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Black Millennial Marriage

208 episodes - English - Latest episode: 16 days ago - ★★★★★ - 336 ratings

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

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Episodes

BMM 126: Fly Drew. Fly.

April 16, 2021 15:52 - 49 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In the second episode of season 3, Mikey and Randie discuss putting Drew back in daycare. Together, the parents detail the pros and cons of having Drew home because of Covid-19, why they decided school was best for her, and how their baby girl’s return to daycare is helping them take their shit back. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about a compliment gone wrong. But, in the end it’s all ...

BMM 125: Let’s Play a Game!

April 05, 2021 14:53 - 57 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are back for Season 3, and true to Chapman fashion and BMM tradition, they’re back with a game! Invented by UK couple, Robert and Diana Indries, Better Topics is a game created by couples for couples. You can enjoy this game whether you are married, engaged, dating, in a long-term relationship, or a new couple. Together, Randie and Mikey play the fun game asking each other questions like: When ...

BMM 124: End of Season Two! Back in 2021.

December 15, 2020 05:35 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts PHEW!! It’s been a wild, wonderous, and unexpected year. When the ball drops on New Year’s Day don’t forget to shout, “Jumanji!” but before that, listen to the Chapman’s last episode of 2020. For this season finale, Mikey and Randie share the episodes that grew them up and surprised them and later they play and read feedback from . . . you. But not so fast, before the episode ends, Randie and Mikey award Patreon superlatives...

BMM Indie 123: Great Expectations

December 13, 2020 17:14 - 24 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his final Indie for Season 2! In this episode Mikey discusses the unfair expectations he’s placed on himself in these difficult and stressful times. Mike shares his struggles and successes, details his goals for next year, and leaves the audience with a little something inspirational at the end. After this reflection session the too into superheroes half of BMM hopes this episode inspires listeners to tak...

BMM Indie 122: I . . . Quit

December 02, 2020 05:58 - 27 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans are back to close out season 2 and in this Indie episode, Randie drops a bomb. She quit her day job. In this solo reflection the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details the ins and outs of her transition and shares what she’s doing now. 2020 remains full of surprises, and this is certainly the case for the Mrs. Never did she ever think she’d pull a stunt like this. But this is why we never ...

BMM 121: What We Gained In The Fire

November 03, 2020 14:20 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans will be back Wednesday, December 2nd! But before then . . . election day is upon us, and that’s a big deal. However, Mikey and Randie are here if you want to take a load off–cause lord knows they need to. That’s why in this episode, the couple discuss the gains from 2020. They highlight Lovecraft Country, bonding with their family members, and a year–despite 2020’s best efforts–of heightened intimacy and sensual...

BMM 120: Competing With Who?

October 26, 2020 18:54 - 56 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Icky, exhausted, confused, inferior, grateful, and inspired are just a few ways Mikey and Randie feel when they compete–knowingly and unknowingly. Together, the Chapmans detail what it’s like to be copied, unfollowed, and seen out here in these creative streets. Randie and Mikey also discuss what fuels their drive and keeps them focused on what matters most. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight asking the Mrs. to do mor...

BMM Mini: Parent Fog

October 22, 2020 03:43 - 22 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are seeing things in a new light now that their baby girl is growing up and spending time away. After almost 2 years in a haze of parenting and personal neglect the couple are able to speak on their new found perspective. That’s why in this episode, the Chapmans bring back minis–episodes about their home, personal, and sexual healing. Like all parents they really needed a moment to vent with the hopes that i...

BMM Indie 119: I Am Alive

October 20, 2020 13:44 - 23 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this solo episode, Randie details how an essay by June Jordan paired with therapy has reminded her that she is alive. Stuck in survival mode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes that surviving ain’t always living and she’s had enough of playing dead and small. After all, life is for the living. Yes? Yes. Randie hopes you tune in and that you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial to...

BMM 118: Another Baby?

