Empowered Love Radio
300 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 7 years ago - ★★★★★ - 124 ratingsMelanie Tonia Evans is an author, radio host, relationship and dating expert and coach. She’s the author of the books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power. Melanie’s work resulted from her own nearly fatal experiences with narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Melanie is now a world expert on empowering women and healing painful love. Her deep core writing, teaching, coaching and healings are now liberating women world wide to stand up and take back their power in order to create a life of deservedness whereby they can attract and sustain genuine and healthy love relationships.
Heal the past. Heal yourself. Create real love!
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Divorcing A Narcissist - Part Two
July 03, 2015 01:23 - 51 minutes - 46.4 MBThere really is no wonder that divorcing a narcissist takes the level of trauma of divorce to an unprecedented level – when we consider things such as: the cruel discards and replacing with new partners, new partners attacking you as well as the narcissist, battling over custody and property and the financial losses that generally happen as a result of the relationship, and whilst dealing with legal systems and narcissists in general. Personally, divorcing my ex narcissist was the most excru...
How To Divorce A Narcissist Part 1
June 26, 2015 07:09 - 37 minutes - 33.8 MBI think we would all agree that divorce is one of the most excruciating things anyone can go through. Psychologists Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe in 1967 created a list of the top 43 most stressful life events. Divorce rated the second most stressful, only capped by death of a spouse. That describes a normal divorce. But what about divorcing a narcissist? THAT takes the stress to a whole new level. In this 2 part series I will be covering many aspects of divorcing a narcissist including...
Being The Scapegoat And Trying Everything To Get Approval [Thriver Story #25]
June 19, 2015 04:33 - 1 hour - 62.3 MBI’m really excited because today I have another incredible Thriver story. If you were abused as a child, by a parent or family member, you are especially going to want to make some time to listen to this story. It’s pretty incredible! This story is about a Cindy, a wonderful woman within our NARP community and is also a moderator in the NARP forum (Like Phil who I had on the show a few weeks ago). Cindy grew up in dairy farm in Wisconsin with foster parents. Her mother was the narcissist ...
What It Means To Be Addicted To A Narcissist - And How To Break Free From It
June 12, 2015 03:53 - 50 minutes - 45.2 MBFeeling “addicted” to the narcissist is one of the most horrible and powerless things about suffering the trauma of narcissistic abuse. The most frustrating is that friends and family and those who care about you cannot comprehend what you are going through. They respond with logical solutions like "just leave him/her"? and "Why do you stay?" In this show I want to deeply explore what it means to be addicted to a narcissist and how you can break free from it. Please know, if you haven't a...
Why Doesn't A Narcissist Want Love, Happiness Or Peace?
June 05, 2015 02:33 - 32 minutes - 28.9 MBAre you in a relationship with someone that just doesn’t seem to want to be happy? No matter how much you would love to resolve issues and just get on with enjoying the relationship, this person wants to create trouble and doesn’t seem to want what you want. This is a powerful indicator that you could be in a relationship with a narcissist. Within this radio show you will learn exactly why the narcissist doesn’t enter into or be in relationships in order to have love, happiness or peace – ...
Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #24 Phil
May 29, 2015 06:31 - 1 hour - 55.7 MBToday I have a really special interview. Especially if you are a male in this community, I know you will find this interview relatable and insightful. This show is about Phil, who is now one of our senior members in the NARP community. He is a friend of mine, and is also a part of the moderator team in the NARP community. In this show Phil talks about what it’s like being a man who suffered in silence – being ashamed to talk about it with your friends because you know they wouldn’t unders...
Narcissistic Abuse - You're Damned If You Do, Damned If You Don't
May 22, 2015 02:58 - 43 minutes - 39.1 MBOne of the most frustrating things about being narcissistically abused is that you can’t win … It doesn’t matter how hard you try to do the right thing, the narcissist still finds fault with you. However, sometimes they turn on their charm and you can do no wrong… Which is almost always due to the narcissist trying to get something from you. In this radio show I am going to talk about the dynamics of a relationship with a narcissist, why they idolize you and then demean you, and how you can...
