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The Enough is Enough Podcast

223 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 months ago - ★★★★★ - 173 ratings

Are you tired of feeling trapped and controlled by your narcissistic partner? Do you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells or being manipulated into doing things you don't want to do? It's time to break free and take back control of your life. Dr. David Clarke will help you learn the red flags of narcissistic behavior, the tactics they use to control their partners, and most importantly, how to escape their grip once and for all. Join clinical psychologist and author Dr. David Clarke as we dive into the mind of a narcissist and uncover the truth behind their toxic behavior. From gaslighting to love-bombing, we'll break down the tactics they use and provide you with the tools you need to protect yourself and break free from their grip. Don't let your narcissistic partner continue to control you. It's time to take action and reclaim your power because "You've Had Enough of Your Narcissist." Start your journey to healing and freedom today!

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Episodes

What To Do When Your Spouse Wants Out

May 11, 2021 09:30 - 24 minutes - 34 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke once again sits down with Laurel Slade-Waggoner to discuss his book My Spouse Wants Out - How to Get Angry, Fight Back, and Save Your Marriage. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

How To Speak The Foreign Language Of Narcissism

May 04, 2021 10:00 - 23 minutes - 31.8 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke site down once again with Laurel Slade-Waggoner to discuss how to dialogue effectively with a narcissist. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

How Pastors and Counselors Misunderstand Abuse

April 27, 2021 09:30 - 25 minutes - 34.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr David Clarke joins Author and Licensed Mental Health Counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner to discuss the classic and harmful advice that Christian "helpers" give to abused spouses. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

Create Your Divorce Recovery Team

April 20, 2021 09:30 - 12 minutes - 16.7 MB

No one recovers from divorce alone; you need a team of faithful supporters. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.  

Stay Single Until You Fully Recover From Your Divorce

April 13, 2021 09:30 - 14 minutes - 20.4 MB

Reasons to not date until you've done all the work in my divorce recovery process.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.  I Didn't Want a Divorce Now What Book: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what

Don't Feel Guilt For Divorcing Your Abusive Spouse

April 06, 2021 09:30 - 16 minutes - 23.2 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke discusses how you can get rid of the false guilt for divorcing your abusive spouse. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If you would like to purchase Dr Clarke's new book, I Didn't Want a Divorce, Now What? Click Here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what  

Chronic Abuse is a Biblical Reason for Divorce

March 30, 2021 09:30 - 14 minutes - 19.6 MB

The Biblical case for chronic abuse - physical and/or emotional - as the third reason for Divorce. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If you would like to get a copy of my book I Didn't Want a Divorce, Now What? Click here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what

You Divorced Your Spouse for a Biblical Reason

March 23, 2021 09:30 - 14 minutes - 20.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke discusses his new book I Didn't Want a Divorce, Now What? Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.    

What to do if Your Spouse Divorced You for no Biblical Reason

March 16, 2021 09:30 - 13 minutes - 18.9 MB

If your spouse divorced you for no biblical reason, your spouse is 100% at fault for the divorce. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. I Didn't Want a Divorce, Now What? Book: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what

Get God on Your Divorce Recovery Team

March 09, 2021 10:30 - 15 minutes - 21 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke discusses why you cannot fully heal and get a re-set without God's help. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. I Didn't Want a Divorce, Now What? Book. https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what  

God is Still in the Divorce Recovery Business

March 02, 2021 10:30 - 13 minutes - 17.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how two divorced spouses recovered and built new and better lives. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. Pre-Order my new book I Didn't Want a Divorce, Now What?https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what

You're Not Alone in Your Divorce Recovery

February 23, 2021 10:30 - 13 minutes - 19 MB

Two practical things you can do to feel God's presence in your divorce recovery. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in crisis, you can talk to Dr. Clarke directly by scheduling a phone advice session with him. Simply email Dr. Clarke at: [email protected] to setup a date and time to speak with him.

There is No Such Thing as an Amicable Divorce

February 16, 2021 10:30 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke explodes the myth of the amicable divorce. Divorce is always awful and painful, but there is a way to fully recover. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more helpful marriage resources, visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

The 5 Stages of Couple Prayer

February 10, 2021 00:33 - 14 minutes - 19.4 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke will teach you how to get deeper in your prayers as a couple. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

How to Pray as a Couple

February 02, 2021 10:30 - 12 minutes - 16.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke will discuss how to pray together as a couple. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. https://www.davideclarkephd.com

How to Avoid the Marriage Killers

January 19, 2021 10:30 - 20 minutes - 37.9 MB

How to stay away from sinful behaviors that will destroy your marriage. If your marriage is in a crisis, you can talk to Dr. Clarke directly by scheduling a phone advice session with him. Simply email Dr. Clarke at: [email protected] to setup a date and time to speak with him. CONNECT WITH DR. DAVID CLARKE ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  YOUTUBE | http://www.youtube.com/c/DrDavidClarke  INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/drdavidclarke/ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/davidecla...

