Empowered Love Radio
300 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 7 years ago - ★★★★★ - 124 ratingsMelanie Tonia Evans is an author, radio host, relationship and dating expert and coach. She’s the author of the books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power. Melanie’s work resulted from her own nearly fatal experiences with narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Melanie is now a world expert on empowering women and healing painful love. Her deep core writing, teaching, coaching and healings are now liberating women world wide to stand up and take back their power in order to create a life of deservedness whereby they can attract and sustain genuine and healthy love relationships.
Heal the past. Heal yourself. Create real love!
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Episodes
Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #2: Evy
April 09, 2013 03:00 - 1 hour - 15.8 MBThis story is about a woman with four children who left a narcissistic marriage after 21 years. During this show you will learn about her journey, her growth - and how she has gained the empowerment, confidence and belief to create her new life.
Healing Emotional Wounds at the Subconscious Level
April 02, 2013 02:00 - 53 minutes - 12 MBThis radio show is an in-depth explanation of the difference between your subconscious and conscious mind, what you emotions really are, as well as the connection between emotional pain and how your mind deals with this pain. This radio show will allow you to understand how you can break off old pain, fear and patterns which are not serving you and durably, powerfully and directly heal at the true level where healing takes place.
Authentic Relationships versus Narcissistic Relationships
March 26, 2013 02:00 - 55 minutes - 12.4 MBThis show is about the vast difference between authentic and narcissistic relationships. It will grant you powerful understandings regarding the goal of real relationships, who you need to be, and how to heal past the pattern of non-authentic relationships in order to create an authentic soul-partnership. Please pass this message on to create a greater understanding of what healthy soul-partnerships do look like!
Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story: Galeet
March 19, 2013 02:00 - 1 hour - 13.5 MBThis radio show is one lady's recovery from narcissistic abuse. Her life hit rock bottom, after a painful narcissistic relationship which ended when her boyfriend discarded her and moved on to another love partner. During this show you will learn how low she was, how she was immobilised, couldn't function or work. Not only was she emotionally traumatised, physical conditions escalated as well. When I first met her, truly she was one of the worst cases of narcissistic abuse I have ever come...
The New Quanta Freedom Empowered Self Course
March 12, 2013 02:00 - 51 minutes - 11.6 MBIn this radio show I explain the 10 Modules of the new Empowered Self Course. This Course has been created to allow you to claim your authentic power and begin your dream life after narcissistic abuse. Click here to see the course: www.melanietoniaevans.com/services/course-qf-empoweredself.htm
Narcissistic Central: The narcissist 'too good to be true'
March 05, 2013 02:00 - 41 minutes - 9.32 MBThis show is about 'love-bombing'. What it is, how narcissists do it, and what to look out for. This information is vital information to understand what the start of your narcissistic relationship really was, and how to protect yourself against a narcissist in the future.
30 Days To Empowered Self Week 4
February 26, 2013 00:30 - 32 minutes - 7.29 MBThis is the fourth and final week of 30 Days To Empowered Self. This week is all about working on boundary function. Exercise 1: Identify your Boundary Malfunctions This exercise will allow you to explore the times in your life that hurt that most due to having poor boundaries. By delving into these times in your life you will be able to ascertain the fear within yourself that stopped you from laying effective boundaries Exercise 2: What I Will No Longer Accept In this exercise you will...
30 Days To Empowered Self Week 3
February 19, 2013 01:00 - 58 minutes - 13.1 MBThis show is Week 3 of 30 Days To Empowered Self, and is focused on creating and strengthening your personal deservedness and integrity. Exercise 1: Testing my beliefs This exercise will allow you to identify the beliefs you have adopted over time that have been holding you back from achieving love, success and fulfilment. Exercise 2: Why Don’t I Deserve? Carrying on from exercise 1, this exercise will allow you to delve deep into exactly “why” you feel like you don’t deserve. By allowi...
30 Days To Empowered Self Week 2 - Releasing Co-dependency
February 12, 2013 00:30 - 51 minutes - 11.7 MBThis show is about shifting from co-dependency to independency.Within this show: Exercise 1 You will identify in what areas of your life you are playing out co-dependency. Exercise 2: You will understand how to start releasing your co-dependent behaviours. You will understand how to tap into your fears regarding your co-dependent patterns. This gets to the core issue and when addressed allows you to begin releasing co-dependency for good. 7 Independency Mantras are granted that you can ap...
