Latest Familymatters Podcast Episodes
Director J. Jesses Smith
Cheries World - May 11, 2023 16:47 - 48 minutes ★★★★★ - 109 ratingsJ. Jesses Smith has been one of the most sought-after music video directors in the industry. Jesses is a highly successful independent film director who recently served as directing consultant (co-director) and producer on the Directorial debut of International superstar and multi-platinum recor...
122. How to Course Correct Your Parenting Mindset
Real World Peaceful Parenting - May 10, 2023 05:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsDo you find yourself looking for an ulterior motive in your child’s actions? When we believe we are going to catch our children at their worst, that is what we train our brains to see. I offer a solution to stop keeping score. It begins with your thoughts. Learn how to calm your mind, feel...
Px-TNE aka Brandon Aubert
Cheries World - May 03, 2023 23:15 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 109 ratingsMy good friend Brandon aka PX-TNE is here today to give us a hiphop lesson on West Coast Rap. Also find out how Brandon end up filming The Late Great Nipsey Hussle's most powerful speech. Follow Cherie on Instagram https://instagram.com/cheriejohnson75?utm_source=ig_profile_share&igshid=17fep1...
121. Why You’re the Best Authority on Your Family
Real World Peaceful Parenting - May 03, 2023 05:00 - 21 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsAre you overwhelmed by all the information, advice, and parenting how-tos out there? While seeking out expert advice is good, I often see parents who lack confidence in their parenting struggle to perfectly implement all the ideas they’ve heard with their own family. Learn how to become yo...
120. What to Do When the Co-parenting Feels Uneven
Real World Peaceful Parenting - April 26, 2023 05:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsImagine you’re in a situation where you step out for whatever reason and your co-parent has to take over parenting during that time. You’re at the gym or with friends or helping your mom, and your co-parent texts you a question about the kids or unloads on you about the past few hours as soon as...
119. Discover the Power of Peaceful Parenting: What's Possible for Your Family?
Real World Peaceful Parenting - April 19, 2023 05:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsI’m joined by Deena, a Hive member who has undergone a massive transformation in her parenting. Since joining The Hive, Deena said her parenting has gone from one characterized by “screaming, chaos, and feeling alone” to “calm, peaceful, and empowered.” Deena and I discuss her road to peac...
118. The Problem with Why!
Real World Peaceful Parenting - April 12, 2023 05:00 - 21 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsAs parents, we can often find ourselves asking our children “why?” Why are they acting this way? Why do they always forget things? Why are they not listening? We think that what our kid is doing is the problem. If they just acted differently, we wouldn’t get so frustrated and dysregulated. In re...
117. Triggered? Ask Yourself This Question
Real World Peaceful Parenting - April 05, 2023 05:00 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsA lot of times when our kids do something that upsets us, we quickly jump to conclusions about what it might mean about them and how they feel about us. Often, this can result in us getting triggered and no longer parenting from a calm, empathetic place. One of the best things you can ask yourse...
116. When Your Kid Won’t Take “No” for an Answer
Real World Peaceful Parenting - March 29, 2023 05:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsOne of the most frustrating situations in parenting is when your kid just won't take “no” for an answer. Most of the time, our instinct is to explain back to them why we set a particular boundary and try to make them understand our reasoning. The problem with this response is that we're looki...
115. Triggered? Here's How to Stay Neutral
Real World Peaceful Parenting - March 22, 2023 05:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsWhat’s something your child does that triggers you? Maybe it's sneaking sweets or doing something they knew was wrong because a friend encouraged them to. Usually, the behaviors that trigger us the most are the ones that make us fear for our child’s future and the kind of adult they’ll become. ...
114. The Power of the Pause
Real World Peaceful Parenting - March 15, 2023 05:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsOne of the most powerful tools you can implement as a parent is the pause. Although it might seem small, just pausing during your parenting allows you to do so much. I discuss the power of the pause as a parent. I talk about the major benefits of learning to pause in a difficult moment wit...
113. How We Project Our Childhood Wounds onto Our Kids
Real World Peaceful Parenting - March 08, 2023 06:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsOur kids can be great teachers in showing us the things we feel shameful about or have tried to hide from the world – our shadow side. Often what we project onto our kids are wounds we developed as children ourselves. I’ll show you how to start identifying your shadow side and how you may ...
112. Creating Your Parental Job Description
Real World Peaceful Parenting - March 01, 2023 06:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsAs a parent, the role you play at home has a completely different job description from the role you play at your corporate job. Different tools are required for different jobs, and it is so important that as parents, we take the time to consider this, and think about what needs to go into our pa...
111. Why Sometimes Our Own Parents Need Boundaries
Real World Peaceful Parenting - February 22, 2023 06:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsOne of the major roadblocks many of us have on the road to peaceful parenting is our relationship with our own parents. They can be well-meaning and involved, but they are dominant. I offer you a chance to become the cycle breaker you want to be by learning how to take small steps in setti...
110. The 3 Step Process to Move from Reactive Parenting to Responsive Parenting
Real World Peaceful Parenting - February 15, 2023 06:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsThere is a right time and a wrong time to parent your kids, and when you are stuck in dysregulation and anger, this is the wrong time. I share a 3-step process to help you move from reactive parenting to responsive parenting. Hear one of the best ways I know to work on your triggers and re...
