Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker
607 episodes - English - Latest episode: 20 days ago - ★★★★★ - 6 ratingsA healthy lifestyle from a Christian perspective with marriage and family counselor Olen Baker.
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What Gives Indifference its Power?
July 26, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBIndifference is dangerous because it can quickly become permanent. God is willing to give you a fresh start, with a clean heart. All you have to do is ask.
How Can I fight Against Procrastination?
July 24, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBProcrastination has the power to blunt your conscience. With that, guilt and shame looses its intensity. Ask God to replace indifference with a renewed love for Jesus Christ.
How are Procrastination and Avoidance Alike?
July 21, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBDid you ever not feel guilty for failing to be responsible? God's message is, confess, repent, seek forgiveness and make amends. Sounds simple, but it's not always easy.
What are the Consequences of Procrastination?
July 19, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBWait for it...procrastination leads to failure and disaster. Purpose, through God can turn things around...today.
How Can I Prevent Procrastination From Becoming a Habit?
July 17, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MB"Tomorrow, every fault will be corrected, yet tomorrow never comes." The words of Benjamin Franklin. Smart guy. How about you. Does something need to be done...today?
How Can I Manage My Time, Better?
July 14, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBTime, your time, is a gift from God. It is written, "there is a time for everything, a season for every activity under the sun". So, let every minute become a precious gift. Use it wisely and you will be richly blessed.
How Can I Avoid Procrastination?
July 12, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBSimply, when we procrastinate, we stumble what could be the conduit for our success. What do you need to do right now, today, the get that path to success in motion?
How Can I Avoid Bad Habits?
July 10, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBGood habits are beneficial. Bad habits can be a stumbling block to your walk with God. Bad habits are like darkness. Jesus, the light of the world can get you on the right path.
How Do I Overcome Laziness?
July 07, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBThink about the things you do on a regular basis. Include the good stuff and the not so good stuff. The Bible says " if a man is lazy, his rafters sag, and if his hands are idle, his roof leaks". Time to get up and do something positive and necessary.
Why Can't I Overcome Prejudice?
July 05, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBW.C. Fields was quoted as saying, "I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally." Have you considered how you learned prejudice? Beyond that, have you considered moving to a better place?
What Is Prejudice?
July 03, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBThere are good habits and bad habits. One of the most destructive habits humans acquire, is being prejudice. That and other harmful habits can be destructive to the family's peace. Are you fighting that habit?
Are Habits Necessary?
June 30, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBSow a habit, reap a character. Sow a character, reap a destiny. Habits are necessary and when they align with what God has in store for our lives, those good habits provide a pathway for hope and a purposeful life. What good habits have you established?
How Can I Overcome a Bad Habit?
June 28, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBHabits are part of our life. Second nature for everyone. Breaking those habits that are harmful can be tough. God can help move those bad habits, to good habits that bring peace and hope. Listen and learn how.
How Can I Stop Habitual Lying?
June 26, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBBeing truthful. For most, it's part of who we are. For others, it's simply not possible, because they have built a path so deep and dark that lying becomes a perceived truth. Is that where you are, today. Listen and learn how to change that.
What Gives Addictions Power?
June 23, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBThe power to break bad habits comes from permitting Jesus Christ to create in you, a new way of thinking and has control over the old thought patterns. You DO have the power to make that happen.
What Gives Habits Power?
June 21, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBHave you be against the cutting edge of a powerful, embarrassing habit that is hard to break? Habit start out as cobwebs and turn into shackles. God has the power to help break those habits.
How Do Habits Seize Control?
June 19, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBA bad habit can be what causes pain and suffering. It might not be alcohol, tobacco, or food. The power of a habit, either good or bad, will shape who we are and determine our future, God has the power to help us move to good habits that align with his purpose for our lives.
Can a Bad Habit Be Conquered?
June 16, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBWhat makes bad habits hard to break is they are often welcomes, enjoyed and even believed to be beneficial. Bad habits have power over you. God has the power to help you remove and replace those with good habits that align with his wish for our lives.
How Can I Nurture Someone?
June 14, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBNurturing, not an easy task. It provides reassurance in situations that appear hopeless. It rises above anger and revenge. Do you have a tough time nurturing someone else? Listen and discover how to be better at nurturing.
Does Criticism and Fault-Finding Work?
June 12, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBCriticism and fault-finding is an unproductive method of changing someone's behavior. It is also hurtful and emotionally damaging. Is that how you approach someone? Listen and find out how to be better at building up someone.
Is Nurturing a Necessity?
June 09, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBCompassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. These are all attributes of nurturing. With these, nurturing is possible.
How is Compassion Related to Forgiveness?
June 07, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBWhen God for gives us he completely forgets our sins. Sometimes we have a tough time following his lead. Is that hard for you, as well?
What Does Forgiveness Include?
June 05, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBWords verbalize what's in the heart. Beyond that, words demonstrate sincerity. True forgiveness leads to behaviors that builds a person up. Can you do that?
Why Should I Forgive?
June 02, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBSo here's the deal. God does not hold grudges. And neither should you. Follow his example by forgiving others. You will not regret it.
What Makes an Apology Sincere?
May 31, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBIt's not about you. It's about the other person. If you are reluctant to be humble, remember that Jesus humbled himself and died on the cross just for you. So, can you do the same?
Why Should I Apologize?
May 29, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBCan you do it? Can you humble yourself with humility? An apology restores fellowship and peace to a relationship. Without an apology, reconciliation will never happen. Don't be caught in that trap.
How Can I Apologize?
