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Han and Matt Know It All

164 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 165 ratings

Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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#120: The Han and Matt Know It All Finale

December 22, 2019 01:29 - 2 hours - 134 MB

After 10,000 years, Han and Matt have finally wrapped the show. To watch the episode with our lovely mugs and our disruptive kitties (which was recorded live on Facebook!), check it out here if you're able: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hanandmattknowitall/permalink/585309755619000/ Here's loosely what we discussed: Reminiscing about the history of the show! 2019 personal/life updates for us and the cats Updates on questions and things from listeners like you! A summary of our va...

#119: Han and Matt Carpool to Sea

June 19, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 50.1 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 9th, 2019, and beyond, including: NOTE: We're changing the $20 Patron Hangout Perk to be a 1-Time Hangout Effective Immediately Ask Ellie: "Wife's request for quiet time 'mindless' TV watching confounds husband" "Harry Potter Totally Sucks" Ask Ellie: "My true love might walk away because of my ex's meddling" Carolyn Hax: "My pregnant friend's husband needs to shut up already about her wei...

#118: Han and Matt Need Climate Advice (ft. Sara Peach)

June 12, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 53.3 MB

Han and Matt are joined by climate change journalist and senior editor of Yale Climate Connections Sara Peach, columnist of the one-of-a-kind and invaluable Ask Sara! We interview Sara and discuss listener questions and topical questions from around the web on the topic of climate change: Sara Peach: Columbia Journalism Review: "Reporter explains local effects of climate change through advice column" Ask Sara on Yale Climate Connections #88 Han and Matt Sweat It Out Discussion on Ask ...

BONUS: West Coast Meetup Details

May 18, 2019 02:23 - 5 minutes - 4.35 MB

Greetings, Hamkittens! Long time no see. But soon, we will be on the West Coast for our two-week vacation and coming to a bar near you! Check out all the details below, RSVP on Facebook, and we might even wow you by knowing your name before you even introduce yourself. Whoooaaaa! HAMKIA Bay Area Meetup Sunday, May 19, 5-7 PM The Golden Squirrel in Oakland, California HAMKIA Portland Meetup! Monday, May 27, 6-8 PM Bye & Bye in Portland, Oregon HAMKIA Seattle Meetup! Thursd...

#117: Han and Matt Embrace Cryptid Romance

May 08, 2019 09:30 - 59 minutes - 41.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 28th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:   San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd [CW: Self-Harm] Ask a Manager: "What to say if a coworker asks about my self harm scars"   Ask a Manager: "Should I say something about my coworker’s old self-harm scars?" Dear Prudence: ...

#116: Han and Matt Charge a Cover

May 01, 2019 09:30 - 59 minutes - 41 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 21st, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS: San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd Miss Conduct: "This children's birthday party has a cover charge" Ask Natalie: "Found out your engagement ring is a fake?" Care and Feeding: "Who the Heck Is Patrick?" Carolyn Hax: "Teach...

#115: Han and Matt Accept Your Wine

April 17, 2019 09:30 - 59 minutes - 41.3 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 7th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS: San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd Ask The Salty Waitress: "I took home the unopened bottle of wine I brought to the dinner party" Ask a Manager: "I wet my pants at my new job" [CW: Weight Loss] Ask Amy: "Wife's extreme weigh...

#114: Han and Matt Petition Parental Perspectives

April 10, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 51.6 MB

Han and Matt and their most special guest yet tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 31st, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS: San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd Ask a Manager: "my boss brings her dog to work and he pees by my desk" Dear Annie: "Already at a good weight" Captain Awkward Guest Post: "When Woke Becomes...

#113: Han and Matt Disinvite Fascist Relatives

April 03, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 44.6 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 24th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS: San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd Captain Awkward: "Fox News, Immigrant Family, and the F******* Wedding Invite List" Ask APW: "Why Didn't My MOH Invite Me To Her Wedding?" Dear Prudence: "Help! I Found Out My Boyfriend Che...

#112: Han and Matt Shame the Shamers

March 27, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 44.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 17th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS: San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd Work Friend: "After Servicing a Home Can I Get Paid to Service My Clients Other Needs?" Ask a Manager: "my team got matching tattoos ... and other lack of boundaries at my start-up" [CW: Fa...

