Dr. Hanson and Forrest continue their discussion of Intimacy by focusing on building empathy, which allows us to tune into and understand other people.


Timestamps:


0:30: Why do we need to be empathic in order to be intimate?


1:50: Where does empathy come from biologically?


5:15: Summary of the three ways we can show empathy.


5:50: Is empathy a trait that can be developed?


8:15: Sustaining your attention to other people.


10:35: Letting yourself be truly affected by another person.


12:30: Empathic joining vs. problem solving.


13:55: Having empathy for perspectives very different from your own.


18:45: Ways to have empathy in the moment.


20:00: Feeling felt.


21:20: Using empathy responsibly.


22:00: Empathic imagination.


24:15: How to avoid playing the psychologist.


26:00: Being aware of true intentions.


27:40: Managing tone and using empathy to communicate.


30:25: Finding me and we through empathy.