Divorce Dialogues
212 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 months ago - ★★★★★ - 10 ratingsDivorce Dialogues brings experts together to talk about what works (and what doesn't) to reach a better life on the other side of divorce.
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Navigating Your New Role as a Stepparent with Jean McBride
December 12, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBBeing a stepparent is tricky. How do you get involved in your stepchildren’s lives without overstepping? How do you go about disciplining a stepchild? How do you approach the holidays? Stepfamilies do have their benefits but taking on the role of a stepparent is never going to be easy. On the bad days, it can feel like you ‘set your hair on fire, and you’re trying to put it out with a hammer.’ Jean McBride is a marriage and family therapist in Northern Colorado who has helped more than 20,00...
Pioneering Collaborative Divorce in New York with Barry Berkman
November 28, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22 MBAfter 15 years of trying divorce cases in the courts, Barry Berkman had come to realize that ‘nobody ever won a divorce case.’ Litigation comes with a high price tag in the form of expense and the toxic effect on everyone involved, especially the children. So he started looking for a better way. At a mediation training in California in the mid-1990’s, Barry was inspired by stories of matrimonial lawyers using the collaborative process who hadn’t been to court in years. He returned to New Yor...
Reframing Divorce as Evolution, Not Dissolution with Tara Eisenhard
November 15, 2017 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MBThere is a great deal of shame associated with divorce, and much of the language we use around the process has an incredibly negative connotation—no one wants to be responsible for a ‘broken’ home or family. But Tara Eisenhard argues that we are all continually learning and growing, and divorce doesn’t have to be about dissolution. It can be seen as evolution, the opportunity to move forward toward new goals. Tara is a divorce coach and mediator on a mission to change the conversation about ...
Changing the Cultural Narrative Around Stepparents and Blended Families with Monique Honaman
November 01, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBStepparents tend to get a bad rap. Odds are, your first encounter with the role was through the archetype of an evil stepmother in a fairy tale like Cinderella. The cultural narrative depicts stepparents as a negative force in the life of a child—either ignoring, taking advantage, or actively working against them! Monique Honaman is on a mission to change the narrative. She has joined forces with her husband, Justin, to write BONUS Dad! BONUS Mom! A Child’s Guide to Understanding the Role of...
Process Choice: The How of Divorce Settlement with Sarah Hechtman
October 18, 2017 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.1 MBOnce you’ve decided on divorce, the next step is to determine how you and your former partner will come to a resolution. Given that 97% of divorces in New York settle before a judge gets involved, it is in your best interests to explore the full spectrum of options and make an informed decision based on your particular circumstances. This is called process choice. Sarah Hechtman is a trained collaborative lawyer and family mediator. Before practicing family law, Sarah worked as a civil right...
Selling Your Home in the Divorce Process with Anthony Sibio
October 04, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.3 MBThe divorce process initiates a time of radical change and transformation, and one major part of that change involves a potential change of address. As you and your ex-partner separate your assets, it may be necessary to sell the home you shared and make arrangements for a new place to live. Anthony Sibio is a licensed broker with Coldwell Banker Real Estate. Anthony has served the Pleasantville area for 15 years, and he sees his role as that of a trusted advisor tasked with helping each cli...
A Mindful Approach to Divorce with Nancy Colier
September 20, 2017 00:00 - 26 minutes - 23.8 MBHow do you learn to be okay with not being okay? In a culture where we’re taught to run from discomfort, it can seem like quite a feat to stop and take inventory of what’s true for us in a particular moment—especially if what we’re feeling is pain. But Nancy Colier argues that ‘company with our own experience IS the healing.’ Nancy is a psychotherapist and relationship coach whose work is grounded in mindfulness practices. She is the author of Inviting a Monkey to Tea: Befriending Your Mind...
A Humorous Look at the Divorce and Recovery Process with Kevin Cotter
September 16, 2017 00:00 - 23 minutes - 21.3 MBLaughter really can be the best medicine, even when what ails you is a painful divorce. When Kevin Cotter’s ex-wife moved out of their home, she left her wedding dress in its preservation box—on the middle shelf at the center of the closet. When Kevin asked her what he was supposed to do with it, she said, “Do whatever … you want, I’m not taking the dress!” He eventually shared this backstory with his family, and they brainstormed a number of ideas. It was Kevin’s sister-in-law who suggested...
