Understanding Unconscious Rules and Healing CPTSD, unconscious blockages, different approaches to healing and therapeutic process




(00:05) Hello


(03:01) Problems With the Way Mainstream Academic Psychology is Done


(05:50) Is Taking an Academic Serious Approach Necessary?


(07:44) Talking About the Importance of Words and the Way We Use Them


(11:39) Unconscious Rules That We All Live by


(14:59) An Example of an Unconscious Rule That Says “Don’t Heal”


(16:33) Talking About Gregory Bateson’s Double Bind Theory


(20:08) If You’re Running a Rule That Says “Don’t Heal”, Then It’s Not Happening


(23:55) That “Evil Nurse” That’s Torturing You is Probably a Little Child Inside You


(26:36) Should We Call Inner Critic Inner Abuser?``


(30:07) What is Inner Critic Really?


(33:53) Answering Short Questions


(35:36) How Do We Differentiate the Codependent From a Narcissist?


(39:25) Answering Short Questions


(41:34) Goodbye