I'm not here to argue
156 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago -An ongoing lighthearted non-argument between partners.
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s01e99 I'm Not Here To Argue about Quitting Your Job
August 09, 2022 07:00 - 27 minutes - 24.9 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Quitting one's job. Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e98 I'm Not Here To Argue about having and raising Offspring
August 02, 2022 07:00 - 30 minutes - 27.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss having and raising kids and how much you have to want it. Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e97 I'm Not Here To Argue about Reading the Comments
July 26, 2022 07:00 - 37 minutes - 34.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss reading the comments, react videos and fighting on the internet. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e96 I'm Not Here To Argue about A Trip to Las Vegas
July 19, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour - 55.2 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss a trip to Vegas, why Gherkin hates the Luxor, and the wonderful Miss Behave's Mavericks Variety show. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e95 I'm Not Here To Argue abou tfood, money, and 14 year old boys
July 05, 2022 07:00 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss money management, relationships with food, and which of them is more of a fourteen year old boy. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e94 I'm Not Here To Argue about whether OwlBears can Fly
June 21, 2022 07:00 - 43 minutes - 40.3 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss why Gherkin thinks he sucks at podcasting, diet and exercise, a Vegas vacation and whether Owlbears can fly. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e92 I'm Not Here To Argue about whether OwlBears can Fly
June 21, 2022 07:00 - 43 minutes - 40.3 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss why Gherkin thinks he sucks at podcasting, diet and exercise, a Vegas vacation and whether Owlbears can fly. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e93 I'm Not Here To Argue about Soap Operas and Dungeons and Dragons
May 31, 2022 07:00 - 38 minutes - 35.4 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss upcoming creative projects, including their collaborative soap opera writing project Thundering Hearts, and the Velvet Fists first outing as a Dungeon Master. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e92 I'm Not Here To Argue about Soap Operas and Dungeons and Dragons
May 31, 2022 07:00 - 38 minutes - 35.4 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss upcoming creative projects, including their collaborative soap opera writing project Thundering Hearts, and the Velvet Fists first outing as a Dungeon Master. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e92 I'm Not Here To Argue about Getting Coivd, Multiple Multiverse, and How We Make Each Other Uncomfortable
May 24, 2022 07:00 - 48 minutes - 44.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss getting covid, Dr. Strange and the multiverse of Madness, Everything, Everywhere, all at once, Moon Knight, and the ways in which we cause each other discomfort. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e91 I'm Not Here To Argue about The Slap, Money Management and Wanting versus Needing
May 03, 2022 07:00 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss the Slap, Managing their incomes and wanting versus needing your partner. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e50 I'm Not Here To Argue about Bad Decisions, Stressing out your Partner, and What Keeps Happening To My Blankets
April 26, 2022 07:00 - 36 minutes - 33.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss the bad decisions they made recently, A purchase of a new car, stressful decisions and why the Velvet Fist keeps wadding up Gherkin's blanket. Support our Patreon at www.patreon.com/Picklewater! Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e89 I'm Not Here To Argue about August Wilson's Gem of the Ocean, Cirque Oui-Et and Dating
April 19, 2022 07:00 - 36 minutes - 33.8 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss August Wilson's Gem of the Ocean, Cirque Oui-Et, and continue their discussion on spending intentional time together. Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e88 I'm Not Here To Argue about Jobs, Classes, and Time for Each Other
April 12, 2022 07:00 - 48 minutes - 44.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss New Jobs, New Classes, and spending Intentional Time together. Check out our Patreon at www.patreon.com/picklewater Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e87 I'm Not Here To Argue about Adulting, Marriage Preconceptions, and the Deep Game
April 05, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 31.1 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Marriage Preconceptions versus Reality, Adulting, New Jobs and Working and play the Deep Game. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e86 I'm Not Here To Argue about Baby Names, Money, and Dentistry
March 29, 2022 07:00 - 41 minutes - 38.3 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Baby Names, Financial Planning, and Childhood Dentistry experiences, amongst other topics. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e85 I'm Not Here To Argue about Grandparents, Privacy, and ADUs
