, and confused! Today we're discussing how to stop sleep walking through life and what it looks like to be fully present and alive. www.callieammons.com/courses YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD9HIkEh6NIMdqCRIxD4E-A ...
How To Find Motivation + Continually Spend Time In God's Word with Phylicia Masonheimer
May 04, 2021 07:00 - 32 minutes - 60.9 MBHave you struggled to get into God's word either for a lack of motivation or overwhelm of where to start? Today I'm talking with an expert, Phylicia Masonheimer about how to handle our walk with God when we're faced with these challenges. Phylicia is a bible teacher and has a passion for helping Christians walk out their faith in boldness. For more information about Phylicia check out her website! https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/ www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTu...
What Each Enneagram Type Looks Like In Health
April 27, 2021 07:30 - 14 minutes - 27.6 MBThe Enneagram is so much more than a number. It helps you understand what you look like in health and unhealth based on your type and this knowledge is so powerful when we understand HOW to apply it to our lives. Today we're exploring what each type looks like when they are the healthiest version of themselves. www.callieammons.com/courses Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
How To Plan Simple Yet VERY Intentional Days
April 20, 2021 08:00 - 39 minutes - 73.7 MBPlanning a day can sometimes feel overwhelming which leads to many people just not planning at all. The problem with this is that you will never accidentally accomplish the things you desire to in your life. It takes intentionality to do so. In this episode we're talking about how to do the things when you don't always feel like it and we're discussing some creative ways to plan your days based on your personality! www.callieammons.com/courses Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Cal...
How To Have a Healthy Relationship With Instagram (or all Social Media Platforms)
April 13, 2021 07:30 - 21 minutes - 39.7 MBHave you ever thought about completely deleting social media, but then there is a part of you that can't fathom actually letting it go? It seems like I have so many conversations around these littles apps on our phones and I help my clients work through what it looks like to have a healthy relationship with them. The thing is, it's different for all of us. Today we're discussing how to be self-aware and know what YOU need within your soul when it comes to social media. You don't have to ...
Overcoming and Identifying Limiting Beliefs Around Money with Allie Casazza
April 06, 2021 06:30 - 53 minutes - 99.2 MBToday's episode is just fire. Allie and I discuss the topic of money and how many mental blocks as humans we have around money. When you and I learn to see money as a tool and learn how to be self-aware with our finances, we become unstoppable. You can build wealth, save, and invest when your mindset is in the right place. Our own limiting beliefs around money are often what hold us back from creating the life we desire. https://alliecasazza.com/ Instagram: @callieammons YouTube...
How To Maximize Your Purpose For The Kingdom of God
March 30, 2021 07:30 - 12 minutes - 23 MBWhat does it mean to use your purpose for the Kingdom of God? How do we live in a way that honors Christ and use our gifts to make a difference? Today we're discussing this question that every human finds themselves asking, "what is my purpose?" Nothing feels worse than living your life without an aim. I'm so excited to chat about this with you today! xx Callie Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons www.callieammons.com
How The Enneagram Saved His Marriage with Ian Cron Part 2
March 23, 2021 05:30 - 32 minutes - 61.2 MBKnowing your enneagram type is so much more than just having a number tied to you. It can impact your relationships with others, yourself, and God. Today you get to hear the second part to my interview with Ian Cron talking about marriages and how the Enneagram truly saved his. www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
How The Enneagram Saved His Marriage with Ian Cron Part 1
March 16, 2021 05:30 - 30 minutes - 57.5 MBToday Ian Cron is on the Podcast sharing his story about how the Enneagram impacted his marriage. I love that the Enneagram helps us understand what in the world is happening with our emotions and feelings. This is massive in every relationship because if we don't understand ourselves, it will be hard to understand our significant other. www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
Are You Actually Living With Intention?
