Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
211 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 25 ratingsListen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life.
Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters!
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How To Stay Positive! Even When You’re Dating the Wrong Guys.
January 13, 2022 21:25 - 27 minutes - 25.1 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why is it important to have a positive inner dialogue? Are your intentions set to make a TRUE romantic connection with a phenomenal man? To text or not to text? That is the question. How do you put in the time and face your fears after what seems like so much rejection? Why should we think about dating as a skill that takes patience and practice, and not just expect to be naturally perfect at it. What should you look for besides just amazing chemi...
GITRMM ep 18: The Real Reasons Your Date is Getting Derailed (And How to Get Back On Track), Part 1
January 11, 2022 11:00 - 39 minutes - 36.1 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: You don’t need to put on heirs about being confident and having a perfect life. A woman can just naturally have a full and happy life, AND show the man there is room for him to fit too. It’s about sharing the things together that you both love - not just the man coming along for the ride for all your interests. How can you ask a man about his life in a manner that makes him actually want to share and feel connected to you, rather than feeling like he’s o...
Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work When It Comes To Finding Love!
January 06, 2022 11:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why do New Year’s resolutions tend to fall apart after just a month or two? If love is supposed to be so fun and magical, why do we need a step by step roadmap to getting it? Won’t that take the spark out? How can you stay accountable to your goals while including your friends and having some fun? What does it mean to have a contract or agreement with yourself? This year how do you really LEARN from every single encounter, especially the not so nice...
Ooh! Let’s Talk Deal Breakers!
December 30, 2021 11:00 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: You have to have your idea of what you want, and then hold it very lightly. How was Benjamin different from Lisa’s list of qualities she looked for in a man, and why did that end up being such a pleasant surprise? You have to be willing to check in with yourself and allow room for things to appear differently than you expect them to! Lisa’s clients share a few of their deal breakers, from family relationships to alcohol abuse to a lack of warmth and af...
How To Deal With Relatives Who Ask Why You're Still Single
December 23, 2021 11:00 - 29 minutes - 26.8 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: How to navigate the inevitable “are you seeing anyone?” questions. If you are looking for a partner, ask them if they know anyone they can set you up with! A few great word-for-word responses you can use to maintain healthy boundaries and keep this from being a huge downer! How to gently turn the conversation to a topic that you enjoy talking about. How to handle the other relatives who are snarky or pushy about your single situation. Whether you ar...
Is He Right When He Says He Can’t Make You Happy?
December 16, 2021 11:00 - 20 minutes - 19 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why is it so important for men to feel like they’re winning and making their woman happy? What do you say to a man when he tells you that he feels he can’t make you happy? Is he always right? How do you tell a man that what he’s doing isn’t exactly what you want? Is it even worth telling him? How can you thank your man for a loving gesture in a way that really lights him up? How can you still find your happiness when your man is trying to provide yo...
GITRMM ep 17: Finding True Love After Three Marriages: Randy Rogel
December 14, 2021 11:00 - 51 minutes - 47 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Randy talks about his three marriages and divorces, and what happened on his end with each of them. What did he learn? What can we learn from his experience? What was it like for Randy as a single dad, trying to provide the best opportunities and love for his son? Why did Randy feel like a failure after each divorce, and feel like he was “broken goods” after his third marriage ended? Randy gushes about his wonderful girlfriend Cynthia, talks about how...
How To Stop Pushing Away Male Attention
December 09, 2021 11:00 - 24 minutes - 22 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Whether you know it or not, men are checking you out! All the time. Yes, sometimes men are fixated on your super attractive friend, but here’s what to do so it never throws you off your positive vibe. Why is it so hard for men to hit on us? How to tell if you are being playful enough, and a funny story of a woman who got a man’s attention by tossing some trash his way! The power of slowing things down to not only show a man you’re in touch with your...
GITRMM ep 16: Keys To A Miraculous Marriage!
December 07, 2021 11:00 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Lisa and Benjamin get real about mistakes they’ve made in prior relationships and what they learned so it wouldn’t become a part of their marriage. How do Lisa and Benjamin process their emotions and solve disagreements quickly? How to be less defensive and more compassionate to both yourself and your partner. The two things women cherish the most, and how we can take the feminine lead and invite your man to give them to you. How to embrace your fem...
