Lyn shares a powerful case study on how to reignite attention and passion in your relationship, by telling the story of a couple who were at a crossroads, with the husband feeling disconnected and consumed by work. However, a two-minute conversation changed everything. The wife, instead of getting angry or resentful, expressed her sadness and understanding of his commitments. This 'vulnerability' allowed the husband to see her in a new light and choose to prioritise their relationship.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

Communication is key: The case study highlights the importance of open and honest communication in a relationship. Both partners need to express their needs and emotions in a vulnerable way from a place of love & understanding.
Understanding each other's needs: The husband and wife in this case study had different needs - the husband craved freedom while the wife desired love and connection. By understanding and accepting each other's needs, they were able to find a balance and reignite their passion.
Vulnerability can lead to positive change: The wife's vulnerability, from a place of love and understanding towards her husband's work commitments, created a shift in their relationship. It allowed the husband to see her perspective and make the choice to prioritise their relationship.
Freedom and choice: Men in relationships often desire freedom and the ability to make their own choices. By giving them the space to make decisions without feeling criticised or judged, they are more likely to choose to show up and prioritise the love for their partner.

BEST MOMENTS


"A two-minute conversation changed his understanding of his wife, himself, and relationships, and prevented divorce." 


"He felt truly supported. Whereas before, in these sort of situations, his wife's pain had led to her being angry, or feeling frustrated and coming across as judgmental and condemning of his choices, which only served to push him further away." 


"Suddenly, out of his own desire, he started to think about how he could show up for her. Thinking of ways he could actually be her hero." 


"Her vulnerability during those two minutes was a gift for him. He was given a clear opening where he could lead their relationship into glory."


ABOUT THE HOST


Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert


Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.


She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.


Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.


HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.


Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.

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