March 09, 2021 06:30 - 11 minutes - 21.4 MBToday we're talking all about how to live with intention. It's easy to desire to be intentional with your life, but how do we actually do it and know if we are living with intention? Today's episode is incredibly practical where we're going to figure out how to take daily action in order to live with intention. www.callieammons.com Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons
How To Win In Romantic Relationships With Jamie and Aaron Ivey
March 02, 2021 06:30 - 47 minutes - 87.7 MBHave you ever wondered if it's possible to have an incredible romantic relationship? Is it possible to be so deeply in love with your spouse for life and to find the right partner in life? Friends, the answer is YES! Today I have the honor of speaking with Jamie and Aaron Ivey about marriage and what it means to live life together constantly complimenting each other. If you desire to be in a romantic relationship or you are in one and you never want that to fade, listen to this episode ...
How To Be More Decisive and Handle The What If Questions In Life
February 23, 2021 06:30 - 13 minutes - 26 MBIn today's episode I'm answering a question I received from one of you! The question is "how to I overcome the paralyzing mindset of always saying 'what if' as an enneagram 6? And how do I become more decisive?" I'm answering these two questions directly on today's Podcast. If you want one of your questions answered, comment on any of my YouTube videos so I can create content that answers you! xo Callie Instagram: @callieammons YouTube: Callie Ammons www.callieammons.com
3 Things That Are Vital To Your Personal Growth (Head, Heart, & Gut)
February 16, 2021 15:56 - 25 minutes - 35.5 MBConstantly using your heart, head, and gut are vital to your personal growth and overall health as a human. It's easy to think we use all three of these throughout our days, but the chances are you and I don't as much as we have the potential to. In today's episode I'm going to teach you what it looks like to lead with all three of these and how to grow in each one! More Enneagram + Life content on my YouTube channel here Instagram: @callieammons www.callieammons.com
2 Toxic Behaviors In My Life That Have Kept Me From Growth + Impact
February 09, 2021 06:00 - 20 minutes - 27.5 MBIt's crazy how toxic behaviors love to make themselves comfortable in our lives. The thing is, if we don't learn how to identify toxic behaviors they can quiet literally ruin your life. Today I'm sharing two behaviors in my life I have identified and are no longer invited to stay. I'm sharing how I'm working through them toward health as a type 3. My YouTube Channel Instagram: @callieammons www.callieammons.com
How Your Enneagram Type Impacts Your Relationship With God
February 02, 2021 06:00 - 13 minutes - 18.8 MBToday I'm interviewing Jackie Brewster and Eve Annunziato about their latest devotional called Hearing God Speak. Their devotional teaches us how we can connect with God based on our Enneagram types and these ladies go deep. I'm so excited for you to hear this interview and learn how your own type impacts your Spirituality. 52-Day Devotional: Hearing God Speak If you like the Podcast, you'll love my YouTube channel. Click here to watch more content :) www.callieammons.com
How To Prioritize Your Success and Why Your Life Depends On It
January 26, 2021 06:00 - 29 minutes - 41.1 MBOne simple decision like setting your life up for success can be a game changer to actually achieving the success you desire. Soo how do we set ourselves up for success? That’s exactly what I’m breaking down for you in this episode. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Join Enneagram Insiders: a monthly membership Click here! Girl, please tell me we're friends on Instagram? If not, jump over there right now and shoot me a message letting me know you'r...
Let's Figure Out Your Enneagram Type!
January 19, 2021 06:00 - 12 minutes - 23 MBHow do you find out what your enneagram type is? Today friend I’m giving you the quick answer! This episode is short and sweet giving you tips to help you really know your type. If you aren’t sure about your enneagram type, this episode is for you! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Join Enneagram Insiders: a monthly membership Click here! Girl, please tell me we're friends on Instagram? If not, jump over there right now and shoot me a message letting ...