30 Days To Empowered Self Week 1 - Creating The New You
February 05, 2013 00:30 - 46 minutes - 10.3 MBThis show is week 1 of 30 Days to Your Empowered Self. During this show I will be taking you through the first three exercises of this series.Exercise One is about creating the end goal in mind of your life, and uncovering your soul mission and what your true purpose in life is.Exercise Two is the establishing of what you would like to receive and have not received in life yet. This will allow you to identify your biggest hurdles blocking you from achieving what you desire in life.Exercise Th...
Question & Answer Show: Can Narcissists be 'Loving'?
January 29, 2013 02:00 - 57 minutes - 13 MBThis show is very important and will assist you to get clear if you are living the experience of 'I love you - I love you not', I often receive questions regarding people's confusion about a narcissistic partner who on one hand grants copious amounts of love, affection and support, and then can act intensely narcissistic. During this show you will learn about the 'Altruistic Narcissist' and why they can be very alluring, and why it can be so difficult to realise that they are abusive despi...
Narcissistic Central: Claiming Your Authentic Power
January 22, 2013 02:00 - 46 minutes - 10.5 MBThis show is all about how to claim your authetic power after being narcissistically abused. This show will take your understanding and healing to a much higher and more profound level. This will assist you in understanding 'why' you were narcissistic abused, and what your gift and liberation is in this experience. This show is all about the shift from external power to authentic power, and the true joy and real life this shift creates.
Re run: Why Narcissists Go After Light
December 18, 2012 02:00 - 1 hour - 14 MBThis show is a re-run of one of the most popular ever Narcissisttic Central shows. During this show you will understand why narcissists are drawn to good people - people with integrity, and how the dynamic of the narcissist and the codependent plays out.
Question and answer show: Am I The Narcissist?
December 11, 2012 02:00 - 42 minutes - 9.55 MBThis question is one of the most common questions I receive, and this is why I want to address this question in this radio show. By listening to this show you will understand the 2 major components that identify any individual as narcissistic. You will also understand why you believe you may be narcissistic and how 'narcissism' is projected on to you. This show, potentially, will hand you an important key to get clear, remove the fog and claim your true self, nature, values and life.
Getting Love Right: Why Most Boundaries Dont Hold Up
December 04, 2012 02:00 - 32 minutes - 7.27 MBThis show is a very important 'boundary setting' show. It will describe to you why you may be enduring unfulfilling, and even abusive relationships, as well as why you struggle to honour and respect yourself. During this show you will discover key ways to reverse you compromising yourself so that you can be truly aligned in healthy self-love, and self-value, and be a match to real, fulfilling and genuine love.
Re run -Getting love right by healing ourself
November 28, 2012 02:00 - 42 minutes - 9.52 MBThis show is about the first step to get aligned with healing. Ironically this recognition and process is all about loving ourself. Without embracing 'all of us' including our unhealed parts this is impossible to do. If we do want to heal - if not today when? If we do want to heal then if we don't commit to ourself - who will? This is a powerful show that can show you how to - maybe for the first time ever - truly unconditionally love and accept yourself - and how and why this is so v...
Narcissistic Central: Learning About Narcs Isn't The Answer
November 20, 2012 02:00 - 28 minutes - 6.27 MBIn this show - I would like to help with you a very important understanding - and I would like to share a very 'key' story with you. This show will help you to understand why, despite learning all there is to know about narcissism, you may not have been able to create a healthy love relationship or a narcissistic free life. As a result of this show you will be able to realise what truly is the solution in order to live free of narcissistic abuse and move forward into loving, fulfilling and...
Manifest Life and Love: How to Heal Emotional Pain
November 13, 2012 02:00 - 31 minutes - 6.95 MBThis show is a very important manifestation show because truly all of us want to manifest a life that is free of emotional pain. During this show you will learn why your emotional pain may have been in repeat, and why you have not been effectively able to stop experiencing it. You will receive the answers as to what is really causing your pain, and how to effectively treat and heal your pain to completion. You will also learn about one of the most painful beliefs that you can have which h...
Q & A Show: What is co-dependency?
November 06, 2012 02:00 - 45 minutes - 10.2 MBWithin this show I want to talk in detail about the meaning of the word co-dependency. What does this term mean? What meanings can people place on this label? How do we feel about ourselves when we investigate whether or not we are co-dependent? If we can accept the term co-dependency how can we then apply that awareness in order to change our life? I know you can get a lot out of this show - as it is integral to becoming a source to yourself, and creating great boundary function as well ...