The One Choice You Can Make In Dating That Might Change Your Life Forever!
December 02, 2021 11:00 - 26 minutes - 24.5 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why do you need to let go of instant gratification syndrome? Why is it holding you back? What was the decision made when she was 39 that turned her life around? What is it that makes a man really fall in love? Why is the outcome so powerful when we make the decision to stick with something and really go for it? Continue On Your Journey Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa Email the podcast at: [email protected] ...
GITRMM ep 15: How To Bring the ‘Baby’ Talk Into Your Dating, Whether You Want Kids Or Not
November 30, 2021 11:00 - 45 minutes - 42.1 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Benjamin shares a male perspective of what it’s like for men in the dating world who know they most likely don’t want kids, but the women they’re dating do. If there's an accidental or unintentional pregnancy, then a man can feel trapped. So he could be very wary of dating, particularly someone who is hearing the biological clock and the ticking getting louder. Lisa was clear from the beginning that she didn’t want a child, but that is rare. How can wome...
Is He Really Intimidated by your Job, Money, and Independence?
November 25, 2021 11:00 - 38 minutes - 35.5 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: If men say they love successful and powerful women, why does it seem like they go for the exact opposite? Why would a man see a successful woman as a threat? It is true that some men are going to be intimidated by successful women, but that doesn’t mean you should go out into the dating world with a chip on your shoulder. There are plenty of men out there who are confident and successful who would love to meet a wonderful, confident, educated, successfu...
GITRMM ep 14: The Secrets of Romantic Signaling
November 23, 2021 11:00 - 43 minutes - 39.6 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: The truth is, your girlfriends that are getting male attention are probably signaling to the man that they are open and available for them to be approached! What is romantic signaling? When one person signals to another that he or she is interested. The more attracted to a woman, the more shy a man may become. All it can take is just the tiniest invitation to get him to feel the confidence to walk over and start a conversation with you. The men may say...
The Top 5 Reasons You’re Stuck in a Dating Rut, Again!
November 18, 2021 11:00 - 46 minutes - 42.5 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: How to get into a positive mindset even before you arrive on the date. Dating can feel like an adventure, it doesn’t always have to feel like you’re on a treadmill! Do you really need a dating coach? How can it help get you out of your rut? What does Lisa mean by taking the “feminine lead”? Why are you repeating patterns or stuck in the past when you feel ready to move forward in love? Sometimes moving forward can also look like stopping to take a...
GITRMM ep 13: You’re Talking, But What is He Hearing?
November 16, 2021 11:00 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Women’s goal is to connect emotionally, but what do we typically do that ends up getting us the opposite results? What makes a man feel like he is being interviewed? How do we accidentally shame a man, and what are ways we can keep it playful and lighthearted instead? What does a man really think when we go off topic, monologue, or lecture? Instead of focusing on being “on”, focus on creating a safe space for him to unwind and really be himself. Wh...
Should You Believe Him When He Says This Time Will Be Different?
November 11, 2021 21:02 - 46 minutes - 42.2 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: What avoidant attachment is, and how it shows up? Why does it seem like you go around in circles with an avoidant? Why do avoidants and anxiously attached people seem to trigger each other so deeply? Can you make someone less avoidant? I’m an anxious attachment type, but stable relationships almost seem boring to me. Why is that? My avoidant came back and said he wants to take things slow. What should I do? Is slower always better? What should yo...
GITRMM ep 12: But Are You Having Fun? Embracing Playfulness.
November 09, 2021 17:02 - 42 minutes - 39.3 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: What is playfulness and why is it important to be playful in our romantic relationships? Playfulness can start by having a profile that represents you but also feels lighthearted and fun. How does playfulness help us get to know the other person better and build trust and safety? If we are playful, won’t we miss out on connecting over the more serious things? Is being playful also being flirty? Continue On Your Journey Lisa Shield | YouTube | Face...
Generosity of Spirit: An Essential Key to Getting Emotionally Naked and Calling in The Guardian of Your Soul
November 04, 2021 10:00 - 39 minutes - 36.4 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: What does it mean to be generous of spirit? How does this generosity differ from the typical way we view giving? Lisa shares how Benjamin laid it all out when they were first getting close, showing true vulnerability and how it made them closer. We spend so much time thinking about how we want our partner’s job, car, and looks to be, but are we putting the same effort into our self-growth? Mirroring a man’s masculinity back to him helps him continue to ...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind Ep 11: Emotional Safety and Sexual Performance in This Era
November 02, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 55.7 MBNow more than ever there is confusion for all genders when navigating sexuality, intimacy, and desire! As women, we are stronger and more independent than we’ve ever been, yet we want to be cherished and develop a real connection with an honest and open partner. Can we truly have it all and will it be safe enough to find out?? This week, Lisa and Benjamin discuss the importance of establishing trust and safety before there is intimacy, how to keep the flame of intimacy high as you grow toget...
GITRMM ep 11: Emotional Safety and Sexual Performance in This Era
November 02, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 55.7 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: There is no definite answer on how to navigate the current dating climate, but having respect and creating safety for one another is paramount. What makes men pull back on their desire for a woman? How can you help your man feel more secure in his masculinity? What are some ways we can have even better intimacy with our partner over time? What are the three key elements of a lasting and thriving relationship? In this post “Me Too Movement” era, how can...
Your chemistry is off the charts- so why do you feel him pulling away?
October 28, 2021 10:00 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBYou meet a guy and there’s an instant connection. The chemistry is off the charts! He seems interested in pursuing you and making plans for the future, and then... it happens. He pulls away from you. This week, Lisa talks about a situation so many of us face in dating: why men pull away, and what you can do about it. She talks about why it’s a good thing that you triggered his avoidance, and how to respond in a kind way that takes care of your needs and self-respect. She talks about the comm...
Your Chemistry is Off the Charts- So Why Do You Feel Him Pulling Away?
October 28, 2021 10:00 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: How not to waste time thinking you did something wrong when a man pulls away. Sometimes it’s just them. Lisa shares an example of when she knew it was time to end a relationship and not get entangled in a man’s attempt to assassinate her character. When a man pulls away after pursuing you, he may be avoidant and not know what to do when he gets what he wants. What are the other reasons men typically go silent if they love a woman but need some space? Me...
GITRMM ep 10: Playfulness in Self. Playfulness in Partnership
October 26, 2021 12:19 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Playfulness equals sexiness and confidence! With a single choice, you can set the tone. Why did Lisa decide to explore playfulness, and how did it change the course of her entire life? What does playfulness look like on a date or in a relationship? If we are playful, won’t that mean our relationship is just trivial and too silly? Your playful nature can start even before you meet, with a fun and exciting online profile. If you’re playful, it will set ...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind Ep 10: Playfulness in Self. Playfulness in Partnership
October 26, 2021 12:19 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MBDoes dating feel heavy and hard? Are you taking things too seriously and forgetting to laugh with yourself or with your partner? What can you do when the other person isn’t playing along?This week, Lisa and Benjamin talk about the importance of playfulness. What it looks like in your approach to life and dating, and why it matters to attract the Guardian of Your Soul and flourish in a light, yet meaningful love affair! They discuss how to keep things clean and clear so there is room for play...
Are You Ready for The Cold Harsh Truth About Why You Are Still Single?
October 21, 2021 06:06 - 49 minutes - 45.1 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: What if you don’t live in a city or a place that seems to have a great big pool of available men? The cold harsh truth - if the men that you want to respond to you are not responding to you, then you still have work to do. Because they're responding to someone. It's just not you. Are you a love magnet, or are you actually pushing love away? If you want a happy future, you’ve got to let the stories about the past go, and not let other people’s bad behavi...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind Ep 9: Breaking “The Rules” and Busting Dating Myths
October 19, 2021 10:00 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBIt’s a Wednesday night, and suddenly the guy you’ve been hoping to hear from texts you to ask if you’re free to go on a date that weekend. You have no plans yet, but according to “the rules”, your answer should be a NO. This week, Lisa and Benjamin break down the biggest dating myths and lies, including a handbook called The Rules used for decades as a guide for catching a man. They break down why rules are just roadblocks to fun, who should text after a first date, and much more! What You’...
GITRMM ep 9: Breaking “The Rules” and Busting Dating Myths
October 19, 2021 10:00 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: The Rules was a classic dating guide for many years, but what harm has it caused and how has it actually held you back from finding The Guardian of Your Soul? There is a lot of hypocrisy out there in the dating world, so make sure you take advice from a trusted source who is in a stable, loving relationship. The Rules may show you how to get into a relationship by playing games and using manipulation techniques, but not how to stay in one. The kind of lo...
Stop Wasting Time Being or Dating An Anxious or Avoidant Dater! Develop a Secure Attachment Style Now!
October 14, 2021 10:00 - 51 minutes - 47 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why it’s essential to learn about attachment theory. What does it look like when someone is either anxiously attached or avoidant? Why do women tend to be more anxious in relationships? How do you know which one you are, and can you be a mix of them? What are protest behaviors? How Lisa observed a love bomber and got herself out of it with a clear conscience. What is Lisa’s “One Conversation Rule” for seeing if the person you are dating is equipped to...
GITRMM ep 8: Special Guest Dr. Warren Farrell on Male Vulnerability, Dreams, and Fears
October 12, 2021 08:15 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Dr. Warren gives the inside scoop on how men REALLY feel and what they’re thinking, from his experience in starting over 300 men’s groups. What are the top vulnerabilities men have that women tend to be oblivious to? What do men wish women in their life understood about sexual attraction and intimacy? Women say they want men to be emotionally available, then get turned off when they are! The more a man loves a woman, the more he is fearful of being comp...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind Ep 8: Special Guest Dr. Warren Farrell on Male Vulnerability, Dreams, and Fears
October 12, 2021 08:15 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MBLisa welcomes a special guest to the pod! Dr. Warren Farrell, speaker, teacher, and best selling author of several books including Why Men are The Way They Are, the critically acclaimed guide to truly giving the men’s perspective behind love, sex, and intimacy, discusses 5 male vulnerabilities that influence men’s behavior the most. Lisa talks about why this book proved to be such a huge paradigm shift for her in understanding men and Dr. Warren shares how men’s dreams are different from the...
Scared To Have That Money Talk? How To Navigate The Thing EVERYONE Struggles With
October 07, 2021 10:00 - 43 minutes - 39.6 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Who should pay for dinner during the courting period? Should it still be the man, even though at least 33% of women (35 and younger) are now out-earning their partners? What are some red flags that pop up about money in your early dating period that you should keep an eye on? Are your expectations too high around a man and his money? Lisa shares how she shifted her mindset around feeling obligated to go further than she wanted to after a man paid. If a m...
GITRMM ep 7: What Men Really Think When We Start To Process Out Loud
October 05, 2021 10:00 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: How do men and women process differently, and how can we use this knowledge to our advantage? How can a man and woman support each other while processing? Sometimes a woman doesn’t need it to be fixed. She just wants a safe space in which to be heard! Men are often internal processors, while women tend to work through things externally with other women friends, family, etc. Ready to talk with a man about a deep subject or the future or your relationship...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind 7: What Men Really Think When We Start To Process Out Loud
October 05, 2021 10:00 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MBHave you ever found yourself talking and processing your feelings out loud, only to feel like your man was backing away (quite literally in Lisa’s case) and inching their foot out the door?! This week, Lisa and Benjamin sit down to discuss what REALLY happens when a woman starts to process out loud. They talk about the different ways in which men and women process and how we can best serve one another's needs. Lisa also shares how to ground yourself in your body and emotions, instead of gett...
How Do You Get Into The Right Relationship And Get Out Of Your Past? Plus- Tantric Takeaways!
September 30, 2021 10:00 - 53 minutes - 49.3 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: What lessons surprised Lisa from attending a Tantric Workshop with Benjamin? What you can expect from working with Lisa, everything from the initial Breakthrough Call to setting up your dating profile to attract the RIGHT type of man. How can you learn from your relationship past RIGHT NOW and move confidently into your relationship future? Lisa’s client Julene shares how she made it past some imposters and found the true Guardian of Her Soul in Andy! A...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind 6: What Men Are Afraid To Tell You
September 28, 2021 15:49 - 38 minutes - 35.3 MBEven the best men hide things from the women they love. Why? What stops a man from fully opening up about his feelings and telling you his deepest, darkest secrets? This week, Lisa explains what men are afraid to tell you, and what you can do to create a safe container so your guy will open his heart to you. She and Benjamin talk about what men are most insecure about, how to lovingly handle the fragile male ego, and what they wish women knew when asking them about their jobs, money, or even...
GITRMM ep 6: What Men Are Afraid To Tell You
September 28, 2021 15:49 - 38 minutes - 35.3 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: A good man, and most men, are preoccupied with making a woman happy, even at their own expense. Why can’t men connect with each other the way women do? The #1 fear of most men isn’t public speaking or flying, it’s feeling shame. How can you be a big factor in helping them not only avoid shame but feel pride? When you ask him how you look in that dress, a good man will be truthful but tactful. Is honesty always the best policy when it comes to talking w...
Thinking About Dating a Recently Divorced or Widowed Man? Read This First
September 23, 2021 10:00 - 38 minutes - 35.3 MBThis week, Lisa talks about what you should look out for if you find yourself dating a recently divorced or widowed man! She explains why men tend to rely on women to help them heal after a recent trauma and what you need to know so you don’t end up their healing crutch or the stepping stone to their next relationship! Lisa also shares her advice for walking away with kindness when a man says he’s on the verge of getting a divorce, even if the chemistry and connection are there. She then ans...
Thinking About Dating a Recently Divorced or Widowed Man? Listen to This First
September 23, 2021 10:00 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why are men on the market so quickly after losing a partner? What is toxic masculinity and is it showing up in my relationships and dating? What do I do if I think the guy I’m seeing is using me as a crutch / rebound? But won’t he love me more if I’m there to help him deal with his trauma? Will I just be taking on more baggage if I invest in a man straight off a divorce, going through a divorce, or a newly widowed man? Run, Ladies, if he says he’s on ...
Getting Inside The RIGHT Male Mind, Ep 5 - Embracing Feminine and Masculine Polarity
September 21, 2021 15:08 - 54 minutes - 49.5 MBThe magical dance of feminine and masculine polarity in your relationship isn’t always easy to do, especially in a society where we women are rewarded for stepping into our masculine. This week, Lisa and Benjamin discuss why women reject our femininity, what it means to be comfortable in your body, and how you can give your man the gift of mirroring his masculinity back to him. You can be a strong, powerful woman AND have him so attracted, he’ll be completely drawn to you! Tune in and learn ...
GITRMM ep 5 - Embracing Feminine and Masculine Polarity
September 21, 2021 15:08 - 54 minutes - 49.5 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: How can a man show up in his masculine and a woman in her feminine? How can women be the strong, capable goddesses we are without shrinking? How can we allow men to make us feel good and safe in their masculinity? What are some classic feminine qualities we can embody to hold up our end of the polarity in a relationship? What does it mean to be comfortable in your body? A woman needs to be protected and cherished, and a man needs his masculinity mirror...
Stop Shaming Your Man and You’ll Have Him Bending Over Backwards To Please You!
September 16, 2021 10:00 - 47 minutes - 43.9 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why it’s so important that we act as a safe space for our man. Shaming our partner can run very deep and many times we don’t even know that we’re doing it. Have you normalized this behavior within yourself? Examples of what shaming your partner sounds or feels like. Feeling shame is a physical response that triggers our “fight” or “flight” reaction. When a woman says “we need to talk” he can’t logically communicate! Instead of focusing on what the relat...
Getting Inside The RIGHT Male Mind, Ep 4 - In The Face Of Rejection
September 14, 2021 05:21 - 56 minutes - 51.8 MBGetting rejected never feels good but it’s how you grow, get empowered, and find The Guardian of Your Soul! This week Lisa and Benjamin talk about why rejection hurts so much and how you can not only recover from it but reframe it in a way that will work in your favor. They discuss how not to become a victim after being rejected, how you can lead with love and grace as you reject others, and why you need to let ghosters move on to haunt somewhere else, instead of chasing after them! Need som...
