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Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

217 episodes - English - Latest episode: 9 days ago - ★★★★★ - 22 ratings

Divorce is the second highest stressor for women, second only to the death of a spouse.

Are you feeling overwhelmed and not even sure where to start? If so, you are in the right place! We are so glad you are here. Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women is for women who want to be heard, want to step into their financial power and want to get a better outcome. What is your next best disruptive move? Join Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Rhonda Noordyk, as she provides you with candid conversations, practical strategies, and positive encouragement so you can breathe easier and feel empowered every step of the way. Rhonda has spent over 18,000 hours helping women like you navigate divorce, challenge the status quo and come out stronger. So, if you're ready to accelerate your confidence and increase your sense of empowerment, tune in and join the thousands of women growing every day through the podcast.

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Episodes

A Special Series: False Sense of...Amicability

March 07, 2023 16:37 - 24 minutes - 29.5 MB

False Sense Series False Sense of... Amicability It is far wiser to judge people by their deeds than their speech – judge their track record rather than their talk. -Rasheed Ogunlaru Do you find yourself believing what your spouse says rather than believing their actions?  This is what I call creating a false sense of amicability.  What is a false sense of amicability and how does it play out for some people in the divorce process?  It is where one person believes it is possible ...

A Special Series: A False Sense of... Financial Security

February 22, 2023 14:04 - 13 minutes - 15.3 MB

Did you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had “financial surprises” during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to another family member, taking loans from 401ks and more!).  Furthermore, here are a few comments women may hear from their spouse in hopes to k...

Episode 153: A Special Series: A False Sense of... Financial Security

February 22, 2023 14:04 - 13 minutes - 15.3 MB

Did you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had “financial surprises” during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to another family member, taking loans from 401ks and more!).  Furthermore, here are a few comments women may hear from their spouse in hopes to k...

Episode 152: What Do You Do When You’re Feeling Lost In A Broken System?

February 11, 2023 00:27 - 38 minutes - 43.9 MB

Rhonda sits down with Trauma-Informed Coach and author, Houa Utech to discuss covert narcissism and what it’s like to move through the divorce process when you feel like you have no control. They discuss:   What can you do to build your team? Ways the court system is broken. How to end up with what you deserve. Tips to deal with the trauma you carry.   And be sure to check out Houa’s Book:  The Unseen Wounds of Women  About today’s guest:    Houa Utech is an International Trau...

Episode 151: What's going on with YOUR divorce strategy?

December 09, 2022 20:23 - 57 minutes - 66.3 MB

Recently, Rhonda sat down with Divorce Mortgage Planner, Tami Wollensak, on her YouTube video series, Peaceful Divide.  We are pleased to be able to share that conversation with you here! Tami and Rhonda discuss strategy, finding the right team, and moving the needle to enable women to walk away empowered.    Have you ever wondered how Rhonda approaches her strategy? Listen in!     About our Guests today: Tami Wollensak is a Senior Mortgage Loan Originator and a Certified Divorce...

Episode 150: Amazing ways to prioritize travel...even if you're single again!

November 18, 2022 18:16 - 23 minutes - 26.3 MB

If you’re contemplating divorce, or in the middle of the process, you may not see what your life can look like moving forward. Our guest, Laura Ericson believes in new beginnings! Laura and Rhonda talk about how you can prioritize travel - even if it’s just a weekend away. Taking time for yourself can be an important part of the healing process.  About today’s guest:    Laura Ericson is a travel expert and guide - ready to help you plan your next trip.    Although Laura has always l...

Episode 149: How you can work through your emotions to find your Authentic Self

November 11, 2022 11:45 - 50 minutes - 58 MB

Are you contemplating divorce? Do you feel unsettled and can’t quite answer the question, “What do I really want?”    Today’s episode is a special one. Rhonda is joined by Certified Energy & Performance Coach, Nicole Isler as they honor and remember a mutual client who lived out her next best move to the fullest. You’ll be encouraged and inspired as you hear the story of how she worked through her emotions and found her true, authentic self.    Our hope is that as you listen, you’ll ...

Episode 148: Discover ways to become your own best advocate

November 04, 2022 11:15 - 29 minutes - 33.5 MB

“Don’t be afraid to be your own advocate.” Attorney Brian Blitz and Rhonda have an eye opening conversation about the divorce process, how it affects women, and ways to get the support you need. Spoiler: it takes a team; one that will provide the strategy you need to come out ahead.  About today’s guest:    Brian says:   You do better for people when you do better with people. That’s not only my approach to matrimonial law, it’s my approach to life. Working with clients through some...