Getting Love Right: Healing by Loving Ourself
October 30, 2012 02:00 - 42 minutes - 9.49 MBThis show is about the first step to get aligned with healing. Ironically this recognition and process is all about loving ourself. Without embracing 'all of us' including our unhealed parts this is impossible to do. If we do want to heal - if not today when? If we do want to heal then if we don't commit to ourself - who will? This is a powerful show that can show you how to - maybe for the first time ever - truly unconditionally love and accept yourself - and how and why this is so vital i...
Narcissistic Central: Belief and Behaviours
October 23, 2012 02:00 - 23 minutes - 5.12 MBDuring this show I will be talking about 'beliefs' and 'behaviours'. This show will grant you a deep understanding of how you can change the behaviours that aren’t serving you - and what is really necessary in order to create this change. The real life examples in this show will allow you to understand how you can change yourself to experience a different life durably and authentically.
Manifest Life and Love: The Blame Game
October 16, 2012 02:00 - 38 minutes - 8.51 MBIn this show I will talk about blaming and how when we do blame that we disempower ourself, given how we would like our life to really turn out. In this show I will explain to you how to muscle test yourself and how you can understand how blaming yourself and others is hurting you and keeping you stuck.
Q & A Show: What comes first Emotions or Outcomes?
October 09, 2012 02:00 - 47 minutes - 10.7 MBIn this show today I wanted to answer this question, and I believe the answer is very important. I actually believe the answer to this question is SO important that this may be this may be the most important radio show I have ever done. The information in this show is about your pain, your emotions and the outcomes in your life - and how they are all intricately connected. Through listening you will understand how when we are stressed, how we are often totally in reaction, and are therefo...
Getting Love Right:Nothing Is Real With Someone False
October 02, 2012 03:00 - 40 minutes - 9.05 MBThis show is about discovering how we can get into relationships that do not provide us the real results we seek. Discover how we can accept 'less than' and what it is within ourself that co-creates disappointing, unfulfilling and even abusive love experiences. How do we create REAL relationship results? Listen to this show to find out.
Narcissistic Central: Committing To Ourself
September 25, 2012 03:00 - 1 hour - 14 MBThis show is not about the narcissist, it is about YOU and your recovery. This show will explain the difference between support and recovery and enabling the problem or creating real solutions. During this show you will discover what the reoccuring and torturous pain of narcissistic abuse is really about, and how our peptide addiction and trying to access support to get relief is not the answer. What does committing to ourself and recovering really mean, and what does it entail? Listen to...
Manifest Love and Life: Your Pain Is Not A Timeline
September 18, 2012 03:00 - 45 minutes - 10.1 MBThis show is about how hanging on to pain and fear can block us from being healed and free.In order for us to make way for the good stuff to come into our life we have to release our junk. How long should this take? Is it true that the healing of our pain can take a set amount of time? Why are the reasons we usually believe our healing is going to take a long time? During this show you may discover the real reasons why it is taking you a long time to heal.
Question and Answer Show: Why Is It Important To Feel?
September 11, 2012 03:00 - 39 minutes - 8.83 MBThis show relates to my next Empowered Life and Love article and was born from a very recent discussion on my Facegroup Book Page. The most essential part of self- healing is being able to FEEL. In this show you will understand how our mind has kept us separated from our feelings, and how by not being able to embrace our feelings without judgement we are separarted from emotionl mastery and the ability to healthily create our life. This show - truly - may hold a very powerful key, which will...
Getting Love Right: Healing Our Inner Identity
September 04, 2012 03:00 - 37 minutes - 8.34 MBIn this show I will be discussing the upcoming video 3 of the series: The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse And How To Overcome It. This show is about understanding that thinking ourself out of pain does not work, and we need to get to the deeper reasons regarding our pain, and our less than life experiences, in order to be able to create real and true change for ourself. This show will grant you the awareness of why you may be stuck in pain, and what is truly necessary for you in order to ...
Re-run: Manifest your goal , Quanta Freedom Healing
August 28, 2012 03:00 - 1 hour - 17.6 MBThis show is a re-run of the show: Manifest Your Dreams Goals and Desires, and is an incredibly inspirational show for many people who have discovered how to vibrationally shift limiting beliefs and align their Inner Identity with their goals.
Narcissistic Central: The Narc Does Not Want You To Be Happy
August 21, 2012 03:00 - 40 minutes - 9.13 MBIn this show I am going to explain some of the most major differences between a relationship that can be healthy, and a narcissistic relationship. You will learn about pathological envy and how this permeates a relationship with a narcissist, and how it affects your life with him and her. Discover why and how the narcissist is threatened by you being happy, successful and fulfilled, and why you cannot have support, encouragement and healthy co-creation with a narcissist.