October 15, 2020 01:53 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts “AHT AHT AHT” That’s what Randie says during this entire episode. Why? Because the Chapmans are discussing what it would be like to have another baby. In this episode the couple give their initial thoughts about having another child (way in the future) and detail what it was like having siblings. Then, Mikey and Randie share pros and cons to adding to their family. The Mr. has feelings he didn’t expect, while the Mrs. may be...

BMM 117: Big Mistakes. Big Lessons.

October 08, 2020 18:18 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey and Randie reveal big mistakes they’ve made in their marriage and the lessons they learned from them. From lying about being in the mood for sex to overcompensating and neglecting love languages, the Chapmans share it all. The conversation is insightful and necessary, and they’re pretty sure you’re going to cry laughing–per usual. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions Randie’s ability ...

BMM Indie 116: Guidance

October 06, 2020 03:13 - 26 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with another solo Indie for Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his feelings about the impact and importance of black men and mentorship. Mike shares traits he admired and picked up from some great men, details his process and criteria for finding a mentor, and leaves the audience with a little something special at the end. After this insightful session the masculine half of BMM hopes this episode inspires li...

BMM 115: Creator Woes

September 29, 2020 17:30 - 57 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Are you finding it hard to be creative or productive with all that’s been happening this year? Well, Mikey and Randie have and they aren’t too proud to share. In this open and honest episode, the couple detail the pros and cons of being a creator during a pandemic and revolution. For Randie, it’s mentally and emotionally draining in more ways than one and for Mikey, his extroverted side is taking a major hit. Later, for the...

BMM Indie 114: Dear God Ft. Brandi Miller

September 25, 2020 11:38 - 43 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts This episode is dedicated to Randie’s late grandmother Pat (1949-2012) Dear God, thank you. But also, how much longer? And by the way, please come get your people. These are just a few thoughts that Randie and her guest, Brandi Miller have. In this indie episode, the shorter half of the podcast interviews the host of “Reclaiming My Theology,” a podcast about taking our theology back from systems and ideas that oppress. Tog...

BMM 113: We Keep Forgetting to Say Thank You

September 22, 2020 22:58 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Did Last week’s positivity throw you off? Well, get ready because Mikey and Randie are trying something new again. In this gratitude filled episode, the couple detail lessons they learned from people they always forget to thank. For Randie, it’s her dad and extended family members and for Mikey, it’s his mom. In this never-before-had conversation, Randie dives into her epiphany about gray areas, while Mikey bigs up his moth...

BMM 112: What I Like About You

September 16, 2020 12:27 - 41 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Last week was intense, right? That’s why Mikey and Randie are lightening it up a bit with some major PDA. In this episode the couple detail what they like about the other and end up surprising one another. From Randie’s rant about Mikey’s butt to Mikey’s love about her bravery, the Chapmans invite you in to listen to a heartwarming and feel good conversation. Later, for her fight or flight, the Mrs. questions Mikey about al...

BMM Indie 111: Checking In

September 12, 2020 15:28 - 21 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back to check in, and on this Indie episode the shorter half of the podcast talks starting therapy again. Later, she tells a funny (maybe) church story and reveals two podcasts she’s loving right now. Randie hopes you enjoy this short and sweet Indie. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. I...

BMM 110: Are You Shrinking Yourself for Me?

September 08, 2020 04:12 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Have you been having simple conversations with your partner? Where neither one of you are assuming the worst or avoiding conflict? Mikey and Randie haven’t. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss ways they are shrinking themselves and the potential harm they have caused in their relationship. Randie shares her definition of shrinking herself, Mikey expresses similar feelings, and the couple share a transformative mom...

BMM Indie 109: Fuck Cancer

September 04, 2020 02:35 - 28 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with another solo Indie for Season 2! This time Mikey discusses health, wellness, and the impact he felt from the death of Chadwick Boseman. Mike shares his train of thought, details his plan of action for avoiding all things cancerous, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. After this venting session the hairy half of BMM hopes this episode inspires listeners to be more intentional...

