GBL087: What Should You Do First in Order to Get What You Want?

Are you not getting the outcomes you want in life? Do you find yourself struggling? Are you in bad relationship or around people that constantly lie to you? It’s easy to overlook the real cause of the problem. The problem isn’t a matter of luck. It’s not that you are a failure. It’s not the […]

Are you not getting the outcomes you want in life? Do you find yourself struggling? Are you in bad relationship or around people that constantly lie to you?

It’s easy to overlook the real cause of the problem. The problem isn’t a matter of luck. It’s not that you are a failure. It’s not the people around you that’s the biggest problem.

It’s that you’re attracting these into your life.

You are not the type of person yet that would have whatever it is that you want. For example, let’s say you have been trying to get a job but no company is calling you for an interview. It’s easy to get depressed about it and think you will never find a job.

But if we were to take a look at the type of person you were, we would uncover the real reasons. In your eyes, you see yourself as a failure. You compare yourself to friends who seem to have their life together. You fee depressed about that. You have no idea what it is you want to do in life. You’re angry at the world because you’re unhappy and this isn’t your fault.

You feel lonely and don’t have any friends. You are scared to talk to anyone cause you fear what they will think about you.

If you were hiring to fill a position in a company, would you hire this person? Of course you wouldn’t. Though these traits would not be asked about or mentioned on the resume or in the interview, you would be sending out this message.

You’re always sending out messages about your self without any verbal communication. Other people can sense it.

So to get what you want in life, you have to do this first.

Hope you enjoy today’s episode.