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Lessons Learned

103 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago - ★★★★ - 14 ratings

Opening up the conversation on our life experiences in order to help others through the good and bad of life. We discuss success, failure and every day scenarios where we can all learn to grow. Our goal is to turn our experience into your wisdom!

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Online Meetings & The Importance of Real Connection | Lessons Learned

June 13, 2022 19:00 - 24 minutes - 16.7 MB

The COVID season forced the world to adapt to working from home, making phone calls, and taking online meetings.  This helped us to be more efficient, but at what cost?  Talon and Jared talk about our personal experience with this since we started recording the podcast using video calls, how it's affected our relationships, and how meeting in person can be much, much better for our health. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relat...

Building Self Confidence

June 06, 2022 10:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

What is more important than self confidence? There really isn't much. Our confidence in our own abilities plays a huge factor in what we are able to accomplish and achieve.  In this episode, the guys talk about ways they have built self confidence and how important a role it played in their successes and failures.  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider ...

Building Self Confidence

June 06, 2022 10:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

What is more important than self confidence? There really isn't much. Our confidence in our own abilities plays a huge factor in what we are able to accomplish and achieve.  In this episode, the guys talk about ways they have built self confidence and how important a role it played in their successes and failures.  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider ...

The Benefits of Aging

May 30, 2022 10:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MB

You can't stop the aging process, this is a fact. But as they say, with age comes wisdom and this could not be more true. Though aging can be something we view as disappointing and scary, there are a lot of benefits that come with age as well. The boys will talk about all of that and more;  AND make sure to stay tuned the WHOLE episode for a special guest appearance!  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our exampl...

Meeting New People: the Basics

May 23, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes - 21.3 MB

Making new friends can be a daunting task. Whether its because you moved somewhere new or just need a change, it's not easy for everyone to put themselves out there. But, it can be! In this episode the guys talk about some of the ways they have gone about making new friends and meeting new people in some pretty simple ways that anyone can do.  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If ...

Preconceived Notions

May 16, 2022 10:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MB

Preconceived notion: New Jersey is a dump. FACT: Only SOME of New Jersey is a dump. I bet you didn’t know the Appalachian trail ran through New Jersey, or that there were even mountains in the state! This episode is all about preconceived notions and how other peoples opinions might affect how your own opinions are formed. Have you ever heard the phrase “Don’t complain DOWN, complain UP?” There is a good reason for this. You don’t want to soil the reputation of someone just because you m...

The Simple Things

May 09, 2022 10:00 - 27 minutes - 18.8 MB

Together at last! Well, 60% of us anyway. It was a real treat getting to record this episode together, in person! I think that's something we often take for granted. The little things. Like being able to see your friends in person and interact. And that's what this week's episode is all about. Make sure you enjoy the little things and the less significant moments, they may prove to have more meaning than you think!  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and l...

Moving On (And Getting Over) Part 2

May 02, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes - 21.2 MB

Last episode we began the conversation on what to do after a breakup and how to move on. This week we continue that conversation in Part 2 of this two part episode. If you haven't already, make sure to go back and listen to Part 1! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to our Patreon account linked below for extra content.   Like the show? L...

Moving On (And Getting Over) Part 1

April 25, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MB

Welcome to... SEASON 4! And boy do we have an episode for you to kick it off! Breakups, been there done that. But what do you do in between? How do you move on in a healthy way, and when is the right time? We'll get into all of that and more in Part one of this two part episode. Make sure to tune in next week for Part 2! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, con...

Positive Confrontation

April 18, 2022 10:00 - 38 minutes - 26.2 MB

How can we can look at confrontation in a more positive light? Confrontation is mostly associated with causing a problem, however there are situations where confrontation can solve a problem as well. In the season 3 finale, the boys cite examples where confrontation actually helped them, or may have even saved a life! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consid...

Micromanagement's Effect on Productivity

April 11, 2022 10:00 - 38 minutes - 26.8 MB

I'm sure every one of us has had a job where you've had that overbearing boss who knit picks every little thing you do. Don't worry, if you haven't, you will! Micromanagement, in the eyes of the person doing it, is the way to maximize productivity. But is that the effect it really has? To hear the answer to this question and more, have a listen to the episode where the boys talk about the effect micromanagement really has.  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covere...

