52: Struggling To Relax = Struggling To Orgasm & Yoni Mapping Therapy w/ Freya

Freya Graf is a lovely Holistic Sex Educator & Yoni Mapping Therapy from Australia. She describes what yoni means and her process of her massages and coaching. She helps women understand their anatomy and get familiar with her pleasure center. Then she discusses how tight pelvic floors/ pussys cause pain and other problems in the body. How to find a good yoni/ pelvic floor therapist/ practitioner in your area that you can trust. She touches on body shame on our breast/vulvas. How most women experience some sort of trauma/ shame from all societal messaging and pressures. The guilt around pleasure for women and how we don't even feel worthy of it. Everyone loves talking about sex, so keep chatting about it with people and this removes the shame! Why women put men's needs first and how it's idealized in this society. How female bodies take a slow process to get turned on and very different from men. How to use your voice to ask for your needs to be met as a woman. Finally, she discusses if you have trouble relaxing why you also have trouble receiving pleasure.  

PS: There was a thunderstorm where Freya was, so I'm sorry for some of the glitchiness in the chat.  

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