GITRMM ep 4 - In The Face Of Rejection
September 14, 2021 05:21 - 56 minutes - 51.8 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Rejection is never about us, even if it feels very personal. You’ve been rejected - now what? How to take the high road, even if someone else has gone low. The amount of rejection we feel is in direct proportion to the amount of power we give others and external circumstances to affect our self worth. Why does rejection hurt so hard and open up so many wounds? Yes, rejection does hurt and there is no way around it! Accept it, feel the feelings, and move...
Online Dating Hacks Every Woman Should Know (Especially During the Pandemic!)
September 09, 2021 10:00 - 52 minutes - 48.5 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Is it worth dating online during a pandemic? How can I stop taking rejection, ghosting, and other dating woes not so personally? Lisa shares how she overcame her fear of being in group situations to not only be immersed in groups but lead them, working with successful and intelligent women like yourself. Once you are armed with the right tools in dating such as self-confidence + the right online profile, you will be going on dates more confidently and wi...
Makeup, Heels, And Perfect Hair? No. Find Out The Real Aphrodisiac For Men!
September 07, 2021 14:24 - 55 minutes - 51 MBDo you know what really turns a man on? Think it’s your looks, makeup, or your body shape? Think again! In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin share a list of the TOP 8 things that really turn a man on when first meeting and getting to know a woman. They talk about the difference of sexuality vs. sensuality, how to make a man feel respected and safe at his core, and the importance of a woman being in her own body. You’ll also hear the truth about what turns a man OFF, and how to weed out the ins...
GITRMM ep 3: Makeup, Heels, And Perfect Hair? No. Find Out The Real Aphrodisiac For Men!
September 07, 2021 14:24 - 55 minutes - 51 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Chocolates, oysters, and romantic hot tub nights are fun - but RESPECT is the real aphrodisiac for men. We’ve all heard the “men love bitches” trope, but wait until you see how the RIGHT men feel about kindness. Taking care of yourself and maintaining a healthy body is important, but what holds a man’s attention is NOT just about your looks. What you can do on a first date to leave a lasting impression on him and make him feel intoxicated and wanting mor...
Be Your Own Positive Spin Doctor and Say No To The Negativity!
September 02, 2021 13:23 - 49 minutes - 45.6 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: What does negative inner dialogue sound like, and why do we talk this way to ourselves? How do we become our own best friend and positive spin doctor? Nothing positive comes from a negative state of mind. What are some quick strategies to go from feeling down in the dumps to badass, strong, and powerful? It’s not just okay to unplug and turn off the news every now and then, but it’s necessary! Why do we push the good men away and get butterflies for th...
Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, Ep 2 — How’s Your Dating Profile?
August 31, 2021 10:00 - 58 minutes - 54 MBLove takes courage, faith… and a well-written profile! Does your dating profile ask for what you want in an inviting and heartfelt way or is it attracting the wrong kind of man? First impressions are everything. Ever wonder what a man feels seeing your profile for the first time? This week, Benjamin joins in as the master of all-things-dating-profiles. He shares samples of profiles he’s written for Lisa’s clients — breaking down the specific order of what to include and what not to include —...
GITRMM ep 2 — How’s Your Dating Profile?
August 31, 2021 10:00 - 58 minutes - 54 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: Are you conveying the powerful and amazing woman you are in your profile, or does it fall short? What are the biggest mistakes women tend to make on their dating profiles? The idea of your dating profile is not only to attract people but to filter people out. Instead of listing what you want as an order, the right profile creates an invitation and shows the man how beautiful your life would be together. How do we as women demonstrate that we are busy, b...
The #1 Quality Your Partner Should Have: Hint - It’s Not What You May Think!
August 26, 2021 17:35 - 36 minutes - 33.1 MBWhat You’ll Hear In This Episode: The number one quality you should be looking for in your partner. Why is this quality so overlooked and misunderstood? We see men that have it as being weak, when really it’s a sign that they are thoughtful, strong, and special. It’s a choice to treat people with respect and to be thoughtful BUT it doesn’t mean there are no boundaries. Women can exploit nice men, but not kind men. You miss out on the best man in your life when you take a man’s authenti...