Episode 147: How to have tough conversations with AJ Grossman

October 21, 2022 10:45 - 29 minutes - 33.2 MB

Rhonda’s guest today is AJ Grossman, owner of Leap Frog Divorce.  AJ is a master at navigating tough conversations in divorce.   How do you respond? Is a response required? How to engage in a difficult conversation with a learning mindset.   Establishing good boundaries Neutralize the emotion Determine how to protect yourself if a civil conversation isn't possible.  Breathe! You’ll be ok   WEBSITE LinkedIN Facebook YouTube   About today’s guest:  A.J. Grossman g...

Episode 146: Divorce Is An Never Ending Learning Curve

October 14, 2022 10:45 - 44 minutes - 50.8 MB

Rhonda’s guest today is Paulette Rigo from Better Divorce Academy. If you are contemplating divorce or in the midst of going through it, it’s important to stay educated! Finding the right experts to walk with you in the process is instrumental to the success of the outcome.   About today’s guest:   As a Credentialed Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach and Director of Divorce Coaching and Management for Divorce Operations for Divorce Right Inc. Paulette Rigo specializes in mediating a...

Episode 145: Managing Your Money Isn’t As Hard As You Think

October 07, 2022 19:27 - 26 minutes - 31.2 MB

Britt Baker, Dow Janes co-founder and money mindset coach, sits down with Rhonda to delve into the mindset of money. Who do you want to be with your money?  How do you go about rewriting your story? If you’re feeling discouraged, you aren’t alone - and this episode will give you the tools you need to make some real changes.   Learn what a weekly money ritual is and how it’s actually self-care! Check out Britt’s free resource:    https://try.dowjanes.com/ritual/ About today’s guest: ...

Episode 144: Live Free and Safe with Lisa Fontes, PhD

July 01, 2022 11:15 - 29 minutes - 34.2 MB

Today’s episode tackles the difficult subject of Coercive Control and the various ways your spouse could be controlling you. Rhonda and Lisa discuss some trends and offer suggestions on how to set boundaries and fight back.  About today’s guest:    Lisa Fontes, PhD, is an internationally known expert on child abuse, intimate partner abuse, and sexual violence. As a researcher, activist, expert witness, and author, she works to protect the most vulnerable people from violence. She has ...

Episode 143: Knowledge is Power with Forensic Accountant Tracy Coenen

June 24, 2022 10:30 - 28 minutes - 33.1 MB

Have you ever felt like something is “off” in regard to your spouse and your finances? The warning sides of fraud could be right in front of you. Tracy and Rhonda discuss the red flags to look out for and how to trust your gut. Be sure to connect with Tracy and access her Divorce Money Guide!   About today’s guest:   Tracy Coenen is a Forensic Accountant  with Sequence Inc. Forensic Accounting   Tracy has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years, but she didn’t always want...

Episode 142: Get Curious & Ask the Right Questions with Investigator Philip Segal

June 17, 2022 10:30 - 35 minutes - 40.7 MB

Rhonda sits down with Philip Segal to discuss the role of an investigator as you go through the divorce process. Learn how to ask the right questions, surround yourself with the right people and uncover things that can help you at settlement time. You may know more than you think you know!   About today’s guest: Philip Segal is a Managing Member with Charles Griffin Intelligence.    Philip has been a lawyer and investigator since 2007. Prior to that, he was a journalist for 19 years ...

Episode 141: Reprogramming Your Mind

May 20, 2022 13:00 - 27 minutes - 33.8 MB

Rhonda sits down with Christian speaker and author, Laura Sandretti to discuss all the ways women stay stuck in guilt and shame by the way they talk to themselves. It is possible to reprogram your mind to break free from what is holding you back.  Pay attention to how you talk to yourself and work to change the conversation going on in your own head. Most importantly, give yourself grace.    About today’s guest:   Laura Sandretti has been a Christian speaker, blogger, and author for ...

