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CaNdid Candle Talks Podcast

41 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago -

Light a wick, turn up the volume, and join us on Candid Candle Talks! Get ready for a sensory experience unlike any other; each episode features a captivating conversation with a musician you love. We'll explore their artistic journey, dissect their discography getting into the stories behind their songs, the inspirations that fuel their creativity and chat about life.


We'll also be pairing the perfect candle scent to each conversation, creating a unique sensory experience that sets the mood for each artist's world. So, get comfortable, settle in with your favorite candle, and let the music wash over you as we delve into the lives of those who make the melodies we love.


What to Expect:

In-depth interviewsMusical ExplorationsSelf CareConnecting Fragrance and MusicA Relaxing Atmosphere


Whether you're a music aficionado or a candle connoisseur (or both!), CCT has something for you! Join us as we uncover the melodies hidden in the wax.

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Episodes

Stop playing texting games

August 24, 2021 04:00 - 17 minutes - 12.3 MB

We know, we know. It has been a lil while since you have heard from us. We was a lil under the weather 🤧 and you can tell. Buttt in this episode we discuss people playing games and selling a person a dream when they are getting to know another person. Y'all know that is not right! But Katie and I found out we do that too. 😂 So join us on this ride.  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our ...

Submission is not for everyone

July 27, 2021 04:00 - 34 minutes - 24.1 MB

Submission is a tricky little thing. Why is that women are the only beings in relationships that have to submit to their partner? We have to bend our will to your might and allow you to take us on a journey and you may have no clue where we are going! On this episode Katie & Nij discuss submission, what they have seen and how they view submission.  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our s...

Submission is not for everyone

July 27, 2021 04:00 - 34 minutes - 24.1 MB

Submission is a tricky little thing. Why is that women are the only beings in relationships that have to submit to their partner? We have to bend our will to your might and allow you to take us on a journey and you may have no clue where we are going! On this episode Katie & Nij discuss submission, what they have seen and how they view submission.  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take our s...

You cant play if you cant pay 💰

July 21, 2021 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.9 MB

This episode is brought to you by the lovely Nijeria! It is her BIRTHDAYYYYYYYY. NIJDAY! BUT on to the meat of this episode...Have you ever gone on a date? Sure you have. OK but have you ever gone on a date and the person asked you to split the bill when it came? Bishhhhh we dont do that over here! We dont do dutch dates. If you cant pay, we cant go.  Join in on the conversation as we discuss our thoughts and experiences on dutch dates.  Make sure you wish NIJ a Happy Birthday on IG or Twi...

You cant play if you cant pay 💰

July 21, 2021 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.9 MB

This episode is brought to you by the lovely Nijeria! It is her BIRTHDAYYYYYYYY. NIJDAY! BUT on to the meat of this episode...Have you ever gone on a date? Sure you have. OK but have you ever gone on a date and the person asked you to split the bill when it came? Bishhhhh we dont do that over here! We dont do dutch dates. If you cant pay, we cant go.  Join in on the conversation as we discuss our thoughts and experiences on dutch dates.  Make sure you wish NIJ a Happy Birthday on IG or Twi...

Being Skrong cuz "they" say so

July 06, 2021 04:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MB

Have you ever heard the phrase “Strong Black Woman” as a term of endearment? Well we’re hear to tell you that it’s not! The connotation behind it is belittling and humiliating! No one wants to go through struggle to be labeled “strong”.  Also there is the notion that as a black woman we are inherently strong because we have to be! No one asks are we able to be strong.  Checking all the boxes and being strong ate two concepts that we have yet to really figure out.  Listen to as we discuss ...

They got Juneteenth off too? 🤔

June 22, 2021 23:00 - 11 minutes - 8.26 MB

President Joe Boutdamntime made Juneteenth a Federal holiday. How do y'all feel about EVERYONE getting off for this day that is significant to the eradication of the practice of enslavement of African people? Well, weeee dont like itttttttttt! Catch up with us as we talk about Juneteenth, how we felt about this "historical" moment and other fun stuff.  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take o...