How You Can Get Involved In Spreading The Word
May 15, 2015 02:47 - 17 minutes - 15.2 MBToday we have quite a different show but I’m really excited about it! One of the reasons is because this is the first ever radio show I have done with my son Zac. This show is for everyone who has experienced results in their life as a result of our Courses and would like to know how they can spread the word and partner with us in this mission. Zac has put together a comprehensive guide for you that will give you the step-by-step instructions of how to get involved which is absolutely fr...
Special Mother's Day Show
May 07, 2015 11:00 - 17 minutes - 15.4 MBTo celebrate Mother’s day I have done a special show. This show about womanhood, how women have only in the last few generations are starting to become equal, and the challenges that women face due to belief systems that have carried on from our ancestry. Along with this show I am doing a Mother’s day special on one of my favourite programs – The Transforming Family Of Origin Wounds Course. You can claim your special here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/mothersday
What Can We Do About Narcissists?
May 01, 2015 02:20 - 32 minutes - 29.2 MBThis radio show is a deeper look at the issue of narcissism in our world – the reasons why it is in epidemic proportions and what we have been trying to do to eliminate it, and why that hasn’t worked. This follow-on conversations from last week’s topic about Epigenetics, explores our new science and spirituality model which creates the power to create true change for ourselves personally, and to our world. In this radio show you will learn about how people’s emotional state really gets set ...
Epigenetics And Narcissistic Abuse
April 23, 2015 21:05 - 26 minutes - 22.9 MBThis radio show was prompted by me aofs a result seeing Bruce Lipton live not long ago. This is a conversation that is very relevant to how we can recover from narcissistic abuse. In this show I discuss how our old Darwinian and Newtonian science models rendered us powerless compared to the new science of epigenetics. This is huge … really. Because it changes the entire concept of humankind. Literally – I am not exaggerating. Hence why I am really excited to be bringing you this show. ...
Meeting The Narcisssist
April 16, 2015 22:09 - 36 minutes - 32.7 MBThis radio show is all about why and how we can be taken in by a narcissist upon meeting one. During this radio show you will learn what it takes to inoculate yourself against a narcissist, be in your authentic power and flush a narcissist's antics to the surface, before it is too late. This radio show is about so much more than recognising red flags. It is also about more than intuition and choices. My greatest hope, in regard to this radio show, is that you no longer feel like you ca...
Thriver Story #23 Angela
April 10, 2015 00:37 - 43 minutes - 38.5 MBThis interview is about Angela's story. Angela was married for 22 years to a narcissist. She had decided, in her marriage, that this was her lot in life, and that she was going to endure for many reasons including for her children. The marriage, however, did break down, and Angela was shocked, sickened and traumatised by how she became the enemy, and was cruelly smeared and attacked by her ex-husband. Everything in Angela's life was under siege, including her children, and the high conflic...
Your Easter Renewal
April 03, 2015 03:19 - 25 minutes - 22.8 MBBecause Easter is nearly upon us, I wanted to write about “renewal”. Easter time is a time of re-grouping for me; it feels like a reflective break to plan and reassess. Easter is traditionally a time of re-birth, re-centring and creating ourselves anew. In this show I am going to be talking about expanding into new directions, desires and projects. Shedding limiting beliefs and fears that have held you back and changing our consciousness to change our life. Plus I'm also going to be shari...
Does Praising Our Children Create Narcissists?
March 26, 2015 03:48 - 26 minutes - 23.3 MBThis topic was going viral through the internet not long ago … with articles such as these: http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2015/03/09/391874530/do-parents-nurture-narcissists-by-pouring-on-the-praise http://www.independent.ie/life/family/parenting/dont-want-to-raise-a-narcissist-stop-telling-your-children-theyre-special-31054501.html I think this topic, “the danger of praising children”, is laden with misunderstandings, and if taken literally could cause more narcissism than prevent it. I...