How Your Personality Drastically Impacts Your Money Habits with Rachel Cruze
January 12, 2021 06:00 - 22 minutes - 41.6 MBHave you ever wondered why you’re struggling with your finances? Maybe you’ve tried to budget, change your mindset, and learn how to stop spending, but something still isn’t working for you? I interviewed Rachel Cruze who is a National best selling author of multiple financial books to discuss how our personality impacts the way we manage our money. Rachel talks with us about the power of knowing yourself so you can learn how to win financially. Whether you’re broke or trying to build more...
You Do EXACTLY What You Feel Like Doing! So Let Me Teach You How To Change Your Feelings
January 05, 2021 06:00 - 28 minutes - 53.2 MBYou do what you feel like doing! Am I right? It can be hard to override your own feelings that are often so strong but in this episode I’m going to teach you how to change what you feel so you can do what it is you desire to accomplish deep down! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Okay, so you're ready to jump all in and level up your life with a like-minded community? Become an Enneagram Insider today! Click here! Girl, please tell me we're friends ...
Journal Prompts That'll Change Your Life & Make Journaling Easy
December 29, 2020 06:00 - 34 minutes - 64.2 MBIn today’s episode we’re discussing how to journal correctly so you see the benefits in your life! Whether you love journaling or not, this episode is for you because we’re going to cover some basics of journaling and how to journal based on your enneagram type. You have the power to ask yourself questions you didn’t even know you needed to ask yourself, tune in to this week's episode to learn how! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Okay, so you're r...
How To Tap Into Your Emotions Effectively
December 22, 2020 06:00 - 26 minutes - 49.2 MBHave you ever felt so confused by your own emotions? One moment you’re so happy and the very next moment it can feel like your world is ending. If you dislike the emotions you personally experience or simply want to understand your emotions so much better, this episode is for you! Today we’re discussing how to tap in to your emotions effectively based on your enneagram type. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Okay, so you're ready to jump all in and leve...
Technically There Are 27 Enneagram Types and I'm Going To Tell You About Them!
December 15, 2020 06:00 - 12 minutes - 23 MBDid you know there are 27 Enneagram types?! Whaaaat?? I know, this mind sound crazy but in this episode I'm going to tell you all about it. If you've ever wondered why you didn't fully connect with a number, this is probably why! We're talking about the Enneagram Subtypes today. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Okay, so you're ready to jump all in and level up your life with a like-minded community? Become and Enneagram Insider today and get free ac...
How To Utilize The Enneagram Without Knowing Your Type
December 08, 2020 06:00 - 21 minutes - 40 MBAre you still struggling to figure out your enneagram type? I have good news for you! Even if you aren't sure of your type yet, you can still utilize the enneagram in a way to help you grow. In this episode I show you exactly how to do that! You aren't doomed if you don't know your number. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Okay, so you're ready to jump all in and level up your life with a like-minded community? Become and Enneagram Insider today and get...
How the Enneagram Transformed Her Life with Cami Jones
December 01, 2020 06:00 - 39 minutes - 74.8 MBThe Enneagram is a great tool to grow in mindfulness if you know how to use it correctly! Today I have the honor of interviewing Cami Jones where you get to hear about the Enneagram and how it's impacted her. Cami is a type 7 and speaks to the struggle of looking inward, but shares how she's been able to overcome and experience growth. Tune in for an incredible conversation! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Buy Enneagram & Art: Click here Free Training To Grow Yourself: Click Here! Okay, so ...
Is Knowing Yourself Selfish?
November 24, 2020 06:00 - 10 minutes - 20.4 MBWhat does it mean to really know ourselves? And is it selfish to think about ourselves when Christ calls us to be selfless? Is it wrong to use tools like the Enneagram to grow in self-awareness? This is such a good question that comes up often which is exactly why we're going to talk about it today. How can we know ourselves in a way that helps us to become more like Jesus? RESOURCES MENTIONED: Ready to go deeper with knowing yourself and living in complete freedom? Click right here t...
