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CandiDate

75 episodes - English - Latest episode: 21 days ago - ★★★★★ - 43 ratings

Dating for marriage is a pivotal stage of life. Join YUConnects’ "CandiDate" twice a month in candid conversations, as our hosts navigate the Jewish dating scene with experts and influencers in the field. Whether you are currently dating, or know someone who is, this entertaining and educational podcast is the one for you.

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Episodes

The Role of Mentors: Rabbi Yisroel & Mrs. Elisheva Kaminetsky

January 12, 2022 08:00 - 52 minutes - 47.6 MB

How do you choose a mentor? What are the limits of their involvement? How can mentors and parents become allies? Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Penina Flug, LCSW: Pre-Marital Essentials

December 29, 2021 08:00 - 31 minutes - 29 MB

Join Penina Flug, LCSW as she outlines why every engaged couple will benefit from a practical educational platform to enhance their upcoming marriage. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Labels - Malky Galler & Ruchie Giberstien

December 15, 2021 08:00 - 41 minutes - 37.8 MB

From Heimish to Modern to Machmir… Do we agree on their definitions? Join matchmakers, Malky Galler and Ruchie Giberstien, in a frank discussion. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Rabbi Lawrence Hajioff: The Best Investment

December 01, 2021 08:00 - 33 minutes - 30.8 MB

Listen as Rabbi Lawrence Hajioff discusses the importance of building a healthy relationship. This investment will surely pay high dividends in marital happiness. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs.

Dr. David Pelcovitz: Avoiding the Parent Trap

November 17, 2021 08:00 - 35 minutes - 32.7 MB

Join Dr. David Pelcovitz as he explores best ways for daters to balance their various influencers including parents. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Date with Relish: A Gourmet's View

November 03, 2021 07:00 - 15 minutes - 14.1 MB

Meet Celebrity Chef, Naomi Nachman, as she incorporates eating and food into relationships. Discover creative and helpful dating tips. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

A Dater's Perspective

October 20, 2021 07:00 - 34 minutes - 32 MB

Meet Zahava Moskowitz, host of the popular "Singled Out" podcast as she shares 5 important, but not obvious, insights for all to know. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Zoomed Relationships

October 06, 2021 07:00 - 33 minutes - 30.8 MB

Join Aleeza Ben Shalom, author and matchmaker, to learn about the possibilities and pitfalls of Zoom relationships. Best ways to remain together during the distance. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

How to Engage While Engaged

September 01, 2021 07:00 - 31 minutes - 28.8 MB

The engagement period is referred to as "The Twilight Zone." Dr. Binyamin Tepfer guides couples on ways to take advantage of this special time and deepen their connection. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Planning our Future while Carrying the Past

August 18, 2021 07:00 - 32 minutes - 29.3 MB

Join Shevi Samet for a meaningful conversation about successfully dating with the backdrop of challenging experiences. What may be seen as a deficit can actually be our greatest strength! Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Urban Dating

August 03, 2021 07:00 - 30 minutes - 28.2 MB

A conversation with Rabbi Marc Wildes of Manhattan Jewish Experience as he shares insights from the Upper West community. Dating lessons for all! Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Beyond the Resume

July 21, 2021 07:00 - 34 minutes - 32 MB

Join Rabbi Efrem Goldberg for a frank discussion about questions posed during the pre-date discovery. What is appropriate to ask and what crosses the line? Understand the challenges to be part of the solution. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Wrong Measures: Do Age and Height Matter?

July 07, 2021 07:00 - 32 minutes - 29.6 MB

Listen to Rabbi Dr. Noam Weinberg weigh in on expanding our potential pool of match ideas. Distinguish between needs and wants as we re-evaluate our assumptions. Personal anecdotes included! Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

"It's Not You, It's Me"

June 23, 2021 07:00 - 29 minutes - 26.8 MB

Listen to a therapist's perspective on handling rejection. Rachel Pill LMSW offers her unique insight with great advice. Who should convey the news?  Is there a way to soften the blow and make it productive? Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Hello Mother, Hello Father: Relationships with In-Laws

June 09, 2021 07:00 - 34 minutes - 31.6 MB

Listen as Mindy Eisenman, MSW, discusses boundaries, bonding and breaking stereotypes. Host: Rabbi Larry Rothwachs  

Breakups

May 26, 2021 06:00 - 38 minutes - 35.6 MB

Breakups A discussion with Rachel Hercman, LCSW about understanding the feelings we encounter while going through a breakup. Learn best tools to manage and move forward. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

An Inside View of Matchmaking

May 12, 2021 07:00 - 40 minutes - 37.3 MB

Secrets to successful relationships with matchmakers. Featuring Lisa Elefant of Adopt a Shadchan and Efrat Sobolofsky of YUConnects. Parents will gain insight into the daily work of our volunteers leading to more matches for all. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Are You Ready?

April 21, 2021 07:00 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MB

From total strangers to ready to marry, how should the dating process unfold? Dr. Avi Muschel walks listeners through common scenarios • What should you know and feel before saying “yes?” • Constructive help by friends and family Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Dating Anxiety: From Stress to Success

April 07, 2021 07:00 - 46 minutes - 42.8 MB

Does Social Anxiety about dating ever hold you back? Prof. Naomi Nechama Klapper offers the listener fascinating insights and true dating anecdotes to easily- - uncover the causes of dating (and social) anxiety - discover 4 concrete solutions on overcoming relationship anxiety. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

How to Have a Conversation

March 17, 2021 07:00 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MB

Mr. Charlie Harary, an internationally known speaker, shares some fascinating insights for our listeners. Enjoy this far-reaching discussion on how to forge a deep connection with your date through conversation.    No more awkward silences or Jewish geography necessary!    Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach.

Too Much Information? Genetic Testing for Daters

March 03, 2021 08:00 - 32 minutes - 14.8 MB

Who is genetic testing for, when should it be done, and do we need so much information?    Estie Rose of JScreen explores these and more questions concerning a process that can save a lot of heartbreak... and lives.    Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

What ARE you thinking? Be a Mindful Dater

February 17, 2021 08:00 - 35 minutes - 32.8 MB

Tune in today for a novel, more mindful, approach to relationships with Rabbi Reuven Boshnack. How can we relax and enjoy the moment? What are the secret performance tips for every date? How do other life decisions impact our presence?    Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

The Great "Friend or Matchmaker" Debate

February 03, 2021 08:00 - 30 minutes - 27.6 MB

Two talented YUConnects matchmakers, Mrs. Mindy Eisenman and Mrs. Malky Galler, compare the advantages of being set up by friends or by matchmakers. Who truly has your best interest at heart? Are there privacy concerns? Which details should be disclosed? And- does jealousy, or stigma, play any role?   Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Bashert: My One and Only?

January 20, 2021 08:00 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MB

A candid conversation about the meaning and relevance of "Bashert" with Rabbi Dovid Bashevkin.  Which 3 factors should go into every relationship "checklist"? Segulas- helpful or hurtful? Do we have only one soulmate? And if not, what does that mean for our dating journey? Don't miss this insightful and funny episode that's sure to get you thinking!   Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Becoming Masters, Not Disasters

January 15, 2021 05:00 - 41 minutes - 38.3 MB

Rabbi Dr. Ari Sytner "cracks the code" for mastering our relationships. How to send the perfect text. Should we always resolve our conflicts? What is the secret key to lasting intimacy? Hear his simple, yet winning, advice for every couple.  Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs