Let's Talk About It With Taylor Nolan
198 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★ - 2.6K ratingsOn the Let’s Talk About It podcast, Taylor Nolan gets candid with various celebrity guests and experts. The podcast focuses on mental health, relationships, and personal development. Taylor's unique perspective comes from her studies in psychology and counseling, as well as her time spent on The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise reality TV shows. Join Taylor each week, and let's talk about it. Please Subscribe on iTunes and leave a review. We read our reviews, and love to hear from our listeners.
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EP144: Dildo Duchess
November 12, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 51.9 MBTaylor has the Dildo Duchess, Zoe Ligon, on to talk about her experiences growing up that have informed her growing up. Taylor and Zoe talk about vibrators and dildos in all shapes, sizes and materials. They also talk about fingering techniques and sex workers. Download this episode and further your sex education! (Content Warning: incest) Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram Zoe’s Instagram Shop Spectrum Boutique’s Instagram Hot Brain Pod’s Instagr...
EP143: Crutches and Spice
October 29, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 45.2 MBTaylor has Imani Barbarin disability advocate on to share her experience as an advocate for accessibility in health care, voting, and the entertainment industry. They talk about the diversity and intersectionality within the disability community. Imani shares about her relationships and her favorite sex toy! Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram Imani’s Instagram Crutches and Spice Website Imani’s Venmo: Imani-Barbarin Vote for Access YouTube Serie...
EP142: Feeling all the Hormones
October 22, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 63.5 MBThis week Taylor has Dr. Jolene Brighten leader in women’s health and author of “Beyond the Pill” on to talk about health and our body’s hormones. They talk about internalized stress, yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis and more! Taylor and Dr. Brighten talk about the history of why it can be hard to trust your doctor and affirm that you deserve information about your own body! Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram Dr. Jolene Brighten’s Instagram Dr....
EP141: Ethical Porn with Erika Lust
October 15, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 49 MBTaylor is joined by Erika Lust creator, filmmaker, and producer of ethical pornography at her companies Lust Cinemas, XConfessions and Else Cinemas. Erika shares her journey that led her to running multiple platforms and how she upholds her values while doing this work. They discuss all the different aspects that go into making ethical porn from diversity, to consent, to communication to mental health. Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram Erika’s Insta...
EP140: Toronto Lover
October 08, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 73.5 MBTaylor has her best friend from the Bachelor, Vanessa Grimaldi on the podcast this week to catch up about their relationship statuses. Taylor also has Kirah the Strology back on to check in on her birthday predictions that came true and to see what the rest of the year has in store for Taylor! Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram Vanessa’s Instagram No Better You Instagram No Better You Website Kirah’s Instagram The Strology Website Listen to ...
EP139: The Orgasm Book: Dr. Seuss Style
October 01, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 45.7 MBTaylor has Nicolle Hodges author of “The Orgasm Book” and founder of Girls Who Say Fuck and Men Who Take Baths on the podcast this week to share about her sexual freedom journey. Nicolle discusses the importance of deconstructing the notion of virginity and replacing it with the idea of “sexual debut”. They talk about the power of pussy and even get into squirting! Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram Nicolle’s Instagram The Orgasm Book Instagram Th...
EP138: Sex is a God Thing
September 24, 2020 03:04 - 1 hour - 54 MBIn this week’s episode Taylor has Rashida KhanBey Miller on who helps herself and others heal trauma through dance and movement as part of their spiritual recovery and thriving. Rashida shares her experience of traveling to Brazil and how that changed her outlook on her self-image, dance, and life. Taylor and Rashida talk about Rashida’s film Sex is a God Thing and her Messy Movement Lab endeavor. We also get an exclusive treat of Rashida sharing a special self care practice with us you won’...
EP137: Just another TayTalk - Answering your Questions
September 17, 2020 04:00 - 46 minutes - 34.9 MBThis week’s episode is EXTRA SPECIAL because a segment is sponsored by @planbonestep emergency contraception! #Ad Be sure to check out this episode because Taylor is debunking myths around Plan B and providing y’all with the FACTS. Easily accessible emergency contraception and staying educated and informed about your sexual and reproductive health is what we are all here for! Have you listened to this segment yet? Don’t forget, always read the label! Taylor Nolan’s Instagram Let’s Talk...
EP136: Being Biracial Part 4: Black & Proud
September 10, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 55.5 MBThis is the fourth and the conclusion of a four part mini series about being biracial. On this episode Taylor and her co-host Dustin Kendrick talk with Alexa Caves and Deandra Kanu from the Bachelor franchise on to talk about their biracial experiences. The group discusses natural hair journeys and beauty standards for mixed folks. They also dive into their dating history and share some of their dating experiences as a biracial person. We set the world record for talking to most mixed folks ...
EP135: Being Biracial Part 3: Just Colored Enough
September 03, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 45.4 MBThis is the third of a four part mini series about being biracial. On this episode Taylor and her co-host Dustin Kendrick talk with Grant Kemp, Jaimi King, Christian Bishop, and Leslie Hughes from the Bachelor franchise on to talk about their biracial experiences. They share their experiences on the show and dating as a mixed person. Christian has a surprise for us that you won’t want to miss! Bring on the happy tears! Resources: Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram ...
EP134: Being Biracial PT2: Justifying Our Blackness
August 27, 2020 04:00 - 57 minutes - 41.9 MBThis is the second of a four part mini series about being biracial. On this episode Taylor has Sydney Hightower, Amber James, and Jami Rose on from the Bachelor to talk about their biracial experiences. They have a chance to discuss their hair journeys from literally ironing out their hair to thinking about what it means to take up physical space with your hair. The group dives into how to accept your full biracial self and some phrases monoracial folks use that are hurtful to biracial peopl...
EP133: Being Biracial PT1: Mixed in America
August 20, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 47 MBThis is the first of a four part mini series about being biracial. In this segment Taylor and her co-host, former Bachelorette contestant Dustin Kendrick, talk with Meagan Kimberly Smith and Jazmine Jarvis, founders and creators of Mixed in America. They share why they created Mixed in America, a space that empowers the Mixed community and heals the Mixed identity. They discuss what ‘colorism’ is and how pain, trauma, and privilege have contributed to the Mixed race experience. Resources: ...
EP132: Big Brother with Angela Rummans and Swaggy
August 13, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 47.6 MBIn this week’s episode Taylor has two guests from Big Brother, Angela Rummans and Swaggy. They both share their experiences of having partners currently on the show while they're at home. Angela and Taylor discuss being vegan and Angela’s new cookbook! Swaggy shares about his sex life both on and off the show and his philosophies about being a wealthy black man. Resources: Angela’s Instagram Angela’s Cookbook Instagram Angela’s Website Swaggy’s Instagram The Swag Academy Website ...
EP131: Orgasm Activist: Sex with Ashley
August 06, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 45.9 MBThis week Taylor has Ashley, from Sex with Ashley, on the podcast. Ashley shares her “Orgasm Activist” knowledge as they dig into the different types of orgasms and some ways that can help you achieve orgasms! This week Taylor and Ashley also take a deep dive into sex toy recommendations. Resources: Ashley’s Instagram Ashley’s Radio Show’s Instagram Bedtanical’s Instagram
EP130: How to Tickle his Pickle
July 30, 2020 04:00 - 59 minutes - 43.6 MBTaylor has Sadie Allison, the “penis genius”, on this week to talk all things pleasure. They get into techniques and personal experiences with blow jobs, hand jobs, anal, ball handling and more! You’ll leave this episode with lots of tips on how to tickle his pickle! They also talk about tips for playing with the clit, fingering and painful sex. This episode has something for everyone! Resources: Sadie’s Instagram Tickle Kitty’s Instagram GoLoveCBD Instagram Tickle Kitty Website
EP129: Sex with him and his mom
July 23, 2020 04:00 - 58 minutes - 42.8 MBThis week Taylor has Cam and KarenLee Poter from the “Sex Talk with my Mom” Podcast on to get real about sex, pleasure, and everything in between. Cam opens up about enjoying life more and how being so open with his mom has affected his dating life. Karen gets into her journey as a sexully liberated cougar. Taylor dishes on what she would have brought with her on The Bachelor if she had to do it all over again. This episode will have you in stitches; don’t miss it! Resources: Karen’s fam...