Evolving Laws Around Companion Animals and Divorce with David Favre
August 23, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.8 MBPets are family. As a growing number of people form emotional attachments with their animals, the divorce process is further complicated by decisions around who gets to keep the pets. What can people do to look out for the best interests of the animal involved? What does the law say? Professor David Favre practiced law in Virginia prior to joining the Michigan State University Law College faculty in 1976. An expert in animal law, David has written several articles and books dealing with issu...
Maintaining Presence and Connection in a Virtual World with Nancy Colier
August 08, 2017 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.8 MBIs your phone more interesting than your husband? 75% of people say that technology seriously impacts their relationships. Thus, the very thing that is supposed to help us feel more connected is hindering our connections with the people who really matter—the ones right there in front of us. In addition to her roles as a psychotherapist, interfaith minister, mindfulness teacher and relationship coach, Nancy Colier is the author of The Power of Off: The Mindful Way to Stay Sane in a Virtual W...
Responding to Conflict with Self-Compassion and Mindful Communication with Jen Dorf
July 26, 2017 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.6 MBIf you’re in the middle of a hostile divorce, the very idea of having compassion for your former partner may be difficult to fathom. But what if you started with compassion for yourself? Holistic health coach Jen Dorf maintains that you can escape the conflict trap with a mindful approach to communication that models the way you want to be treated. Based in Mamaroneck, New York, Jen is a nutrition and wellness coach with an expertise in mindful communication. She inspires clients to create d...
Dating After Divorce with Dr. Alexandra Solomon
July 16, 2017 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBIf you’ve been out of the dating game for a while now, the landscape may seem like a brave new world. Dating apps offer endless possibilities—and overwhelm. Not to mention the fact that you are sorting through your own feelings after a divorce and working to reshape your very identity. It’s complicated to say the least. Dr. Alexandra Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University. She is regular blogger for Psychology Today and the author of Lo...
Parenting Through Divorce with Carl Pickhardt
June 28, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBAre you waiting to get divorced until your kids are a little older in the hopes that they’ll handle it better? You may be surprised to hear that kids in early adolescence have MORE of an adjustment to make when parents divorce than at any other age. Whatever your child’s age, parenting through divorce is difficult territory. Carl Pickhardt PhD is a psychologist in private practice out of Austin, Texas. He has written an impressive 15 books on the subject of parenting as well as columns for t...
Applying Restorative Justice Principles to Divorce with Matt Johnston
June 14, 2017 00:00 - 23 minutes - 21.8 MBOur current system of justice focuses on the offender. What harm did they cause? What do they deserve as punishment? What if we shifted our focus to the person who was harmed and asked different questions, like what needs to happen between the parties to make it right? How can everyone move forward? Matt Johnston is the Program Director with Domestic Violence Safe Dialogue, a Portland nonprofit focused on ending the cycle of domestic violence through safe, supervised conversations with surv...
Can You Profit from Divorce?- with Paul Ross
May 31, 2017 00:00 - 23 minutes - 21.7 MBDivorce is a source of trauma. The process is stressful and emotional. Yet it’s also an opportunity. After a settlement has been reached, you can pursue new ambitions, creating a renewed vision for your life moving forward. With the right attitude and preparation, it is possible to profit from the experience. In 2006, Paul Ross’ marriage of 25 years ended. In the five long years it took Paul and his ex-wife to reach a settlement, he applied his business background to the situation and design...
Maintaining Your Health Through the Stress of Divorce with Dinah Barr-Campanaro
May 31, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MBIt is incredibly challenging to maintain your health during the divorce process. Some of us overeat, some of us stop eating altogether. Many spend a lot of time on the couch, while others exercise non-stop. So how do you find the right balance and choose a more positive response to such a stressful time? Today’s guest has designed a blueprint to help you eat right, keep moving and take care of your social and spiritual needs. Dinah Barr-Campanaro is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist (RDN) ...
