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"What Kind of Love Is This?" w/ Author, Counselor, & Coach Zara Hairston

99 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 months ago - ★★★★★ - 6 ratings

Love doesn’t lie or expect 𝑦𝑜𝑢 to live one. What lies do you believe about love? Author, counselor, relationship and mindset coach Zara Hairston uncovers common deceptions that lead us to accept…what isn’t even love.

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Let Them Be Ashamed | Tehilliym 70

February 24, 2022 10:43 - 12 minutes - 22.3 MB

...if anybody should be ashamed. The post Let Them Be Ashamed | Tehilliym 70 appeared first on Coach Zara Hairston | #TruthTribe.

Fixed On Bad (FOB)

February 21, 2022 18:13 - 20 minutes - 38.2 MB

Here's why we need to pay attention to what our mind fixes itself on. The post Fixed On Bad (FOB) appeared first on Coach Zara Hairston | #TruthTribe.

But What About Your Secrets? | Tehilliym 19: 7-14

February 20, 2022 03:13 - 12 minutes - 22.3 MB

Secrets kill. The post But What About Your Secrets? | Tehilliym 19: 7-14 appeared first on Coach Zara Hairston | #TruthTribe.

Don’t Get Counsel From Them | Tehilliym 1

February 15, 2022 02:51 - 7 minutes - 14.6 MB

Only bad counsel comes from... The post Don’t Get Counsel From Them | Tehilliym 1 appeared first on Coach Zara Hairston | #TruthTribe.

Ep. 25 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Gossip”

February 13, 2022 17:07 - 21 minutes - 39.5 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it's not really gossip, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 25 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Gossip” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Jumping Ahead Mentally (JAM)

February 02, 2022 00:00 - 36 minutes - 66.7 MB

Whoa, slow down before you do this... The post Jumping Ahead Mentally (JAM) appeared first on Coach Zara Hairston | #TruthTribe.

“Am I Lying to Myself?”

January 30, 2022 10:24 - 2 minutes - 4.5 MB

You often hear me say my tagline, "Love doesn't lie, or expect you to live one," but are you still lying to yourself? Consider this... The post “Am I Lying to Myself?” appeared first on Coach Zara Hairston | #TruthTribe.

Ep. 24 – Lie: “I’m Scared, But I Can’t Admit It”

December 26, 2021 05:07 - 30 minutes - 56.1 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you can't admit you're scared, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 24 – Lie: “I’m Scared, But I Can’t Admit It” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 23 – Lie: “I Can’t Repent Or Confront”

December 12, 2021 05:07 - 53 minutes - 97.2 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you can't repent or confront, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 23 – Lie: “I Can’t Repent Or Confront” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 22 – Lie: “You Must Tolerate the Toxic to Honor Your Parents”

November 28, 2021 19:03 - 33 minutes - 60.5 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you must tolerate the toxicity of an unhealthy parent in order to show respect, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 22 – Lie: “You Must Tolerate the Toxic to Honor Your Parents” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 21 – Lie: “Feelings Are False”

November 14, 2021 05:07 - 31 minutes - 57.5 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that your feelings are false, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 21 – Lie: “Feelings Are False” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

After-Show LIVE 19-20 | Lies About Letting Go Vs. Leaving It Be | “What Kind of Love Is This?”

October 24, 2021 04:07 - 1 hour - 156 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. We uncovered whether you’re living the lie that you can't let go plus that it's best to leave it be, in this month's "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast episodes. Let's chat about Ep. 19 and 20 LIVE. Make sure you listen BEFORE we discuss them! The post After-Show LIVE 19-20 | Lies About Letting Go Vs. Leaving It Be | “What Kind of Love Is This?” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 20 – Lie: “It’s Best I Just Let It Be”

October 22, 2021 02:30 - 36 minutes - 67.3 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it's best you just let it be, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 20 – Lie: “It’s Best I Just Let It Be” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 19 – Lie: “I Can’t Let Go!”

October 10, 2021 04:07 - 23 minutes - 42.4 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you can't let go, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 19 – Lie: “I Can’t Let Go!” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

After-Show LIVE 17-18 | Lies About Abuse Series | “What Kind of Love Is This?”