May 26, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBAn apology is necessary because it opens the door to forgiveness. It is also the beginning of reclaiming your self-respect. Holding onto hurt does nothing good, and damages the opportunity for peace.
How Can I Apologize for Wrong and Hurtful Behavior?
May 24, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBNot an easy task, but it becomes easier when you turn to the Holy Spirit for guidance. Speak the truth and speak it with humility. Your actions will be received and blessed. Take the first step by turning to God. He is waiting for you.
How Can I Overcome Betrayal?
May 22, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBHere's a tough question. How can I keep my anger in check and ignore insults? Not easy to do, but necessary. And if you are guilty of betrayal are you capable of demonstrating humility through confession? Anger is wasted energy. Following God's word is an essential to making things right.
What is Out of Bounds Anger?
May 19, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBHere's a tough one. If you're the recipient of some ones anger, go and make amends to that person. God can give you the courage to do just that. Are you willing to do so?
What Happens When Anger Turns Inward?
May 17, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBSearch your heart for honesty. A few words that can change a bad situation into a positive opportunity. Ask God for opportunities to honest about your feelings. He will hear your prayer.
How Can I be Slow to Anger?
May 15, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBAnger is simply an instrument for revenge. Being slow to anger prevents overreacting. Instead, take the time to discover God's point of view.
How Do I Calm My Anger?
May 12, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBAnger is a snare that has the potential for wrecking a commitment to remain calm and in control. Discover how you can control your anger.
Why is Accepting Correction, Necessary?
May 10, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBCriticism can diminish a person's character and self-worth. If you're in the receiving end of criticism, that's not easy. How well you respond will dictate the future of who you are. It takes courage and strength. Is that something you have?
How Can I Practice What is Difficult?
May 08, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBDo good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. Yeah, not an easy thing to do. It becomes easier when you understand WHY?
How Can I Avoid Being Critical of Another Person?
May 05, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBCriticism rarely, if ever, produces positive results. The most natural response is to strike back. Consider your words carefully. Don't act out of anger or an attitude of revenge. Consider how God would respond.
What Does It Mean to Turn the Other Cheek?
May 03, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBInstead of revenge, consider kindness, mercy and forgiveness, just as God has forgiven you. Not always easy to do, but essential if you want to be the person God has intended. Yes, not always easy to do, but important that you consider the option.
How Can I Turn Revenge into Redemption?
May 01, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBAnger, resentment, hatred. That's a barrier to loving God. Instead it magnifies and decays the relationship with Him. There is a better way. Listen and learn.
How Do I Overcome the Desire for Revenge?
April 28, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBRevenge can devastate and and destroy the one desiring it as well as the one to whom it is directed. God's word clearly tells us "Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge, but love others as yourself" Tough to do, but imperative that you look to God when you are in a place like this.
How Does Prayer Work?
April 26, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBFear and regret replaces any joy experienced from getting revenge. God instructs us to sincerely pray for those who cause you suffering and pain. Pray that God will be merciful to them. Take your eyes off your hurt feelings and focus them on God when you go to prayer.
How Do I Do What is Right?
April 24, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBHatred is very powerful, but God gives us the courage and strength to defeat it. Listening to God and doing what is right can be a challenge, but there is no other way to approach a problem and establish a positive solution.
How Do I Manage Anger and Hurt Feelings?
April 21, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBSomewhere along the journey of life we experience rejection and disfavor. Does your conversation with God offer an apology for your attitude, or do you refuse to accept that option. God offers forgiveness to those who sincerely seek it.
How Does God Help Me Deal with Revenge?
April 19, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBGod looks at our motivation to forgive. Is it given with the right attitude? Step away from that attitude of revenge and ask God to show you how you should move. Revenge does not come from you. It is more powerful when it starts with an understand of what God will do.
What is the Danger of Seeking Revenge?
April 17, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBWe all will at some time have come up against the cutting edge revenge. Seeking revenge cuts you deeper than the wound you inflict on others. God will act on your behalf. Patience and a belief in this process is the only way to go.
How Can I Seek Revenge?
April 14, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBSeeking revenge begins by asking for forgiveness and hopeful reconciliation. This is difficult but necessary. Any other path destroys the opportunity to move ahead with positive results. Yeah, it's tough, but necessary.
What Does My Mood Reveal About Me?
April 12, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBYour mood is powerful. It affects your state of mind and how you respond to life. Your mood can also have a disabling effect on the ability to worship. Faith in Jesus Christ can give you hope for today and all eternity. In spite of troubles, which will come your way, God has a way to turn that mood into an optimistic tomorrow.
What Does a Bad Mood Mean?
April 10, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBStay away, don't come close and ask nothing from me. Ever been in that place? Mood swings can be a trap, especially if you have not put your complete trust in God to allow you to see beyond the grey and cloudy day. Raise up your voice and ask for the mercy he loves to provide.
How Do I Control My Outlook on Life?
April 07, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBYour outlook on life, whether positive or negative is both an indicator of your mood as well as your attitude. The power of God will give you the strength to power through those days that are less sunny. The sun never goes down on unresolved conflict.
Am I Always Supposed to be Happy?
April 05, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBExpectations based on reality makes happiness a greater possibility. The faithfulness of God is our greatest source for joy and happiness. It's a gift, given especially for you.
How Do I Overcome Depression?
March 31, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 4.6 MBDepression is a mystery? There may be no apparent reason. Problem is, the longer depression exists the more perplexing the challenge becomes to regain happiness. If you're in this place, trust God to help you move beyond it.