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The Enough is Enough Podcast

223 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 months ago - ★★★★★ - 173 ratings

Are you tired of feeling trapped and controlled by your narcissistic partner? Do you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells or being manipulated into doing things you don't want to do? It's time to break free and take back control of your life. Dr. David Clarke will help you learn the red flags of narcissistic behavior, the tactics they use to control their partners, and most importantly, how to escape their grip once and for all. Join clinical psychologist and author Dr. David Clarke as we dive into the mind of a narcissist and uncover the truth behind their toxic behavior. From gaslighting to love-bombing, we'll break down the tactics they use and provide you with the tools you need to protect yourself and break free from their grip. Don't let your narcissistic partner continue to control you. It's time to take action and reclaim your power because "You've Had Enough of Your Narcissist." Start your journey to healing and freedom today!

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Episodes

Be a Woman Worthy of Respect

May 19, 2020 12:00 - 14 minutes - 20 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to respect yourself and earn your husband's respect. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

How To Make Decisions as a Couple

May 12, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 19.1 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce, Dr. David Clarke talks about a five-step, God-centered decision-making process. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/  

What Submission DOES Mean

May 05, 2020 12:00 - 11 minutes - 15.8 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke defines what submission DOES mean and describes what Biblical submission looks like.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

What Submission Does NOT Mean

April 28, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 17.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke explores four common myths about submission. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

How The Wife Kills Intimacy

April 21, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 20.2 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about four ways a wife kills intimacy with her husband and how to stop doing it. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in a crisis, consider dong a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. You can talk to him for for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. More details can be found he...

Tell Me How I Shut You Up

April 14, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 19.4 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast,  Dr. David Clarke talks about how to ask your husband how you kill intimacy. Thanks for listening! For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/        

Classic Husband Conversation Killers

April 07, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 16.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast,  Dr. David Clarke talks about how to respond to your husband's attempts to kill a  conversation. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

Keep Your System Clean of Resentments at Your Spouse

March 31, 2020 09:30 - 12 minutes - 17 MB

One-way communication will keep you emotionally healthy and motivate your spouse to change. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/    

Cleaning Out Your Resentments At Your Spouse

March 24, 2020 09:30 - 12 minutes - 17.3 MB

The best way to get rid of your resentments and get your spouse's attention is to read him a brutally honest, detailed letter of resentments. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/   Read the First Chapter of Married But Lonely for Free! https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely          

Speak NOW or Lose Your Marriage

March 17, 2020 09:00 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

If you don't tell your spouse how unhappy you are, you will suffer and you'll eventually want to Divorce. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

The End of a Marriage Part Two

March 10, 2020 09:00 - 17 minutes - 23.8 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast. This is the second part in Dr. Clarke's series on the end of a marriage. Both spouses refuse to face the truth, the wife hits the wall, and the marriage is over.   Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

The End of a Marriage Part One

March 03, 2020 10:00 - 15 minutes - 20.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast,  Dr. David Clarke talks about how both spouses play their parts in the classic Married But Lonely scenario. He doesn’t get it and she doesn’t help him get it.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit Dr. Clarke's website at: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

The High Cost of Divorce

February 25, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 18.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the high cost of divorce. Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in a crisis, consider Dr. Clarke's phone advice service. You can talk to him for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. Learn More: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/book-online/phone-advice-session

Be a Leader

February 18, 2020 10:30 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks to the men about how to be a leader. God gave us (as husbands) the job of leader in the marriage relationship and in the home. For the full detailed plan on how to be a servant leader get my book Married But Lonely here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.  

