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Demystifying Gay Porn

277 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago - ★★★★★ - 153 ratings

Everyone in the connected world knows what porn is and has seen it. Join I. Que Grande, an award-winning producer in the Gay Adult Entertainment Industry as he humanizes porn stars, deconstructs sex work, illicitly recounts stories from on and off the set and explores sexuality. If you watch gay porn and want to hear a different side of your favorite stars, or if you are just a little curious, this podcast is definitely for you.

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S2E31: Season 2 Finale featuring Boomer Banks!

June 11, 2021 21:00 - 55 minutes - 38.4 MB

What a year it has BEEN! And I can't think of a better way to wrap this season of amazing guests and experiences than to sit down with designer,  adult performer and activist Boomer Banks. The self described queer Mexican carbon has and continues to seemingly does it all but I expect nothing less from a Gemini.  We have some great fun during the interview but also get incredibly candid and real as Boomer describes in detail living through tough life experiences from early on to how he has g...

S2E30: The Beefcake Hunter Interview w. Vic

June 04, 2021 18:00 - 48 minutes - 33.6 MB

I have been a fan of the Beefcake Hunter website for awhile now, so in my quest to bring you awesome interviewees, I thought it was time to reach out to Vic. Vic is the star and producer of the website and he was gracious enough to let us into his studio and open up about what it took to start his site, how he finds these beefcakes and what he has in store for the site's future. Enjoy! Support the show

S2E30: Vic from Beefcake Hunter!

June 04, 2021 18:00 - 48 minutes - 33.6 MB

I have been a fan of the Beefcake Hunter website for awhile now, so in my quest to bring you awesome interviewees, I thought it was time to reach out to Vic. Vic is the star and producer of the website and he was gracious enough to let us into his studio and open up about what it took to start his site, how he finds these beefcakes and what he has in store for the site's future. Enjoy!

S2E29: The Romeo Davis Interview

May 28, 2021 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MB

I had been talking to international porn star Romeo Davis almost a year before we finally got to meet and sit down to do this podcast. As soon as we do, we get right into his life pre and during pandemic, growing up in  Montreal bottoming and what kind of problems arise from having a big dick.  Then later on in the episode we move on to kinks, fetishes and his interesting collection of Elvira memorabilia. Enjoy! Support the show

S2E29: Romeo Davis and I finally get together!

May 28, 2021 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MB

I had been talking to international porn star Romeo Davis almost a year before we finally got to meet and sit down to do this podcast. As soon as we do, we get right into his life pre and during pandemic, growing up in  Montreal bottoming and what kind of problems arise from having a big dick.  Then later on in the episode we move on to kinks, fetishes and his interesting collection of Elvira memorabilia. Enjoy!

Marco Napoli's first tell-all interview!

May 21, 2021 19:00 - 58 minutes - 40 MB

International porn star Marco Napoli is in NYC for the week and I was able to plan a trip in to meet him at his hotel room, set up some lights and cameras to sit down and talk to one of gay porn's sweetest and hottest guys out there.  We had a lot to talk about from dual-citizenship in Italy, love in the industry, body hair, feet, what constitutes a "daddy."  Enjoy!

S2E28: The Marco Napoli Interview

May 21, 2021 19:00 - 58 minutes - 40 MB

International porn star Marco Napoli is in NYC for the week and I was able to plan a trip in to meet him at his hotel room, set up some lights and cameras to sit down and talk to one of gay porn's sweetest and hottest guys out there.  We had a lot to talk about from dual-citizenship in Italy, love in the industry, body hair, feet, what constitutes a "daddy."  Enjoy! Support the show

S2E27: The 2nd Seth Knight Interview

May 07, 2021 23:00 - 37 minutes - 25.7 MB

After a break last week DGP is back and so is  adult entertainer and content creator Seth Knight.  Seth sits down and discusses what it's like to quarantines with not one but TWO husbands. And just because I am always interested Seth shares a little more about his recent work with Fraternity X and his plans for the near future.   It's a fun one, don't miss it! Support the show

S2E27: Seth Knight is at it again!

May 07, 2021 23:00 - 37 minutes - 25.7 MB

After a break last week DGP is back and so is  adult entertainer and content creator Seth Knight.  Seth sits down and discusses what it's like to quarantines with not one but TWO husbands. And just because I am always interested Seth shares a little more about his recent work with Fraternity X and his plans for the near future.   It's a fun one, don't miss it!

S2E26: International Adult Entertainer Drew Dixon returns!

April 23, 2021 22:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

The last time I spoke to Drew Dixon was in Las Vegas, January 2020; a different world by today's perspective. While very popular at that time, Drew has since gone on to meteoric heights in the industry working with just about everyone. While on a bit of a world tour and in NYC, I got to sit down with him again and talk about life since that last time I saw him, what it takes to be a full on content creator and performer. Enjoy!

S2E26: The 2nd Drew Dixon Interview

April 23, 2021 22:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

The last time I spoke to Drew Dixon was in Las Vegas, January 2020; a different world by today's perspective. While very popular at that time, Drew has since gone on to meteoric heights in the industry working with just about everyone. While on a bit of a world tour and in NYC, I got to sit down with him again and talk about life since that last time I saw him, what it takes to be a full on content creator and performer. Enjoy! Support the show

S2E25: The August Alexander Interview

April 17, 2021 01:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MB

Adult entertainer August Alexander is a new comer to the industry but you wouldn't know it if you look at his  impressive list of studio work; not to mention his skills in front of the camera. During a recent trip to NYC, I had the chance to shoot a couple of scenes with August and sit down to discuss how he became an adult entertainer and dig a littler deeper into what makes him who he is.  Enjoy!  Support the show

S2E25: August Alexander

April 17, 2021 01:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MB

Adult entertainer August Alexander is a new comer to the industry but you wouldn't know it if you look at his  impressive list of studio work; not to mention his skills in front of the camera. During a recent trip to NYC, I had the chance to shoot a couple of scenes with August and sit down to discuss how he became an adult entertainer and dig a littler deeper into what makes him who he is.  Enjoy! 

S2E24: The 2nd Joel Someone Interview

April 09, 2021 22:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB

Joel Someone is fucking everywhere....and everyone! He took a break to sit down with me while he was in NYC and talk to me about his life during the pandemic, moving to L.A., venturing into bisexual porn and the lot of younger gay people today.  Always a great conversation!  Support the show

S2E24: Joel Someone is back!

April 09, 2021 22:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB

Joel Someone is fucking everywhere....and everyone! He took a break to sit down with me while he was in NYC and talk to me about his life during the pandemic, moving to L.A., venturing into bisexual porn and the lot of younger gay people today.  Always a great conversation! 

S2E23: The Levy Foxx Interview

April 02, 2021 19:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MB

Porn Star Levy Foxx is a bottom extraordinaire! This past week I got the chance to work with him for the first time ever and he delivered. I had seen Levy on my twitter feed and was interested in working with him at some point.  When I saw he was making his way to NYC we communicated and here we are.  Before our first shoot I got to sit down with the Filipino-born porn star and discuss how he got into porn, how he got to Wisconsin and how to bottom like a pro. Enjoy! Support the show

S2E23: Special Guest Levy Foxx

April 02, 2021 19:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MB

Porn Star Levy Foxx is a bottom extraordinaire! This past week I got the chance to work with him for the first time ever and he delivered. I had seen Levy on my twitter feed and was interested in working with him at some point.  When I saw he was making his way to NYC we communicated and here we are.  Before our first shoot I got to sit down with the Filipino-born porn star and discuss how he got into porn, how he got to Wisconsin and how to bottom like a pro. Enjoy!

S2E22: Open Lines - Ball Busting

March 26, 2021 21:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

I came across @Ballbasher710 on twitter one day and what I saw was not for the faint of heart. But I was intrigued! This week's open lines deals with Cock and Ball torture; more specifically a practice called ball busting. If you wish to go there, well here we are.  Enjoy! Support the show

S2E22: Open Lines - Ball Busting

March 26, 2021 21:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

I came across @Ballbasher710 on twitter one day and what I saw was not for the faint of heart. But I was intrigued! This week's open lines deals with Cock and Ball torture; more specifically a practice called ball busting. If you wish to go there, well here we are.  Enjoy!

