175 CONFIDENTIAL

“Be slow to speak…” James 1:9

Recently, I sent a video to a church event out of state.  No not the one I served locally. They asked me to speak and I asked if I could send a video if I could not show up. They said yes so I did.

I found out the new pastor decided not to use it, because it was too long. However, it was told to me that he was going to tell people what I said anyways (in their own words) without my consent…Hmmmmmmmm!!!

I asked that they say nothing about the video or me, because I knew something just didn’t feel right. Then I was told, ”No they are going to do that any ways.”

So…whats the Big Deal? Great question. Pastors and people in general really like to change words up for their benefit. I have had more pastors, in public, say things that they say, I said, that I didn’t say.  As a whole not only do people say wrongly what other people say, or their intent, but very few people or pastors are truly confidential.

If you did one thing in your ministry or life, it would be this… “Be as wise as serpents and harmless as doves.” Do No Harm! Do not share “Ever” others confidences or you have labeled yourself as an unsafe person.

I have one rule, which I told my family, staff, and students. Everything is confidential unless it means life or death! Otherwise they could count on me to keep my mouth shut.

“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.” - James 1:19  (NLT)

Looking for a new student ministry resource? You can read my book “Burn Up Not Out: A Student Ministry Fire Builder’s Guidebook” here: https://amzn.to/3PtBTIy

Listen to more episodes from the Youth Worker On Fire Podcast here: https://bit.ly/3saDyYq

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EPISODE CREDITS

Email us at: [email protected]

Hosted by: Doug Edwards

Theme Song: "The One and Only" by The 808 : Listen to more at https://bit.ly/3FTYIAJ

Intro/Outro Voiceover: Michael Helms : https://www.youtube.com/@MichaelTheSoundGuy 

Edited by: Secret Roots Music House

“Be slow to speak…” James 1:9

Recently, I sent a video to a church event out of state.  No not the one I served locally. They asked me to speak and I asked if I could send a video if I could not show up. They said yes so I did.

I found out the new pastor decided not to use it, because it was too long. However, it was told to me that he was going to tell people what I said anyways (in their own words) without my consent…Hmmmmmmmm!!!

I asked that they say nothing about the video or me, because I knew something just didn’t feel right. Then I was told, ”No they are going to do that any ways.”

So…whats the Big Deal? Great question. Pastors and people in general really like to change words up for their benefit. I have had more pastors, in public, say things that they say, I said, that I didn’t say.  As a whole not only do people say wrongly what other people say, or their intent, but very few people or pastors are truly confidential.

If you did one thing in your ministry or life, it would be this… “Be as wise as serpents and harmless as doves.” Do No Harm! Do not share “Ever” others confidences or you have labeled yourself as an unsafe person.

I have one rule, which I told my family, staff, and students. Everything is confidential unless it means life or death! Otherwise they could count on me to keep my mouth shut.

“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.” - James 1:19  (NLT)

Looking for a new student ministry resource? You can read my book “Burn Up Not Out: A Student Ministry Fire Builder’s Guidebook” here: https://amzn.to/3PtBTIy

Listen to more episodes from the Youth Worker On Fire Podcast here: https://bit.ly/3saDyYq

_______________________________

EPISODE CREDITS

Email us at: [email protected]

Hosted by: Doug Edwards

Theme Song: "The One and Only" by The 808 : Listen to more at https://bit.ly/3FTYIAJ

Intro/Outro Voiceover: Michael Helms : https://www.youtube.com/@MichaelTheSoundGuy 

Edited by: Secret Roots Music House