Dr. Kathy discusses the impact of drills and preparations for potentially dangerous situations, things like school shootings or tornadoes, on children's growth and development. Wayne questions whether constantly preparing for threats creates an environment of fear and limits children's ability to express themselves and be excited about the world. Dr. Kathy explores the debate surrounding active shooter drills and the use of fake gun noises and emphasizes the importance of establishing security and a solid identity for children, highlighting the role of parents in creating a safe and nurturing environment.