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CandiDate

75 episodes - English - Latest episode: 21 days ago - ★★★★★ - 43 ratings

Dating for marriage is a pivotal stage of life. Join YUConnects’ "CandiDate" twice a month in candid conversations, as our hosts navigate the Jewish dating scene with experts and influencers in the field. Whether you are currently dating, or know someone who is, this entertaining and educational podcast is the one for you.

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Episodes

Rabbi Shurin: Learning from Baalei Teshuva

June 26, 2024 07:00 - 53 minutes - 49 MB

Discover Rabbi Yitzchak Shurin's insightful perspective on fostering strong relationships and marriages. Hosted by Anna Krausz

Rabbi Beny Rofeh: Wise Words

June 05, 2024 07:00 - 59 minutes - 54.1 MB

Embark on a journey with Rabbi Beny Rofeh, MSW as he shares invaluable insights. Discover how to cultivate heartfelt connection and team building without an urge to change your partner. Learn the importance of self-reflection and being fully present in every interaction to foster long lasting relationships. Rabbi Rofeh is Director of the Isaac Breuer College and Mashgiach Ruchani at Yeshiva University as well as a PhD candidate. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Dr. Chesky Gewirtz: We all have Anxiety

May 21, 2024 07:00 - 47 minutes - 43.9 MB

Rabbi Dr. Chesky Gewirtz, PsyD, delves into the nuances of natural anxiety, emphasizing the importance of embracing uncertainty and acknowledging the potential advantages anxiety brings. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Be the Right One: Rachel Burnham

May 08, 2024 07:00 - 30 minutes - 28.3 MB

Rachel Burnham, a seasoned dating coach of d8gr8.com reflects upon her extensive experiences with those whose dating journeys have taken a longer path. Among her several insights, she explains the differences between pickiness and authenticity and how to truly enjoy the process as we become our best selves. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Sheindy Gross: Love Languages

April 03, 2024 07:00 - 38 minutes - 35.3 MB

Sheindy Gross, an educator for over 30 years and relationship coach of Head2Heart, applies a Torah perspective to Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages.  She offers practical steps for best understanding one’s own needs while meeting the needs of a significant other. Hosted by Anna Krausz. You can hear more from Sheindy at Tehila Torah: https://open.spotify.com/show/0IG0qsVpZFuL8TvSWXZ7YF?si=-QOA9H3TRLCQTJp9TZjjGA and an episode of Head2Heart: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Mh0jM4mygblYE9A8yYVd...

Rabbi Dr. Jacob J. and Shana Yocheved Schacter: A Couple of Thoughts

March 26, 2024 07:00 - 41 minutes - 38.1 MB

... from a thoughtful couple. Listen to Rabbi Dr. Jacob J. & Shana Yocheved Schacter, a revered couple, as they draw upon their many professional and personal experiences. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Rabbi Donny Frank: What is Character?

March 13, 2024 07:00 - 46 minutes - 42.7 MB

Rabbi Donny Frank, LMFT and Dating Coach, differentiates between values, character and personality, and explains which is key for a lasting marriage. He is the author of newly released “The Making of a Dynamic Duo.” www.donnyonmarriage.com Hosted by Anna Krausz

Rabbi Elan Segelman: Fertility Preservation

March 06, 2024 08:00 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MB

Rabbi Elan Segelman, Rabbinic Director of PUAH in America, educates us on scientific & halachic developments in the field of fertility preservation. He explains why both men and women should be informed about this very sensitive and impactful subject. Rabbi Segelman is also the Rabbi of the Young Israel of Hancock Park, CA. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

Dr. Shoshannah Frydman: Red Flags

February 14, 2024 08:00 - 28 minutes - 26.1 MB

Shoshannah Frydman, PhD, LCSW identifies the true red flags in relationships as she highlights the signs that should not be ignored in a potential partner. Dr. Frydman is Executive Director of Shalom Task Force. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Beni Krohn: Let it Grow

January 31, 2024 08:00 - 37 minutes - 34.5 MB

Rabbi Beni Krohn, LCSW relays the importance of keeping a relationship pressure-free. He offers sound advice for daters and parents. Rabbi Krohn is a Mashgiach Ruchani at RIETS and serves as Rabbi of the Young Israel of Teaneck, NJ. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky: Overthinking

January 10, 2024 08:00 - 50 minutes - 46.2 MB

Rabbi Danishefsky, LCSW explains how overthinking affects relationship development and shares positive decision-making guidelines. www.mindbodychicago.com Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Dr. Naomi Rosenbach: Communal Approach. Dating Analytics, Part 3

December 27, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MB

Dr. Naomi Rosenbach analyzes the qualitative responses of single men and women from the DAAS study. She suggests practical changes to our communal approach. Hosted by Anna Krausz