EP128: The one where Blake didn't go to Stagecoach
July 16, 2020 04:00 - 50 minutes - 37.2 MBTaylor has Blake from the Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise on this week to talk about the fallout from Stagecoach and how he’s finding his way back to himself. They discuss Blake’s experience of slut shaming and how therapy has helped him feel ready to date again. Tune in to hear about Blake’s new relationship! Blake’s Instagram
EP127: Taylor’s Astrological Reading
July 09, 2020 04:00 - 57 minutes - 42.5 MBTaylor’s turning 27 and Kirah, an astrologer, is on the podcast to read her chart. They talk about Taylor’s SMR (sun, moon, and rising) signs, Mercury retrograde and so much more! Taylor spills about a relationship that Kirah believes will see a turning point in August! Resources: Kirah’s Instagram Kirah’s Website Kirah’s Twitter Kirah’s Patreon
EP126: Vaginas and Vulvas with Vanessa Geffrard
July 02, 2020 04:00 - 56 minutes - 41.4 MBTaylor has Vanessa Geffrard from VagEsteem on the podcast this week! Vanessa shares what VagEssteem is and how she came up with the idea. Taylor and Vanessa discuss how identity, including humor impacts approaching sexual education. Vanessa talks about her experience with including her family in sex positive conversations. Vanessa and Taylor break down "hoetation" and how to have convos with those in your hoetation! Resources: Vagesteem Website Vagesteem Podcast VagEsteem Instagram...
EP125: Blackness in Bachelor
June 25, 2020 04:00 - 45 minutes - 33.8 MBTaylor has her friend from The Bachelor Jasmine Goode on the podcast. They discuss blackness in the bachelor world and what it looks like to be black and proud. Jasmine talks about her experience as a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader. Taylor and Jasmine share personal experiences being black and biracial. Resources: Jasmine's Instagram
EP124: Chosen Father
June 18, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 70.4 MBTaylor celebrates Father’s Day by having her chosen father, Robb, come on the podcast and share how he entered into his. Taylor was his “practice daughter” and now has two children of his own, who you have likely seen on her Instagram. Robb shares his experience as a black father and reflects on the stereotype of black fathers. Taylor reflects on her relationships with the father figures in her life and her “daddy issues”. Resources: Robb’s Instagram
EP123: Are you following us now?
June 11, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 44.8 MBTaylor invites friend Les Alfred, host of Balanced Black Girl podcast, back on the podcast for her 3rd interview! Taylor and Les process gaining new white followers over the last two weeks during the Uprising, and the pressure to educate on social media. The women share this safe space to discuss their experience in blackness and lend each other support. RESOURCES: Balanced Black Girl Les Alfred Venmo @lmoney0821
EP122: Bust an Ethical Nut
June 04, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 51 MBTaylor is joined by King and Jasmine, who are three-time award-winning adult film stars who have dedicated their craft to creating a more inclusive and ethically sound adult entertainment industry. Together they own Jet Setting Jasmine and Royal Fetish Films where the love of the arts, film and sex education are combined to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to push their sexual boundaries. Taylor considers following in Jasmine’s footsteps of being a licensed clinical...
EP121: White People
May 28, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 76.8 MBTaylor has two conversations around race related recent news of Hannah Brown using the n-word, and the murder of George Floyd. Robin DiAngelo, author of white fragility, joins Taylor to discuss reverse racism, the good/bad binary of racism, and what white fragility is. Taylor is then joined by Vanessa Grimaldi, a white female friend from The Bachelor, to share the conversations they’ve been having around race with the recent news. White Fragility White Fragility Work Book Words that D...
