142: Brandon A. revisits

🔸 The twelve year old feels lost in space, the drive to fill it protects, the organizer responds.



🔹 Part (Location, Fear, Rather be doing, Age, Needs):

The judge of that ball of energy.
Fears being scatterbrained, and its social consequences
Rather be organizing, integrating
Needs to be listened to!

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

(I mention watching the clock as Brandon typically calls from work on his lunch break, not because I'm trying to get rid of him.)

I asked ""feel towards?"" repeatedly and never quite got a Self-sounding answer. Should that be my cue to shift into direct access? My hesitance is due in part to Brandon's facility with communicating with parts. Sometimes it's months between our sessions, the added time makes me default to don't-push, but maybe I should change that. He loves IFS and can go deep so quickly, but we haven't quite unburdened exiles in the usual way.

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