BMM 108: Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself

September 01, 2020 14:51 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts NOTHING is the same, well not really, and that includes Mikey and Randie. That’s why in this episode the couple ask each other rapid fire questions paired with three questions each to reintroduce themselves to the other. Randie wonders why it’s important for Mikey to grow his hair back and if he still has a fear of abandonment, while Mikey wonders what’s Randie’s favorite part of her body and if there’s anything she’s keepi...

BMM Indie 107: Black Is.

August 27, 2020 23:33 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Black is Glory, Forever, Friendship, King, and a Conversation. And Randie can’t wait for you to hear. In this Indie episode, she chats it up with two of her closest girlfriends from college about Beyoncé’s visual album and re-imagination of the Lion King. To start, the trio reveal a time in their childhoods when they were proud of themselves, and then discuss how the Black is King visual album is helping them make it throug...

BMM 106: Brave Marriage Featuring Jeff and Logan

August 18, 2020 15:30 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts **Republished** Mikey and Randie may not have many married mentors, but they certainly have some of the best peer ones. That’s why in this episode the couple chat with their favorite married friends–Jeff and Logan about being brave and what that looks like while in a relationship. To start, the friends discuss a time they were afraid in their childhood. Then, Logan and Jeff tell their love story (spoiler: it’s hilarious). ...

BMM Indie 105: Brotherly Love

August 14, 2020 23:27 - 46 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his first Indie Interview of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses music, family, and fatherhood with his big brother Prince. The two share their thoughts on their upbringing, discuss the struggles and pitfalls associated with being the children of Paul Nurse, Mikey shares thoughts on his favorite southern musician, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. After this therapeutic co...

BMM Mini: Let’s Not Fight

August 11, 2020 04:03 - 25 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are losing their F’n minds. Why? Because everybody’s outside while they’re inside watching “Word Party,” it’s bananas and they need to take a load off. That’s why in this episode, the couple bring back minis–episodes about their time as a mom and dad–-and detail what they’re finding difficult and loving about parenting in a pandemic. They laugh more than they expect in this episode, but on a serious note, th...

BMM 104: Love and Business featuring Domino Sound

August 03, 2020 23:38 - 59 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie never thought they’d start a business with the podcast, and yet here they are! It’s a plot twist, alright, and this got them thinking about other couples who are doing big things on the business front as well. Other couples like, Kenya and Alex–co-founders of the queer, black woman-owned Domino Sound network. Along with their team, the duo are making it work and staying together. How Sway? The Chapmans in...

BMM Indie 103: Thinking of Oluwatoyin Salau

July 30, 2020 22:22 - 29 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie planned to do a relationship check-in with herself, but decided instead to talk about Oluwatoyin Salau (2000-2020). Oluwatoyin, a Nigerian-American activist was killed in June 2020 by a Black man. She died over a month ago, and right before the Chapmans took their break, and yet Randie has been unable to stop thinking about her. So, instead of carrying on as usual, Randie thought it best to finally share her thoug...

BMM 102: We’re Rich

July 27, 2020 16:51 - 45 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts When you really think about it, you’re rich. At least, that’s what Mikey and Randie discovered while on their mid-season pod break. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss six things about their relationship that makes them feel rich and makes them want to show gratitude. From Randie holding herself accountable, to Mikey proving that he’s willing and ready to act in allyship, the couple welcome you to participate in t...

BMM Indie 101: Big Stick

July 24, 2020 03:14 - 51 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his latest Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses a topic dear to him, the protection of black women. He shares his history with guns, discusses why he feels it’s important for black women to be armed and educated about firearms, interviews a special guest, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. After a much needed break the handsome half of BMM shares something h...

BMM 100: OUR 100TH EPISODE!

June 22, 2020 16:58 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts If you’ve never listened to an episode or are trying to catch up. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this one! How come? It’s the Black Millennial Marriage podcast’s 100TH EPISODE!! Mikey and Randie did it! They reached a monumental number in their show, and they want to share all the feels with you. That’s why in this episode, the couple play listener voicemails, read listener emails, and play snippets from their pe...

