Becoming Elite

The Soft Life Goal is Total Freedom (Strong Woman Syndrome)

Every woman can experience a soft life of their own definition but it requires putting down the controlling and masculine force. This means emotional weight must be lifted. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Avoiding the Emotional Labor, Avoiding True Wealth (Strong Woman Syndrome)

When you’ve been praised for being smart and intelligent, you often find yourself struggling and alone for the emotional work. Here’s why. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Avoiding Emotional Damage and Rock Bottoms (Strong Woman Syndrome)

Many strong women are praised for their comeback story but can it be avoided? WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

How Equating Your Worth to Money is Holding Back Your Money (Strong Woman Syndrome)

When money is your metric for success, it oozes from every identity label you place on yourself. Here’s how it’s contributing to areas of lack. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Stop Proving Yourself Strong Woman

If you have ever identified as the strong independent woman, this is a quick chat on how proving yourself starts as an innocent exchange and leads to major resistance as you grow long term. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

The Side Effect of Being Strong (Abandonment Issues)

Being the strong friend is a badge until it’s a burden. Here’s how it can lead to major issues in business if unchecked. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

The Winter is Necessary (Season Finale)

Reflecting on Season 3. What did we learn from closing business and how to no longer allow your old story to be your crutch. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

The Truth About Walking Away (For the Manifestors)

Today we dive into your incarnation cross. This has been a key that is useful in times you feel stuck and alone. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Anger and Real Power is Not Loud (For the Manifestors)

It’s often thought that anger and power should be these loud events however the real power lies in being able to move yourself peacefully to where you’re celebrated. This is a deep look at your not-self theme and it’s quiet health signs.

Making Decisions in Authority (For the Manifestors)

This is part 3 of the series. We’ve been conditioned to not use our inner authority but you’ve known it all along. Now it’s time to start building your self trust. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

What to Do When People Project / Karmic Mirror (For the Manifestors)

Today we cover profile lines and dealing with projections as a powerful person. It’s not your fault you trigger something within people just being your amazing self. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

How to Inform / Your Word is Your Bond (For Manifestors)

This is a new series about how to inform as a Manifestor BUT this is a great take on communication for all. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Signs You’ve Given Enough Grace

When you commit to going to your next level, you will have obstacles that pop up. Being aware of this will help you to not shrink back. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

How to No Longer Identify to Struggle & Stress Addiction

Once you learn how to read your body’s warning signs, your boundaries look more like holistic medicine for the soul. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Transcending Mental Warfare + Why I Created Becoming Elite

When you decide to grow or leave the old version of yourself, it can cause a total moment of chaos. This season is not for you to step back into what is familiar and comfortable. It is meant for you to develop your resilience required for the next version of you that you desire. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

My 2024 Business Strategy & Honoring My Human Design

This episode is the what and in my paid containers we discuss the how. This is definitely an episode to reflect on 12 months from now. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

What Really Makes An Intellectual Happy?

Most intellectual left brains do not know what happiness feels like. It’s because the mind can make you think that happiness is a secondary emotion that may come from doing what makes the most logical sense first. What if your next blessing is tied to you defining what your happiness really is? WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@...

Design your life for YOU

What happens when we go off the path that was taught to us as kids? Today we talk about what really happens when you get off the default and start designing your life your way. WORK CLOSER Becoming Elite Program https://www.elitemasterypro.com/p/becoming-elite Follow Nina on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes/ Follow Nina on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamninahayes

Lessons from Saturn Return & Mastermind Training with Multimillionaires

Some lessons will take years to learn. In this episode we unpack 12 years of lessons and unlearning the responsibility of helping others before helping self.

The War on Attention (Vision 2024)

It has begun. When you can get people to focus and fight for the dangling carrot, only the thinkers will chart a new path to the garden.

How to Get Clients

The most frequently asked question updated with four tips you can implement today. Shift from simply serving people nicely to managing people properly.

No Longer Impressed by What You Have?

A small glimpse of what I believe the next 3-5 years has in store. Have we lost the desire for things and now crave a space of simply finding solid beings?

Signs You Are Leaving Survival Mode

Have you decided you are once and for all ready to accelerate your life to new heights? This episode is just the thing you need to let you know you are on the right track.

Hopeless to HopeFULL

Short message but very necessary.