Crafting a Parenting Plan That Puts Kids First with Dr. Conklin-Danao
April 18, 2017 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBWhile divorcing partners may not be able to agree on much else, they DO want what is best for their children. But when you’re in the middle of crafting a parenting plan, it’s easy to get lost in the details, get competitive, and forget your shared mission—to provide a healthy life for your kids moving forward. Dr. Deanna Conklin-Danao is a clinical psychologist in the Chicago area. She has 15-plus years of experience in the field of mental health, serving a school-based health center, a comm...
Empowering Kids to Share Their Experience with Divorce with Ellen Bruno
April 17, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MBParents going through a separation often make one of two choices when it comes to communicating with their children: 1) They protect the children by sharing very little about the process, or 2) They involve their children in adult conversations, treating them as confidants. Neither scenario gives the children a voice—a way to share their experience. Award-winning filmmaker Ellen Bruno is on a mission to change that through the documentary SPLIT, a collaboration with children ages six through...
Putting Your Divorce on Pause with Terry Real
March 30, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.2 MB“It’s never too late. Put the divorce on pause, find a really strong, good therapist who knows what they’re doing, and give it a few months before you pull the plug.” Terry Real is a renown family therapist and the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression and How Can I Get Through to You?: Reconnecting Men and Women. Terry is the founder of the Relational Empowerment Institute, and his work has been featured on NBC Nightly News, Tod...
Taking the High Road Through Collaborative Divorce with Monique Honaman
January 18, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.6 MBReacting with aggression feels good in the moment, powerful even. Perhaps you believe that taking the high road in the divorce process puts you at a disadvantage, making you look weak—as if you’re letting the other person off the hook for their behavior. But Monique Honaman argues that the next best decision is not the one born from anger. In fact, the smart choices that work for your family long-term require the presence of mind to take emotion out of the equation. Monique had no aspiration...
Recognizing the Complexity of Divorce with Integrative Law with J. Kim Wright
January 12, 2017 00:00 - 21 minutes - 19.6 MBLet’s face it: The legal process is intimidating. Separation agreements are difficult to decipher without the help of a professional, and the process often disregards the complexity of what people are going through. Beyond the legal piece, there are emotional, financial, even spiritual implications around ending a marriage. Integrative law seeks to recognize that complexity and design conscious contracts that people can understand and use to resolve conflict. Kim Wright is a leader in the fi...
Mediation: Compromise or Negotiation? - with Gary Friedman
January 11, 2017 00:00 - 23 minutes - 21.4 MBMost people think of mediation as compromise, but Gary Friedman sees it differently. In his view, the process is a negotiation. Rather than competing over assets, the divorcing partners identify what they need to move forward and then find the best way to divide or allocate resources accordingly. Yes, there will be disagreements, but if you can turn around your impulse to see each other as enemies, there are ways of cooperating that produce results that are better for both parties. Gary has ...
The Healing Power of Compassion with Dr. Steven Stosny
January 11, 2017 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.2 MBIf you’re going through a contentious divorce, hurt and anger are par for the course. You may even believe that holding onto your rage is a show of strength. But the truth is, blame renders you powerless to your own emotions. What if I told you that true power—and the ability to heal—lies in your ability to choose compassion? Dr. Steven Stosny is the creator of Compassion Power, an organization founded on the belief that people are, indeed, more powerful when they are compassionate. Dr. Stos...
The Lawyer as Peacemaker with David Hoffman
December 15, 2016 00:00 - 23 minutes - 21.5 MBThe 14th Dalai Lama wisely said, ‘Peace is not simply the absence of war. It is not a passive state of being. We must wage peace, as vigilantly as we wage war.’ Our cultural bias suggests that peacemaking is somehow weak or submissive, when in fact, it takes a great deal more strength and confidence to listen and consider a point of view different from our own—especially in the legal profession. David Hoffman is the founder of Boston Law Collaborative where he serves as a mediator, arbitrato...
Understanding the Numbers with a Divorce Financial Analyst with Michelle Smith
December 02, 2016 00:00 - 26 minutes - 24.6 MBIf you left the more complex issues of financial planning to your spouse during the marriage, navigating the numbers during the divorce settlement process can be incredibly intimidating. You may need considerable time to process any financial proposal brought to the table, and you would benefit from professional support in understanding what the numbers mean—and whether or not you’re going to be okay when it comes to money in the aftermath of the divorce. Michelle Smith is the CEO of Smith F...
