Latest Money scripts Podcast Episodes
#100 – Bari Tessler – Tools of Transformation – Part One
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - March 28, 2023 09:00 - 28 minutesBari Tessler talks about the tools she developed and first used for herself and then taught them to her clients. We take time to go into depth on The Body Check-In and The Money Date and how to create a supportive and anxiety-free atmosphere to have even the toughest talks with money. These ar...
#99– Bari Tessler - Doing Your Own Work
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - March 21, 2023 09:00 - 25 minutesBari Tessler is back with us this week where we discuss the importance of professionals in doing their own work and why that is a continuous practice, not a one-and-done event. We also discuss the challenges of certification, the future of the financial therapy profession, one of Rick’s money sc...
#98 – Bari Tessler – Groups and Financial Therapy
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - March 14, 2023 09:00 - 24 minutesBari Tessler, a somatic based financial therapist and author of “The Art Of Money” is my guest for this special four-part series. In this first conversation, Bari talks about the evolution of training consumers to creating groups where financial and healing professionals can find a safe space to...
#97 High EQ Can Lower Your Financial Planning Costs
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - March 07, 2023 10:00 - 28 minutesInvestors appear to have a poor grasp of the fee issue, failing to minimize fees even when the benefits are presented in a clear and incontrovertible disclosure. In fact, the mean fee paid by the participants was far enough above the minimum they could have paid that it dramatically reduced long...
#96 Rick, Are You Worth $1 Million
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - February 28, 2023 10:00 - 28 minutesI was encouraging one of my 20 something friends at my gym to attend a workshop I was giving on investing and financial planning. I quipped, “I’ll teach you how to be a millionaire.” “Really?” she responded. I quickly explained how if someone her age invested $6,000 a year in stocks for the n...
#95 NVC - A Tool To Help Make Better Financial Decisions
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - February 21, 2023 10:00 - 24 minutesNon-Violent Communication teaches us to learn to hear our own deeper needs and those of others. Through its emphasis on deep listening—to ourselves as well as others—NVC helps us discover the depth of our own compassion. This language reveals the awareness that all human beings are only trying t...
#94 I Just Lost My Job, What Do You Say Next
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - February 14, 2023 10:00 - 25 minutesA reporter for a financial planning magazine recently asked me when a client loses their job, what emotional support should they expect from the planner? How can the planner best respond to the emotions of the client? What emotions can the planner expect to experience? That’s something I have n...
#93 - Money Scripts 2.0 - Part B
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - February 07, 2023 10:00 - 30 minutesWhat are the hurtful financial behaviors driven by our Money Scripts and how can we modify those behaviors into ones that are healthy and supportive? Most money scripts cannot be changed cognitively or with more information as they often are anchored emotionally. Learn two ways that you can be...
#92 – Money Scripts 2.0 - Part A
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - January 31, 2023 10:00 - 28 minutesThe concept of Money Scripts was coined by Drs. Ted and Brad Klontz and Rick Kahler in 2005 and first appeared in Conscious Finance – Uncover Your Hidden Money Beliefs and Transform the Role of Money in Your Life, co-authored by Rick Kahler and Kathleen Fox. They have become common language in ...
#91 – One Example of the Power of IFS Informed Financial Therapy
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - January 24, 2023 10:00 - 23 minutesIn my experience, IFS Informed Financial Therapy is one of the more effective methodologies in helping clients resolve money issues. The power of the IFS protocol was demonstrated in my recorded conversation with Dr. Helen E. Lees, editor of PARTS & SELF, the international voice of the IFS Found...
#90 – Evaluating the Emotional Health of Your Media Diet
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - January 17, 2023 10:00 - 24 minutesConsuming a diet of just one type of news bias can result in long-term damage to your financial and emotional wellbeing. It can destroy relationships and making evidence based, reasoned, and informed financial decisions. For example, selling out of the stock market or going all-in solely on on...
#89 - Transparency and Honest, Often Touted, Rarely Delivered
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - January 10, 2023 10:00 - 23 minutesTransparency is a highly valued attribute that extends to individuals, businesses, and government. It is often touted, routinely promised, and often undelivered. How many political candidates have promised to be the most transparent office holder ever, only to actually deliver the complete opp...
#88 – Warp Speed Financial Transformation Using IFS
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - January 03, 2023 10:00 - 26 minutesIn my experience, IFS Informed Financial Therapy is one of the more effective methodologies in helping clients resolve money issues. The power of the IFS protocol was demonstrated in my recorded conversation with Dr. Helen E. Lees, editor of PARTS & SELF, the international voice of the IFS Found...
#87 – The New Years Resolution That Actually Works
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - December 27, 2022 10:00 - 25 minutesFinancial New Year’s resolutions are a common phenomenon this time of year—especially for anyone who overdid the holiday spending and who knows the new year is going to bring a new batch of credit card bills. Probably one of the most common financial resolutions is: “I’m going to make a budget a...
#86 – Celebrating This Christmas Like Scrooge
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - December 20, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutesWith all the supply chain chaos, inflation, and uncertainty in the economy, this year is a perfect time to celebrate Christmas in the manner of Ebenezer Scrooge. Am I suggesting you celebrate Christmas like a cold-hearted skinflint? After all, Ebenezer Scrooge is probably the most famous miser i...