Interview With Mira Kelley - Beyond Past Lives
March 20, 2015 03:08 - 37 minutes - 33.3 MBThis interview is with Mira Kelley, the author of the Hay House published book Beyond Past Lives – what parallel realities can teach us about relationships, healing and transformation. Those of you who know my work, and have experienced my healing system Quanta Freedom Healing know I am a big advocate of past life work as a way of creating healing that just can’t be accessed from a surface contemporary level. In this interview Mira talks about her life story, and also her book Beyond Past L...
The Narcissist's Entitlement
March 12, 2015 01:02 - 28 minutes - 25 MBThis radio show is about the ways in which the narcissist is overly "entitled". Why do narcissists behave in ways that are unreasonable? Why do they make demands that healthy, mature adults just don't do? You will discover in this radio show the reasons why narcissists are entitled, and why they believe there are justifications for their entitlement. You will also learn what your options are in regard to working with the narcissist when he or she is acting out “being entitled”. For the tr...
Thriver After Narcissistic Abuse Story #22 - Yvette - same-sex abuse
February 25, 2015 08:26 - 24 minutes - 21.4 MBThis Thriver Story is about Yvette, a gay women who suffered a narcissistic relationship. I was thrilled when Yvette came forward, deeply wanting to share her story for the gay community … because over the years people have emailed and said to me “My narcissistic abuse situation with a same sex relationship, can you please write about that Melanie?”, whereas truly from what I have seen up close and personal with the numerous gay clients I have done energetic healing work with, is that same s...
Narcissistic Abuse - The Journey To Self Love
February 19, 2015 08:38 - 37 minutes - 33.5 MBThis radio show is about the "Higher Purpose" to narcissistic abuse, and why it really happened to us. In this show I share with you my journey, and how it was before I understood this Higher Purpose, what happened to me and my life when I realised and embraced it, and what "self-love" looks like now after narcissistic abuse. To see the upcoming blog article on this radio show visit here: blog.melanietoniaevans.com To visit the Valentine's Specials Page I mention in the show go to:www.mela...
Law Of Attraction In Action - Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse - Part 2
February 12, 2015 22:42 - 1 hour - 61.2 MB(Part 2) This show, that Tami and I did together, is called "Law of Attraction In Action - Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse". Is this radio show, Tami and I cover a lot of the questions you posted, including - how to stop our ego sabotaging us, how to remove the filters of negative self talk when we want to stay positive, and how to eliminate the fear of being abused by a narcissist again - WHILST setting yourself up to have positive Law of Attraction experiences and forward movement. Tami...
Law of Attraction In Action - Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse - Part 1
February 12, 2015 06:03 - 58 minutes - 52.6 MB(Part 1) This show, that Tami and I did together, is called "Law of Attraction In Action - Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse". Is this radio show, Tami and I cover a lot of the questions you posted, including - how to stop our ego sabotaging us, how to remove the filters of negative self talk when we want to stay positive, and how to eliminate the fear of being abused by a narcissist again - WHILST setting yourself up to have positive Law of Attraction experiences and forward movement. Tami...
Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse - #21 + Law of Attraction With Tami
February 06, 2015 01:18 - 1 hour - 73.9 MBThis is a show that I had a lot of pleasure doing with Tami! Tami shares her story about horrendous multiple intimate partner narcissistic abuse, and how this lead to her losing nearly everything - and left her with very little will to live. In this show you will learn how Tami resurrected her life 180 degrees - in an incredibly short amount of time. Then, Tami and I have a delightful conversation about the deep principles of Law of Attraction, and what she did that led to her manifesting ...
Why Positive Thinking All The Time Isn't The Answer
January 30, 2015 02:43 - 51 minutes - 46.4 MBThis radio show is about Law of Attraction. In this show I talk about my journey with Law of Attraction, and the deepening of "connection" as my development continued. Is Law of Attraction about focusing exclusively on what "is wanted" in order to bring it into our life, or does positive, healthy manifestation require more from us? This radio show may grant you much needed clarity on this very important topic. Please know, if you haven't already, you may sign up to my free New Life Commun...
What Constitutes A Healthy Relationship?