Manifest Life and Love You Want: How To Inspire Real Love
August 14, 2012 03:00 - 48 minutes - 10.8 MBThis show is all about 'how' we can get a man to REALLY want to grant attention, love and commitment. In this show we will explore limiting beliefs that separate you from this goal, and what is necessary to become this goal. In this show I provide a muscle testing on-air so that you can discover what is holding you back from achieving this goal. This is a must listen show for any women who is frustrated as a result of relationships where she is not receiving real love, attention or commitm...
Q& A - How Do We Heal Our Children?
August 07, 2012 03:00 - 1 hour - 13.8 MBThis show is vital for any parent that has concerns regarding their children as a result of narcissistic abuse. This show covers the topics 1) Your children are affected as a result of a narcissistic parent or step-parent. 2) You have fears about the narcissist who has visitation rights or joint custody. 3) Your children are turned against you or taken away from you by the narcissist. 4) You suspect that one or more of your children has been programmed into becoming a narcissist, and 4) You...
Getting Love Right: Honouring Yourself Before Seeking Love
July 31, 2012 03:00 - 54 minutes - 12.2 MBIt is true that many people try to engage in love relationships before they are ready to do so. This is especially true if you have suffered painful, traumatic or abusive love. YOu may feel that you wish to have a love partner, yet the thought of seeking a love relationship feels totally overwhelming. In this show you will discover the steps to reclaim yourself, be at peace with this process and then work towards opening yourself up to love. You will understand how and why this process is so...
Narcissistic Central: How To Let Go
July 24, 2012 03:00 - 51 minutes - 11.5 MBWe all know that the hooks, enmeshments and psychic ties with narcissists are intense. Eevn though logically we know we are being abused and damaged why is it so hard to let go? Why is it that we can be intelligent and capable yet when it comes to the narcissist we lose all common sense? During this show I will talk about the hooks that keep us engaged, and how we are actually playing out our unhealed parts in these hooks. I will explain to you how to avoid the horrific aftershock process th...
Manifesting Life and Love: The Shift from Ego to Integrity
July 17, 2012 03:00 - 35 minutes - 7.82 MBThis show is about the time we live in and what this time entails. Why are so many people struggling at the moment? What is really going on at an energetic and universal level? You will discover in this show why integrity is the only system that does produce results, and why egoic and False Self function no longer does. This show will challenge you to stand in and live a model of realness and truth and will allow you to realise the repercussions if you don't. Please join the chatroom if you...
Question and Answer Show
July 10, 2012 03:00 - 35 minutes - 7.96 MBDuring this show I will be talking about - what creates narcissism? This question has appeared several times this week, and I would like to discuss this very important question.
Getting Love Right: Partner Appreciation
July 03, 2012 03:00 - 32 minutes - 7.27 MBDuring this show we will be talking about how to contribute to a relationship in order to help it grow and thrive. The truth is many relationships become complacent and lose their spark and ‘fertilizer’. Discover within this show how you can lose resentment, guilt, boredom and staleness, and replace it with contributions that not only enhance how your partner feels, but also create you as the other half of a relationship who feels and enjoys the passion and love. If you have any questions th...
Narcissistic Central: The Attraction to Fear Pain and Drama
June 26, 2012 03:00 - 46 minutes - 10.4 MBWe may not realise it, but the narcissist may be providing us with all the ‘material’ we need to feel ‘in love’. The reason why we may not realise this is taking place is because much of it can be happening at a deep unconscious level….This show will fascinate you in discovering all the reasons why painful, narcissistic and unsafe people may be your perfect match as a love partner – that is until you know how to change yourself in order to be attracted to much healthier and more sustainable ...
Manifest Love and Life: Losing Fear to Become Love
June 19, 2012 03:00 - 46 minutes - 10.3 MBWhen we realise we are the vibrational creator of what we receive, we can realise that the ultimate goal is to become love without fear and pain. This may sound etheral or even glib - yet during this show you will realise how powerful this statement really is. During this broadcast you will be able to embody why, no matter how much information and training you have - it is your deepest fears that can keep you sepearted from love.
Question and Answer Show
June 12, 2012 03:00 - 47 minutes - 10.7 MBDuring this radio show I will be answering questions that have been emailed to me regarding all sorts of topics, relating to co-dependency, manifestation, boundary function, Quanta Freedom Healing, recovery strategies and so much more. If you have any questions that you would like answered in this specific Q and A show please email me at [email protected] and if you would like to dial in to speak to me the call in number is USA listeners 347 989 1262 or for Australian listeners 001...
Getting Love Right: Love Avoidance and Addiction
June 05, 2012 03:00 - 45 minutes - 10.2 MBIn the show you will discover the patterns of love addiction and love avoidance and how if individuals within love relationships don’t effectively know how to fill themselves and relate healthily to each other, they may play out these patterns. Learn about healthy interdependent relationships and what the model of sharing and space can look like in a functional way. You may discover many answers to the problems you have been experiencing in relationships in this show, as well as how to recti...
Narcissistic Central: No Contact
May 29, 2012 03:00 - 1 hour - 14.4 MBIn this radio show Nancy and I will be discussing No Contact. Why we need to do it, and if we do slip up what the experience can teach us. If you do fall back on No Contact, are you back to square one? Discover in this show where you are at in your healing journey in regard to maintaining No Contact. If you have any questions that you would like answered in this show please email me at [email protected] and if you would like to dial in to speak to me the call in number is USA liste...
Manifesting Love and Life: Internal and external healing
May 22, 2012 03:00 - 29 minutes - 6.58 MBSo many people ask “How do I heal myself?” The truth is when people have suffered pain, they want to feel better and find the solutions in order to do so. Clearly we all want to be free of the pain and be able to create a great life. In this show I will explain the difference between internal and external healing – and the difference between ‘going through’ pain and ‘growing through’ pain. If you are serious about healing and eliminating the repeat painful patterns in your life, you will fin...
Question and Answer Show
May 15, 2012 03:00 - 50 minutes - 11.3 MBDuring this radio show I will be answering questions that have been emailed to me regarding all sorts of topics, relating to co-dependency, manifestation, boundary function, Quanta Freedom Healing, recovery strategies and so much more. If you have any questions that you would like answered in this specific Q and A show please email me at [email protected]
Getting Love Right: Empathetic Listening
May 08, 2012 03:00 - 34 minutes - 7.7 MBThis show is about how to recognise, empathise with and help support your partner’s vulnerabilities. This can be a challenge when we recognise that your partner’s Achilles heels are going to be big triggers for your associated fears. How can relationships in crisis, that are worth saving learn how to come together, provide nurture, support and growth? If you have any questions that you would like answered in this show please email me at [email protected]
Narcissistic Central: Trauma Bonding
May 01, 2012 03:00 - 42 minutes - 9.58 MBThis show is a deep discussion about trauma bonding. It seems insane that being treated poorly would make us bond with a person, and believe that we love them and need them in our life – yet it truly does. Learn about trauma bonding, how it happens, how it has affected you, and what you need to do to release yourself from the insidious and life destroying attachment to a narcissistic individual. If you have any questions that you would like answered in this show please email me at radio@mela...
Manifesting Love and Life: Goals, Dreams and Your Identity
April 24, 2012 03:00 - 1 hour - 17.6 MBThis show is about how powerfully your Inner Identity dictates who you can be in the world. If your Inner Identity was a match for your dreams and goals then you would be content and invigorated on the journey of realising these goals. Unfortunately for many people their Inner Identity is in opposition to what they want to achieve. During this show we will be doing Quanta Freedom Shifts live on air, to help you release your limiting beliefs and align with the creation of your goals. Please ...
Question and Answer Show
April 17, 2012 03:00 - 49 minutes - 11 MBDuring this radio show I will be answering questions that have been emailed to me regarding all sorts of topics, relating to co-dependency, manifestation, boundary function, Quanta Freedom Healing, recovery strategies and so much more. If you have any questions that you would like answered in this specific Q and A show please email me at [email protected] and if you would like to dial in to speak to me the call in number is USA listeners 347 989 1262 or for Australian listeners 001...
Getting Love Right: How To Communicate More Effectively
April 10, 2012 03:00 - 50 minutes - 11.4 MBI have speaking lately about the great book that is life-changing – Crucial Conversations. During this show I wish to explain how to communicate more effectively. Within this show I will be discussing how we can make disempowered choices such as ‘silence’ and ‘violence’ and how we not only don’t get our needs met when we do this, but we also create an unsafe platform for our loved ones. How do we change this pattern, and how can we keep our conversations as safe, effective and working as a w...
Narcissistic Central: Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse
April 03, 2012 03:00 - 1 hour - 16.6 MBThis show is an interview with an individual who has broken free and recovered from narcissistic abuse. Listen to their inspirational journey of how they recovered, and what processes they used to break free. If you have any questions that you would like answered in this show please email me at [email protected] and if you would like to dial in to speak to me the call in number is USA listeners 347 989 1262 or for Australian listeners 00111 347 989 1262.