Redesigning Your Living Space Post-Divorce with Jodi Topitz
October 20, 2016 00:00 - 26 minutes - 23.8 MBNo matter the circumstances, divorce is intensely emotional, and we tend to focus on the internal journey of people navigating the process. But what about the externals? The space where we live and the objects we surround ourselves with have a significant impact on the way we feel—and designing a new space or reclaiming an old one can go a long way to helping people move on with their lives post-divorce. Jodi Topitz is the founder of we2me, a unique interior design firm for divorcing couples...
Self-Compassion + Collaborative Settlement = Splitopia with Wendy Paris
October 20, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBWhen Wendy Paris announced her trial separation to her liberal friends in New York City, she was surprised by the incredibly negative feedback she received. But when she unpacked their predictions of doom and gloom, Wendy realized that their fears around divorce derived from the facts of an earlier era, before no fault filing was an option. Wendy and her ex-husband moved slowly, leveraging alternative dispute resolution to collaborate on a settlement that set them both up for success. Wendy ...
Parenting Strategies to Help Children Thrive Through Divorce with Dr. Joanne Pedro-Carroll
October 19, 2016 18:44 - 25 minutes - 23.5 MBParents worry about the long-term impact divorce will have on their children. The good news is that two-thirds of the children of divorce are just fine. The bad news is that one-third are, indeed, disadvantaged by long-term problems. What can parents do to ensure that their children fall in to the resilient category—and go on to thrive in the aftermath of divorce? Dr. JoAnne Pedro-Carroll is recognized internationally as an authority in the field of children and divorce, speaking regularly ...
A Better Way to Divorce Through the Collaborative Model with Sue Brunsting, Esq.
October 06, 2016 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBBy 2001, Suzanne Brunsting had been practicing as a matrimonial litigator for 20 years. The more experienced she got, the more difficult and contentious the cases referred to her. Day in, day out, she was witness to the damage endured by families embroiled in the process, especially the children at the center of custody battles. There had to be a better way. And that spring, a colleague introduced Sue to the collaborative model. Now Sue is a collaborative lawyer and settlement advocate who h...
Process Choice in High-Conflict Divorce with Bill Eddy
September 22, 2016 00:00 - 26 minutes - 24.1 MBTraditionally, alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation and collaborative divorce are seen as a good fit for couples who are civil to each other and simply need a professional to support them in the legal aspects of the process. But Bill Eddy argues that the non-adversarial processes are crucial for high-conflict people navigating divorce. Bill Eddy is a lawyer, therapist, mediator and the co-founder and Training Director of the High Conflict Institute. He has become an interna...
Dignity, Self-Preservation and Conflict Resolution in Relationships with Donna Hicks
August 03, 2016 00:00 - 27 minutes - 24.7 MBWhether a conflict involves international powers, corporate leadership, or a husband and wife, a violation of dignity is always the underlying cause. No matter the situation, we are all looking to be treated as if we have worth and value, and it is this fundamental desire for dignity that makes us human. How can a better understanding of the principles of dignity help us improve our relationships and address conflicts in a way that doesn’t perpetuate a destructive dynamic? Donna Hicks has 20...
Substance Abuse and the Divorce Process Dr. Ray Griffin
July 28, 2016 00:00 - 23 minutes - 21.2 MBSubstance abuse often plays a role in the divorce process, either as the catalyst for or the result of conflict in a relationship. How do you go about having your former partner evaluated to ensure their health and safety—and that of your children? Dr. Raymond Griffin has worked in the field of addiction and counseling for 37-plus years. He served as the president of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence as well as founder and director of the Greenwich Center. Dr. Griffin ha...
A Community of Women Navigating Divorce with Elise Pettus
July 27, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.1 MB‘How you go through this forest determines, to great extent, who you are when you come out of it.’ Getting divorced can feel a lot like being lost in the woods. And no matter how much information you have gathered from the experts, you probably still feel very much alone. What if there was a community of women making their way through that same forest that you could go to for support and guidance? Elise Pettus is the founder and Editorial Director of UNtied, an online and real-life communit...