#111: Han and Matt Hail Brandy Jensen

March 20, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 48.7 MB

Han and Matt were so excited to be joined by the one and only Brandy "Ask a Fuck-Up" Jensen! You may have seen her Tweets cited on every single topic on every single news outlet, and you'll be relieved to know that Brandy's brilliance is actually and rightfully rewarded monetarily on The Outline where she answers questions every week on one of the only good things to come out of 2018. Here's what we discussed: Ask a Fuck-Up Brand Jensen on Twitter The Outline: "I Can't Tweet for One We...

#110: Han and Matt Kiss and Tell

March 13, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 47.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 3rd, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUP: Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM Facebook Event [CW: Fat-Shaming] r/relationship_advice: "Boyfriend [25M] told me he used to ask out "fat girls" for fun. Am I [22F] right to be disgusted by him?" Dear Prudence: "Help! I Caught My Day Care Provider Breastfeeding My Baby." Carolyn Hax: "Should a singl...

#109: Han and Matt Talk Reddit Relationships (Ft. Moderator ResidentBlackGuy)

March 06, 2019 10:30 - 1 hour - 45.6 MB

Han and Matt write a love letter to Reddit Relationships and have the honor of interviewing moderator Alex "ResidentBlackGuy" Spruiell! During the interview portion of the show, they discuss how Alex became a moderator, what makes r/relationships the best subreddit for advice, the worst partner so far of 2019, and much more! ResidentBlackGuy Alex Spruiell on Twitter Podcast: Black & Yellow SPONSOR: LOLA: The female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liner...

#108: Han and Matt Practice Safe Smooching

February 27, 2019 10:30 - 1 hour - 43.7 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 17th, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUP: Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM Facebook Event Miss Lonelyhearts: "Does new girlfriend have eyes for hers or hims?" Listener Wants to be Supportive, but Doesn't Want to Offend: "How to respect someone's gender if you're not sure they're transgender" Listener Mary, Veiled Reckoner: "How Do You K...

#107: Han and Matt Upgrade Their Metaphors

February 20, 2019 10:30 - 1 hour - 41.9 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 10th, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUP: Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM Facebook Event Ask a Manager: "we have twice-daily mandatory group therapy at work" "my office has a mandatory feelings chart" "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs – at every meeting" Ask Amy: "Offensive remarks too close for comfort" Caroly...

#106: Han and Matt Eat Candy Hearts

February 13, 2019 10:30 - 59 minutes - 137 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 3rd, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUP: Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM Facebook Event Ask Amy: "Boyfriend disappears into dark web" There are, thankfully, a handful of games where you play as a black female protagonist, though that list does not include "Far Cry: New Dawn" (Source) Ask a Manager: "my boyfriend thinks only bad candida...

#105: Han and Matt Entreat Queer Abby

February 06, 2019 10:30 - 58 minutes - 42.7 MB

Han and Matt make their return with a full batch of queer queeries and are joined by special guestpert, Nicole J. Georges AKA Queer Abby! We discuss queer impostor syndrome, being closeted for fear of bigoted parents, normalizing volunteering your pronouns, and more! Queer Abby Nicole J. Georges on Twitter & Instagram Graphic Memoir: Calling Dr. Laura Podcast: Sagittarian Matters [CW: Bi-Erasure, Queer Gatekeeping until 25 minute mark] Queer Abby: "I’m A Queer Snob" SPONSOR: Podi...

#104: Han and Matt Ruin Your Surprise

January 23, 2019 10:30 - 1 hour - 51.5 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of January 13th, 2019, and beyond, including: BONUS: New P.O. Box! Han Malyn & Matt Albrecht P.O. Box 75532 Washington, DC 20013 [The Other] Asking For a Friend: "I Only Have Two Friends. Is There Anything Wrong With That?" Ask a Manager: "my coworker is a blood drive bully" Ask a Manager: "my office is requiring us to disclose all medications we take" Ask APW: "My Family Told Me About My Bo...