Following your Dreams

April 04, 2022 10:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MB

What did you want to be as a kid? A doctor, a firefighter, a pro athlete? So many people shy away from their dreams, childhood or otherwise. But why? Why not do what would make you happy? Randy took the long route but he finally came to realize one of his biggest childhood dreams and is now making it a reality. Its never too late to late to achieve your dreams and be the best you can be! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate ...

When De-Stressors Switch the Flip

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.7 MB

We all have things we enjoy doing to let loose and de-stress. That thing could be video games, exercising, or an unlimited number of other activities and hobbies. But, what do you do when the things you once used to de-stress become something that's actually a stressor? In today's episode, the guys talk about ways this transition can happen and some of they things they have done to help "switch the flip."  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know...

Teamwork: How it Affects us Daily

March 21, 2022 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22.4 MB

Teamwork. Like it or not it's something we have to deal with on a daily basis. Good and bad. You might be wondering, "I'm not on a team, what does this have to do with me?" Teamwork can come into play in every aspect of your life. Your job, your relationship, and even friendships experience a degree of teamwork. In Talon's return to Lessons Learned, the boys talk about teamwork and the impact it can have on daily life. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, an...

Glacier Boys Ride Again

March 14, 2022 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.5 MB

The Glacier boys are back and ready to hit the road again! But maybe with a little more knowledge than last time. Chris, Jared, and Randy talk about their last trip and what they plan to do differently planning their trip for 2022! There was a lot to be learned from the first time around and the boys talk about some good plans they have already made in planning their next trip. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of ...

Movie Culture's Effect on Reality

March 07, 2022 11:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

Movies and TV are a great way to escape reality for awhile. We can even be inspired by what we see on the silver screen. However where must we draw the line? The things we see in movies and on TV can have a profound effect on our reality so much so it can move us into life changing decisions. Though this may be a good thing for some, it can be a bad thing as well as often we are greeted with unrealistic expectations from these platforms. In this episode, the boys discuss how to take a more r...

Coping with Injuries

February 07, 2022 11:00 - 38 minutes - 26.2 MB

We've all been there, went a little too hard at the gym or maybe used a little too much back to pick up that heavy box at work. Injuries happen all the time, but unfortunately life still has to go on. You still have responsibilities you have to take care of. In today's episode the guys cite some examples of how they cope and move past physical injuries and get on with daily life.  Disclaimer - We are NOT medical professionals. Though we remind you throughout the episode, please always consu...

Enjoy the Journey

January 31, 2022 11:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MB

Don't stop believin', yes we all love Journey. But this episode is about THE journey. The journey of life and everything, expected and unexpected, that it may hold. We can't control every aspect of our lives, as much as we wish we could, which makes it all the more important to enjoy the process as we find the meaning in our lives! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy th...

The Balance: Work Life & Home Life

January 24, 2022 11:00 - 27 minutes - 19 MB

Chris is back! Chris makes his permanent return to Lessons Learned after having to take a step away for awhile because of his job. It's easy for us to get caught up in our jobs for many reasons, especially in this day and age of "work from home." Whether it's an undesirable schedule, being on call, or having to work from home to begin with, it's important for us to separate from our work and get some time to ourselves. In this episode, the guys talk about some of the ways they shut off from ...

Why You're Failing Your Goals

January 17, 2022 11:00 - 29 minutes - 20.4 MB

So you've made your New Years Resolution, maybe even took a new approach into the new year. But why have you failed so many times before? In a follow up to last weeks episode, the guys talk about recognizing the underlying reasons of some of their past failed goals; and some helpful suggestions they've used to be successful in the future!  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you ...

A New Take on New Years

January 10, 2022 11:00 - 46 minutes - 31.8 MB

It's that time yet again, the pressure is on to do those resolutions and do them right. But it's a time of reflection as well. Did my plan work out in past years, and if not, why? Maybe its time for a new approach. In this episode, Jared and Randy talk about alternative approaches they're taking to new years resolutions, Talon talks about his plans for 2022, and Joe makes a big announcement to RING in the new year! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and le...