Actions That Create Romance

February 11, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 16.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. Clarke teaches you how words are important but they are not enough in the area of romance. Here are actions that will make your wife feel romanced and loved. Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

The Power of Verbal Romance Part 2

February 04, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 16.8 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke concludes his teaching on the power of verbal romance.   Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   If you have a question that you would like to have read/answered on the show, email Dr. Clarke at: [email protected] For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

The Power of Verbal Romance

January 28, 2020 10:00 - 10 minutes - 14.8 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke teaches you how to romance your woman by praising her physical beauty and her character. This will make her feel loved and cherished, and she will be drawn to you.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage building resources, visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/    

Be a Lover Part 3

January 21, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 16.8 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks to the men about how to open up and talk to your woman on a regular basis. Dr. Clarke also describes the top ten areas in a man's life that a woman wants to hear about.   Thanks for Listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and give a review of this podcast.   For more books and marriage building resources from Dr. Clarke visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com

Be a Lover Part 2

January 14, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want A Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke helps men to listen with no distractions, reflect and engage, and listen in conflict.   Thanks For Listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage building resources visit:https://www.davideclarkephd.com

Be a Lover Part 1

January 07, 2020 13:00 - 11 minutes - 15.6 MB

A huge part of being a lover is being a listener to your wife. Dr. Clarke covers 2 critical listening skills: listening to things you aren't interested in and being an active listener.    Thanks for listening!    Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage building content go to:https://www.davideclarkephd.com Check out Dr. Clarke's book Married But Lonely here:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely

Be a Godly Man Part II

December 17, 2019 10:30 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

On this episode,  I will cover these key areas on being a godly man; come to Christ, grow in Christ, be accountable, and lead your wife spiritually.   Thanks for Listening! please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.davideclarkephd.com

Be a Godly Man Part One

December 10, 2019 10:30 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

Being a great husband isn't easy, and you can't do it on your own. You have to have God's help.   Married But Lonely Book:  https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely  

Letter of Needs

December 03, 2019 10:30 - 12 minutes - 16.5 MB

To make absolutely sure your intimacy avoider knows your needs, you will write him a letter (and read it to him) delivering your most important needs in detail. Read the First Chapter of Married But Lonely for Free! https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely

Make Your Needs Crystal Clear

November 26, 2019 11:30 - 13 minutes - 18.4 MB

On this episode of the I Don’t Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about getting your man ready to hear your needs and motivated to meet them. Married But Lonely Book: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely  Is your marriage in a crisis? Schedule a phone advice session with Dr David Clarke by clicking here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/book-online      

He Doesn't Know Your Needs

November 19, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 16.9 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke explains why your spouse doesn't meet your needs. It's partly his fault and it's partly your fault.   For more information and resources from Dr. David Clarke visit his website at: https://www.davideclarkephd.com Get the Married But Lonely Book here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely   Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

You Need a Team

November 12, 2019 10:00 - 11 minutes - 15.7 MB

You can't change your Intimacy Avoider Spouse on your own. You need a team: God, a best friend, friends and family, and a church family.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   Read the First Chapter of Married But Lonely for free! https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely     Check out my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/drdavidclarke Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdavidclarke/ Con...

Why You Married An Intimacy Avoider

November 05, 2019 09:30 - 14 minutes - 19.3 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast,  Dr. Clarke covers the three reasons you married an intimacy avoider and the two Christian myths that prevent marital intimacy.   Thanks for Listening!   If your marriage is in a crisis, consider doing a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. You can talk to him for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. For more details visit: https://www.davideclark...

A Master at Avoiding Intimacy

October 29, 2019 09:00 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

Beginning with a personal story, Dr. Clarke describes the many ways an intimacy avoider avoids intimacy. Read the first chapter of Married but Lonely for free on my website: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/married-but-lonely   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.      

I Married An Intimacy Avoider

October 22, 2019 08:30 - 12 minutes - 17.7 MB

In this opening podcast of Dr. Clarke's Married But Lonely series, he gives a quiz that will determine if you married an intimacy avoider.   Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.    For more information on Dr. David Clarke such as books, phone advice sessions, marriage intensives, and more visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com

Difficult Topics

October 15, 2019 09:00 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to talk about difficult topics with your spouse.   He will teach you some key strategies from his new book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars.   For more information and resources from Dr. David Clarke check out his website at: https://www.davideclarkephd.com Thanks for listening!