The Myths of Litigated Divorce & the Benefits of Mediation with Sam Margulies
July 27, 2016 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.1 MBThe parties in a litigated divorce spend years—and tens-of-thousands of dollars—preparing for a trial that is extremely unlikely to happen. This disconnect led to the development of mediation as an option, allowing divorcing couples to work toward settlement without spending unnecessary time and money in preparation for a trial that will never come to fruition. Are there other myths and misconceptions about the conventional litigation model? What are the benefits of mediation? Sam Margulies ...
The Deep Process of Releasing Conflict in Divorce with Alexis Neely
July 18, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MBAlexis Neely was going through an adversarial divorce settlement process. One evening in a hotel room, the weight of the conflict landed on her, and she prayed that a higher power would show her the way to resolution. In that moment, a very clear voice inside said, “Ask him what he needs to be safe, and give it to him.” Initially, Alexis resisted. Would her ex-husband take advantage of her generosity? What if he asked for more than she had to give? Eventually, though, Alexis found the courage...
Understanding Parental Alienation with Charlie Jamison
June 30, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.5 MBParental alienation is a high-stakes game with serious, long-term consequences for the children involved. When a child is manipulated into showing unwarranted fear or hostility toward the targeted parent and used as a pawn in one parent’s agenda against the other, it alters their sense of reality and normalizes deceit in the context of relationships. What causes a parent to put their child in this position? Board Certified Marital and Family Law attorney Charles Jamieson has been protecting ...
Prenuptial Agreements: A Framework for Conflict-Resolution with Mindy Utay
June 15, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.5 MB‘We are emotionally wired to avoid conflict. People sometimes have to be forced to—or have to be encouraged or coached to—and the prenup provides that opportunity because you really do have to sit down, roll up your sleeves, and start talking about what’s important to you.’ Mindy Utay is a psychotherapist in practice on Manhattan’s Upper East Side. Her background in the law, social work, and psychoanalysis allows Mindy to support couples and families in identifying and resolving conflicts w...
Allegations of Child Abuse and Neglect During Divorce with Allison Williams
June 02, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.1 MBWhen emotions are running high in the divorce process, it is not uncommon for people to amplify their concerns over an ex-spouse’s ability to parent. In some cases, those concerns might lead to allegations of child abuse and neglect. What is the right course of action when you suspect an ex-spouse of substance abuse or mental health issues? What can you do to ensure the health and safety of your children without overreacting? What happens once Child Protective Services gets involved? Alliso...
Making Divorce Child-Centric with Dr. Eric Frazer
May 22, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBIn working with divorcing clients, family lawyers develop both legal and financial strategy. But there is a third element to the ‘triad of divorce’—the family. How can we support lawyers in gathering the information they need in the area of child custody? How can we make divorce child-centric and support families in making a fluid transition? How can we put the ‘family’ back in family law? Dr. Eric Frazer is the co-founder of Child Custody Analytics, an online platform designed to provide ...
The Bipartisan Budget Act & Changes to Social Security with Gayle Lob
May 18, 2016 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MBWith the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015, lawmakers closed the loophole that allowed a worker to file for social security benefits and then suspend payments—while his or her partner collected the spousal benefit. How might these changes impact your social security benefits? How can you maximize the amount you receive from the government? And how are social security benefits calculated in the first place? Gayle Lob is the President and CEO of Lob Planning Group. With 29 years of experience in f...
The Unique Emotional Journey of Divorce with Shireen Meistrich
April 20, 2016 00:00 - 26 minutes - 23.8 MBDivorce is a difficult emotional journey, regardless of the circumstances. But in most cases, the divorcing partners are in very different places along that journey. The person leaning out has likely been thinking about ending the marriage for a long time, while the other is a bit of a ‘deer in headlights’ and needs time to catch up emotionally. What role can a divorce coach play in helping the couple navigate this common disconnect? Shireen Meistrich is the President of the International Ac...
Nobody WINS in a Litigated Divorce with Judge Sondra Miller
April 01, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBThe vast majority of divorcing couples who choose litigation do so due to the misconception that the courts will protect them. The fact is, 97% of divorce cases in New York settle before they go to trial, and the judge is in no position to protect the 3% that do. The Honorable Sondra Miller spent 21 years in the court system, and she contends that divorcing couples are much better served by alternative dispute resolution processes such as mediation and collaborative divorce. Judge Miller rec...