March 22, 2022 07:00 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss what it's like to have grandparents, privacy in a relationship, ADUs and more! Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e84 I'm Not Here To Argue about Race Stuff, Surrogacy and Using the Bed Wrong
March 15, 2022 07:00 - 51 minutes - 47.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss their surrogacy journey so far, race and childhood, and how the Velvet Fist uses the bed incorrectly. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e83 I'm Not Here To Argue about Commitment, Consent, and Emotionally Complacency
March 08, 2022 08:00 - 25 minutes - 23.4 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss emotional enthusiasm, consent and complacency. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e82 I'm Not Here To Argue about Arguing, Sharing Dark Thoughts, and the TV Show Peacemaker
March 01, 2022 08:00 - 32 minutes - 30.1 MBIn this episode Gherkin and The Velvet Fist discuss Gherkin's reluctance to ever argue in a relationship, his darker inner thoughts, and the tv show Peacemaker. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e81 I'm Not Here To Argue about Life's Changes, Creative Efforts and Who's More Annoying
February 22, 2022 08:00 - 33 minutes - 30.4 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss annoyances, what changes and what stays the same in a growing relationship, and Gherkins creative pursuits versus his depression. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e80 I'm Not Here To Argue about Freestyle Love Supreme
February 15, 2022 08:00 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss their impressions of the improv hip-hop tony award winning touring show Freestyle Love Supreme. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e79 I'm Not Here To Argue about the Dropping the Ball
February 08, 2022 08:00 - 34 minutes - 31.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist explore more relationship questions and then discuss their responsibilities to one another in the Argument of the Week. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e79 I'm Not Here To Argue about Dropping the Ball
February 08, 2022 08:00 - 34 minutes - 31.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist explore more relationship questions and then discuss their responsibilities to one another in the Argument of the Week. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e78 I'm Not Here To Argue about the Ethics of Photographing a Stranger
February 02, 2022 03:18 - 59 minutes - 54 MBIn this episode Gherkin and The Velvet Fist answer each other's probing relationship questions and discuss Gherkin's main Pet Peeve and the Ethics of Photographing someone without their permission. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e77 I'm Not Here To Argue about Race
January 23, 2022 06:13 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist start a conversation about their personal racism and discuss the roots behind those feelings and tools for overcoming personal racism. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e76 I'm Not Here To Argue about a Series of Probing Questions
January 12, 2022 03:19 - 40 minutes - 36.7 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist answer a Series of Probing Questions. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e75 I'm Not Here To Argue about Anniversaries, 2021, and the movie Encanto
January 03, 2022 04:59 - 35 minutes - 32.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss their anniversary, the year 2021, and the movie Encanto! Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e74 I'm Not Here To Argue about Consent, Spiderman, Hawkeye, and a Boy Called Christmas
December 26, 2021 23:59 - 40 minutes - 37.4 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Consent, Spiderman - No Way Home, Hawkeye's Finale and the movie A Boy Called Christmas. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e73 I'm Not Here To Argue about IVF and Surrogacy and Hawkeye
December 15, 2021 22:35 - 31 minutes - 28.7 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss IVF, Surrogacy, and the Disney Plus show Hawkeye. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e72 I'm Not Here To Argue about a Ruptured Gallbladder
December 10, 2021 01:24 - 37 minutes - 34 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Gherkins Gallbladder removal and the tv show Masters of the Universe Revelation. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e71 I'm Not Here To Argue about Nagging Each Other, Sneezing, and the movie Red Notice
November 22, 2021 00:25 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Sneezing, Nagging each other, and the movie Red Notice. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e70 I'm Not Here To Argue about The Eternals and a Very Awkard Disagreement
November 17, 2021 03:53 - 42 minutes - 38.7 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss the movie the Eternals, Spousal Obligations, Chris Pratt, Kumail Nanjiani, and have an Awkward Disagreement. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e69 I'm Not Here To Argue about Birthdays, Hamilton and Old God Vol 2
