Eps 173 - Solo Show about the power of encouragement

Recap of the summit

What happens when we start having real conversations?

Community/support

Seeing participants in real life

Recognizing our attachments and course correcting

Gratitude to guests

Gratitude to participants

$109 and it is your for eva

 
Saw Brene Brown

Seen before

Appreciate her realness

Familiar stories

Story of daughter swimming and conversation around being brave IS winning

Are these the conversations we are having with our kids? Are we explicit?

 
What we notice and what we speak

Life skills/qualities

Negativity bias

How often they ARE using tools/skills – it’s just when they don’t if feels so PAINFUL

Our expectation of mastery

Layers going on under the surface (meaning of behavior with Alison Smith 110, Iceberg Metaphor solo show 129)

 
What it takes to stay focused under the surface

Vulnerability and humility – it may not be about you

Faith

Trust/surrender – let go of your attachment to how you think it should be, and also the idea that you KNOW what’s happening for your child when they haven’t expressed it

The idea that all humans ultimately want connecting and to know they matter. All of them. We are hard wired to connect

 
Our language and messages:

Week three at MMS we dug into encouragement vs praise

Process oriented

Really seeing the child

Naming qualities with evidence

My story this morning with the waffles and “what do I do with the mix?”

I notice, I appreciate, I trust/know/have faith

Not for the short term/immediate – but for the long term, internal voice (ep 136 with Kelly Bos about how NOT to become the voice of your child’s inner critic) it is about below the surface, about supporting our kids in changing what they believe about themselves

 
I am going to do a webinar this month in the Patreon community to diver deeper into encouragement and I hope you join in! The Joyful Courage Super Fam is a group of parents who are giving $10/month to the podcast to support in the sustainability and create a win/win. Members of the community enjoy monthly webinars and online support through our closed facebook page. Check it out at www.patreon.com/joyfulcourage
 
Have a beautiful week my friends!! I am going to be watching my tone this week and really working on the sometimes unspoken messages I am sending to my kids when I am less than mindful of what I am doing – and clean up any messes along the way.
 
Big love!!
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Recap of the summit

What happens when we start having real conversations?
Community/support
Seeing participants in real life
Recognizing our attachments and course correcting
Gratitude to guests
Gratitude to participants
$109 and it is your for eva

 

Saw Brene Brown

Seen before
Appreciate her realness
Familiar stories
Story of daughter swimming and conversation around being brave IS winning
Are these the conversations we are having with our kids? Are we explicit?

 

What we notice and what we speak

Life skills/qualities
Negativity bias
How often they ARE using tools/skills – it’s just when they don’t if feels so PAINFUL
Our expectation of mastery
Layers going on under the surface (meaning of behavior with Alison Smith 110, Iceberg Metaphor solo show 129)

 

What it takes to stay focused under the surface

Vulnerability and humility – it may not be about you
Faith
Trust/surrender – let go of your attachment to how you think it should be, and also the idea that you KNOW what’s happening for your child when they haven’t expressed it
The idea that all humans ultimately want connecting and to know they matter. All of them. We are hard wired to connect

 

Our language and messages:

Week three at MMS we dug into encouragement vs praise
Process oriented
Really seeing the child
Naming qualities with evidence
My story this morning with the waffles and “what do I do with the mix?”
I notice, I appreciate, I trust/know/have faith
Not for the short term/immediate – but for the long term, internal voice (ep 136 with Kelly Bos about how NOT to become the voice of your child’s inner critic) it is about below the surface, about supporting our kids in changing what they believe about themselves

 

I am going to do a webinar this month in the Patreon community to diver deeper into encouragement and I hope you join in! The Joyful Courage Super Fam is a group of parents who are giving $10/month to the podcast to support in the sustainability and create a win/win. Members of the community enjoy monthly webinars and online support through our closed facebook page. Check it out at www.patreon.com/joyfulcourage

 

Have a beautiful week my friends!! I am going to be watching my tone this week and really working on the sometimes unspoken messages I am sending to my kids when I am less than mindful of what I am doing – and clean up any messes along the way.

 

Big love!!

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