Our BIGGEST Financial Mistakes

December 27, 2021 11:00 - 40 minutes - 28.2 MB

We are all pretty smart with our money here at Lessons Learned; some of us better than others. *cough* Talon *cough* But as with any life lesson you have to make mistakes to learn and grow. In this episode the boys talk about what they see as their biggest financial shortcomings and what they learned from these experiences. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, ...

Dealing with Holiday Stressors

December 20, 2021 11:00 - 23 minutes - 16.5 MB

Its the most wonderful time of the year! But lets be real, its also the most stressful time of year for a lot of people. Figuring out what gifts to give, what family to visit, and finding time for everything in between is a tall order for anyone. In this episode, Talon, Joe, and Randy give their insight on what they do to relieve some of the stress the holiday season brings. And end on a positive note by sharing some things they look forward to!    As always, feel free to reach out with any...

Extracurricular Activities in Adulthood

December 13, 2021 11:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

When we're kids, extracurricular activities are an important part of our lives. They teach us many life skills including communication, teamwork, and building friendships. In adulthood, extracurricular activities are just as important, if not more! They act as de-stressors,  and are also a great way to meet like minded people and make new friends. In this episode Chris, Randy, and Joe talk about some of their favorite extracurricular activities as adults and some of the lasting effects they'...

The Importance of Quality Sleep

December 06, 2021 11:00 - 24 minutes - 17.1 MB

Sleep. Something most of us out there don't get enough of. And a lot of times even when we get that full eight hours, we feel tired and groggy. Its not the amount, but the quality of the sleep that is important. In todays episode, we discuss some of the habits we have formed that help us get the most out of sleep on a daily basis! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the...

Alternative Means of Exercise

November 29, 2021 11:00 - 24 minutes - 16.8 MB

Not everyone is like Randy and wants to go to the gym every day. Many people are even generally turned off by the gym environment. So what do you do when the gym isn't an option? Chris and Randy give some of their favorite alternative means of exercise, along with some ways you can find what exercise practice suits you!  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, con...

What is our Mission? The Lessons Learned Experience

November 22, 2021 11:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MB

Our motto is "Turning our experiences into your wisdom." If you've been a listener from the very beginning you heard Randy say this line on repeat episode after episode. But what does it actually mean? In this episode we give you all some background and let you in on what we think our mission really is. That we don't want you to avoid mistakes, but learn to deal with them in a healthy manner. So you can have your own... Lessons Learned! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'...

Friendships: Your Inner Circle

November 15, 2021 11:00 - 35 minutes - 24.6 MB

Some of us have a ton of friends, while some of us prefer only having a few close friends. Who do you let in your inner circle? Why? In this episode the Jersey Boys ride again and talk about their friend groups, and how many people they truly let get close.  As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to our Patreon account linked below for extra ...

Reaching Peak Efficiency

November 08, 2021 11:00 - 38 minutes - 26.4 MB

If you tuned in last week, you heard the guys talk about living in a culture of productivity. This episode, we discuss the difference between productivity and efficiency; and how to be as efficient as you can when you need to be. From realizing when you're taking too much time for yourself, to how to best break up your day to get the most out of it, a dwindled but still informative Lessons Learned cast covers everything you need to know about making the most out of your time!  As always, fe...

Living in a Culture of Productivity

November 01, 2021 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29.4 MB

Rihanna once said, "Work work work work work." And living in a culture where productivity is valued so highly, for many people it seems like work is all they do. But is it too much, or is it just what we need? Many people struggle with the gap between what we consider productive and what we consider lazy. Where is the line? Is there a line at all? Maybe, it's all a matter of perspective. Have a listen, and tell us where you draw the line between lazy and productive., and if you let happiness...

Relationships: Recognizing Red Flags

October 25, 2021 09:00 - 36 minutes - 25.1 MB

Whether in a committed relationship or still dating, we've all been in a position where the actions of our significant other put up some red flags. Recognizing red flags can be difficult to spot and we often tend to ignore them because we romanticize our relationship with this person; making it even harder. In this episode, we discuss our experiences with red flags and how we've used those experiences to learn and grow to make our next relationship the healthiest it can be! As always, feel ...