BMM Indie 099: Go Back to Africa

June 12, 2020 15:50 - 28 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Racist white people want Black people to go back to Africa, and Black people want to go back to Africa, and Randie weighs in with her thoughts. In this episode she details things that were challenging and great about living in Cape Coast Ghana, when she studied abroad. Later, she shares tips of what to do if you travel to an African country, and finally Randie shares two book recommendations. One book by Janet Mock, in hon...

BMM 098: Joy is an Act of Resistance Ft. Drew

June 10, 2020 20:38 - 55 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Writer and activist Audre Lorde said it best, caring for oneself is a form of political warfare. That’s why, in this episode Mikey and Randie are taking a break from the heartache and instead reflecting on the joys of Blackness. Why? Because while the revolution is in progress and the pandemic is still real, they needed a reminder that Black people do more than die. Black people are masters of joy and happiness. They are co...

BMM 097: BMM X Cheat Code

June 05, 2020 05:58 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts PWHEW. Talk about a time for tough and revolutionary conversations! They are happening everywhere, including on BMM’s podcast. To begin, in this episode, Randie and Mikey sit down with Andrea and Jason–the couple that brought everyone the Cheat Code podcast and the story of an affair between one woman and one man. Together they all discuss the Chapman’s criticism of their show and reveal their first encounters with infideli...

BMM 096: Marriage Counseling

June 02, 2020 23:05 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are in therapy . . . together! And in this episode, they discuss their experience with counseling and their latest homework assignment. Randie must consider what a fearless life looks like and show proof that Mikey supports her, and Mikey must reflect on their relationship history and reveal what he finds most valuable. The results are interesting and transformative, and they can’t wait for you to hear all ...

BMM 095: Radical Acceptance

May 27, 2020 05:43 - 49 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Oh the irony! This episode was supposed to be the first one of season 2, but Mikey and Randie changed their plans. Now, the couple share this episode because of another plot twist and a surprise that’s not quite ready yet–but it’s all good. Recorded back in February, when they were on break, Randie and Mikey talk about some of the things they have to radically accept. From the come up not being as linear as they hoped, to u...

BMM Indie 094: When In Doubt

May 22, 2020 04:57 - 30 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his fourth Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses Fathers Day. He shares gift ideas for any kind of father out there, shouts out a basketball player you might have heard of, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. You may have fallen short with your Fathers Day gifts in the past, but Mikey hopes his ramblings in this episode actually help yo...

BMM 093: A Second Marriage?

May 18, 2020 13:11 - 47 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts After listening to the “Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk for anyone who has ever loved,” TED Talk, Mikey and Randie decide it may be time to start a second marriage. So, in this episode, the couple discuss what a second marriage means to them and why they think they should start anew. Next, they share pros, cons, and fears about starting this new venture, and lastly they share how they plan to manifest a second marriage. ...

BMM 092: Woman to Woman

May 12, 2020 19:32 - 1 hour - 70.5 MB

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this rare episode, Randie interviews her mom–Nottra H. (on VIDEO, available on Patreon) and asks her questions she’s always wanted the answers to. Randie digs deep and asks questions like: “Why did you get married,” “Why did you get divorced?” “What was your first connection to God,” and “Would you rather date a Trump supporter or another Sagittarius?” And of course, there’s more. Later, Randie’s mom brings a fight or ...

BMM Indie 091: Dad Body

May 08, 2020 02:51 - 28 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his third Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals for taking better care of his health. He shares his challenges, solutions, and plans, shouts out a boxer and rapper you might know, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. It took a little liquid courage for him to share details of his body-image issues, but Mikey hopes you can take ...

BMM 090: The F*ck?

May 04, 2020 02:48 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey and Randie review the first five episodes of, “The Cheat Code,” a podcast about an affair told over ten episodes. Together, the Chapmans detail their initial reactions that ranged from–“Wtf?” to “Huh?”. Next, the couple discuss what had them in their feelings. Randie reveals the show triggered the kid in her and that she was surprised to hear cheaters cry about getting cheated on. Mikey, on the other ...