#85 – Talking Financial Therapy With Sonya Britt-Lutter – Part 2
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - December 13, 2022 10:00 - 25 minutesIn Part 2 of Rick’s discussion with Sonya, they discuss trauma and its impact on a person’s financial decisions. Sonya will also reveal the common denominator a person that suffers a significant loss in their lives is resiliency. The answer took Rick by complete surprise. A podcast that blends ...
#84 - Talking Financial Therapy with Sonya Britt-Lutter - Part One
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - December 06, 2022 10:00 - 29 minutesRick talks with Sonya Britt-Lutter who is one of the pioneers of financial therapy. Sonya was the first “real” financial therapist I knew of to have formal training in financial planning and therapy. Listen to her journey to becoming a founder of financial therapy, which included her turning d...
#83 - Are Buyers Really Liars
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - November 29, 2022 10:00 - 23 minutesTyler and Kristen wanted a modern four-bedroom house with a three-car garage within their price range. They bought a 75-year-old three-bedroom fixer upper with a one car garage that was over their price range. Real estate agents have a saying that “buyers are liars.” Are they really, or was th...
#82 - Breaking Out of Your Financial Comfort Zone
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - November 22, 2022 10:00 - 28 minutesThe “what would people think” money scripts are often externally driven and very cultural. We tend to associate with and live near people who mirror our financial circumstances and money scripts. Such a “financial comfort zone” is shared by people who tend to have similar incomes, lifestyles, sp...
#81 Emotional Challenges to Leaving Unequal Amounts to Children
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - November 15, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutesIt’s not very often that I read an estate plan that treats children unequally. In estate planning, “equal” isn’t necessarily the same as “fair”. Even when siblings agree that an unequal distribution is fair, they may feel a lot of internal resistance, even though they may be unable to articulat...
#81 Emotional Challenges to Leaving Unequal Amounts to Children
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - November 15, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutesIt’s not very often that I read an estate plan that treats children unequally. In estate planning, “equal” isn’t necessarily the same as “fair”. Even when siblings agree that an unequal distribution is fair, they may feel a lot of internal resistance, even though they may be unable to articulat...
#80 Financially Motivated Suicide
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - November 08, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutesRecently, I wrote a column and did a podcast on the personalities that tend to invest in crypto. This article was the genesis of a conversation with some of my peers about the recent crypto meltdown. One emailed me an article that forms on Reddit were posting suicide prevention phone numbers, “...
#79 - Raising Your Fees - It's Not About The Money
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - November 01, 2022 09:00 - 26 minutesRaising your fees or asking for a higher wage is fraught with emotions and money scripts. I recently had to work at convincing a vendor to raise her hourly fee she charged me. My concern was that I wanted to be sure I was paying her a market rate. That meant a 20% hike in her hourly fee, whic...
#78 – Financial Therapist Faces 5 Near Bankruptcies – Concerned?
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - October 25, 2022 09:00 - 24 minutesHow would you feel to find out your financial planner, financial coach, or financial therapist actually faced bankruptcy five times in their life? Nervous? Concerned? Well, that’s exactly what I told the world in an interview that I did with Morey Stenner for MarketWatch.com, Once I read the...
#78 – Financial Therapist Faces 5 Near Bankruptcies – Concerned?
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - October 25, 2022 09:00 - 24 minutesHow would you feel to find out your financial planner, financial coach, or financial therapist actually faced bankruptcy five times in their life? Nervous? Concerned? Well, that’s exactly what I told the world in an interview that I did with Morey Stenner for MarketWatch.com, Once I read the...
#77 - What Is Money, Really? - 15 Money Truisms
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - October 18, 2022 09:00 - 26 minutesMoney probably isn’t what you think it is, even though you think it may consume your thoughts and run your life. In this episode I delve into 15 elements of money that may surprise you, anger you, or maybe relieve you. Your understanding of money may never be the same again. A podcast that bl...
#76 - The Vow of Poverty
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - October 11, 2022 09:00 - 24 minutesThe Vow of Poverty is a hurtful financial behavior wrapped in a cloak of looking good. Almost no one vows to exist in a state of poverty, which is not have enough money to meet basic needs of food, clothing and shelter. The Vow of Poverty I am talking about is an intentional, conscious decision...
#75 - What Does Financial Wellbeing Look Like?
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - October 04, 2022 09:00 - 24 minutesWhat is financial wellbeing? It’s a question that was recently posed to me by a researcher based in Berlin. I had a bit of a struggle initially defining it. I spend so much focus writing and talking a lot about what financial wellbeing isn’t, that I don’t often focus on the bullseye of the tar...
#74 - Is Financial Denial Bankrupting Your Coupleship
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - September 27, 2022 09:00 - 23 minutesWhy do so many people live in denial or avoidance, especially when it comes to money? Because denial is a great place to be, especially when one partner becomes emotionally activated when the topic is broached by their partner. Denial is a very effective tool used by our Protector parts to kee...
#73 - Interviewing Your Money Scripts
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money - September 20, 2022 09:00 - 21 minutesDr. Jacob Needleman, author of Money and the Meaning of Life, suggested that one of the first places to begin building good money skills is to examine all the opinions you have about money. He compared our beliefs about money to an antiques store, where occasionally you find a priceless treasure...
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