#103: Han and Matt Pursue Their Dreams

January 16, 2019 10:30 - 1 hour - 49 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of January 6th, 2019, and beyond, including: r/amitheasshole: "AITA for very rarely/almost never wanting to go to restaurants because my girlfriend makes food that's just as good, if not better, than restaurant food?" [Content Warning: cancer] Ask a Manager: "my coworkers complained that the look of my breasts post-mastectomy is making them uncomfortable" Dear Abby: "Mom Confesses To Undermining Schol...

#102: Han and Matt Spotlight Jessica Weisberg

January 09, 2019 10:30 - 1 hour - 50.5 MB

Han and Matt are joined by Jessica Weisberg, author of "Asking for a Friend: Three Centuries of Advice on Life, Love, Money, and Other Burning Questions from a Nation Obsessed" to discuss this amazing gift to advice column lovers plus some bonus historical moments: Jessica Weisberg "Asking for a Friend" on Amazon 10 Superb Questions on the History of Advice Columns Much love to the many listeners of ours on Facebook who helped contribute to these questions! John Dunton: "But REALLY...

#101: Han and Matt Appreciate Their Gifts

January 02, 2019 10:30 - 57 minutes - 39.6 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 23rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Am I Just Being Jealous?" Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: "'Confirmed bachelor' should enjoy his freedom" Miss Manners: "Two Breakfast Items? How Dare You" Social Q's: "What's Wrong With Books for Christmas?" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Mom Made an Epic Reply-All Blunder, and Oh What a Mess." SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we p...

#100: The Best & Worst Advice Column Humans of 2018 (Ft. Ask a Manager and Captain Awkward)

December 26, 2018 10:30 - 1 hour - 49.1 MB

Join hosts Han and Matt and advice guest hosts Alison Green (Ask a Manager) and Jennifer Peepas (Captain Awkward) rage / reminisce about the worst advice column humans of 2018 as voted on by the listeners. SPONSOR: A Head Canon Productions Ruins Christmas (Soundcloud) A Head Canon Productions on YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Patreon Worst Coworker: "The Boss" in Ask a Manager's "My Dad Is Dating My Boss, and They Want Me to Go to Couples Therapy with Them" Dishonorable M...

#99: Han and Matt Unfollow Their Exes

December 19, 2018 10:30 - 56 minutes - 42 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 9th, 2018, and beyond, including: SPONSOR: A Head Canon Productions Ruins Christmas (Soundcloud) A Head Canon Productions on YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Patreon Ask a Manager: "An employee’s spouse emailed about his holiday bonus" Miss Manners: "No need to tip for a tweet" Social Q's: "If You Can’t Stop Name-Dropping, You’re Not Coming Skiing This Year" Dear Abby: "Man...

#98: Han and Matt Cry Over Everything

December 12, 2018 10:30 - 1 hour - 48.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 2nd, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask The Salty Waitress: "How do I tell a friend to keep their kids away from my party?" Dear Prudence: "Help! A Distant Friend Asked Me to Describe My Genitals Over Text" Tough Love: "Only You Can Prevent Single-People Problems" Asking for a Friend: "Your Ex Sucks but Capitalism Sucks More" Carolyn Hax: "An abusive ex is terminally ill. Should you help...

#97: Han and Matt Revisit Extramarital Affairs

December 05, 2018 10:30 - 58 minutes - 40.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 25th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Dana: "How Do I Convince My Girlfriend That I Want to Marry Her, Just Now Now?" Ask a Manager: "What do I say when I’m calling in sick for a mental health day?" Miss Conduct: "My sister has become a stranger" I Know Nothing Ask Me Anything: "How do I not get caught having an affair?" Savage Love: "His Wife of Thirty Years Now Identifies as Asexua...

#96: Han and Matt Buy Blackout Curtains

November 28, 2018 10:30 - 1 hour - 48.4 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 18th, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "By using fake online profiles to dig up dirt, mother shows her true face" Dear Abby: "Women's Opposing Viewpoints Could Doom Couple's Future" Miss Conduct: "How to say 'No presents please'" Savage Love: "New Next Door Neighbors Force Woman to Watch Them Fight, Fuck, Shit, Trim Pubes" Ask a Manager: "parents in my office are sticking non-...