The Ability to Adapt

October 18, 2021 09:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MB

As much as we don't always enjoy it. Life is full of changes and stressful situations. It's important to adapt to these situations so you can come out ahead instead of resisting and struggling with every new change in your life.  Like the show? Like, subscribe, share... all of the things! YouTube Channel Support the show Try  Audible for 30 days Social Links: https://www.instagram.com/lessonslearnedmedia/ Randy Chris Jared Talon Joe Recording equipment: Microphones: https://amzn.to/33tri...

The Ability to Adapt

October 18, 2021 09:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MB

As much as we don't always enjoy it. Life is full of changes and stressful situations. It's important to adapt to these situations so you can come out ahead instead of resisting and struggling with every new change in your life.  Like the show? Like, subscribe, share... all of the things! YouTube Channel Support the show Try  Audible for 30 days Social Links: https://www.instagram.com/lessonslearnedmedia/ Randy Chris Jared Talon Joe Recording equipment: Microphones: https://amzn.to/33tri...

What We've Learned | One Year Special

October 11, 2021 10:00 - 36 minutes - 25.2 MB

It's been a wild ride publicly talking about our ups and downs. It all started from an idea our very own Jared Rumsey thought of and wrote down so he wouldn't forget. Five of us came together with some of us not knowing each other but now knowing more than some of our family members. What did we learn after a year of recording and releasing an episode for you guys every Monday for a year? Our first episode was about our greatest lessons and the 52nd episode is about what we've learned since ...

What We've Learned | One Year Special

October 11, 2021 10:00 - 36 minutes - 25.2 MB

It's been a wild ride publicly talking about our ups and downs. It all started from an idea our very own Jared Rumsey thought of and wrote down so he wouldn't forget. Five of us came together with some of us not knowing each other but now knowing more than some of our family members. What did we learn after a year of recording and releasing an episode for you guys every Monday for a year? Our first episode was about our greatest lessons and the 52nd episode is about what we've learned since ...

Side Hustles: Are they becoming more popular?

October 04, 2021 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.7 MB

Side Hustles can be anything from trying to start your own business, to a hobby that serves as an outlet from everyday routine. Randy has his woodworking, Chris has his photography, and each of us started this podcast as a form of a side hustle to help create something more than ourselves. There's never been an easier time to start something of your own, and that may be why we're seeing more now than ever before! Like the show? Like, subscribe, share... all of the things! YouTube Channel S...

Side Hustles: Are they becoming more popular?

October 04, 2021 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.7 MB

Side Hustles can be anything from trying to start your own business, to a hobby that serves as an outlet from everyday routine. Randy has his woodworking, Chris has his photography, and each of us started this podcast as a form of a side hustle to help create something more than ourselves. There's never been an easier time to start something of your own, and that may be why we're seeing more now than ever before! Like the show? Like, subscribe, share... all of the things! YouTube Channel S...

Starting the Podcast & Why | Episode 50 Special

September 13, 2021 09:00 - 39 minutes - 27.4 MB

Episode 50 is officially out. That means 50 weeks without stopping and organizing the schedules of 5 people with drastically different schedules. Truly wouldn't do this if we didn't have a reason why. Learn those reasons and how the podcast actually became a reality. Prepare for season 3 after a short hiatus. Like the show? Like, subscribe, share... all of the things! YouTube Channel Support the show Try  Audible for 30 days Social Links: https://www.instagram.com/lessonslearnedmedia/ Ra...

Our First Jobs; Key Takeaways

September 06, 2021 10:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MB

Everyone starts working at some point in their life, and every job comes with a lesson you can take away. We discuss our very first jobs and what they taught us at an early age, such as creating a positive work environment and taking pride in our work. These lessons will follow you throughout the rest of your life, so it's important to hold onto the positive lessons and learn from the negatives. We believe your dream job comes when PASSION meets FUN! As always, feel free to reach out with a...