S2E21: Meet Butta Nutt

March 19, 2021 22:00 - 25 minutes - 17.5 MB

If you guys don't know or haven't heard of a model named Butta Nutt, go look him up.  He is one of the best performers out there right now and I am very happy that I've been able to work with him on several occasions. Butta sits down with me to talk about his fan site career that turned into a turn at full on porn. and upcoming projects. Enjoy!

S2E21: The Butta Nutt Interview

March 19, 2021 22:00 - 25 minutes - 17.5 MB

If you guys don't know or haven't heard of a model named Butta Nutt, go look him up.  He is one of the best performers out there right now and I am very happy that I've been able to work with him on several occasions. Butta sits down with me to talk about his fan site career that turned into a turn at full on porn. and upcoming projects. Enjoy! Support the show

S2E20: The Avatar Akyia Interview

March 12, 2021 19:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB

Porn star and content creator Avatar Akyia has been on my list of interviewees since the last season. We finally get to sit down after a scene and discuss his porn career, growing in London and New Orleans, politics of sexuality and race and he shares a couple fun anecdotes from throughout the years. Enjoy! Support the show

S2E20: The Porn Supreme, Avatar Akyia

March 12, 2021 19:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB

Porn star and content creator Avatar Akyia has been on my list of interviewees since the last season. We finally get to sit down after a scene and discuss his porn career, growing in London and New Orleans, politics of sexuality and race and he shares a couple fun anecdotes from throughout the years. Enjoy!

S2E19: Porn Star Dayton O' Connor

March 05, 2021 22:00 - 48 minutes - 33 MB

Dayton O' Connor has worked with so many of the studios that have come to define gay porn in the early part of the 21st century.  He is a truly versatile performer, all around nice guy, a friend and totally one of my first porn crushes!  We sit and talk about his career, antics, unforgettable scenes and his humanitarian work.

S2E19: The Dayton O' Connor Interview

March 05, 2021 22:00 - 48 minutes - 33 MB

Dayton O' Connor has worked with so many of the studios that have come to define gay porn in the early part of the 21st century.  He is a truly versatile performer, all around nice guy, a friend and totally one of my first porn crushes!  We sit and talk about his career, antics, unforgettable scenes and his humanitarian work. Support the show

S2E18: Open Lines - Talk Dirty to Me

February 26, 2021 22:00 - 54 minutes - 37.4 MB

"Tony" is an avid listener of DGP. One day he wrote in and told me how much he loved dirty talk. I was intrigued and wanted to know just how much he loved dirty talk and if he would come on the show and talk about his fetish.   As an added bonus, Tony puts together his dream porn scene for me to direct and one of his favorite models just happens to join in! *I will be on youtube live on Monday night at 10pm if you want to join me and ask questions.  Support the show

S2E17: The Alessio Vega Interview

February 19, 2021 21:00 - 50 minutes - 34.9 MB

When I met Alessio Vega, I thought, gosh this guy is beautiful.  Then I saw him perform and I was like holy crap! After years of working together, I finally got to sit down and talk about so many things I've been wanting to ask him and as usual he does not disappoint.  Support the show

Demystifying Gay Porn S2E17: At last, Alessio Vega!

February 19, 2021 21:00 - 50 minutes - 34.9 MB

When I met Alessio Vega, I thought, gosh this guy is beautiful.  Then I saw him perform and I was like holy crap! After years of working together, I finally got to sit down and talk about so many things I've been wanting to ask him and as usual he does not disappoint. 

S2E17: At last, Alessio Vega!

February 19, 2021 21:00 - 50 minutes - 34.9 MB

When I met Alessio Vega, I thought, gosh this guy is beautiful.  Then I saw him perform and I was like holy crap! After years of working together, I finally got to sit down and talk about so many things I've been wanting to ask him and as usual he does not disappoint. 

S2E16: The 2nd Danny Blue Interview

February 13, 2021 02:00 - 33 minutes - 22.9 MB

I spoke with Danny Blue for the first season of DGP and since then a lot of changes have happened in his life.  From quarantine life in Vegas to moving to Iowa, Danny spills the details on a less than stellar recent track record of sex as well as possible new relationship!   Support the show

S2E16: Porn Model and Content Creator Danny Blue

February 13, 2021 02:00 - 33 minutes - 22.9 MB

I spoke with Danny Blue for the first season of DGP and since then a lot of changes have happened in his life.  From quarantine life in Vegas to moving to Iowa, Danny spills the details on a less than stellar recent track record of sex as well as possible new relationship!  