The Train

October 08, 2019 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about boarding the train.    Read the first chapter of Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars for free here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/men-are-clams-women-are-crowbars   If your marriage is in a crisis, consider doing a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. You can talk to him for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marria...

Couple Talk Times

October 01, 2019 09:00 - 11 minutes - 15.9 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to schedule Couple Talk Times.   If your marriage is in a crisis, consider doing a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. You can talk to him for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. To learn more visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/book-online/phone-advice-session   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscr...

Clams & Crowbars #3

September 24, 2019 09:30 - 14 minutes - 20.5 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, I will continue in my series on my new book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars. I will talk about how husbands can come up with more things to talk about with their wife. Thanks for listening!   For more information visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com                

Clams & Crowbars #2

September 17, 2019 09:00 - 11 minutes - 16.1 MB

On this episode of the I Don’t Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke continues in his series based on his new book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars.  You can read the first chapter for free! https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/men-are-clams-women-are-crowbars   If your marriage is in a crisis, consider doing a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. More information can be found on his website at: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/book-online   Thank for listening! Plea...

Clams & Crowbars #1

September 10, 2019 09:00 - 13 minutes - 18.9 MB

When was the last time you had a deep, personal conversation with your husband? Dr. David Clarke shares his unique and humorous insights for bridging the gender gap and getting your Clam to open up and engage in real communication. Your Clam will listen, he will talk, and the two of you will be close and happy   Dr. David Clarke is starting a new series of podcasts based on his new book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars - The Dos and Don’ts of Getting Your Man to Open Up. This book has j...

I Did My Absolute Best

September 05, 2019 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.2 MB

This is the last episode of the My Spouse Wants Out series. In this episode, Dr. David Clarke will answer some common questions about his approach, and also offer up some encouragement. Next week, we'll kick off a brand new series on Dr. Clarke's new book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars. The Dos and Don'ts of Getting Your Man to Open Up.   For more information, books, and resources from Dr. David Clarke, visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/    Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: ...

The Rest of Matthew 18

September 03, 2019 09:00 - 13 minutes - 18.5 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want A Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke will teach you how to Matthew 18 your spouse.   If you have a question that would like to have potentially read/answered on the show, you can submit your question to: [email protected]    Click Here for more information, books, and resources from Dr. David Clarke: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/   Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/drdavidclarke

Matthew 18 Your Spouse

August 29, 2019 09:00 - 11 minutes - 15.5 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want A Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke will teach you how to Matthew 18 your spouse.   We want to hear from you!  If you have a question that would like to have potentially read/answered on the show, you can submit your question to: [email protected]    For more information, books, and resources from Dr. David Clarke check out his website: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/ Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. Thanks for listening!

Speaking Truth to MORE Stupidity

August 27, 2019 09:00 - 14 minutes - 19.8 MB

In this episode, Dr. David Clarke continues in his My Spouse Wants Out Series. This is the second part to the episode speaking truth to stupidity.   For more information, books, and resources visit: http://davideclarkephd.com/   If your marriage is in a crisis, consider doing a phone or email advice session with Dr. Clarke. More details can be found by clicking here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/book-online   We want to hear from you!   If you have a question that you woul...

Speaking Truth to Stupidity

August 20, 2019 09:00 - 16 minutes - 22.3 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke continues in his My Spouse Wants Out Series.  He will revisit some of the top ten lame excuses for ending a marriage, and teach you what to do when you're confronted by your sinning spouse with these stupid excuses.   Thanks for listening!   For more information and resources from Dr. David Clarke, visit: http://davideclarkephd.com/      

Whack a Sinning Spouse

August 15, 2019 09:30 - 12 minutes - 16.8 MB

This is the 19th installment in this series on My Spouse Wants Out.     You can listen to all of the previous podcast episodes if you’ve got a spouse who has dropped the bomb on you I Want Out, I Don’t Love you anymore,  this series is exactly what you need!   You’ll learn how to fight back, when they have no Biblical reason to divorce you, they just WANT to.    For my entire detailed plan of action get my book I Don’t Love You Anymore. Available here: http://davideclarkephd.com/...