They got Juneteenth off too? 🤔

June 22, 2021 23:00 - 11 minutes - 8.26 MB

President Joe Boutdamntime made Juneteenth a Federal holiday. How do y'all feel about EVERYONE getting off for this day that is significant to the eradication of the practice of enslavement of African people? Well, weeee dont like itttttttttt! Catch up with us as we talk about Juneteenth, how we felt about this "historical" moment and other fun stuff.  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Wanna leave us some feedback? Click here to take o...

What you looking at?

June 09, 2021 04:00 - 33 minutes - 23.4 MB

Yoooo, you ever just felt like the way a man was looking at you was making you uncomfortable? Or like he was causing you to randomly girate yo bootayy? Sis that is Male gaze working! Well today Katie and Nij discuss Male Gaze and how it effects them and people they have seen.  Share some of your stories with us on Instagram and twitter! Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Love you KaNdies 😘 Katie & Nij 

I just took a DNA test...🧪🧫

June 01, 2021 04:00 - 23 minutes - 16.5 MB

Turns out I am 100% that... well you know how that Lizzo song goes! But seriously Katie and Nij took the Ancestry DNA test to determine their lineage and any close relatives. And my oh my will the results surprise you. Take a listen to hear them breakdown their experience and the result they got.  Would you go through with this test as well? Have you already done it? Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Love you KaNdies 😘 Katie & Nij 

It's Our Anniversary 🎉🎉🎉

May 25, 2021 20:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB

Can you believe it has been a year since we started this journey with you? We cannot! In today's episode we recap alll of our conversations. Hopefully for new KaNdie listeners, you will get a quick recap and want to go back and binge alllllll of our episodes from both seasons.  This is not the end but the beginning. Thank you everyone for all your support and guidance! We love and appreciate you.    It's our anniversary and the anniversary of George Floyd's murder. We always push Blackness ...

Brownsuga Babe

May 11, 2021 23:00 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MB

It's the platonic relationship for meeeee. WE gotta make sure we are setting boundaries for the people that we are in community with. Relationships with people are important and how we navigate those relationships is important. If a person of the opposite gender tries to get at you or cross the friend zone line, how do you handle that? Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Love you KaNdies 😘 Katie & Nij 

Soul ties & cries

April 27, 2021 04:00 - 22 minutes - 15.2 MB

Have you ever met a person an instantly connected? How was that experience? We hope it was great for you! Well today we are talking about soul ties, relationships, and child we was cryyyingg. Ugh. Great relationships bring so much emotion out of you that it brought these thugs to tears! Make sure your spirit is aligned, you can heal so much trauma with that alone.  If no one told you today, you are loved and appreciated.  Make sure  you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya fr...

You're too blessed to be stressed

April 21, 2021 22:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MB

Ok y'all. We are a day late. Omg with all the shootings and murders of Black people and now again Black children we needed to give ourself some grace. So we apologize y'all. In this episode we catch up with a homie from DSU that we use to whoop in spades all the time. Andres Waters is now a social worker and helps Black and Brown youth deal with their trauma and help their parents navigate therapy.  Andres is a true professional and so invested in his craft. So take a moment and allow us to...

Let me put a boot on your head!

April 07, 2021 01:00 - 13 minutes - 9.63 MB

From Skinemax to xnxx.com. We have come a long way in our porn journey.  On today’s Storytime Katie and Nij talk about their favorite genres of porn and why they like them. 🥵🤤 What are your favorite genres of porn?  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Alfuquan Hardy Free Breakfast Program Hoodie Giveaway starting April 1, 2021 https://linktr.ee/KaNdidTalksPodcast Entry instructions: Follow us on Instagram and twitter Post you listeni...

Let me put a boot on your head!

April 07, 2021 01:00 - 13 minutes - 9.63 MB

From Skinemax to xnxx.com. We have come a long way in our porn journey.  On today’s Storytime Katie and Nij talk about their favorite genres of porn and why they like them. 🥵🤤 What are your favorite genres of porn?  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Alfuquan Hardy Free Breakfast Program Hoodie Giveaway starting April 1, 2021 https://linktr.ee/KaNdidTalksPodcast Entry instructions: Follow us on Instagram and twitter Post you listeni...