Fighting Against your Purpose When You Are Meant to Lead

If you’re the type of person who picks up trash off the ground when you’re out and about, that trait is your character and often a mark of a leader. Are you fighting against this position in your own life?

Conquering your Depression Once and For All

It’s been almost 8 years since I took the biggest quantum leap of my life and I am finally sharing the plan that I used to help me quit my job and build a life by MY design. This episode goes back in time to my moment of getting fed up and changing my life.

Morning Affirmation

For your morning. Listen daily.

Showing Up For Yourself

What are you unavailable for? This is a question we must start to ask ourselves daily. There’s a big life out here for you when you stop showing up to mediocre situations.

Mentally Insured for Success

Very intellectual conversation that every business owner, entrepreneur and client should listen to. It’s an in-depth look at building your psyche while building empires. I am not a therapist or medical professional. This is not medical advice.

Living with a Wide Angle View

When you begin to live your life on a wide angle lens, you start to see things differently, beyond YOU. Do the people, surroundings and mindsets around you support your growth or hinder it?

What True Feminine Leadership Looks Like

True Feminine Leadership is often chaotic. It’s the consequence and discipline while being nurturing and inspiring. Will you be ready for the shift happening in the next five years?

Giving Clowns the Stage (Vision 2024)

I know you’re tired but we need the real leaders to stand up. Feminine Leadership is not all soft or sweet. It’s intuitive, chaotic and often necessarily destructive for a new foundation.

It IS Possible For You

Do you believe you can achieve what you help or encourage others to believe for?

When Quitting Things Can Elevate Everything

Sometimes stopping what isn’t working can totally reboot and elevate everything you desire in your life.

Becoming Elite (Trailer)

Turn the Page (You will be ok….)

This is the final episode of Becoming Elite. Thank you for your support over the years. No further updates will be made to this podcast catalog. Sending you blessings on your next journey. You know where to find me. Signing out.

Eldest Daughter Dis-Ease

I’ve noticed something in my clients. Most are the eldest daughter and are seeking the safe space of having a guide. They never had a guide because they were expected to be the guide. And I relate because I’m an eldest daughter. So for us, safe spaces and mentors are key. We do have to hire ourselves support because if not who will be there when we crumble? This episode is a must listen.

Make it Make Sense

This is the followup to Episode 100 filmed Sep 2022. Please do not drive while listening to this.

The Weight of Not Carrying Your Weight

A must listen. If you are feeling stuck, this will help you get unstuck and kick your life into gear. Please consult your therapist as needed.

Follow the Nudge (End of Chapter)

The more you follow the nudge, the more you learn it’s language. You know exactly what you want. Follow that.

An Ick to Success?

A new take on self sabotage. In this episode we reflect on the lessons we have learned and how to employ compassion for those still learning their way spiritually.

Stress Addiction

If you find yourself uncomfortable when chaos or stress is removed, this is for you. Not knowing what your next season looks like doesn’t mean subconsciously adding in chaos in the mean time.

Make Room

This year has had so many closed doors. Yet while I was sitting watching the doors close, God was opening so many doors on the other side of the hallway. This episode is a catch-up and reminder to make room for your next level.

For Walking Away

Your new level requires you to walk away from the old one. It’s the sacrifice many aren’t willing to make. This short episode will help you be encouraged as you evolve.

For the Manifestors pt2

We all need people in our lives who call us to greater. Our family loves us but often times they help enable us to be small. This is the message I give myself when it’s time to shake the room.

For the Manifestors

It’s time to get out of the slow lane and hit the gas on your life. You are the driver.

Letting Survival Go

What if you’re holding on to $100K year and the season of drought is pushing you to $100K months? Yes just because it’s more than you’ve had growing up doesn’t mean you aren’t grateful and positioned for more abundance. Let’s take a look at why letting unaligned things go faster is your best move as a high performing woman / mother.

Do the Math pt2

Sometimes we don’t really sit back and do the math of not making decisions. Instead we choose to suffer because we think it’s the only option. This episode is calling you to higher.

Accountability to Go For Your Dreams

We’re making decisions and dealing with the consequences of no longer being the foundation to broken pillars. Let’s end the month strong as we say goodbye to our old lives. Be prepared to take notes.

Coaching Session (Cognitive Dissonance)

If you don’t have boundaries, one tell-tale sign is disrespecting others boundaries or getting upset when they set one. Listen in to a well needed message on why the top 5% stay the top 5%.