140: Land the Job you Want with Nikky Ryberg

May 13, 2022 16:30 - 33 minutes - 40.9 MB

Are you re-entering the job market - or wanting to uplevel your current position? Rhonda and Career Coach Nikki Ryberg talk about ways to maximize this current climate. Nikki offers suggestions on ways to get creative as you transition, and shares her advice on how to land the job you really want. Be sure to check out Nikki’s website below to access her free course. About today’s guest:   After 15+ years in HR leadership roles, Nikki Ryberg transitioned to become a Career Coach and Resu...

Episode 140: Land the Job you Want with Nikki Ryberg

May 13, 2022 16:30 - 33 minutes - 40.9 MB

Are you re-entering the job market - or wanting to uplevel your current position? Rhonda and Career Coach Nikki Ryberg talk about ways to maximize this current climate. Nikki offers suggestions on ways to get creative as you transition, and shares her advice on how to land the job you really want. Be sure to check out Nikki’s website below to access her free course. About today’s guest:   After 15+ years in HR leadership roles, Nikki Ryberg transitioned to become a Career Coach and Resu...

Episode 139: Balance IS possible with Cheree Sauer

May 07, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 40.3 MB

Rhonda and Cheree talk openly about life as a busy Mom - whether you’re running your own business, or just managing your household, you CAN find balance. The key is to shift your perspective, know yourself, and take some time to think about what you value most. If you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, (and who isn’t these days?) this episode will offer practical tips to make some changes.    About today’s guest:   Cheree Sauer is a Life and Mindset Coach for Momprenreneurs and has...

Episode 138: Military Divorce with Attorney Robert Taylor

April 29, 2022 16:00 - 32 minutes - 39.9 MB

Today’s conversation is a first for us! Rhonda and Attorney Robert Taylor sit down to discuss what divorce looks like if you or your spouse serves in the military. Finding an attorney who specializes in this area is key as you navigate the rules and regulations of being a military couple. They tackle the topics:   Where should you get divorced? Housing and retirement Benefits   If you are in the military or married to someone who is, and contemplating divorce, this is a must listen...

Episode 137: Coercive Control with Christine Cocchiola

March 25, 2022 10:00 - 33 minutes - 41.9 MB

Rhonda’s guest today is Christine Cocchiola, Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, & Survivor.   Rhonda and Christine tackle the difficult topic of Coercive Control - what it is, and how it affects you and your children. There are many forms of abuse, including in your finances. Christine offers practical tactics and strategies to keep you safe and supported.    About today’s guest:    Christine Cocchiola is a college educator and clinician in social work. She is an ad...

Episode 136: Contemplating Mediation? What you need to know.

March 18, 2022 16:55 - 34 minutes - 39.5 MB

Are you wondering if mediation is right for you? Rhonda and Alison discuss the questions to ask yourself, your spouse, and your potential mediator before moving forward.    Mediation can be a great option but it’s important to know how the process works to know if it’s right for you and your family.  About today’s guest:   Family means everything to Alison, which is why she has dedicated herself to peacemaking in divorce and helping families restructure in the most amicable way poss...

Episode 135: Addiction is a Family Disease

March 11, 2022 17:30 - 26 minutes - 29.9 MB

Rhonda sits down with Family Recovery Coach Lisa Smith to discuss how addiction affects the entire family. Lisa offers some practical ways to establish your own personal values and set healthy boundaries. Start by asking yourself, “What do I need right now?”   About today’s guest: Lisa Smith is a Certified Family Recovery Coach & Educator. She has lived experience with addiction in her own family and went in search for answers and a better way to connect, move forward and have influence wh...

Episode 134: Rebuilding your Sense of Self

March 05, 2022 11:30 - 35 minutes - 56.3 MB

Marriage and family therapist Gilza Fort Martinez talks with Rhonda about leaning into the uncertainty of separation and divorce. They address how to ground your emotions and begin to dream of possibilities for yourself. Divorce can be an opportunity to rebuild your life when you have the right people by your side.   About today’s guest:   Gilza Fort Martinez is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Miami, Florida. She has worked with women in their families through various lif...

Episode 133: Title: Is Collaborative Divorce Right for You?

February 25, 2022 11:00 - 57 minutes - 70.1 MB

Family Law Attorney, author and speaker Ashley-Nicole Russell is our guest today! Ashley-Nicole and Rhonda do a deep dive on collaborative divorce - what it is, and how it compares to other available options. This is a raw and  honest look into a broken system and why choosing collaboration might be the right answer for you.   If you’re contemplating divorce, do not miss this conversation! About today’s guest:   Ashley-Nicole Russell, Esq. is an award-winning family law attorney, au...