How to Listen to Your Spouse

January 12, 2021 10:30 - 15 minutes - 21.3 MB

The Do's and Don'ts of listening to your spouse. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

Make Time to Talk as a Couple

January 05, 2021 10:30 - 14 minutes - 20.3 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr David Clarke talks about how to make time to talk as a couple. You can use your time together to create spiritual and emotional intimacy. If your marriage is in a crisis, you can talk to Dr. Clarke directly by scheduling a phone advice session with him. Simply email Dr. Clarke at: [email protected] to setup a date and time to speak with him. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

(Best of 2020) My Spouse Wants Out Part 1

December 29, 2020 10:30 - 13 minutes - 18.6 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast,  Dr. Clarke discusses what to do when your spouse says, "I don't love you anymore." What Do You Do? Discarding popular advice to use romance and sweetness to draw a wandering spouse back into the marriage, Dr. David Clarke lays out an action plan based on Matthew 18. It turns the tables on the divorce-minded spouse and helps the injured spouse regain confidence, power, and control-and creates the best chance of saving and rebuilding th...

(Best of 2020) Enough is ENOUGH- Part 2

December 22, 2020 10:30 - 8 minutes - 12.3 MB

On this episode, Dr. David Clarke will discuss what many church leaders say about abuse, and what the Bible says about abuse. I'm going to show you Biblically why it is ok to leave your abuser.         Not to divorce, but to separate.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.    

Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life podcast featuring Dr. David Clarke

December 15, 2020 10:30 - 32 minutes - 44.3 MB

Dr. David Clarke joins Christian Counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner on her podcast for a discussion about Dr. Clarke's book Enough is Enough - How to leave an abusive relationship. Thanks for listening! Click the link to check out Laurel's new podcast: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/podcast    

(The Best of 2020) The High Cost of Divorce

December 08, 2020 10:30 - 13 minutes - 18.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the high cost of divorce. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in a crisis, consider Dr. Clarke's phone advice service. You can talk to him for 45 minutes and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. Learn More: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/book-online/phone-advice-session

How To Have Deep Personal Conversations With Your Spouse

December 01, 2020 10:30 - 20 minutes - 27.6 MB

In this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to have deep personal conversations with your spouse. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in a crisis, you can talk to Dr. Clarke directly by scheduling a phone advice session with him. Click here to learn more about Dr. Clarke's phone advice service. https://www.davideclarkephd.com/bookings-checkout/phone-advice-session  

How to Have Great Sex in Marriage

November 24, 2020 10:30 - 18 minutes - 25.8 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the critical-and often missing-ingredient for great love-making. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in a crisis, consider doing a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. You can talk to him for forty-five minutes, and he will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best opportunity to save your marriage. Click here to learn more:ht...

Your Mom and Your View of God

November 17, 2020 10:30 - 16 minutes - 23 MB

How you see your mother has everything to do with how you see God. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.  

How to Get the Best Closeness in Marriage

November 10, 2020 10:30 - 22 minutes - 30.3 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke tells us how to get the best closeness in marriage. "When you put God at the center of your marriage, He will give you unending love and passion." Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. Dr. Clarke's new book The Secret to Becoming Soulmates is now available. Click here to get your copy: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/the-secret-to-becoming-soulmates

Emotional Intimacy Can't Keep You In Love

November 03, 2020 10:30 - 21 minutes - 29.1 MB

If all you have is emotional intimacy, you'll end up drifting apart or wanting a divorce. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If your marriage is in a crisis, I recommend doing a phone advice session with me. You can talk to me for 45 minutes, and I will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. You can email me directly to setup a phone advice session at: [email protected]

Your Dad and Your View of God

October 27, 2020 09:30 - 16 minutes - 22.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about day 1 of his brand new devotional: You see God the same way you see your dad. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. The Secret to Becoming Soulmates Book :https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/the-secret-to-becoming-soulmates  

Why Sex isn't enough to keep you in love

October 20, 2020 09:30 - 19 minutes - 26.3 MB

On this episode of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr David Clarke teaches us how sex is wonderful and exciting, but it is not designed to carry your relationship on its own.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   PRE ORDER NOW:  The Secret to Becoming Soulmates. https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/the-secret-to-becoming-soulmates

Marriage is Impossible

October 13, 2020 09:30 - 20 minutes - 27.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr David Clarke talks about why marriage is impossible without God's presence and power.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   PRE ORDER THE SECRET TO BECOMING SOULMATES: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/the-secret-to-becoming-soulmates    

The Secret to Becoming Soulmates

October 06, 2020 09:30 - 20 minutes - 27.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, we'll talk about how Sandy (The Blonde) and I discovered the secret to deep, lasting intimacy. Pre Order my new devotional book for couples called The Secret to Becoming Soulmates by clicking the link below: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/the-secret-to-becoming-soulmates Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.  