November 01, 2021 03:36 - 33 minutes - 30.9 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Gherkin's birthday week, the touring show of Hamilton (spoilers) and the stage show Old God Vol. 2. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e68 I'm Not Here To Argue about Twilight Eclipse and reading each others minds
October 24, 2021 04:50 - 32 minutes - 30.1 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss the movie Twilight Eclipse and nearly have a disagreement. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e67 I'm Not Here To Argue about Vulnerability, Forgiveness, and the What If finale
October 17, 2021 01:22 - 48 minutes - 44.2 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss being vulnerable, forgiving yourself, paid hang outs, taboo and the finale to the TV show "What If...?". Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e66 I'm Not Here To Argue about Pain PIlls, Food Stuff, Parenting Privilege, and Dear San Francisco
October 11, 2021 00:43 - 57 minutes - 52.9 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Pain killers, Food schedules, the privilege of having good parents, and the Acrobatic stage show "Dear San Francisco". Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e65 I'm Not Here To Argue about Proportional Response, Needs versus Wants, and What If
October 05, 2021 01:58 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Proportional Responses, Our Needs versus our Wants and the tv show "What If...?". Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e64 I'm Not Here To Argue about Butt Shapes, Bathing, and the movie Shang Chi
September 26, 2021 03:19 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Butt Shapes, Unwanted Superpowers, Unconditional Love, Bathing, and the movie Shang Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e63 I'm Not Here To Argue about Hotdogs, Sex and Depression
September 18, 2021 02:54 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist don't argue about hot dogs versus sandwiches, sex definitions and depression. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e62 I'm Not Here To Argue about Sleeping too much, Mental Health, and the movie Gidget
September 10, 2021 23:39 - 58 minutes - 53.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist don't argue about sleeping too much, mental health check ins, and the movie Gidget! Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e61 I'm Not Here To Argue about What We Did Differently this time around, Situational Awareness, and the movie Blade
September 03, 2021 22:56 - 40 minutes - 36.7 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist do not argue about what they did differently in this relationship versus others, situational awareness, and the movie Blade. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e60 I'm Not Here To Argue about Rough Times, Depression, and What If
August 25, 2021 21:29 - 49 minutes - 45.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss getting through the rough times, seasonal depression and the tv show "What If ?". Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e59 I'm Not Here To Argue about Growing into who we want to be and The Suicide Squad
August 20, 2021 01:15 - 1 hour - 56.6 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss growing into who they want to be, and the movie the Suicide Squad. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e58 I'm Not Here To Argue about Shyness, Surgery and Second Weddings
August 14, 2021 03:01 - 1 hour - 55.3 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss shyness and attractiveness, what to do if surgery goes wrong, and their second wedding plans. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e57 I'm Not Here To Argue about lies, secrets, he-man, and gunpowder milkshake
August 04, 2021 22:35 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet First discuss many things including when a secret becomes a lie, Master's of the Universe, and Gunpowder Milkshake. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e56 I'm Not Here To Argue about Work Anxiety, Colorism, Gate Keeping Blackness, Bill and Ted - Bogus Journey and Face the Music
July 28, 2021 05:27 - 48 minutes - 44.5 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Work Anxiety, Colorism, Gate Keeping Blackness, and the movies Bill and Ted's Bogus Journey and Bill and Ted Face the Music. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e55 I'm Not Here To Argue about Work Life Balance, Black Widow, Loki, and the future of the Sex Episode
July 21, 2021 04:47 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss work life balance, loki, black widow and the upcoming patron only sex episode. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e54 I'm Not Here To Argue about Birth Order, Dad Stuff, Loki, and Summer of Soul
July 15, 2021 01:16 - 51 minutes - 47 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss, Birth Order, Dad Stuff, Religion, and the Movie Summer of Soul and Episode 5 of Loki. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
s01e53 I'm Not Here To Argue about Cancer Treatment, Loki, Holidays, and more
July 07, 2021 23:19 - 48 minutes - 44.1 MBIn this episode Gherkin and the Velvet Fist discuss Cancer Treatments, Holidays, The TV Show Loki and the movie Suicide Squad. Upbeat Forever by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5011-upbeat-forever License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license