EP120: Sexual Shame with Dr. Tina Sellers
May 21, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 50.4 MBAASECT-certified supervisor, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, mother, wife and author Dr. Tina Sellers joins Taylor to discuss religious sexual shame. As the author of Sex, God, and the Conservative Church, Tina shares her four-step model for healing religious sexual shame, which includes touch and non-touch exercises. This episode will help empower you to rise above your sexual shame and embrace your value. RESOURCES Dr. Tina Sellers Sex, God, and the Conservative Chu...
EP119: Love is Blind w/ Amber and Barnett
May 14, 2020 04:00 - 57 minutes - 42.2 MBAmber and Matt Barnett from Love is Blind join the pod to chat about life after reality TV. The two get very honest and vulnerable about their relationship, the impacts of reality tv, and their future plans. The couple and Taylor share stories about dating on TV and how it's not always as it seems. RESOURCES Amber's Instagram Barnett's Instagram
EP118: That One Time I Had Sex with Emily
May 07, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 44.8 MBDr. Emily Morse, founder and host of Sex With Emily, joins Taylor for a Q&A session to help answer questions submitted by listeners! The two give advice on various sexual health topics, including masturbation, orgasms, porn, sex toys, and finding deeper connection with both a partner and yourself. The two exchange personal stories and experiences, and Taylor has a few questions of her own!
EP117: Kelz & Matthew are Too Hot To Handle
April 30, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 59.2 MBKelz Dyke, #theaccountant, and Matthew "Jesus" Smith from Netflix's Too Hot To Handle join Taylor during quarantine to discuss life after reality TV! They give us a look behind the scenes, and share lessons they learned from their time on the show about building emotional connections vs. strictly physical relationships. We also learn about a new side of Kelz, as he shares stories about how his family, religion, and relationships have played a role in who he is today. Matthew lets us into his...
EP116: Taylor's Color
April 23, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 46.2 MBDo you know your aura color? This week on Let's Talk About It, Taylor gets her aura read by fourth generation psychic medium, Mystic Michaela, who specializes in reading auras, which are the colorful life force energies around individuals. Taylor gets some dating tips as Mystic Michaela reads the aura of two potential love interests. Resources: Mystic Michaela's Podcast Mystic Michaela's Website Mystic Michaela's Instagram
EP116: Taylor Gets An Aura Reading
April 23, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 46.2 MBDo you know your aura color? This week on Let's Talk About It, Taylor gets her aura read by fourth generation psychic medium, Mystic Michaela, who specializes in reading auras, which are the colorful life force energies around individuals. Taylor gets some dating tips as Mystic Michaela reads the aura of two potential love interests. Resources: Mystic Michaela's Podcast Mystic Michaela's Website Mystic Michaela's Instagram
EP115: Stuck, Not Broken with Justin Sunseri
April 16, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 44.5 MBTaylor and Justin meetup via Zoom to discuss the Polyvagal Theory, and Justin's belief that we are stuck - not broken. The two apply the concepts from the theory to the current global situation, and breakdown the science behind why the isolation and lack of social engagement is causing anxiety and depression in many of us. As a society, our safety feels threatened, and the two dive deep on how to get curious and look inward to mindfully move into a healthier state of mind. RESOURCES Jus...
EP114: Perfectionism & Positive Emotions with Dr. Sasha Heinz
April 09, 2020 04:00 - 53 minutes - 39.1 MBTaylor chats with Dr. Sasha Heinz about the struggles of perfectionism, and how difficult it can be to manage the constant need for external validation. Dr. Sasha Heinz is a development psychologist, life coach, and is an expert in positive psychology, lasting behavioral change, and the science of getting unstuck. The two apply their knowledge to work through common negative tendencies human's experience, and provide insight on how to make a lasting change. During the conversation, the two e...
EP113: From Addiction to Sobriety with Alexis Haines
April 02, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 52.6 MB"The drugs aren't the problem, you are" is a phrase Alexis Haines lives by, as she outlines her journey with addiction, trauma, and abuse and how it led to her eventual recovery. Taylor and Alexis deep dive into Alexis's past trauma and recovery journey, and how she's used her past to fuel her future as a sober advocate and healer. With her new lifestyle, Alexis keeps very busy balancing herself, her marriage, parenting, work (which she does a lot of - recovery advocate, podcast producer, au...
