Soulfire Sessions: Stories of Self-Discovery

Do You Find Yourself Walking on Eggshells Around Others?

When we are busy living the lives others expect of us we begin to wonder if we are doing things right. Are we living up to their expectations? There is no reason to live this way. What steps can you take to work your way into your own way of life? Maybe something in this podcast can help?

How Are You Maximizing Your Ability To Communicate?

There are times to text and then there are times you really need to hear someone's voice or see them in person to communicate properly. Especially, in times where things can easily get lost in translation.

Growing from a Person That Reacts to a Person that Responds

One of the most powerful tools a person can have is the ability to respond to life situations rather than reacting. Discover some things that may help you on your journey to transcend the behavior of reacting and turn it into response ability.

How Do You Define Success As A Couple?

What Do YOU Believe?

The world is full of "facts" and "truths" when these are nothing more than another person's perspective. Does this mean you just have to choose from offered perspectives? Absolutely not. Question everything, we say.  Go deeper and find YOUR truth. It will set you free!

Forgiveness is the Doorway to Everything Great in Life!

It is easy to hold grudges and wish others some level of karma for their actions. Remember, the world doesn't happen to you, it happens with you. Let go and forgive so what YOU receive is in alignment with your higher purpose.

A Fresh Start Isn't A New Place, It's A Mindset

Is the grass greener on the other side? Discover a different perspective that can help you figure out how to make it green wherever you are.

Be Impeccable With Your Speech

Believe it or not, what you say and how you say it has a lot to do with how your life unfolds. Are you a doubter, a wishful thinker, or do you claim the things you desire as if it already exists in your life? This takes work, but only after you recognize what you need to adjust.

The Only Thing To Work Out Is Your Self

When in a friendship, relationship, or interaction with other people sometimes we get caught up in what other people need to fix in order for us to be comfortable. If we are real with ourselves,  the one and only thing we have control over are ourselves. At least one should think. When we realize this we can enter and remain in flow with any/all relationships by honoring that realization. Pick up some insight on this and consider applying an idea or two into your life and see what happens. W...

The Best Time to Talk About "Stuff" that Bothers You

Relationships can be difficult to navigate. Especially if one or both partners don't understand the value of waiting or letting things cool down so a healthy conversation can take place. Here are some discoveries that may help.

Do You Use Your Intuition?

If you are not using your intuition to get your answers you should consider building that muscle. Looking for answers from other people is a cocktail for potentially destructive situations. People are in our lives as "messengers." They carry a key that helps us to unlock ourselves through gifting with guidance or a lesson.  Your gut feeling is always accurate. When you "check-in" with it it is amazing how the guidance or message you received from someone helps you to find the answer within.

Rejection is Divine Redirection

Why do we bang on and try to knock down doors that are clearly SHUT? Do you want constant rejection with a small dose of flow in your life OR do you want your life to flow easily with fewer rejections? The choice is yours. Look around you, there are so many options for other doors that allow you to freely walk through. Sometimes the fear of the unknown or the fear of change keeps you from entering. What fun is life standing at a doorway that is familiar yet rejects you?

Filter, Unsubscribe, Let Shit Go!

Many of us take the time to keep our email inbox clean. You probably prioritize based on what to read later, what you want to engage with, and what gets put in the junk folder. When it comes to our personal lives many of us don't follow that same protocol, we may just let all the junk stay right in our inbox and not prioritize what shows up at any one given time. Why?

You Better Believe It, Doubt is the Devil

You can choose belief or you can choose doubt. One will get you whatever you desire in your life, while the other leads you to fall short or destroy something with just thoughts alone. We believe you will get something from this one! Tune in.

What You Do for Yourself Daily Will Pay Dividends

We've hit this topic in several ways before on previous podcasts (2019 and 2020 episodes have been archived) --- It is time for a refresher on why it is important to give to yourself FIRST.

Want to Improve Aspects of Your Life? Letting Go May Be What is Needed.

There are many things that can hold you back from having what you want in life. Under the category of letting go are several things to consider when making improvements in your life.

When is it a Good Time to Call on Experts vs. Just Relying on Yourself?

Life doesn't have a manual. On top of that, it is completely different for each one of us. To make life easier to move through it is important to find the balance between doing it all yourself and calling upon someone with more expertise to help you accomplish your goals.

What are the Differences Between Unhealthy & Healthy Co-Creating?

Co-creation is always happening in a relationship. Co-creation in an unhealthy relationship can become a very difficult landscape to navigate. The weight eventually becomes unbearable. Listen to a few perspectives on healthy co-creation in your relationship.

Old Keys Won't Open New Doors

If we desire to open new and improved doors in our life a new set of keys is generally necessary. Hanging on to old keys will rarely allow you to move on, move forward, and grow in spaces better suited for you. Change is difficult. The most difficult thing to do in life is to let go of things or people we tend to hang on to.

To What Extent Do You Go to Receive Love in a Relationship?

In a relationship, we often give ourselves away just to be loved by the other person. Tune in to hear some of the potential problems that can come from giving yourself away, lowering your standards, and even compromising your integrity.

Do Relationships Really Have "Levels"? Listen in to Consider a Different Perspective.

Repeating the same actions over and over is insanity. Do you want something different? Then consider doing things differently. When looking back at past "relationships" they often have the same outcome. That is unless you are willing to consider other possibilities. Tune in.

When You Are Deliberate Your Life Begins Improving

A lot of people don't take the time to get honest about what they want their life to look like. To such a degree that It may even feel as If life and all of Its surprises are happening to you. This podcast touches on the Importance and power of being deliberate about what you want your life to look like.