I'm Done With You

August 12, 2019 09:30 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke continues in his series on what to do when your spouse wants a divorce.   If you are in a marital crisis, consider having a phone or email advice session with Dr. Clarke. He will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. To learn more visit: http://davideclarkephd.com/Ask-Dr-Clarke    Please remember to rate and review this podcast if you are listening to it ...

My Spouse Wants Out (Launch the Missiles Pt. 2)

August 05, 2019 10:30 - 15 minutes - 21 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce podcast, Dr. David Clarke continues in his series on my spouse wants out. This is the second part of the episode entitled, launch the missiles.   Ask Dr. Clarke If you have a question or a success story you would like to have  potentially answered/read on the show, you can email Dr. Clarke at: [email protected] For more information such as books, phone or email advice service, marriage intensives, and more visit: http://davideclarkeph...

My Spouse Wants Out (Launch the Missiles Pt. 1)

July 29, 2019 10:30 - 13 minutes - 18 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast,  Dr. David Clarke continues in his series on what to do when your spouse says "I want a Divorce."  Now we're finally at the point where your gonna start publicly launching missiles, and attacking, really counter attacking your spouse  who wants out of the marriage. We're going to shake him or her up big time. I'm convinced, that's what you do with a serious sinner. When he or she is that far gone.   Thanks for listening!   Visi...

My Spouse Wants Out (Look for Sexual Sin)

July 22, 2019 11:00 - 16 minutes - 22.6 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to look for sexual sin in your spouse.   If you are in a marital crises, consider dong a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. You can speak with him for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy to put into place that can give you the best chance to save your marriage. You can learn more by clicking here: http://davideclarkephd.com/Ask-Dr-Clarke   Thanks for listening!

My Spouse Wants Out Pt. 15 (Tell the Kids the Truth Pt.II)

July 15, 2019 11:00 - 14 minutes - 20.3 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke continues in the My Spouse Wants Out Series. This episode is part 2 on telling your kids the truth.   Ask Dr. Clarke a Question:   If you have a question that you would like Dr. Clarke to potentially read/answer on the show, please email us at: [email protected]    Thanks for Listening!   Follow Dr. Clarke on Social Media: Facebook @davideclarkephd Instagram @drdavidclarke  

My Spouse Wants Out Pt. 14 (Tell the Kids the Truth)

July 08, 2019 11:00 - 13 minutes - 19.2 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce podcast, we've come to the point in this my spouse wants a divorce process where it's time to tell your kids what's going on.   The awful truth is your spouse has decided to divorce you. Your kids need to know the truth. I'm going to share how to tell your children and what to tell them. Then I'm going to share why it's so important to tell them.   If you are in a marital crises, consider my phone advice service. You can talk to me for 45...

My Spouse Wants Out Part 12 (Your Attorney)

July 01, 2019 11:00 - 13 minutes - 17.9 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to find the right Attorney. If your sinning spouse pushes for divorce, and files, you are going to war. Over money, over your kids, over your future. You need an Attorney who is tough, experienced, and who will fight for you.   If you are in a martial crises, consider my phone advice service. You can talk to me for 45 minutes and I will give you a strategy to put into place that will give you the best...

My Spouse Wants Out Part 11 ( Build Your Support Team)

June 24, 2019 11:00 - 11 minutes - 15.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Wan't a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke continues his series on what to do when your Spouse says, "I want out." He will talk about building your support team on this episode. For more resources and information about Dr. Clarke, click here: https://linktr.ee/drdavidclarke

My Spouse Wants Out Part 10 (Rely on God)

June 17, 2019 11:00 - 11 minutes - 15.3 MB

On this episode of The I Don’t Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the foundational action steps of relying on God.    For more resources and information about Dr. David Clarke, click here:https://linktr.ee/drdavidclarke   If you are in a marital crisis, consider my phone advice service. You can talk to me for 45 minutes and I will give you a strategy that will empower you and give you the best chance to save your marriage. My phone advice service is explained on my ...

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