Living Life on the Road

August 30, 2021 15:00 - 55 minutes - 38.4 MB

Mike and Chris from @wanderingbusdude join us in this episode to talk about life on the road and their nomadic experience! 421 days on the road lead Mike to plenty of new and incredible experiences, along with meeting some amazing people. From Wall Street life to Bus life, Mike's story is nothing shy of inspirational! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consi...

Off The Grid

August 23, 2021 10:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MB

This is your sign to get out into nature and toss your phone somewhere. Forget about the stressors of everyday life like we did, and just full send it (as joe would say) off the grid. Looking to spark creativity? Want to become more present? Just want to read another book? Listen to our recent experiences and how we benefited from them. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enj...

Jersey Boys (NOT the musical)

August 16, 2021 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MB

Chris, Randy, and Joe discuss growing up in New Jersey and how it set them up for success! The fast-paced lifestyle, geographic location, and education systems are a few of the main points in this episode that the boys attribute to their everyday mindset. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to our Patreon account linked below for extra con...

How We Start Our Days

August 09, 2021 10:00 - 43 minutes - 30 MB

In this episode, we discuss our morning routines and how they affect not only our productivity but also our mental clarity. Some of us eat healthier than others, while the opposite is true with sleep. It's interesting to hear how every one of us has a different routine, but whose is best? Let us know what you think! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, conside...

How to Manage Your Priorities

August 02, 2021 10:00 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MB

What are your priorities? Sometimes that isn't always clear in life. In this episode, the boys discuss the struggles they've had with managing their priorities. Next, we offer some methods on how to prioritize.... priorities. We introduce the Priority Matrix to understand where to begin. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to our Patreon ...

The Importance of Role Models

July 26, 2021 10:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MB

Everyone has role models in their lives, whether they be fictional like Jared's (Captain America), or someone real that has a major impact on your moral compass. Who do you look up to and why? Can celebrities have negative effects as role models? Let us know who your role models are!! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to our Patreon acco...

RESILIENCY!!

July 19, 2021 09:00 - 49 minutes - 33.7 MB

If you're in the military, you've heard the term resiliency before hands down. We know it's been beaten to death, but we shed our thoughts and share our personal stories on what it means to be resilient. As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered, and let us know if you can relate to any of our examples from this episode! If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to our Patreon account linked below for extra content.   Like the show? Like, subscribe, share... al...

Credit Card 101: FREE MONEY!!! 💰 💵

July 12, 2021 10:00 - 51 minutes - 35.1 MB

Learn about the 5 tier credit card scale as Talon goes in-depth and helps you determine which credit card is best for you!! Used responsibly, credit cards can literally make you free money! Tune in to find out how! Tier 1: Beginner card, begin building credit Tier 2: Minimum Cashback 1.5% Tier 3: Rotating rewards, Cashback 1- 5% Tier 4: Annual fee $95, Decent perks Tier 5: Large annual fee $500, Major perks, Travelcards As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like covered...

Pros and Cons of Technology

July 05, 2021 10:00 - 49 minutes - 34.1 MB

What's the first thing you check when you wake up? For most of us, it's probably the same thing that's actually waking us up! See the issue here? we rely so heavily on our cell phones and technology in general, what would we do without it? Try to take some time to live in the moment and embrace those awkward silences in the elevators or lobbies. Get to know someone, simply interact with other human beings. It will go a long way! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like ...

Pros and Cons of Technology

July 05, 2021 10:00 - 49 minutes - 34.1 MB

What's the first thing you check when you wake up? For most of us, it's probably the same thing that's actually waking us up! See the issue here? we rely so heavily on our cell phones and technology in general, what would we do without it? Try to take some time to live in the moment and embrace those awkward silences in the elevators or lobbies. Get to know someone, simply interact with other human beings. It will go a long way! As always, feel free to reach out with any topics you'd like ...

Forming Better Habits

June 28, 2021 09:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

Human beings are creatures of habit. Yes that quote is overused, but nevertheless, it's true. Forming good habits can be just as difficult as breaking the bad ones, but with a few easy steps, both are achievable. In this episode, we discuss a few tips on how to make habits.... well just that, habits. One good habit most of the guys have is starting their mornings off right by using a routine to begin each and every day. Wake up, yoga, coffee, relax, THEN get ready for work. What are some goo...