#95: Han and Matt Give Seasonal Thanks

November 22, 2018 10:30 - 46 minutes - 34.2 MB

In a special Thanksgiving Holiday episode, Han and Matt discuss ways to survive the holiday and seasonally-relevant questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 11th, 2018, and beyond, including: Thank you and acknowledgement that we’re entering a Problematic Time of Year Holiday Advice Letter Categories I don’t celebrate; how do I shut down people who won’t leave it alone? Extremely extra relatives Food shame Office holiday parties Trump suppo...

#94: Han and Matt Return at Last

November 21, 2018 10:30 - 58 minutes - 42.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 4th, 2018, and beyond, including: SPONSOR: Sudio: Maker of high quality, stylish earbuds and headphones (use promo code "HANANDMATT" at checkout for 15% off your order!) Carolyn Hax: "Family doesn't support a single woman’s desire to adopt" Ask a Manager: "I overshared with my office about a Tinder date and it didn't work out" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Cousin Is Taking Advantage of My Mom...

#93: Han and Matt Cast Their Vote

November 06, 2018 10:30 - 1 hour - 46.6 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 28th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "my coworker signed me up for a racist organization as a joke" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Daughter Got Some Quack to Diagnose Her With ADHD, but I Think She’s Just Lazy." Queer Abby: "My Friend Keeps Saying #NotAllMen Type Crap" Miss Lonelyhearts: "No need to stick around for annual ghost visit" College Humor: "I Hate Scary Movies" Dear ...

#92: Han and Matt Haunt Your Balls

October 31, 2018 01:54 - 1 hour - 46 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 21st, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "Your husband may be cranking the hostility to 11" Ask a Manager: "my employee keeps adjusting himself while were talking" Ask Dr. NerdLove: "When Do I Disclose My Mental Illness?" Ask APW: "Is The Sexism Of The Wedding Industry Mirrored In My Relationship?" A Practical Wedding: "This Is How I've Learned To Deal With Emotional Labor" Que...

#91: Han and Matt Arrange Your Makeover

October 24, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 47.9 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 14th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Abby: "Make Life Easy" (AKA The One In Which Abby Advocates White-Washing Your Future Offspring's Names) The Twitter thread that kicked off this conversation Vogue: "Actually, 'Dear Abby,' I Like My 'Foreign Name' Just Fine, Thanks" NY Times: "No 'Foreign' Names for Children, Dear Abby Advised. Furious Parents Replied." Huffington Post: "Dear Abb...

#90: Han and Matt Live Their Truth

October 17, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 44.3 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 7th, 2018, and beyond, including: SPONSOR: Sudio: Maker of high quality, stylish earbuds and headphones (use promo code "HANANDMATT" at checkout for 15% off your order!) Dear Prudence: "I Told My Partner About My Sexual Assault. He Told Me to 'Get Over It.'" Ask a Manager: "my office does Fat Friday — and I have an eating disorder" Social Q's: "Dating After #MeToo" Ask APW: "Am I Overco...

#89: Han and Matt Escape from Reality

October 10, 2018 09:30 - 59 minutes - 35.5 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 30th, 2018, and beyond, including: BONUS: Han's Tattoo on Their Tattoo Artist's Instagram (and Han's Instagram) Listener Skyler Elmridge, Ingenious Blacksmith: "Should We Put a Spot for Pronouns On Our Wedding Place Cards?" Listener Insert Name Here: "Am I a Bad Queer?" Listener Quarrius, Nimble Geomancer: "What More Can I Do to Help My Friend Who Keeps Facing Abusive Jobs Everywhere He...

#88: Han and Matt Sweat It Out

October 03, 2018 09:30 - 57 minutes - 39.8 MB

CW: Skip to the 6:15 mark of the podcast if you want to avoid conversation about sexual assault. Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 23rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Climate Advice: "Should I tell my Republican friend that her Florida mansion is doomed by sea-level rise?" Sense & Sensitivity: "Teenage daughter apathetic about going to polls" Slate: "Help! Is My Couchsurfing Sister Using Us to Make a Fortune on Airbnb?" ...