Demystifying Gay Porn S2E15: Chilling with Sebastian Velmont

January 29, 2021 23:00 - 27 minutes - 19 MB

If you don't know who Sebastian Velmont is, where the hell have you been.  He is a gay porn model known for his HUGE uh, member.  Give him a search...yeah, exactly.  I met Sebastian in 2018. He was new to the industry and a bit on the shy side.  Cut to 2021, Sebastian is a content creator phenom. I sat down to speak with this soft-spoken young man about growing up in England, coming to the states where he does really well escorting and shooting porn as well some major big-dick problems. Enj...

S2E15: The Sebastian Velmont Interview

January 29, 2021 23:00 - 27 minutes - 19 MB

If you don't know who Sebastian Velmont is, where the hell have you been.  He is a gay porn model known for his HUGE uh, member.  Give him a search...yeah, exactly.  I met Sebastian in 2018. He was new to the industry and a bit on the shy side.  Cut to 2021, Sebastian is a content creator phenom. I sat down to speak with this soft-spoken young man about growing up in England, coming to the states where he does really well escorting and shooting porn as well some major big-dick problems. Enj...

S2E15: Chilling with Sebastian Velmont

January 29, 2021 23:00 - 27 minutes - 19 MB

If you don't know who Sebastian Velmont is, where the hell have you been.  He is a gay porn model known for his HUGE uh, member.  Give him a search...yeah, exactly.  I met Sebastian in 2018. He was new to the industry and a bit on the shy side.  Cut to 2021, Sebastian is a content creator phenom. I sat down to speak with this soft-spoken young man about growing up in England, coming to the states where he does really well escorting and shooting porn as well some major big-dick problems. Enj...

S2E14: The 2nd Adam Russo Interview

January 22, 2021 22:00 - 52 minutes - 36.3 MB

Adam Russo is genuinely on another level. Aside from being a beloved daddy porn star, content creator and writer, he reads the tarot, meditates and can get deep quick.  Adam sat down with me via zoom and we discuss how the events of the past year have affected him as well as politics, spirituality, sexuality and so much more. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed making it! Support the show

S2E14: Let's get Metaphysical with Special Guest Adam Russo

January 22, 2021 22:00 - 52 minutes - 36.3 MB

Adam Russo is genuinely on another level. Aside from being a beloved daddy porn star, content creator and writer, he reads the tarot, meditates and can get deep quick.  Adam sat down with me via zoom and we discuss how the events of the past year have affected him as well as politics, spirituality, sexuality and so much more. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed making it!

Let's get Metaphysical with Special Guest Adam Russo

January 22, 2021 22:00 - 52 minutes - 36.3 MB

Adam Russo is genuinely on another level. Aside from being a beloved daddy porn star, content creator and writer, he reads the tarot, meditates and can get deep quick.  Adam sat down with me via zoom and we discuss how the events of the past year have affected him as well as politics, spirituality, sexuality and so much more. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed making it!

S2E13: Open Lines - Buggin' out with a Crush Freak

January 15, 2021 20:00 - 58 minutes - 40.5 MB

Journeying deeper into fetish and pushing even more boundaries, this week we are talking to a Crush Freak.  What is a Crush Freak? Having a crush fetish can vary but this one in particular is about getting sexual gratification from watching a sexy man in high-top sneakers degrade and sexually destroy bugs. Do I have your attention?  Good. Listen with an open mind and try to put yourself in the shoes of "L," a crush freak! *No bugs were harmed during this episode of Demystifying Gay Porn *Th...

S2E12: Adult Content Creator / Rough Daddy Trade Alex Tikas!

January 08, 2021 21:00 - 51 minutes - 35.7 MB

Alex Tikas starts of DGP in 2021 talking about the ins and outs of "sheltering in place" in Washington D.C. with his boyfriend Julian Torres. From  growing up in Queens and life before making porn we discuss people, our favorite studio AND find that one true someone! You don't want to miss this episode!