The High Cost of Not Leaving Your Abusive Spouse

September 29, 2020 09:30 - 20 minutes - 28 MB

The Top 10 consequences of NOT leaving your abusive spouse. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review this podcast. If your marriage is on the brink of divorce, you can receive one on one advice from Dr. Clarke through his phone advice service. Click here to schedule your phone advice session with Dr Clarke.https://www.davideclarkephd.com/bookings-checkout/phone-advice-session

Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy w/Laurel Slade-Waggoner

September 22, 2020 09:30 - 23 minutes - 31.6 MB

Dr David Clarke sits down with Laurel Slade-Waggoner to discuss how to stay sane and strong when the narcissist in your life is trying to control or abuse you. Laurel breaks down all the wisdom in her new book, " Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy."  Order Now - https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop   Thanks for listening!   Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

More Stupid Excuses to End a Marriage

September 15, 2020 09:30 - 16 minutes - 22.1 MB

The 23 Honorable Mention entries in my lame Excuse to End a Marriage contest with my snappy responses. For more marriage building resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/ Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review this podcast. Thanks for listening!

How To Recover From Adultery

September 08, 2020 09:30 - 20 minutes - 28.7 MB

An overview of my action plan to help a couple heal completely from adultery. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

What to do if Your Spouse says no to Marriage Counseling

September 01, 2020 09:30 - 17 minutes - 23.9 MB

What to do if your spouse won't go to Marriage Counseling and is determined to divorce you. For more marriage saving resources visit:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

If your wounded spouse says yes to marriage counseling

August 25, 2020 10:30 - 13 minutes - 19 MB

My two stage strategy to heal and build a new marriage. For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/  If your marriage is on the brink of divorce, it can be helpful to get some guidance on how you can stop it.  You can talk to me for 45 minutes, and I will give you a strategy that will empower you, and give you the best chance to save your marriage. To schedule a phone advice session, email me at: [email protected]  

How to Reach Out to Your Divorced Minded Spouse Part 2

August 18, 2020 09:30 - 15 minutes - 21.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the final two strategic contacts with your divorce-minded spouse: asking her to suspend the divorce and enter marriage counseling. Thanks for Listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage saving resources visit:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

How To Reach Out To Your Divorce-Minded Spouse Part 1

August 11, 2020 09:30 - 16 minutes - 22.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the first two strategic contacts with your divorce-minded spouse: telling her about your recovery process. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/  

The Letter That Can Save Your Marriage

August 04, 2020 09:30 - 17 minutes - 23.6 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about writing your big 7 letter and how it can help you win your spouse back. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. If you need marital help and/or guidance you can book a phone advice session with Dr. Clarke. To learn more visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/bookings-checkout/phone-advice-session

To Win Your Spouse Back You Must be in Emotional Recovery

July 28, 2020 09:30 - 17 minutes - 24.6 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to be emotionally healthy. Thank for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

To Win Your Spouse Back You Must be in Spiritual Recovery

July 21, 2020 09:00 - 17 minutes - 23.5 MB

Without a solid spiritual recovery, you will be divorced. It's hard to divorce someone who is walking closely with God. Get the full detailed plan from my ebook 'I Destroyed My Marriage' here: 👉 https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-destroyed-my-marriage-ebook    Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage saving resources visit my website: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

What Not To Do During Your Separation

July 14, 2020 09:00 - 21 minutes - 28.9 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about the classic mistakes you must avoid during your separation. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources by Dr. David Clarke visit his website at: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

How To Create a Clear Separation Agreement

July 07, 2020 09:00 - 20 minutes - 28.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke talks about how to create a clear separation agreement. You don't just leave your home; you leave your home with a solid separation agreement with your spouse.   Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.   For more marriage saving resources visit: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/  

Why You Have To Leave Your Home Part 2

June 30, 2020 09:00 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David E Clarke continues in his series on I destroyed my marriage, and why you have to leave your home. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more tools and resources to help save your marriage visit, https://www.davideclarkephd.com/

Why You Have To Leave Your Home

June 23, 2020 09:30 - 10 minutes - 14 MB

On this episode, Dr. David Clarke explains why you need to leave your home if you severely damaged your marriage. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. For more marriage saving resources from Dr. Clarke visit:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/      

3 Essential Things You Must Do To Save Your Marriage

June 16, 2020 09:00 - 12 minutes - 17 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. Clarke talks about the three essential things you MUST do to save your marriage. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. Click Here to Get The I Destroyed My Marriage Book:https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-destroyed-my-marriage-ebook  

I Destroyed My Marriage (Part 3)

June 09, 2020 12:00 - 13 minutes - 18 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, we continue the I Destroyed My Marriage series and talk about the 5 things NOT to do when you're trying to win back your spouse. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. I Destroyed My Marriage Ebook https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-destroyed-my-marriage-ebook

I Destroyed My Marriage Part 2

June 02, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 18.5 MB

Don't quit and rely on God because God loves a comeback.  I Destroyed My Marriage Book: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-destroyed-my-marriage Thanks for Listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review.

I Destroyed My Marriage (How To Win Your Spouse Back) Part 1

May 26, 2020 11:00 - 12 minutes - 17.7 MB

On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke gives an overview of his stop your divorce plan. Preview the First Chapter of his new book I Destroyed My Marriage: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-destroyed-my-marriage  

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