Ep. 23: First Dart, Second Dart
Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson
English - June 13, 2018 18:50 - 24 minutes - 22.1 MB - ★★★★★ - 1.2K ratingsMental Health Health & Fitness Education Self-Improvement mindfulness meditation self-help self improvement well being brain mind heart psychology practical psychology Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
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On this episode of the Being Well Podcast, Dr. Hanson and Forrest talk about how we can avoid “second darts” – our negative reactions to the painful experiences of life that are often more harmful than those experiences themselves.
Timestamps:
0:40: What are the first and second darts?
2:50: An example of first and second darts.
5:15: Finding where you have influence.
7:15: Avoiding adding second darts.
12:30: Not fueling second darts.
15:00: Changing the channel on second darts.
15:50: Managing second darts in relationships.
18:55: Sticking to first darts when communicating.
21:10: Recap