EP112: Self-Love Journey with Arielle Estoria
March 26, 2020 04:00 - 52 minutes - 39.1 MBArielle Estoria, a poet, author, speaker, and curve model, joins Taylor in LA to discuss her self-love journey, and how it relates to religion, modesty, and shame. Additionally, she discusses her interracial relationship, and how the two plan to navigate raising biracial kids. At the end, Arielle shares her original poem Magic (In Your Bones) and her artistic expression of her journey will give you goosebumps, so be prepared! RESOURCES Arielle's Instagram: Arielle's Website: Ariell...
EP111: Shenanigans with Scheana Shay
March 19, 2020 04:00 - 57 minutes - 42.3 MBScheana shares her personal journey of dating after divorce, which includes dishing the details on her new relationship - and she tells us why she's never been happier! Taylor and Scheana discuss speed in progressing a relationship and overcoming societal expectations when dating in the public eye. The two also chat about various forms of body expression, Scheana's masturbation journey, and working through freezing eggs and family planning options. RESOURCES Scheana's Instagram: Schea...
EP110: The Skill of Attraction with Shan Boodram
March 12, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 48.6 MBTaylor is joined by Shan Boodram, Los Angeles-based sex educator, popular YouTube personality, and intimacy expert, to discuss the excitement, uncertainty, and challenges of navigating relationships. Shan is the author of The Game of Desire, in which she teaches self- and social awareness to make dating your new favorite hobby - and the two discuss how to bring these tools and suggestions to life to help create meaningful connections that honor yourself. RESOURCES Shan's Instagram ...
EP109: Social Media and Mental Health with Quigley Goode
March 05, 2020 05:00 - 49 minutes - 36.7 MBTaylor and Quigley dig deep into social media and the impacts it can have on mental health. There is constant pressure to push the creative envelope, but it's also necessary to establish boundaries in order to avoid burnout - it's a fine line to navigate those two agendas. The two share personal growth stories, while also diving into the struggles they've had managing their platform, including feeling shame, regularly comparing, and experiencing depression. RESOURCES Quigley's Instagram...
EP108: Sex Outside The Lines with Dr. Chris Donaghue
February 27, 2020 05:00 - 53 minutes - 39.5 MBLoveLine host, therapist, lecturer, educator, and author Dr. Chris Donaghue chats with Taylor about being authentic in your sex life, and doing what makes you feel most yourself in relationships. The two discuss topics such online dating, non-monogamy, chemistry vs. compatibility, and how to honor your true self in your romantic and sexual relationships. Taylor and Chris challenge the societal "norm" around sex, and share personal experiences in regard to evolving and growing sexually. RE...
EP107: Being Your True Self in a Relationship with Astrid Loch
February 20, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 52.4 MBTaylor and Astrid meet up in Toronto to catch up on their lives post show. Astrid shares about her love story with Kevin on Paradise, moving to a different country after a long distance relationship, exploring energies, and pursuing yoga as a form of connecting and healing. RESOURCES Astrid's Instagram
EP106: My Orgasmic Life with Katrina Marie
February 13, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBKatrina Marie, a sexual empowerment coach, Bodysex facilitator and the creator of My Orgasmic Life chats with Taylor on the topics of feeling empowered sexually - both in partnered and solo sex. The two also discuss how past experiences can impact your ability to have deeply connected sex, and places to look both inward and outward to create self-expressed sex. RESOURCES Katrina's Website Katrina's Instagram
EP105: Own Your Anxiety Part 2 - Sex Edition
February 06, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 52.2 MBJulian Brass, featured in EP91 - 99 Ways to Own Your Anxiety, is back by popular demand! In this episode, Taylor and Julian sit down to chat about relationships, love, masturbation, and sex. RESOURCES Julian's Website Julian's Instagram Julian's Twitter Julian's Facebook
EP104: Sexual Communication
January 30, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 44.5 MBDr. Stephen de Wit is a board certified sexologist and a public speaker focusing on sexual empowerment. He and Taylor discuss how to have healthy sexual communication, boundaries, and exploring new territory with yourself and your partner. Stephen is a master at creating a fun, safe, comfortable environment for people to take an honest look at their sex lives and transform what is not working. Buckle up because things are about to get really interesting...Taylor also shares a FIRST sexual e...