How To Love The Holiday's When You're Surrounded By Different Enneagram Types
November 17, 2020 06:00 - 24 minutes - 45.3 MBHave you ever found yourself dreading the holiday season because you're not emotionally ready to see the challenging family member or to be rushing around from dinner to dinner? You are not alone which is exactly why we are talking about this today on the Podcast! We're going to dive deep into the complexity of being around so many different Enneagram types and how to navigate the holidays with success. You don't have to dread this season nor do you have to be a slave to everyones wishes...
How to Finish 2020 in a Way You're Proud Of
November 10, 2020 05:30 - 18 minutes - 36 MBWe all know 2020 has been quite the year. But it’s not quite over, and you CAN finish strong. You can decide today: Will I finish this year off in a way I’m proud of, or put off my growth? Let’s not wait for 2021 as a “fresh start” and implement changes NOW. Callie walks you through tangible steps to help you reflect, assess, and make a game plan. Say hi on Instagram @callieammons Grab the FREE Training Join the Enneagram Insiders Community! Check out and subscribe to my YouTube ...
How to Handle Uncertainty & Fear with Confidence
November 03, 2020 05:30 - 31 minutes - 61.1 MBThis episode is airing on Election Day - November 3rd, 2020. With this in mind, Callie addresses the topic of uncertainty and fear. In fact, one of the most common struggles we’ve heard throughout the entire year of 2020 is how to deal with and work through fears and anxieties - and every Enneagram type struggles with this. Listen in to hear Callie’s tips and how we can lean into God in times of uncertainty to help you feel confident and hopeful with whatever it is that you are facing. ...
The one secret to thriving daily: Are you a Victim or Owner?
October 27, 2020 04:30 - 24 minutes - 48 MBCallie discusses what a victim mindset is and what it means to take ownership of your thoughts so that you can experience true freedom from negativity and achieve the results you want in your life, business, or relationships. She’ll walk you through a simple, tangible exercise that can help you do just this, regardless of how you may think as someone with your Enneagram type. Get the FREE download: Are You a Victim or an Owner? Workbook Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Di...
Answering Your Enneagram & Life Questions! 100th Episode!!!
October 20, 2020 04:30 - 44 minutes - 85.1 MBCan you believe we’ve hit the 100th EPISODE of Living Enneagram?! Today, Callie shares her top three tips that have become her foundation for growing in self-awareness, followed by a Q&A session with some of your best questions about the Enneagram, life, and walking with the Lord! Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Discover Your Enneagram Type Join the Enneagram Insiders Community! Read the full blog post on today’s episode!
How to Value Your Own Life
October 13, 2020 04:30 - 28 minutes - 56 MBWhat does it mean to value your life? Callie explores this question and takes it a step further to really understand how we can fully appreciate and live fully in the life God has given us. As always, you’ll walk away with practical steps and stools to help you apply this knowledge and experience transformation! Download the Value Your Own Life Guide! Check out the full blog post with details on this episode! Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Discover Your Enneagram Type
How to Live on Purpose with Allie Casazza
October 06, 2020 04:30 - 35 minutes - 68.7 MBAllie is a Type 8 on the Enneagram and she shares all she’s had to do to step into her strengths and learn that she can be strong and bold. Allie has used the Enneagram to help her with marriage, business, friends, and her children. Tune in to hear how this powerhouse mom and podcaster is shifting the way moms think about their lives and motherhood, how she figured out her Enneagram type, and how she serves people through her business. Read more details from this episode on the blog! Fol...
What's Really Going On in the Brain of an Unhealthy 5
September 29, 2020 04:30 - 15 minutes - 30.6 MBCallie shares an example story of what an unhealthy Type 5 can look like in real life. But if you’ve kept up with this series, you know she follows up with practical tips to find freedom from the toxic thoughts and behaviors that hold you back from walking in God’s best for you. And even if you’re not a Type 5 yourself, this episode will help you grow in awareness of others around you and equip you to support them in the best way possible! Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Dis...