#87: Han and Matt Burst Into Flames

September 26, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 36.7 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 16th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Prudence: "My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Not Trying Hard Enough to Orgasm From Vaginal Penetration Alone" Ask a Manager: "my coworker gives everyone the silent treatment for weeks" Ask Polly: "Should I Quit My Day Job to Write a Book?" Tough Love: "Help! I Hate My Girlfriend's Armpit Hair" r/relationships: "I[30] am having a mastectomy due to breast c...

#86: Han and Matt Brush Their Teeth

September 19, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 37.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 9th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "my office has a mandatory feelings chart" Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs – at every meeting" The Ethicist: "What Should I Do With Old Racist Memorabilia?" Dear Prudence: "My Boyfriend Tricked Me Into Becoming Friends With His Other Girlfriend" r/relationships: "My [41/F] husband [41M] does not bru...

#85: Han and Matt Report Your Grandmother

September 12, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 44.8 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 2nd, 2018, and beyond, including: BONUS: Opinion Overflow LIVE! Ask a Manager: "HR wants our personal cell numbers in our out-of-office messages so we can always be contacted" Ask a Manager: my manager shows up while I’m having chemotherapy to talk about work Ask a Manager: my boss made me leave a work note at a grave, company won’t tell us when someone is fired, and more Dear Marie...

#84: Han and Matt Kill the Mood

September 05, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 37.5 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of August 26th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "our CEO challenged someone to eat dead bugs" Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs – at every meeting" Ask a Queer Chick: "How Do I Stop Accidentally Misgendering My Co-Worker?" Ask APW: "My Sister Just Came Out As Trans And Wants To Be My Bridesmaid" Dear Abby: "Teen's Flannel Shirts Become Focus Of Fight...

What Would Miri Do? | Opinion Overflow #40

August 30, 2018 09:30 - 38 minutes - 22.6 MB

In part 2 of 2 this week's episodes, Han and Matt continue their conversation with Miri Mogilevsky! SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Miri Mogilevsky Brute Reason: Polyamory 201: "Monogamous for the Right Person" Miri on Twitter (as Sondosia) Miri's Homepage Miri on Patreon Listener C: "I'm Moving in with All Male Roommates and Acquaintances Keep Bringing up Rape" Listener Zovoq, Lamia Ravager: "Is everyone too overwhelmed for e-mail now? ...

#83: Han and Matt Commune with Miri

August 29, 2018 09:30 - 56 minutes - 38.5 MB

Han and Matt are joined by fellow Know-It-All-therapist-and-blogger-and-cancer-survivor-and-fiction-writer-and-gardener-and-total-cutie Miri Mogilevsky for a 2-parter and discussed recent advice column questions as well as listener questions! SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Miri Mogilevsky Brute Reason: Polyamory 201: "Monogamous for the Right Person" Miri on Twitter (as Sondosia) Miri's Homepage Miri on Patreon Non-Monogamy Help: "Ultimat...

#82: Han and Matt Proceed With Caution

August 22, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 44.7 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions entirely from listeners in this special episode, including: Listener The Blissful Nether Lich: "Where Do We Draw the Line for Throwing Out the Whole Historical Figure?" New York Times: "Prestigious Laura Ingalls Wilder Award Renamed Over Racial Insensitivity" Slate: "The Far Right’s Pedophilia Smear Campaign Is Working" Ravishly: "How To Love Something And Also Hold It Accountable, From My Favorite Murder's Biggest Fan" Wil Williams on Parasocial Rela...

BONUS: Kitty-Cats Know It All

August 21, 2018 09:30 - 20 minutes - 11.9 MB

When Han and Matt are away, the kitties are at play! Seven INCREDIBLE listeners banded together and recorded a parody episode of the show from the perspective of our cats, Mad-Eye Moody and Shadowcat, and the results are spot-on and utterly delightful. Here it is for all to share in our delight! Credit to: Marenthius, Reanimator of Flora Xantar, Fearless Aeronaut Quarrius, Nimble Geomancer Maewyn the Lacerator Princess Silentstrike Amelia Oric, Progress Seeker Ezavul, Angel of...