Advice from Adult Children of Divorce
March 17, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.1 MB‘[The conflict] was so contentious on a regular basis, there was no room for the children—and that’s the danger.’ The sad truth is that divorcing parents embroiled in conflict are often so wrapped up in their own pain that they fail to protect their children. This was true for Janet, an adult child of divorce who continues to feel the impact of the tension, hostility and destruction that marked the end of her parents’ relationship. Today, Janet sits down with Katherine to share her difficu...
The Emotional Repercussions of Divorce with Elana Katz
March 13, 2016 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.3 MBDivorce can bring out sides of ourselves we didn’t know were there. Depression is common, as is rage. And many divorcing couples are surprised by these feelings of extreme anger or sadness and isolation. The question becomes, how do you process these emotions and deal with them in a healthy way? Elana Katz is a psychotherapist and collaborative divorce professional based in Manhattan. She also serves as senior faculty at the Ackerman Institute for the Family, where she teaches advanced famil...
The Founding Father of Collaborative Divorce with Stu Webb
March 10, 2016 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.3 MBIn 1990, Minneapolis divorce attorney Stu Webb was burned out and ready to call it a day. He had been practicing family law for 26 years, and he was done with the adversarial nature of litigation. Stu had a plan to quit his law practice, but he decided to quit ‘outrageously’ and try something completely different—working WITH the other lawyer toward a settlement for the divorcing couple. The concept worked, and Stu became the founding father of collaborative divorce. Stu began to share infor...
Choosing Acceptance When You Can’t Forgive with Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring
February 25, 2016 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.2 MBWe’re taught that forgiveness is good for us, that it’s what good people do. But if you’ve experienced betrayal or hurt and the responsible party demonstrates little remorse, forgiveness may seem impossible. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring would argue that acceptance is a viable alternative to forgiveness, allowing you to stop obsessing over the injury, get healthy and heal. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring is a board certified clinical psychologist and renowned expert in the realm of trust, intimacy and f...
A Case Study in Mediation and Litigation
January 30, 2016 00:00 - 22 minutes - 20.7 MBYou may have guessed that the tone of the mediation process is very different from that of litigation, but you may or may not realize that a couple can makes use of more than one process choice during the course of a divorce. Barbara and her ex-husband, Alan, used a mediator to design a parenting plan, and the process was both cost-effective and peaceful. But when it came time to deal with the unraveling of their financial lives, the tone shifted. Barbara had left her job in social work 13 ...
The Child Specialist: Giving Children a Voice in the Divorce Process with Dr. Lauren Behrman
January 12, 2016 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MBParents are often wary of the role of a child specialist in the divorce process. They don’t want to put their children in a difficult position, and the divorcing couple may be under the mistaken impression that the child specialist is there to do a forensic evaluation and make custody recommendations. Rather, it is the job of a child specialist to empower the children in the collaborative process, giving voice to their needs and concerns. Dr. Lauren Behrman is a clinical psychologist, child...
Unlocking Your Destructive Cycle to Stop the Fight with Michelle Brody, Ph.D.
December 18, 2015 00:00 - 25 minutes - 23.1 MBThough the details are different, most couples argue about the same old issues: Money. Sex. Household responsibilities. But the true root of the problem stems from the feelings of hurt that inspire a defensive reaction and perpetuate a destructive cycle of conflict. So, how do you stop the fight? Is there a better way to respond to hurt that will allow you and your partner to engage in solving the problem together? Michelle Brody is a clinical psychologist and couples coach who specializes i...
Making Financial Decisions After Divorce with Carole Epstein
December 02, 2015 00:00 - 24 minutes - 22.1 MBDivorce often means being thrust into a series of financial decisions that you may or may not feel prepared to make. And if divorce has brought you sudden wealth, financial professionals are likely crawling out of the woodwork to offer their services. How do you choose the right advisor for you? What resources are available to help you learn the basics of investing? What are some of the common challenges people face in your position? Carole Epstein has been a licensed financial advisor with ...