S2E13: Adult Content Creator / Rough Daddy Trade Alex Tikas!

January 08, 2021 21:00 - 51 minutes - 35.7 MB

Alex Tikas starts of DGP in 2021 talking about the ins and outs of "sheltering in place" in Washington D.C. with his boyfriend Julian Torres. From  growing up in Queens and life before making porn we discuss people, our favorite studio AND find that one true someone! You don't want to miss this episode!

S2E12: The Alex Tikas Interview

January 08, 2021 21:00 - 51 minutes - 35.7 MB

Alex Tikas starts of DGP in 2021 talking about the ins and outs of "sheltering in place" in Washington D.C. with his boyfriend Julian Torres. From  growing up in Queens and life before making porn we discuss people, our favorite studio AND find that one true someone! You don't want to miss this episode! Support the show

S2E11: Muscle Growth Worship w. Content Creator, D

December 18, 2020 22:00 - 30 minutes - 21 MB

Muscle Growth and/or Muscle Growth Worship is a fetish in which men and women are sexually aroused by the demonstration of strength an muscles but also the sometimes impossibly bulking of a human body.   This week I am speaking to D, who goes by Musclegrowworship (@musclegroworsh) on twitter and forums. He is a content creator and very much into the idea of muscle growth.  Don't know what that means?  Listen in, it's much more mainstream than you may think.  Support the show

S2E10: The Riley Mitchel Interview

December 11, 2020 23:00 - 31 minutes - 21.9 MB

You wanted him, you got him. Porn star Riley Mitchel is one of the most requested models to sit down for a podcast interview. Riley and talk shop, growing up closeted and jerking off to our favorite straight male porn stars when we were teenagers! Support the show

S2E10: The Ever Popular Riley Mitchel

December 11, 2020 23:00 - 31 minutes - 21.9 MB

You wanted him, you got him. Porn star Riley Mitchel is one of the most requested models to sit down for a podcast interview. Riley and talk shop, growing up closeted and jerking off to our favorite straight male porn stars when we were teenagers!

S2E9: The 2nd Champ Robinson Interview

December 04, 2020 23:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MB

International Porn Star Champ Robinson is my friend.  I've known him for close to 12 years now so I have a great rapport  with him. Tonight we sit down and talk a little about his experience producing porn during a pandemic, a picture I "found," some fetishes and what's next after porn. Support the show

S2E9: Champ Robinson is back!

December 04, 2020 23:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MB

International Porn Star Champ Robinson is my friend.  I've known him for close to 12 years now so I have a great rapport  with him. Tonight we sit down and talk a little about his experience producing porn during a pandemic, a picture I "found," some fetishes and what's next after porn.

S2E8: A Bit of a Sh*t Show w. Special Guest Atlas Grant

November 27, 2020 22:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

I love Atlas! And he's been on the show before so conversation usually gets a bit deeper and guests let their guard down.  Atlas and I touch on life during this past year, a shit client (yup, we're talking about that), fetishes and more! 

S2E8: A Bit of a Sh*t Show w. Atlas Grant

November 27, 2020 22:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

I love Atlas! And he's been on the show before so conversation usually gets a bit deeper and guests let their guard down.  Atlas and I touch on life during this past year, a shit client (yup, we're talking about that), fetishes and more!  Support the show

S2E7: Open Lines - Confessions of a Cum Addict

November 20, 2020 23:00 - 54 minutes - 37.4 MB

A listener named "Carl" sent me an email about three weeks ago.  He is a cum addict who decided to share a little bit about his fetish with me via email.  I asked if he would be willing to speak with me on the record and we agreed on the terms.  Carl and I discuss growing up closeted during the AIDS epidemic of the 80's including a very personal health scare.  From there we talk late 90's gay porn, the taboo topic of Poz/Neg guys and he shares intimate details of his experience sleeping wit...

S2E6: A little pup play and more with Liam Archer

November 13, 2020 23:00 - 29 minutes - 20.4 MB

Liam Archer (formerly Gnarly Twink) is relatively new to the porn scene but he is off and rolling.  I've worked with him a couple of times and can already see what he is capable of as a performer. It wasn't until I saw him in a dog mask on twitter that I finally said to myself "okay get him on and have him give you and your listeners an introduction to pup play.  

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