Labels & How They Limit Our Beliefs

Labels limit you from real greatness. You are so much more than what you do for for a living, what your hobbies are, or who or what people Identify you as being. To move beyond labels Is to begin being open to INFINITE possibilities.

Perspectives Are All We Have!

When having conversation with other people have you ever noticed that there Is just a lot of sharing of perspectives? Sometimes a perspective Is good to consider, other times you might want to Integrate a perspective Into your belief system. We spend a great deal of time sharing perspectives to arrive at decisions we want to make for ourselves.

Everything - including you - is Energy, Frequency, and Vibration

Do you want to begin to know more about how we work? Once you get into discovering this about yourself it will be difficult to stop the fascinations!

What Happens When You Decide To Sit Still? Why Would I Do That?

Busy, busy, busy you are! No time to stop right now! Well...if you knew the benefits and potential realizations that await you, you might make some time. As counter-productive as sitting still might sound, you might want to consider sitting still for this 10 minutes. Give It a try. Then try again. Let the universe show you what answers are there for you.

Be Authentic. At All Costs. "Flaws" And All!

We live In a day and age where a lot of people have been conditioned to act or be perceived a certain way in order to "get somewhere." People just love to photoshop their life. However, less and less people are resonating there. When you begin to find your voice and display yourself as the "freak" you might be....things change. The people around you begin to take notice and the challenges begin. Authenticity comes with a price. But it also has a huge payday!

Your Hot Mess Can Become Your Hot Message!

Life experiences, traumas, adversities, behaviors and so much more can be turned Into a solid resource to help those around you. We can all be a hot mess....it's what you decide to do with it that can make a profound difference in your life and/or the lives of those that come into your experience. Don't forget where you came from!

Why Would I Want To Pay Myself First? What Does That Even Mean?

How much energy do you have left after exhausting a full day somewhere you would rather not be? Or around someone who just soaks up every drop that you offer? You end up at the close of the day (if you are lucky) EXHAUSTED and only having a few minutes to do something you have been thinking about all day. We will often say "there is never enough time in the day!" BS! Consider reversing who and what receives your energy before you do. Baby steps! See what happens! There will eventually be mor...

Tips On Integrating An Attraction Mindset

The Law of Attraction is also known as the Law of Magnetism. What you create for yourself starts with your thoughts. “Thoughts Become Things” as the popular saying goes. Pick up a few helpful tips and see what you are able to create to show up in your life! GET IT!

Self-Education And How It Might Play A Role On How Life Unfolds For You

There are different types of education. Most education pathways we have to somewhat "endure" in order to get the knowledge or skills we desire or want In life. The beauty of self-education Is that it will generally begin leading you to a better version of yourself overnight. Leading you to potentially living a life full of the things you love and are passionate about. Listen in!

The Benefits of Forgiving Yourself And Others

One of the most difficult things to do In life Is forgive. It is also one of the most powerful acts you will ever do for yourself. Where does forgiveness come from? Where does it go? It doesn't mean things won't happen similarly again. They probably will. Learn to Incorporate forgiveness....watch your life change.

Steps To Consider Turning Your Knowledge Into Your Power

Knowledge is a great asset. How do you turn It Into YOUR power? When you learn to walk firm-footed in it that you find your power source.

What Makes You Lose Track Of Time? Do More Of That!

We've all experienced It. You do something for the first time with the intention of an hour and the next thing you know 7 hours have gone by. What In the hell? What was that? Who was that? I want to do that again! It's a little clue as to what your soul needed at the time. It may only last a few times but could easily last forever.

What To Consider When You Are Tired Of Your Own Shit

After we learn to take responsibility we can consciously begin to call ourselves out on our own blind spots. Yes, we will always need others to help us see them, but after awhile the patterns begin to show themselves over and over. When Is enough enough of your own mess? There are a couple of steps to consider while you're stepping in It. 

What You Miss Out On When You Don't Use Your Imagination

Name something that has been created that didn't start with a thought first! Hard to do, Isn't It. Yet, most of us have gone our entire adult lives void of the use of our Imagination. How can the development of your imagination play a role In the reality you experience? Find out!

When Is Asking For Help Ok?

One of the most difficult things to do Is ask for help. Whether It be emotional, physical, financial or otherwise, It Is up there at the top of things to consider Integrating Into your life. Listen in! 

Be The Change You Want To See In The World

"When you change the way you think, the world around you changes" --You don't think so? We frequently talk about having and developing awareness. With a little effort to integrate a couple of things Into your day you can begin to witness the truth in that quote. Listen in!

Always Seek First To Understand

If we don't know how to understand how someone communicates how do we become effective communicators? The first step Is always seeking to understand before being understood. Personalities and communication modalities are easy to spot with awareness. Here are some very foundational signs and tips. Good listen!

Why and When to Let Go of Toxic People and Situations

It Is widely understood to be healthy to immediately remove yourself from toxic people and situations. However, there are some other things to consider before doing that. Things that can be vital to your inner growth can be recognized with just a little dash of awareness. Listen In!

Wait! There Is Something More Than The Outer World? You Got It!

Simultaneously there Is another "dimension" that exists In direct parallel to the outer world. Make this entry-level discovery and you will be on your way to understanding more about how the two worlds work together to begin forming your reality.

What Can Happen If You Controlled the First Part of Your Day?

Controlling the first part of your day can work wonders and set the pace for the rest of your day. On our 10-minute Podcast Burst we give you some insight on the benefits of Implementing this Into your daily routine.