Jillian Rosoff on grief: heartache, healing and humour (#45)
Candour Communication Podcast
English - April 24, 2022 20:00 - 1 hour - 61.5 MB - ★★★★★ - 6 ratingsSelf-Improvement Education Society & Culture Relationships empathy simon sinek soft skills jocko podcast people skills brene brown leaders unlocking us dare to lead candour Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
1:31 - Radical Candor in the Rosoff household.
2:08 - what drew Jillian to grief counselling.
4:30 - people are scared to talk about death.
7:06 - what to say when someone is grieving.
9:47 - we will all say the wrong thing at some point.
10:50 - people get less support during grief than we think.
12:25 - avoiding resentment when people don't reach out.
14:39 - when the platitudes don't fit.
16:40 - don't give advice.
17:59 - we grieve in context.
19:50 - different styles of grieving.
20:45 - grief has more emotions than sadness.
21:54 - can grief lead people to detrimental paths?
24:41 - healthy ways to deal with grief.
26:27 - scared to be in the present because that's where the emotions are.
28:09 - how to stay calm and take care of yourself to help others?
32:55 - not feeling the "right" emotions when grieving.
35:06 - what value does a grief counsellor add?
37:48 - kids communicate through play.
41:51 - people can have very different rituals when grieving someone.
44:28 - the impact of not being able to attend funerals during COVID.
48:48 - we only know how to live if we've been confronted with death.
51:02 - the power of humour.
55:40 - feeling like we have to be strong for others.
1:0:24 - enjoying the present vs reminiscing about the past.
1:01:55 - what is most important when people look back on their life?
1:03:23 - sharing our stories can be a way to connect with each other.
1:06:00 - connect with Jillian.
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/jillian-rosoff/