We can playhouse 😝🥰

April 06, 2021 14:00 - 48 minutes - 33.3 MB

The mood is set uh huh, see you already know what's next. So you know what is happening. On this episode we pulled in an expert. Well a SEXpert to get real KaNdid about BDSM in the Black Community and how can we make it more widely accepted and understood. Reba Thomas is a Certified Sex Coach with a wide array of talents. We defined BDSM, how to spice up your sex life in increments, and our first time being called a freak! Ugh make sure y'all dive into this conversation. It gets juicy. Fol...

Grounds fo' divorce

March 30, 2021 04:00 - 25 minutes - 17.9 MB

Although we aren’t married we all have deal breakers according to National marriage surveys  there are some reasons why marriages absolve. I.e finances; irreconcilable differences etc We’re here to answer some of those and give our take. Will some of our answers be like yours or are we too far fetched with our responses.  Make sure you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! Alfuquan Hardy Free Breakfast Program Hoodie Giveaway starting April 1, 2021 htt...

Sis you down on bended knee? 😂😂

March 23, 2021 04:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MB

Hey KaNdies,    *Flashback* Remember when Chrissy proposed to Jim Jones, is you proposing sis? 😂😂 We coming at you with another dope episode on Love and Marriage. Now yes, Katie and Nij are both single as a dollar bill buttttt we still know a thing or two about some love and what we want our marriages to look like. Vibe out with us and hear the jokes fly and then tell us what you want. Do you want to be married? What is your ideal marriage type?    Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, ...

Clubhouse the new app for cap

March 16, 2021 04:00 - 17 minutes - 11.8 MB

Welcome to Clubhouse. An audio interface to allow us to talk to any and everyone (good/bad/indifferent) on a variety of topics . In this story time we are breaking down Clubhouse and the funniest moments we have experienced over the last few months. Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! We choosing! Love you KaNdies 😘 Katie & Nij  Shout out to ShakoyaHD for the dope musical intro

It's a wholeeeeeee lotta CAPping 🧢 going on

March 09, 2021 05:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MB

Katie & Nij address Capping aka faking aka lying! Why y'all be lyinggggg? It aint een that deep for you to be lying like dat!! We walk through capping on social media and folks sex game! Ugh lord help the cappers!  Iight KaNdies let's get into it!    Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! We choosing! Love you KaNdies 😘 Katie & Nij  Shout out to ShakoyaHD for the dope musical intro

Dreams & Nightmares (No Meek): Is this dating?

March 02, 2021 05:00 - 20 minutes - 13.9 MB

Issa story time! You  know we get down! This episode is about the best of dates and the worst of dates! WE have all had a shitty date and an amazing tryst that had us like damn, "if only it was like this all the time!" Laugh with us as we reminisce on two great dates and throw virtual daggers at the men from some of our worst dates.  Make you Subscribe, Leave us a review, and Share us with ya friends and family too! We choosing! Love you KaNdies 😘 Katie & Nij  Shout out to ShakoyaHD for t...

Can I still find love? 💕

February 23, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 30.8 MB

Dating is suchhhh a task! But we all gotta do it to find our forever partner and get our happy ending. But damn does have to be sooo much work? In this episode Katie and Nij tackle the ins and outs of what dating has been like over the last year and especially with the pandemic. 😷  We love and appreciate your support as always.  If you have a similar story let us know.  Do not forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share with your folks!  Stay tuned. Thanks KaNdies 😘

Can I still find love? 💕

February 23, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 30.8 MB

Dating is suchhhh a task! But we all gotta do it to find our forever partner and get our happy ending. But damn does have to be sooo much work? In this episode Katie and Nij tackle the ins and outs of what dating has been like over the last year and especially with the pandemic. 😷  We love and appreciate your support as always.  If you have a similar story let us know.  Do not forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share with your folks!  Stay tuned. Thanks KaNdies 😘