January 21, 2015 04:40 - 40 minutes - 36.2 MBLast week I popped a post up on Facebook asking people for their definition of "love". Many wonderful shares emerged! This radio show is a deep journey into this important topic, as well as what constitutes conscious and unconscious love and how we can move our love experiences from abusive and painful to joyous and abundant ones. For the upcoming transcript of this radio show, you can go to blog.melanietoniaevans.com To find out more about my healing Program which creates liberation f...
Co-dependency Checkup Part 2
December 10, 2014 07:26 - 1 hour - 60.2 MBIn this Part Two Radio Show the conversation deepens, about how our powerless behaviors are NOT logical, and why we REALLY do them, as well as how to REALLY heal them. Also we will look at how co-dependency, independency and interdependency work, and how to move through the different levels. Also we investigate how we can not only up-level ourselves, but also the important relationships in our life, to a new level of "sharing power" instead of taking it or handing it over. And much, much m...
Co-dependency Checkup - Part One
December 03, 2014 11:00 - 59 minutes - 53.8 MBBecause it is nearly the end of the year, this is a great time to reflect – to see where we are, and what we have grown through this year. I believe a big part of that is checking in with where we are at with co-dependency. Are we still handing power over to things and people outside of ourselves, or are we more anchored into our own internal solidness? “What Is co-dependency?” My definition of it is this: “trying to seek wholeness and internal peace from sources outside of self, rather tha...
Thriver Show #20 - Jill
November 20, 2014 11:48 - 1 hour - 66.2 MBThis story is one of an incredibly courageous lady who suffers many debilitating auto-immune illnesses – ulcerative colitis, arthritis, fibro myalgia, migraines and Multiple Sclerosis. Jill suffers from extreme fatigue, and has no support with my 3 kids, and then all of this, naturally, was made so much harder as a result of the huge double-whammy of narcissistic abuse. Jill’s life-changing realisation was that she had been focusing on others her whole life, and that she had always been try...
The Narcissist's Marriage To The False Self
November 13, 2014 00:16 - 37 minutes - 33.3 MBThis radio show is an in-depth look at why narcissists would rather be "right" than "happy", and why no-one can compete with the narcissistic versions of reality that they think. You will learn in this radio show how and why a narcissist is married to his or her ego. You will also discover the truth regarding the narcissist's behaviour according to this union with the False Self. The later part of this radio show is information regarding how we can escape the illusions and pain of narcissi...
How We Show Up
November 05, 2014 08:52 - 39 minutes - 35.6 MBThis radio show is one that investigates how we may be showing up in ways that don’t inspire life and others to support us. During this radio show I talk about the ways our ego can derail us, and suck us into outer delusions and illusions that keep us separated from the truth of “what is really going on.” I hope that this radio show will really allow you to understand the truth of how your thoughts and behaviours are generated from beliefs, and how believing it is an “outside deal” simply m...
Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #19 Marie
October 30, 2014 03:38 - 59 minutes - 53.9 MBThis Thriver show features Marie, a mother of 5 children, who endured a 7 years relationship with a narcissist. We talk about how one of the biggest discoveries Marie made, is how co-dependent she was – and how she always had to fill her life with activities and people, and after escaping her relationship with the narcissist, how she couldn’t initially bear to be alone. During our conversation Marie shares about how working on establishing her Identity has been key, and she shares her invol...
From Trapped To Freedom Part 2
October 22, 2014 10:47 - 57 minutes - 51.9 MBDuring this radio show I am responding to people's posts about their trapped situations, and talking about how to generate freedom. I hope this show can help you know that self-liberation is possible, no matter how powerless you may feel presently.
From Trapped To Freedom
October 15, 2014 03:14 - 49 minutes - 44.3 MBThis radio show is all about how we can feel "trapped" by outer circumstances and our own emotions – especially after suffering narcissistic abuse. During this show I am sharing my life story, and how I escaped crippling emotions and severe "stuckedness" in order to expand into life as "freedom". I address in this show what being "trapped" really is, and how we can be truly free to expand into becoming life-force itself, and then living the life we truly wish to live
Narcissists In The Workplace
September 30, 2014 04:20 - 40 minutes - 36.2 MBThis radio show is one that has been asked for by many people. During this radio show you will learn about the dynamics of narcissism in the workplace. Why narcissistic bosses and co-workers do what they do, and how they do it. You will also learn about the crippling effect this has on others. How can you take you power back in these situations? Listen to find out!