Rabbi Moshe Pogrow: Data Driven. Dating Analytics, Part 2

December 20, 2023 08:00 - 40 minutes - 37.2 MB

Rabbi Moshe Pogrow, founder of the NASI Project, speaks about approaches to increase match possibilities and educational programs to enhance success in relationships. Learn more about NASI programs at https://nasishidduch.com/ Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Jon Birger: Ready for Magic? Dating Analytics, Part 1

December 06, 2023 08:00 - 37 minutes - 34.7 MB

Business journalist and author of Date-onomics, Jon Birger, applies his research and techniques.  Hosted by Anna Krausz

Rav Reuven & Rabbanit Shani Taragin: Dating During Wartime

November 15, 2023 08:00 - 26 minutes - 24.2 MB

A time to mourn a time to dance. Rav Reuven and Rabbanit Shani Taragin share heartfelt and practical insights using a Torah lens for dating and building marriages during times of war. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Rabbi Larry Rothwachs: A Parent's Role

November 08, 2023 08:00 - 54 minutes - 50 MB

Rabbi Larry Rothwachs, LSW explores helpful conversations parents may have with their children before and during the dating process. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Inner Tranquility: Rabbi Shaya Ostrov

October 25, 2023 07:00 - 31 minutes - 28.7 MB

Rabbi Shaya Ostrov, LCSW, shares some innovative techniques for acquiring inner tranquility allowing interpersonal relationships to flourish. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

Rabbi Josh Blass: The Balance Beam

August 30, 2023 07:00 - 36 minutes - 33.3 MB

Rabbi Josh Blass offers insight into juggling and maintaining the work, study, and family responsibilities we undertake. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Dr. Rebecca Wurzburger: I Hear You

August 09, 2023 07:00 - 35 minutes - 32.1 MB

Dr. Rebecca Wurzburger explains and differentiates between the ‘speaker’ and the ‘listener’ to build strong and positive skills in any relationship. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

On a Journey

July 19, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutes - 42 MB

Rav Judah Mischel, Executive Director of Camp HASC, reflects on the natural flow of changes within relationships, and why they should be embraced. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

Perfectionism

July 05, 2023 07:00 - 35 minutes - 32.1 MB

Dr. Evan Kroll describes the source and ramifications of perfectionism in forming and developing relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

Normalizing Anxiety

June 21, 2023 07:00 - 26 minutes - 24.5 MB

Dr. Debra Alper of the YU Counseling Center discusses the implications of stress & anxiety at various stages of the dating process. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach.

Insights from Experience: Part 3, Rabbi David Schlusselberg

May 17, 2023 07:00 - 35 minutes - 32.2 MB

Rabbi David Schlusselberg focuses on the perspectives and sensitivities gleaned from his dating years. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Insights from Experience: Part 2, Aliza Abrams Konig

May 15, 2023 07:00 - 21 minutes - 19.6 MB

Aliza Abrams Konig, LMSW, shares her perspective of living life fully while dating.  Hosted by Anna Krausz

Insights from Experience: Part 1, Noam Lazarus

May 10, 2023 07:00 - 34 minutes - 32 MB

Noam Lazarus shares his personal experiences and accomplishments while navigating the dating world. Hosted by Anna Krausz

Chani Juravel: Spotlighting Strengths

May 03, 2023 07:00 - 51 minutes - 47 MB

Chani Juravel, LCSW, identifies key strengths that help us flourish in our relationships. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky

Navigating the Emotional Minefield: Ilana Brown

April 19, 2023 07:00 - 36 minutes - 33.4 MB

Psychotherapist & Dating Coach, Ilana Brown explores techniques & perspectives to effectuate healthy relationships. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Career Considerations

March 22, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutes - 41.5 MB

Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz shares the evolution of his career path and explores the relevance of profession when choosing whom to date. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Dr. Noam Wasserman: Your Cofounder of Life

March 01, 2023 08:00 - 34 minutes - 31.6 MB

Dr. Noam Wasserman relates the lessons we learn from entrepreneurial co-founders about relationships, roles, communication, criticism, and decision-making. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

From Me to We

February 15, 2023 08:00 - 36 minutes - 33.2 MB

Dr. Adam Lynn expands upon how two independent individuals can progress to become a strong and loving "we." Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Common Questions: Dr. Yael Muskat & Dr. Martin Galla

February 01, 2023 08:00 - 55 minutes - 50.9 MB

Dr. Yael Muskat, Director, & Dr. Martin Galla, Associate Director, of Yeshiva University Counseling Center, share their experiences guiding young adults through the dating stages.   Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

A Collaborative Team

January 11, 2023 08:00 - 48 minutes - 44.1 MB

Merissa Gross, a seasoned matchmaker living in Israel, reviews the role of a Shadchan, Mentor & Coach, and encourages everyone to get involved in matchmaking and networking. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky

Dating Debacles: Adina Morris

December 28, 2022 08:00 - 50 minutes - 46 MB

Adina Morris, experienced dating and life coach, describes how to best avoid and mitigate hurdles commonly encountered while dating   Hosted by Randi Wartelsky

To Say or Not to Say

December 14, 2022 08:00 - 41 minutes - 38.2 MB

Sometimes uncomfortable questions are posed to friends and references. Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Daniel Feldman guides us on the most appropriate responses. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Second Time Dating: Yocheved Stock

November 30, 2022 08:00 - 30 minutes - 27.7 MB

Yocheved Stock, a beloved matchmaker, shares experiences and lessons she learned as a young widow dating again. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

Dr. Miriam Adler: Traveling through the Stages

November 09, 2022 08:00 - 50 minutes - 46.4 MB

Dr. Miriam Adler outlines the stages of relationships and how we can navigate the process toward success. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

The Art of Flexible Thinking

October 26, 2022 07:00 - 43 minutes - 40 MB

Dr. Oshra Cohen & Dr. Rayzel Yaish show how flexible thinking expands our possibilities and ultimately leads to greater happiness. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Rabbi Dovid Cohen: Perseverance & Positivity

September 14, 2022 07:00 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MB

Rabbi Dovid M. Cohen shares valuable lessons from his dating years. Learn from his insights and even his regrets during this vulnerable episode. A decade of ups & downs while finding his wife, Rabbi Cohen relays many ideas applicable to living one's 'best' life during challenging times. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch Books by Rabbi Cohen We're Almost There (December 2015) Together Again: Reimagining The Relationships That Anchor Our Lives (July 2022)

Slovie Jungreis Wolff: First Impressions

August 31, 2022 07:00 - 42 minutes - 38.5 MB

Rebbetzin Slovie Jungreis Wolff shares personal anecdotes demonstrating how having an open and positive mindset can lead to fulfilling relationships. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

Money Matter$: Tamar Snyder

August 10, 2022 07:00 - 36 minutes - 33 MB

Tamar Snyder explains the benefits to couples who understand their personal finances and goals. Spending habits and money values often play a role in making or breaking, a relationship. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky  Tamar runs an interactive financial workshop for engaged and newly married couples. Please go to www.ezrah.org/aisle to register or learn more about this great program. Recommended books and podcasts for increasing your financial literacy: Books: A Random Walk Down Wall Str...

Dr. Eli Shapiro: Texting Troubles

July 20, 2022 07:00 - 32 minutes - 37.1 MB

Harmful or helpful? Dr. Eli Shapiro discusses the realities of developing relationships through messaging. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

The Resume: Kim Solomon

June 29, 2022 07:00 - 47 minutes - 54.1 MB

Veteran matchmaker Kim Solomon shares the benefits and pitfalls of the dating resume to maximize results. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky

4 Keys to Emotional Intimacy

June 08, 2022 07:00 - 51 minutes - 58.9 MB

Rabbi Eliezer Zwickler, LCSW, spotlights the 4 traits that accompany the journey to a fulfilling relationship. These internal keys may surely lead to happy and true connections.   Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

Varda Berkovitz: Positive Parenting

May 11, 2022 07:00 - 27 minutes - 31.6 MB

Varda Berkovitz suggests how parents can best help daters before their first date and through the entire process. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Shayna Goldberg: Trust and Fear

April 27, 2022 07:00 - 43 minutes - 39.7 MB

Shayna Goldberg discusses how to better trust yourself as you make what may be your most significant life decision. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

Dating with your Head: Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen

April 06, 2022 07:00 - 27 minutes - 25.1 MB

Rabbi Dr. Cohen elaborates on his techniques for mentoring daters. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs.

Dating with & without a Disability: Rabbi Eli Portal, LMSW

March 23, 2022 07:00 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MB

Rabbi Eli Portal, LMSW, shares his first-hand experience of dating with a physical disability. His insights are universal to all daters and parents. You can learn more of Rabbi Portal's life story in Episode 10 and more on dating with a disability from a female perspective in Episode 13 of his Rolling with the Punches podcast. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

"Rules": Malky Galler & Ruchi Giberstien

March 02, 2022 08:00 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MB

Enjoy a light discussion about varying norms or "rules" from the idea stage to the proposal. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

The Halachic Prenuptial: Keshet Starr, CEO ORA

February 16, 2022 08:00 - 44 minutes - 41.1 MB

Learn about get refusal, what the Halachic Prenup says, and how we can start relationships on the right foot. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs

A Bobby’s Perspective: Lois Blumenfeld

February 02, 2022 08:00 - 35 minutes - 33 MB

Gain insights from Lois Blumenfeld as she shares more than 50 years of building successful relationships. Hosted by Rabbi Larry Rothwachs