Case of the Ex

February 02, 2021 05:00 - 18 minutes - 12.8 MB

KaNdies,  Y'all ready for another kandid story time? Well we got one about these nut asses doing nut ass ish to make them lose us in the first place! Tune in to hear these stories about the dummies that lost us. 😂😂 If you have a similar story let us know.  Do not forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share with your folks!  Stay tuned. Thanks KaNdies 😘

Looking back at an ex

January 26, 2021 05:00 - 39 minutes - 27.1 MB

Hey KaNdies,  Have you ever broken up with a person and then they try and come back and check in? Like nahhh bruh gonnnn head with that!  Well this episode is about going back to exes and some triggers Katie and Nij have experienced with some of their exes and people that they have talked to. If you have some crazy ex stories make sure you share them with us.  Do not forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share with your folks!  Stay tuned. Thanks KaNdies 😘

That aint yo friend

January 19, 2021 14:00 - 15 minutes - 10.6 MB

Hey KaNdies! 👋🏾 This Story time is about friends that did us sooo wrong or was just on some f*ck sh*t! So if you have had a friend be on that type time I suggest you cut them off.  Everyone cant experience you at all levels of you, so cut that Heaux off!!!!! But we hope you enjoy!   👌🏾 Love you KaNdies,  Katie & Nij Dont forget to share with your friends and family.  Thank you ShakoyaHD for the dope musical intro!

Friends...how many of us have them?

January 12, 2021 15:00 - 32 minutes - 22.7 MB

Yooooooo we are in season two! We are starting this season off in this new year with some new new!  New sound, new intro, new dynamics, but the same us! But in this episode, we are talking about friends and how important they are to you and us. Have you had a friend that only lasted for a season or came into your life for a reason? Share your stories with us! Thank you to ShakoyaHD for our new intro check her out! She is dope! She is available on all platforms! 

Is it over yet: The 2020 Saga

December 22, 2020 05:29 - 48 minutes - 33.4 MB

Its Christmas time in Hollis Queens...Yall know the rest! Well well well, we are at the season finale! Thats right dis the last episode of the year and the season!!! But we talmbout Christmas, Kwanzaa, Vision boards and much more. 2020 has been crazy with hills and deep ass valleys but its almost over! Listen to this episode and let us know what's your Christmas, Kwanzaa plans, and New Year's Eve plans. Again much love KaNdies. Happy Holidays! As a gift, leaves us a review and share us wit...

Cuz he a F*ck boy

December 08, 2020 05:00 - 20 minutes - 14.2 MB

Yea dats him! He a F*ck boy! Avoid his behind like the plague. This bonus episode is. story time about two terrible relationships that Katie and Nij  have been in. These men be on some bs sis. So if you are ready to cackle and cringe a little over two men that we are telling stories about take some time and listen.  Share your stories about these F*ck boys with us on twitter @KaNdidTalks.  We love yall 😘 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https:/...

Cuz he a F*ck boy

December 08, 2020 05:00 - 20 minutes - 14.2 MB

Yea dats him! He a F*ck boy! Avoid his behind like the plague. This bonus episode is. story time about two terrible relationships that Katie and Nij  have been in. These men be on some bs sis. So if you are ready to cackle and cringe a little over two men that we are telling stories about take some time and listen.  Share your stories about these F*ck boys with us on twitter @KaNdidTalks.  We love yall 😘 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https:/...

Relationshits, we've all had them

November 24, 2020 05:00 - 39 minutes - 26.9 MB

Trust we’ve all been there before where you ended up in a relationship or what we like to call a relationshit. It’s not our best moments in life but they make for great stories to tell. Have you been in a relationshit where you didn’t know where you stood? No title no claim no nothing. It happens but we are here to share a tale or two and describe our types of relationships. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voic...

Head before Bed 😝🥰😘

November 10, 2020 05:00 - 1 hour - 41.5 MB

We don't see nothing wrong with a lil bump and grind! Wayment iight well maybe that wasn't the right lyrics to use but hey, we talking bout the horizontal hula, the parallel pretzel, boots knocking, body rocking, adult fun. Sex is a topic that seems so taboo for most, but we are diving in head first.  On this episode we discuss sex, nonnegotiables from a partner, and much much more. This episode is sponsored The AdultPlayhouse and R'Surgence Hair Oil. Visit us at www.theadultplayhouse.store ...

Black Women need Protection Too!

September 08, 2020 04:09 - 1 hour - 56.4 MB

Episode 7 is going to speak to our KaNdie Dzaddies! We wanted to take the time to discuss one of the plagues facing the Black Community . The lack of protection of Black Women. Black women are the most under protected beings on this planet and we shell out the most love and affection. On this episode we will discuss what Black men can do to protect Black women and what that protection should look. Shoutout to our very very special guest Blake The Brain. Follow him @BlaketheBrain on IG Join ...

School Daze: I ❤️ my HBCU

August 26, 2020 03:11 - 1 hour - 46.2 MB

Episode 6 is a funny one! Take a step back into 2008 and relive our freshman year. First gen college students with a pocket full of lint tryna figure out how to balance meeting new people, relationships, horrible roommates, and freedom. Share your stories with us on social. We would love to hear them.And guess what y'all! We on YouTube! Listen to us and den watch us!!! How can you get enough???? Same name! Kandid Talks Podcast!Make sure don't forget to tell your friends, family and frenemies ...

A Colored Story👩🏼‍🦱👩🏾‍🦱

August 11, 2020 04:00 - 57 minutes - 39.3 MB

Ay yo LIGHTskin!!! You madddd pretty for a DARKskinned girl!  This episode tackles the narrative of COLORISM in the Black Community. We will touch on how it affects us in our day to day lives and what the history modern day colorism. Share your stories with us on social. We would love to hear them.  And guess what y'all! We on YouTube! Listen to us and den watch us!!! How can you get enough of us???? Same name! Kandid Talks Podcast! Make sure don't forget to tell your friends, family and...

Purposefully Dating

June 23, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 49.4 MB

Are you just out here swiping on Tinder without a reason? You serial swiper, you! Get on in here for this episode about dating with a purpose. We are talking about dating form the male and female perspective! Thank you to our first male guest! Follow him on social @coachmalikspLove you KaNdies!!-Use #KaNdidTalksPodcast & #TalkKaNdidtous and tag us in your pics to let us know what you think.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- ...

Equality NOT Revenge #BLM

June 09, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 57.6 MB

Hey KaNdies: Welcome to Episode 3! This episode tackles two major movements that Black Americans face today. #BlackLivesMatter and #LGBTQIA or the Black Queer Movement. We know you will be hungry for more after listening to this conversation. We plan to come back and tackle these topics further down the line, because they deserve their own time and space. We want to say thank you to our special guest Marie Pinkney, 13th District DE Senate 2020 Candidate. Love you KaNdies!! - Blackness is m...

Put out or Get out

May 19, 2020 04:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MB

Episode 2: Have you ever been hanging out and had no idea they wanted the cheeks???? Well come on in, sit back and listen to a story we finna tell y'all about our experiences of people tryna pull the okie doke. Episode two finna get a lil more real y'all. Check out the episode and let Katie and Nij know what you think! Do not forget to follow us on all social media @KaNdidTalks--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voi...

Commencenot 👩🏾‍🎓👨🏽‍🎓🤦🏾‍♀️

May 19, 2020 04:00 - 48 minutes - 33.6 MB

Episode 1: Our very first episode!!!!!!!!!!!! *runs around in circles* Commencenot is about the class of 2020 unfortunately not being able to participate in the milestone of walking across that stage and some flashbacks of Katie and Nij's college experience. We have a special guest, Alesha Brown (Girl Talk Yo Shit Podcast), from Tennessee State University class of 2020 to tell us about her experience as we unpack what life looks like after college and she ramps up into the REAL world. Check o...

KaNdid Talks Podcast Intro Trailer

May 03, 2020 17:40 - 42 seconds - 524 KB

This trailer is to give you a glimpse into what we will be talking about on each monthly episode. We look forward to connecting with you.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kandidtalks/message