109. Breaking the Cycle of Dominant Parenting and Why It’s Important
Real World Peaceful Parenting - February 08, 2023 06:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsDo you feel like you are at the end of your rope with no option to deal with your kids other than to yell? Do you ever feel trapped in the cycle of resorting to physical and verbal punishment when your kids’ behavior pushes you to your limit? Learn how to break the generational parenting c...
108. Why You Shouldn’t Try to Fix Your Children’s Problems
Real World Peaceful Parenting - February 01, 2023 06:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsWitnessing your child in pain is one of the hardest things you can experience as a parent. You might think it’s your job as a parent to fix all their problems, fight all their battles, or soothe all their heartaches, and it’s natural to want to rescue your kids from their suffering. But this wee...
107. The Peaceful Parenting Revolution with Kiva Schuler from the Jai Institute for Parenting
Real World Peaceful Parenting - January 25, 2023 06:00 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsI am so excited to welcome an incredible guest to the show this week. Kiva Schuler is the Founder and CEO of the Jai Institute for Parenting, the world’s leading parent coach training institute. Kiva is a very special person in my life. She is a friend, a mentor, a sister, and a colleague in thi...
106. How to Stop People-Pleasing: Leveling Up as a Parent
Real World Peaceful Parenting - January 18, 2023 06:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsDo you often feel pressured to do things right in the eyes of others? Do you parent in a way that tries to avoid the judgment of other parents? In this episode, I’m sharing why so many of us have a fear of doing things “wrong” and why your worth and value are not determined by your actions or yo...
105. When Your Co-Parent Loses Their Shiz While Parenting…
Real World Peaceful Parenting - January 11, 2023 06:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsIn this episode, I’m showing you what to do when your co-parent responds differently to you in their parenting and sharing a different approach that will work beautifully to help the situation while creating deeper connection for all involved. Learn how to get on the same page as your co-parent ...
104. Ready to Make 2023 Your Year of Peaceful Parenting? Here are 10 Things to Help…
Real World Peaceful Parenting - January 04, 2023 06:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsI’m declaring 2023 the year of unconditional love and connection, so to welcome in the new year this week, I’m bringing you a replay of an episode that is more important than ever to hear. Tune in this week to hear 10 things I know for sure about real world peaceful parenting. These 10 things ar...
103. When Your Kids Aren’t Grateful for Their Gifts
Real World Peaceful Parenting - December 28, 2022 06:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsHow's it going at your house this holiday season? Are your kids expressing the level of gratitude that you expected for their gifts? Instead of just giving you information on the topic of gratitude, coaching gives you the opportunity to create transformation in your own life, so don’t miss th...
102. Give Your Kids the Gift of Compassion This Holiday Season
Real World Peaceful Parenting - December 21, 2022 06:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsYour kids are going to storm around the holidays; you might as well add it to your calendar with the rest of the festive activities. But the important question is, despite all this, will you give them the most beautiful gift available this holiday season? This week, I’m showing you how to hold s...
101. How to Use Elf on the Shelf to Create Connection with Your Kids
Real World Peaceful Parenting - December 14, 2022 06:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsIn this episode, I’m giving you a fresh perspective on Elf on the Shelf and showing you how to use it for connection and cooperation, not threats and punishments. I’m encouraging you to move away from bribery, rewards, and fear-based parenting around the holidays and showing you why you need to ...
100. How These 5 Parents Transformed Their Parenting
Real World Peaceful Parenting - December 07, 2022 06:00 - 48 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsTo celebrate the 100th episode, I wanted to bring you something extra special, and boy, are you in for a treat today! I am joined by a group of amazing, progress-not-perfection parents who are all members of The Hive, and they are here to share their experiences of being in The Hive and how thei...
99. Expectations, Resentment, and Parenting
Real World Peaceful Parenting - November 30, 2022 06:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsWhat are your expectations of your kids? If you get real honest, do you expect your kids to know what you want when you want it? I get it, no judgment. In this episode, I’m diving into expectations, resentment, and parenting and showing you how to get clear on your own expectations of your kids....
98. Don’t Take it Personally! How to Deal with Your Kids’ Storms
Real World Peaceful Parenting - November 23, 2022 08:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsDid you know that holding space for your kids and staying regulated while they are storming is one of the absolute most important things you can do to build connection with your kids? We are so quick to take storms personally, and it can be difficult to hold space for our kids in the moment. But...
97. How Healing Your Inner Childhood Wounds Makes You a Better Parent
Real World Peaceful Parenting - November 16, 2022 08:00 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsHear more about Kimberly’s experience of healing her own inner childhood wounds and how these were showing up in the way she was parenting her children. I’m sharing some questions to ask yourself when you are having a giant reaction to your child’s behavior, how to recognize where your own inner...
96. How Anger Can Improve Your Parenting
Real World Peaceful Parenting - November 09, 2022 08:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsIn this episode, I’m encouraging you to dig into your anger and showing you how to start using it as a beacon in your parenting. I’m sharing my own experiences with anger as a parent, how I learned to change my approach to dealing with anger, and some tips to help you use anger to create more co...
95. Stop Catastrophizing, Start Connecting!
Real World Peaceful Parenting - November 02, 2022 07:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 204 ratingsDo you identify as a run-of-the-mill worrier, an expert one, or the ultimate catastrophizer? In this episode, I’m showing you how to recognize catastrophizing showing up for you and some tips to help you manage it. I’m sharing how this has shown up for me in my own life and the effects it had, w...
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