Episode 133: Is Collaborative Divorce Right for You?

February 25, 2022 11:00 - 57 minutes - 70.1 MB

Family Law Attorney, author, and speaker Ashley-Nicole Russell is our guest today! Ashley-Nicole and Rhonda do a deep dive on collaborative divorce - what it is, and how it compares to other available options. This is a raw and honest look into a broken system and why choosing collaboration might be the right answer for you.   If you’re contemplating divorce, do not miss this conversation! About today’s guest:   Ashley-Nicole Russell, Esq. is an award-winning family law attorney, au...

Episode 132: Divorce Over 50

February 18, 2022 15:00 - 30 minutes - 38.2 MB

Rhonda and Attorney Tina Roddenbery discuss the new trend of “gray divorce” and how divorcing later in life presents unique challenges. They look at 5 key areas to consider as you move through the process. If this is you, listen in and take notes!   About today’s guest:   Tina has focused her practice on all aspects of family and domestic relations law, including divorce, division of assets, custody, alimony, child support, support modification, legitimation, paternity, and contempt ...

Episode 131: Life After Divorce

February 11, 2022 15:00 - 19 minutes - 21.8 MB

Join Rhonda as she talks with Divorce Coach, Twyla Marks about moving forward after divorce. They discuss 3 key things to help you find confidence, contentment, and joy after the dust settles.    About today’s guest:   Twyla M.Marks is a woman of God who exemplifies the life of an overcomer. She's a Texas native, sports lover, specifically speaking, a Dallas Cowboys lover, and has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She's a single mother of two adult children. Her daught...

Episode 130: Finding Love Again

February 04, 2022 17:15 - 21 minutes - 28.3 MB

You may not be ready for this just yet, but it’s something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships.    Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly’s special offer! About today’s guest: Dr. Holly Battey   Dr. Holly helps conscious single men and women find the love of their dreams. With a doctorate in clinical psychology, she fo...

Episode 130: Finding Love Again

February 04, 2022 17:15 - 21 minutes - 28.3 MB

You may not be ready for this just yet, but it’s something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships.    Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly’s special offer! About today’s guest: Dr. Holly Battey   Dr. Holly helps conscious single men and women find the love of their dreams. With a doctorate in clinical psychology, she fo...

Episode 129: The Importance of Estate Planning

January 28, 2022 15:00 - 24 minutes - 32.2 MB

Do you have a plan? Rhonda talks with Attorney Ashley Lillesand about the importance of establishing an estate plan - especially if you have minor children. Choosing the right people to handle your affairs is an empowering process and will bring you peace of mind post-divorce. It’s easier than you think!   About our guest:   Attorney Ashley E. Lillesand is the managing partner at Lillesand Law LLC. She focuses her practice on Estate Planning, Estate & Trust Administration, Guardiansh...

Episode 128: What If We Go To Trial?

January 21, 2022 15:00 - 36 minutes - 47.8 MB

On today’s episode, Rhonda sits down with Attorney Lindsay Renier to discuss how to prepare for trial. It’s not necessarily what anyone wants, but it’s a possibility, and you need to be prepared. Lindsay shares ways to set yourself up for success during the process. About today’s guest:   Lindsay Renier is the Owner & Attorney with Renier Hotopp Law.   As the owner and operator of Renier Hotopp Law, Lindsay represents women going through divorce or child custody issues. She not on...

Episode 127: Transform Conflict in your Life

December 10, 2021 12:00 - 24 minutes - 34.3 MB

Rhonda and her guest, Cherie Morris, discuss conflict resolution and practical ways to communicate effectively. Cherie explains the BIFF method and other strategies for communicating so that you can begin to honor yourself in times of stress and conflict.    Grab Cherie’s free download!   https://deardivorcecoach.com/request-transform-conflict-in-your-life/   More about our guest:   Cherie practiced law for many years before transitioning to full-time coaching seven years ag...

Episode 126: Pre-Nups, Post-Nups, & Why You Need A Budget

December 03, 2021 14:00 - 40 minutes - 56.2 MB

Attorney Dennis Vetrano talks with Rhonda about ways you can build your team and set yourself up for financial success. They discuss pre and post nups, the importance of setting up a budget, and ways to prepare yourself for a healthy financial future separate from your spouse. You don’t want to miss any of this conversation!   --   Today’s guest is Dennis Vetrano, Jr., Attorney and Owner of the Law Office of Dennis Vetrano, Jr. LLC in Dutchess County, NY.    Vetrano graduated fro...