#81: Han and Matt Double the Fury

August 08, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 46.9 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 29th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask APW: "How Do We Make Our Non-Binary Guests Comfortable?" Queer Eye: "Sky's the Limit" Captain Awkward: "'When I told you my marriage is over, it wasn’t an invitation for advice on how to fix it.' + Summer Pledge Drive continues" Dear Prudence: "Is This Abuse or Just Lack of Sleep?" Ask a Manager: "my coworker brings her five kids to our work meetings"...

#80: Han and Matt Curb Their Gloating

August 01, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 38.7 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 22nd, 2018, and beyond, including: Matt Notes (Skip 5 minutes ahead if the below is not interesting to you!) Fantastical names: Are a Patron-Only perk going forward Leader Board: Will be retired on August 31st Emails: Can no longer all be responded to due to volume  Asking for a Friend: "My Houseguest Was a Brocialist Jerk. How Should I Respond?" Dear Wendy: "My New Boyfriend is Mad That M...

#79: Han and Matt Mull Monogamish Mysteries

July 25, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 47.2 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 15th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Do I Need To Fire My Friend?" Susan Fowler: "Reflecting On One Very, Very Strange Year At Uber" Refinery29: "Feminist Apparel CEO Fires Entire Staff After They Learn He's An Admitted Sexual Abuser" Daily Beast: "Ousted Billboard CEO John Amato Being Probed for Sexual Misconduct" The Cut: "Thinx Ex-Employee Accuses Miki Agrawal of Sexua...

#78: Han and Matt Plan a Tattoo

July 18, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 40.6 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 8th, 2018, and beyond, including: Listener Meetup in DC Saturday, July 21 at 6 PM - 10 PM Penn Social 801 E St NW, Washington, District of Columbia 20004 Han and Matt on the Ask a Manager Podcast Ask Amy: "Family friend is shocked by woman's film career" Ask APW: "What Do You Do When Your Husband Isn't Your Biggest Fan?" Dear Dharma: "Are We Sending Mixed Messages on Equality?" De...

#77: Han and Matt Agree to Disagree

July 10, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 158 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 1st, 2018, and beyond, including: Sense & Sensitivity: "A Very Talkative Friend Now Rides the Same Morning Train As Me And I Just Want My Quiet Time Back" Judge John Hodgman: "Singing Along to 'Hamilton' — at 'Hamilton'" Ask E. Jean: "How Do I Keep My Wedding Off Social Media?" Ask APW: "I Want My Friends To Be More Excited About My Polyamorous Engagement" Ask Amy: "Expectant parents want ...

#76: Han and Matt Pack Their Bags

June 29, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 45 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 17th, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "You have PTSD because you were abused. Don't beat yourself up." Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs at every meeting" Dear Fuck-Up: "How do you live when everything sucks?" Savage Love: "His Wife Has Two Boyfriends and He's Got Squat" Politico: "Young Trumpies Hit D.C." Care and Feeding: "My Kid Doesn't Wa...

#75: Han and Matt Respect Bodily Autonomy

June 21, 2018 09:30 - 57 minutes - 54.4 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 11th, 2018, and beyond, including: On Bodily Autonomy: Dear Jennifer: "My perfect girlfriend insists on getting breast implants" Sense & Sensitivity: "I'm concerned about teenage daughters posting model shots on Instagram" Ask Amy: "Girl pressed for nude photo should wear T-shirt instead" Ask Ellie: "I don't feel bad enough to end the affair I'm having" Savage Love: "Guy Alarmed, Yeah, B...

#74: Han and Matt Believe Your Illness

June 14, 2018 09:30 - 1 hour - 90.8 MB

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 3rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Captain Awkward: "Dudebro won't stop bugging me about another dudebro. I JUST WANNA DO MY JOB." Ask APW: "What Can I Do About A Partner Who Isn't Excited To Marry Me?" Carolyn Hax: "Mocking Yourself Isn't an Invitation for Others to Pile On" Dear Fuck-Up: "I Don't Think My Friend's Chronic Illness Is Real" Washington Post: "Dangerous unproven treatments f...

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