The Damage an Unhealthy 6 Can Cause
September 22, 2020 04:30 - 24 minutes - 47.9 MBCallie wraps up her series on Enneagram types in unhealthiness with Type 6s - also known as the Loyalist. You’ll hear what it looks like for a Type 6 to be unhealthy and some practical ways to help those Type 6s grow and move forward through these patterns. Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Discover Your Enneagram Type
How 4 Different Types Run Their Businesses Differently but Successfully
September 15, 2020 04:30 - 56 minutes - 108 MBWe have THREE guests on today’s episode and we’re talking all about business! Tanner Hobbs, Audrey Bailey, and Jenny Watson join me today and talk about how they run their passionate businesses successfully with connection to their Enneagram types. If you’re a business owner or even thinking about starting a business and want to grow with God at the forefront of your mission, don’t miss this one! Tanner and I are hosting the Belong Conference on September 24th, 2020 and both Jenny and Audrey...
How An Enneagram 3 Uses her Passion to Create Change with Dawn Camp
September 08, 2020 04:30 - 39 minutes - 75 MBCallie sits down with Dawn Camp, a writer, mother, business owner, and fellow Enneagram Type 3 to talk about her new book and her passion for helping others live healthier lives through essential oils. She felt it on her heart to do work that would help others find more freedom specifically in emotional and physical stress, whether that’s injury, pain, chronic illness, and more. You’ll hear exactly how this passion and her strengths went into her new book - and it might not look like the tra...
Warning: You need to know this about unhealthy 8s
September 01, 2020 04:30 - 28 minutes - 55.9 MBThe Enneagram Type 8, also known as The Challenger, has a very strong personality. It’s a beautiful trait to have, but it can also be a weakness at times. They have an upfront personality to take control and they want to be respected by others, and also want to protect themselves and other people. This is when things can become unhealthy when unaware. Tune in to hear an example story of a Type 8 in her unhealthiness and what those characteristics look like, as well as tips for how to overcom...
Secrets to Effective Communication with Different Enneagram Types
August 25, 2020 04:30 - 31 minutes - 60.9 MBThis episode is all about how to communicate with all nine Enneagram types. In relationships, we can do everything in our power to try to be loving and expressive, but the other person just isn’t even in the same room as you. Callie gives practical tips through a framework that can help you feel more confident in your communication skills, no matter who you’re trying to connect with. Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Discover Your Enneagram Type
Has anyone told you this about unhealthy Enneagram Type 1's?
August 18, 2020 04:30 - 25 minutes - 49.1 MBIn Episode #91 of the Living Enneagram Podcast, I share an example story of an unhealthy Type 1, discuss the common unhealthy traits, and tips for how to shift these destructive behaviors and thoughts. Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Discover Your Enneagram Type Sign Up for The Belong Conference
You Really Should Know This About Unhealthy 3s
August 11, 2020 04:30 - 27 minutes - 53.5 MBIn this episode, we’re talking all about the unhealthy ways of the Type 3! Unhealthy Enneagram Type 3s, who are also called the achievers, put on this persona in order to be liked and loved. And as a Type 3 herself, Callie shares her past and present struggles with unhealthiness. Tune in to hear what changed for her, what the characteristics of an unhealthy Type 3 are, and four ways to overcome this. Say hi on Instagram @callieammons How to Discover Your Enneagram Type Sign Up for The...
The Enneagram & Christianity
August 04, 2020 04:30 - 33 minutes - 65 MBIs it okay for Christians to partake in the Enneagram? Listen in to hear Callie answer common questions she receives surrounding the Enneagram and Christianity, as well as a discussion around the importance of using discernment in all areas of your life and rooting your decisions in God’s truth. https://callieammons.com/work-with-me Say hi on Instagram @callieammons Callie’s Website How to Discover Your Enneagram Type