Thriver Story #18 Marla
September 24, 2014 12:17 - 1 hour - 55.3 MBShe hung in there because she believed she was supposed to ... This Thriver story is one that I believe many people will be able to relate to. Beliefs can be powerful. Many people believed “marriage is for life” … but when we believe that we are supposed to suffer in silence, put on a face to the world, and continue to just “carry one” with our families, our community, or our church, is this healthy? During this interview I have these conversations with Marla, who realised not long after...
Narcissist The Movie - Interview With Eric Casaccio
September 17, 2014 11:00 - 1 hour - 18.3 MBThis show is a very special interview with my dear friend Eric Casaccio - who is the writer, director and co-producer of the short film - "Narcissist”. What is so wonderful, is Eric's passion with this movie, came straight from his heart, from his own personal experience. Eric's message is raising awareness regarding narcissism on a very large scale. The world is definitely ready for this much needed message! In this very special interview Eric and I talk about the film, the purpose of it,...
Narcissistic Hoovering
September 10, 2014 02:11 - 33 minutes - 7.54 MBThis radio show is about "Narcissistic Hoovering", the tactics a narcissist uses to pull you back into contact. During this show you will discover why narcissists hoover, why they use all sorts of reasons to create contact in order to get attention, and what their purpose is for doing so. You will also learn what it is about ourselves that can leave us open, susceptible and vulnerable to being hoovered, and how we can shore up those parts of ourselves which can be preyed upon.
The 10 Ways We Self-avoid
August 26, 2014 05:00 - 34 minutes - 7.65 MBThis radio show is about one of the greatest impediments to healing - 'self-avoiding'. During this radio show you will learn about the common 10 ways that we can avoid 'being with self', and how this affects our emotions, our life and progress. You will also learn "how to" release self-avoidance in order to deeply partner with yourself to be a creator of your life instead of a victim to it.
Narcissistic Abuse - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
August 20, 2014 00:30 - 42 minutes - 9.59 MBThis radio show is about one of the most serious issues connected with narcissistic abuse - Post Traumatic Disorder. During this radio show, you will learn all about what Post Traumatic Stress Disorder really is, how it affects us, how the damage really occurs, and how we can heal and recover from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
50 Shades Of The Narcissist
August 13, 2014 23:30 - 45 minutes - 10.2 MBThis radio show was inspired as a result of a very spirited discussion on my Facebook Page about the book / upcoming movie 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. This radio show is about 'sex with a narcissist'. It is about why narcissists do what they do regarding sex, and why many of them are sex-addicts, adulterous and objectify sexual partners. You will also learn about many other tactics the narcissist uses within sexual power-play. During this radio show you will discover the stark differences betw...
The First Ever Male Thriver Show
August 05, 2014 23:30 - 1 hour - 14.5 MBI am vey happy to share this radio show with you. Scott's interview came about as a result of putting out to the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community for men to come forward and share their stories. The Community for quite some time had been asking for men, who have been narcissistically abused, to come on radio. Wonderfully, quite a few men replied! So...this show is the first of a new series...'Male Thrivers". I hope you enjoy Scott's story, as it is one that many men will relate to. ...
The 7 Steps To Your Personal Power
July 31, 2014 03:00 - 24 minutes - 5.38 MBThis radio show is a deep look at powerlessness, and what are the common beliefs that keep us stuck, and living a 'less than' life than we truly can live. How have our generational beliefs caused us to hand our power over? How can we release and reverse these beliefs in order to be free to express our True Selves?
