124. What Now? Part 2: The Desire for Guarantees and the Art of Trusting Yourself

The desire for guarantees is a theme I see a lot in my practice. People realize that change is needed, but the thought of putting the change and themselves “out there” can be scary.  

We feel reluctance to express our needs because we fear what others will think about us. So, it’s no wonder we want a guarantee that we will be met with approval and acceptance. But, of course, there are no guarantees when it comes to the way others will react.

It’s time we reframe our fear and think differently about risk. After all, we have the right to express our feelings, needs, and preferences without worrying about what others will think.

Thank you for listening. Be sure to tune in next time to learn about breaking through the “wall of anxiety” so that you can move forward with confidence.

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