When in a friendship, relationship, or interaction with other people sometimes we get caught up in what other people need to fix in order for us to be comfortable. If we are real with ourselves,  the one and only thing we have control over are ourselves. At least one should think. When we realize this we can enter and remain in flow with any/all relationships by honoring that realization. Pick up some insight on this and consider applying an idea or two into your life and see what happens. What do you have to lose?