356: Bee A. revisits

🔸Everybody leaves when they’re happy

📌 Bee followed up:

I listened to the session you and I did together (#327) and I wept in gratitude for your patience and guidance and I wept for the parts that were met. That’s a different space than I usually go to. I noticed there was no one saying Listen to your voice! What were you thinking? 

Just tears of compassion and so much gratitude.

🔷 Parts:

P: If I am too happy, I'll leave everyone I love
P: why would you wanna talk to her? She’s never gonna amount to much, but she’s fine.
E: “The disabled one”. Everybody leaves when they’re happy. Nobody expects me to change, no opportunity to change. No purpose if nobody’s hurting. Allowed to be useful, not happy.

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Something. When Bee is unsure of who’s who, I need a better way to ascertain and help us get clear. But her Self is present, maybe “IFS by any other name is just as sweet”, and there's not much I need to do differently. I was hesitant to offer other steps with part since their connection was so strong.

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