EP103: White Fragility with David Doel
January 23, 2020 05:00 - 54 minutes - 40.4 MBDavid is the creator and host of the Rational National, a YouTube channel that dives into current events and politics. He and Taylor share their experiences and beliefs on white fragility, the political climate in US and Canada, and how history has shaped the privilege and racism we see in our society. RESOURCES Davids Website Video with White Privilege and Fragility Twitter Bernie's Website
EP102: Almost Vegan & Sexism in Restaurant Industry
January 16, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 45.6 MBTaylor meets with Chef Romain Avril to breakdown his new cookbook, Vegan Bridge, and discuss how to be intentional about how you eat, drink, and navigate your individual morals, beliefs, and values to find a balance that fits for you. Romain is an advocate for gender equality in the restaurant industry, and the two discuss overcoming gender stereotypes and staying authentic to yourself in relationships. RESOURCES @chefromainavril
BONUS EP2: Going to a sex club with Taylor
January 14, 2020 05:00 - 55 minutes - 41 MBSince Taylor and Dr. Jess's discussion in episode 101 on the sex club Oasis in Toronto – Taylor decided to check it out for herself! In this episode, listen to Taylor recap her experience and discuss her impressions of trying something new sexually. Also, Taylor answers a listener's question around experiencing "Hookup Number Guilt". RESOURCES Sex With Dr. Jess Dr Jess on Instagram
EP101: Virginity, Nudity, Sex Clubs – All Things Sex with Dr. Jess
January 09, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 52 MBOn this week’s episode of the podcast, Taylor sits down with Jess O’Reilly, a sex and relationship expert known as @sexwithdrjess, to chat about all things sex – and no topic is off limits! Taylor and Jess discuss topics such as the changing the conversation on virginity, sex clubs, nudity, and generally how to become more comfortable talking about sex and various types of sexual relationships. RESOURCES @SexWithDrJess, @SexWithDrJess Podcast Oasis, Aqua Lounge @WeVibe @Desire...
EP100: Started from the Bottom, Now We’re Here
November 12, 2019 05:00 - 1 hour - 45.9 MBTaylor reflects on 100 episodes of Let’s Talk About It and shares lessons she’s learned along the way, answers some of your questions, and chats plans for the next 100 episodes!
EP99: Therapists, Social Media, and Toxic Monogamy
November 05, 2019 05:00 - 1 hour - 52.6 MBOn this week's Let's Talk About It Podcast, Taylor is joined by Elizabeth Earnshaw, aka @lizlistens, to discuss the ethics of being a therapist with a platform on social media, the honor of being a therapist, and toxic monogamy. @lizlistens @abetterlifetherapy @moderntherapypractice
BONUS EP1: Talking Sex with Taylor
November 02, 2019 01:00 - 1 hour - 64.9 MBIn an impromptu bonus episode of Let's Talk About It, Taylor shares her intimate interview recorded recently with Reality Steve, discussing her recent break up, clarification on getting back to together with Derek Peth, masturbating, and threesomes.
EP98: Sexual Boundaries & more, with Dr Lauren Fogel Mersy
October 29, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 53.8 MBOn this week's podcast, Taylor meets with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy in Minneapolis to discuss how she’s processed the shame around being a professional with generalized anxiety disorder, the difference between boundaries and ultimatums including a discussion around sexual boundaries, polyvagal theory, and how to work through problems achieving orgasm. @drlaurenfogelmersy Makelovenotporn.com BOOKS: Becoming Cliterate Having Sex Wanting Intimacy