Episode 125: Contemplating Divorce "Should I Stay Or Should I Go?" with Kate Anthony

November 19, 2021 14:00 - 44 minutes - 59.8 MB

Rhonda talks with Podcast Host and Coach, Kate Anthony about how women can take care of themselves as they contemplate divorce. Kate tackles the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go?   About our guest, Kate Anthony:   Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most diffi...

125: Contemplating Divorce "Should I Stay Or Should I Go?" with Kate Anthony

November 19, 2021 14:00 - 44 minutes - 59.8 MB

Rhonda talks with Podcast Host and Coach, Kate Anthony about how women can take care of themselves as they contemplate divorce. Kate tackles the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go?   About our guest, Kate Anthony:   Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most diffi...

Episode 124: The 5 Stages Of Ritual and Navigating Through Change

November 12, 2021 17:00 - 22 minutes - 35.2 MB

Claire and Rhonda talk about rituals and how they help you move forward during any kind of transition. Tune in for their discussion of the 5 stages of ritual and how that can help you navigate through change. This episode gives practical tips that you can begin to implement into your life today!   About our guest:   Claire Jones is a Change Guide that supports conscious visionaries who are navigating transitional spaces in their personal or professional lives.    Through bespoke ...

124: The 5 Stages Of Ritual and Navigating Through Change

November 12, 2021 17:00 - 22 minutes - 35.2 MB

Claire and Rhonda talk about rituals and how they help you move forward during any kind of transition. Tune in for their discussion of the 5 stages of ritual and how that can help you navigate through change. This episode gives practical tips that you can begin to implement into your life today!   About our guest:   Claire Jones is a Change Guide that supports conscious visionaries who are navigating transitional spaces in their personal or professional lives.    Through bespoke ...

Episode 123: One Mom’s Battle - fighting the family court system with Tina Swithin

November 05, 2021 11:00 - 33 minutes - 53.3 MB

Our guest today is Tina Swithin, Author and Family Court Advocate. Tina founded One Mom’s Battle after navigating a high-conflict divorce in the California Family Court System. Rhonda and Tina discuss the importance of documentation, preparation, and strategy to take on these difficult domestic abuse cases. Grab a pen - you’ll want to take notes! Connect with Tina:   Company Website - www.onemomsbattle.com    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/onemomsbattle    LinkedIn - https:...

Episode 122: The Importance Of Parenting Plans with Brian Victor

November 01, 2021 13:00 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MB

Our guest today is Brian Victor, Attorney, JD, and LMFT. Brian is a family law attorney in San Diego, California focusing on the mediation of divorce, child custody, and parent plans. Brian has experience as a Family Court Counselor and brings us a unique perspective on the divorce process. He and Rhonda discuss mediation options and the importance of a good parenting plan.    Connect with Brian: The Law Offices of Brian A. Victor https://brianvictorlaw.com/ Facebook: https://www.f...

Episode 121: Benefits of Mediation and Communication During the Divorce Process with Amanda Singer

October 15, 2021 04:00 - 21 minutes - 19.8 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amanda Singer. Amanda is Co-Owner of West Coast Family Mediation Center. She is a Licensed Attorney, Certified Mediator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Amanda’s key area of practice is mediation.  According to Amanda, mediation is not going to work in all situations, but it does in a lot more than people realize. Some couples might agree on everything and they just might need more help with getting things done correctly. And there are those that a...

Episode 120:Help Your Kids Manage Their Money with Gregg Murset

October 08, 2021 04:00 - 20 minutes - 18.4 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Gregg Murset, the CEO of BusyKid, which is the ultimate debit card and app that helps teach kids how to manage their own money. Gregg is a Certified Financial Planner and consultant who has become a great advocate for sound parenting. In this episode, Gregg shares the importance of teaching your kids the value of money and managing it. He gives us some good tips on how you could help your kids have a better future by teaching them about the financial aspects ...

Episode 119 :Things to Consider When Selling Your Home in A Divorce with Bridget Pottert

October 01, 2021 04:00 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MB

In today’s episode, Rhonda is joined by Bridget Potterton. Bridget is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert in the state of California. Today they discuss the things you should be considering before selling your home during your divorce. Selling your home could be a tough decision due to various reasons such as emotional attachment, but you must consider everything when making this big decision in your life.  Bridget reminds today’s listeners to be careful and consider everything in makin...

