In this episode, Pat Terhune and I talk about his addiction to cybersex/pornography and how he was discovered by his wife, Kylene, after more than a decade of hiding his addiction. Pat shares how his addiction affected his physical, mental and spiritual sides as well as his ability to lead at work and in his family. Pat and Kylene are in recovery of their relationship and are helping other couples who have also experienced the aftermath of cybersex in their relationship.   Patrick (Pat) Terhune lives in Dayton, Ohio with his wife Kylene Terhune.   They have one son, Keegan who is a freshman at the United States Military Academy at West Point, NY.    Patrick is a plant manager for a national homebuilder where he has spent the last 22 years.   He is a former US Army helicopter pilot and hails originally from Miami, Florida.  He and his wife Kylene host a podcast called RecoverU and his interests are his family, running, history, and helping others find healing.      I am your host, Marci Nettles. I have had a lifetime of opportunities where I had the choice to Breakdown or Breakthrough. It is my hope this Podcast may become your light in the darkness, as you listen to the stories of people I consider “heroes.” Each one had a point where they too had to choose to either Breakdown or Breakthrough!    Thank you for listening!   Please connect with Pat and Kylene on Facebook in the RecoverU FB Page.   Find Marci at marcinettles(.)com