BMM Indie 089: Little Graces

April 30, 2020 23:38 - 29 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Come! Take a load off with Randie. In this Indie episode, featuring just herself, the more hydrated half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes she does not have the mental and emotional bandwidth to go as deep as she usually does. Quarantine be like that sometimes! Instead, Randie reflects on the little graces she’s discovered, utilized, and turned to as a source of comfort in these trying times. From binging he...

BMM 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain’t All Bad

April 27, 2020 23:42 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two ...

BMM Indie 087: After This

April 23, 2020 01:10 - 24 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his second Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals and plans for after this quarantine ends. He shares his plans as a husband, as a father, and an individual, shouts out his all-time favorite basketball player, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. Recorded in the late weeks of when the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks,...

BMM 086: Deeper Than the Highlight Reel

April 22, 2020 23:22 - 56 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts **RE-UPLOADED** In this episode the Chapmans share how the season 2 launch of the podcast triggered bigger concerns. Together Mikey and Randie discuss how not seeing one another on the social media feed gave truth to a bigger problem. That problem? They have not prioritized, invested time, or attempted to memorialize their relationship, on or offline, in a while. In the past year, they only wanted to survive, and the two ...

BMM Indie 085: On Being Married

April 15, 2020 05:06 - 31 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie was not going to share this episode with the public, but her intentions for herself called for real life bravery. For her first Indie back, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast talks about needing Mikey. But, doesn’t everyone? Yes. No? Randie details how she has shrunk her needs as a wife for fear of conflict, and then she discusses why this cannot continue. Feeling a bit ashamed, embarrassed, e...

BMM 084: Love and Lessons in the Time of Corona

April 13, 2020 04:48 - 1 hour - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts What a time to be alive, right? In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss the ways the Coronavirus pandemic has already changed their life. From realizing that they’re blessed to having to accept that they should have deleted some people from their social media a long time ago, the Chapmans also share what this time in isolation is teaching them about themselves and each other. The couple lastly reveal how sad social distanc...

BMM Indie 083: When a Man Loves a Woman

April 09, 2020 19:12 - 30 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his first Indie Episode of Season 2! For his first episode back Mikey details a timeline of his love life and how it ultimately lead to the person he is and how seriously he takes his duties as a father and husband. He shares how his late mentor shaped his emotional maturity, shouts out some men and women he appreciates, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. Recorded in the ea...

BMM 082: Game of Moans

April 05, 2020 17:38 - 57 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank changed?”, “What do you wish we did more of?” and that’s just the beginning. Later, Mikey...

[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 019: Would You Rather?

March 09, 2020 11:24 - 22 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Would you rather your kid get suspended for kissing or losing a fight? In this Patreon archived episode, the Chapmans answer this question and more. The results are as silly as you’d expect. Tune in to this throwback and let them know what you think. And remember, season 2 of BMM airs April 5th, but until then the couple will share archived mini episodes about their life as parents, you haven’t heard before. Can’t stand to w...

[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 010: Shower my Baby

February 25, 2020 02:29 - 25 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts When Randie was pregnant, the Chapmans didn’t celebrate too much. Fear and worry took over and they were slow to show real excitement about Drew until…the baby shower. So for this Patreon archive, the couple take it all the way back to the day their family and friends got together to acknowledge new life. The party had everything from books, to games, to drama, and whistles and you gotta tune in to hear all about it. In othe...

[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 017: 5 Hours

February 17, 2020 14:06 - 28 minutes - 1 Byte

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this Patreon archive episode, the Chapmans throw it back to an oldie but a goodie and share what it was like to have 5 hours together, for the first time after having Drew. Mikey and Randie had a little time to do whatever they wanted and they lived it up like back in college…kinda. Later, they talk about meeting Beleaf of Beleaf in Fatherhood for the first time at an Atlanta meet-up. They hope you tune in and enjoy this ...