Parents Empowering Themselves For Their Children's Sake - Part 2
July 24, 2014 02:30 - 1 hour - 16.6 MBLast week I wrote what I believe is my most important article on my blog ever. That article - Part 1 - was inspired as a result of the difference I see constantly between the Thriver orientation, which occurs when we take the personal responsibility on to heal our own wounds, and the rampant victimsation model which is predominant in most narcissistic / sociopathic abuse communities. I am sharing some very special interviews with you today. These interviews are with women from the NARP Commu...
Parents Empowering Themselves For Their Children's Sake
July 15, 2014 11:30 - 42 minutes - 9.53 MBThis is the undoubtedly, to date, the most important radio show I have ever done. This article is a two part series which is a passionate project that I believe is so necessary to break the cycles of abused and abuse. It is to do with our children, and how we can help them not live the lives of suffering, abuse and unconsciousness that we have, and how we can stop these cycles being passed on from generation to generation. PLEASE take a stand with me - and pass this radio show on far and w...
Narcissism and Evolution
July 09, 2014 06:30 - 39 minutes - 8.87 MBThis is a big topic, and I believe now is the perfect time to talk about it. Why are so many people's lives breaking down? Why is it, despite so many advancements and improved standards of life and longevity, that so many people are depressed, empty, lonely, unfulfilled and feel powerless? What has this do with narcissists and narcissistic abuse? Are our lives breaking apart, or is the greater and deeper purpose to integrate and unite back together? During this show you will discover what...
Heartbreak And The Narcissist
July 02, 2014 03:30 - 33 minutes - 7.36 MBThis radio show is a deep look into our heart and our emotions when we are devestated by a narcissist. What has really caused our heartbreak? Was there a purpose for our heartbreak? How do we heal our heartbreak? Can our hearts ever be healthy or trust again? You will discover the answers to these questions, in this radio show, and much more.
Thriver Story #16 Suzanne
June 26, 2014 04:00 - 1 hour - 17.2 MBIt is my absolute pleasure to bring you this Thriver Story. This is the story of Suzanne, who I affectionately call the 'Nigella Lawson' of NARP, because of her wonderful recipes, input and the connection she has with our community. Suzanne is now a wonderful moderator and contributor to people suffering from narcissistic abuse. Suzanne's story is incredible. From a very painful childhood Suzanne was hospitalised as a single mother for 6 years, dealing with her childhood trauma. In this st...
What Is Narcissistic Supply?
June 19, 2014 11:00 - 45 minutes - 10.2 MBThis radio show is one specifically about narcissistic supply. Why does a narcissist need to have narcissistic supply? What is narcissistic supply exactly? Why is a narcissist never appeased regardless of the narcissistic supply he or she receives? During this show you will learn this and much more - as well as the only true way you can prevent being an object used by a narcissistic for narcissistic supply.
How to Deal With Your Emotional Pain The Right Way In Order To Grow and Expand
June 05, 2014 08:00 - 37 minutes - 8.37 MBWhy is emotional pain often so much harder to bear than physical pain? This radio show is an in-depth look at why our emotional pain can feel so agonising, and be so hard to deal with. During this radio show you will learn what your emotional pain really is, as well as Who You Really Are, and the effective orientation to be able to process your emotional traumas effectively.
How To Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse - Part 2
May 30, 2014 00:00 - 52 minutes - 11.8 MBThis radio show is Part Two of this series explaining what the Thriver Recovery model is, and how it revolutionises simply hoping to survive with ongoing symptoms after abuse. Since Quanta Freedom Healing’s birth in Koh Sumui in 2007, working with it to create my own recovery, and sharing it with others, its effects and benefits have spread world-wide to over 50 different countries and to thousands of men and women from all walks of life. Because Quanta Freedom Healing is becoming so much m...
How To Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse Part 1
May 22, 2014 00:00 - 42 minutes - 9.49 MBThis radio show is the first of a two-part series regarding the Thriver Model of recovery from narcissistic abuse. During this radio show series you will discover what Quanta Freedom Healing is, how it works and how it revolutionises the way we heal from trauma and abuse. This show is about why the old method of 'talk therapy' does not address deep inner wounding, and why processes that communicate with your subconscious - where the trauma is stored - do. During this show you will learn ho...