Episode 118:Debunking Divorce Myths With David Iancu

September 24, 2021 04:00 - 30 minutes - 26.5 MB

In today's episode, I sat down with David Iancu of Karp & Iancu, S.C. law firm in the state of Wisconsin, to debunk some of the myths surrounding divorce.  Disclaimer! The discussion that we had pertains specifically to the laws on divorce in the State of Wisconsin. What we discussed may not apply to you as each state has its own laws pertaining to this matter.  Nevertheless, I am encouraging you to listen to our discussion because there might be things that you didn't initially consider tha...

Episode 117:Other Ways to Get a Divorce with Nicole Cheri Oden

September 17, 2021 04:00 - 39 minutes - 36.4 MB

For today’s episode, Rhonda is joined by Nicole Cheri Oden. Nicole is an attorney licensed in the State of California for almost 10 years with her own virtual law practice. Today they will discuss the various options when going through a divorce. Litigation divorce isn't the only way and being aware of these options can help families minimize the emotional stress and costs during a difficult time. Taking a step back to review the emotional climate between the two parties can eventually help ...

Episode 116: Women, Money and the Mindset Around it with Ariel Kopac

August 06, 2021 04:00 - 32 minutes - 30.1 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ariel Kopac, the founder and owner of Harness Your Hindrance. They talk about money and the mindsets that keep us stuck. We all experience fears around money, and that fear is heightened when there is a significant life change, especially divorce. Knowing that you can call out the fear, face it, and not be manipulated by it, you embrace the power you have. We can be manipulated by fear, or we can manipulate our fear. The choice is ours. Women going through di...

Episode 115: Life After Divorce with Elizabeth Kay

July 30, 2021 04:00 - 28 minutes - 25.8 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Elizabeth Kay, the Morning Show host on 99.1 The Mix and podcast host of “50 Shades of Kay”. Elizabeth talks about her divorce process, the things she did, and the things she wished she did differently. She also talks about her life after divorce. According to her, you are going to have tough days, even after the divorce, because you need the time to mourn your relationship. Elizabeth also shares about her life in a blended family and gives some excellent co-...

Episode 114: Financial Independence with Amee Quiriconi

July 23, 2021 04:00 - 43 minutes - 40.1 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amee Quiriconi. Amee is an advocate, business consultant, speaker, author, and the owner of Activity Girl, LLC. Amee has been divorced twice and has learned valuable lessons from each experience. According to Amee, divorce is emotional. We have to find space in our divorce process to breathe, to calm down, and to come back to the really hard decisions that we have to make when we are not amplified, and elevated, stressed down, and depressed. Here are some...

Episode 113: Mediation with Dan Exner

June 18, 2021 04:00 - 34 minutes - 31.4 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Attorney Dan Exner, Family Law and Divorce Lawyer, and the Founder of Exner Legal, LLC. They talk about mediation. There are some misperceptions about mediation. Mediation is not an alternative to the divorce process. And mediator is not an attorney that’s there to advise people. Mediators are not supposed to give you any kind of direction - their role is either to find the middle ground or to figure out where there is none.  The one thing Dan wants you t...

Episode 112: Prepare, Plan, Investigate and Know Your Facts with Ilyssa Panitz

June 11, 2021 04:00 - 30 minutes - 28 MB

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ilyssa Panitz, a Divorce Journalist and Columnist. According to Ilyssa, too many times women act on emotions, and then when faced with a barrage of questions about money, finances, marital residence, and expenses, they come up short by not having any of the answers. It is crucial, vital, and imperative that women do their homework before serving their husbands with divorce papers. Ilyssa’s message for you today is: You are going to be OK. You are going to l...

Episode 111: Healing from Trauma of Divorce with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen

June 04, 2021 04:00 - 21 minutes - 19.5 MB

In this episode Rhonda welcomes Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, a clinical psychologist and the Divorce Doctor. She is the author of the book Light on the Other Side of Divorce. In this episode, Dr. Cohen shares about the trauma of divorce and healing from that trauma, and she gives some really good tips on how to process the anger. According to Dr. Elizabeth, your experience matters. And the only person you can change is you. Her message for you today is: You are immensely brave, you are immensely c...

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