September 26, 2021 23:07 - 1 hour - 79.3 MB

REPLAY: Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. We uncovered whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really narcissistic or emotional abuse, in the latest episodes of the “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. Let’s chat about Ep. 17 and 18 LIVE. The post After-Show LIVE 17-18 | Lies About Abuse Series | “What Kind of Love Is This?” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 18 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 4]

September 25, 2021 09:07 - 42 minutes - 78 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really emotional abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 18 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 4] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 18 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Emotional) Abuse” [Pt. 4]

September 25, 2021 09:07 - 42 minutes - 78 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really emotional abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 18 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Emotional) Abuse” [Pt. 4] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 17 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 3]

September 12, 2021 04:07 - 26 minutes - 49.1 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really narcissistic abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 17 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 3] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 17 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Narcissistic) Abuse” [Pt. 3]

September 12, 2021 04:07 - 26 minutes - 49.1 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really narcissistic abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 17 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Narcissistic) Abuse” [Pt. 3] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 16 – Lie: “Truth Hurts More Than Lies” [Throwback]

August 22, 2021 04:07 - 15 minutes - 27.8 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that truth hurts more than the lies you believe, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 16 – Lie: “Truth Hurts More Than Lies” [Throwback] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 15 – Lie: “Forgiveness Requires Reconciliation” [Throwback]

August 08, 2021 04:07 - 26 minutes - 49.2 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that forgiveness requires you to reconcile with an offender, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 15 – Lie: “Forgiveness Requires Reconciliation” [Throwback] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 14 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Spiritual) Abuse” [Pt. 2]

July 25, 2021 04:07 - 59 minutes - 110 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really spiritual abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 14 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Spiritual) Abuse” [Pt. 2] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 14 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 2]

July 25, 2021 04:07 - 59 minutes - 110 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really spiritual abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 14 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 2] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 13 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 1]

July 09, 2021 10:29 - 38 minutes - 70.8 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it's not really abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 13 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 1] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 12 – Lie: “I Just Have to Deal With the Way They Are”

June 11, 2021 04:07 - 21 minutes - 39.8 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you just have to accept who they are and what they do to you, in this episode of Zara’s "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post Ep. 12 – Lie: “I Just Have to Deal With the Way They Are” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 11 – Lie: “It Will Work Itself Out”

May 14, 2021 04:07 - 21 minutes - 39.6 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it will work itself out, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 11 – Lie: “It Will Work Itself Out” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 10 – “I Guess I Made the Wrong Choice”

April 23, 2021 04:42 - 16 minutes - 30.2 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you made the wrong choice because of their reaction, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 10 – “I Guess I Made the Wrong Choice” appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 10 – Lie: “I Guess I Made the Wrong Choice”

April 23, 2021 04:42 - 16 minutes - 30.2 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you made the wrong choice because of their reaction, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 10 – Lie: “I Guess I Made the Wrong Choice” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 9 – “I Don’t Know What to Do”

April 09, 2021 04:07 - 14 minutes - 27.3 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you don't know what to do about that toxic relationship, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 9 – “I Don’t Know What to Do” appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 9 – Lie: “I Don’t Know What to Do”

April 09, 2021 04:07 - 14 minutes - 27.3 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you don't know what to do about that toxic relationship, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 9 – Lie: “I Don’t Know What to Do” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 8 – “I’m Fine…Everything’s Okay”

March 05, 2021 05:07 - 28 minutes - 51.7 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you're fine...and everything's okay, in this episode of Zara’s "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post Ep. 8 – “I’m Fine…Everything’s Okay” appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 8 – Lie: “I’m Fine…Everything’s Okay”

March 05, 2021 05:07 - 28 minutes - 51.7 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you're fine...and everything's okay, in this episode of Zara’s "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post Ep. 8 – Lie: “I’m Fine…Everything’s Okay” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 7 – “They Didn’t Mean It”

February 26, 2021 05:07 - 23 minutes - 42.2 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that they didn't mean it, in this episode of Zara’s "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post Ep. 7 – “They Didn’t Mean It” appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 7 – Lie: “They Didn’t Mean It”

February 26, 2021 05:07 - 23 minutes - 42.2 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that they didn't mean it, in this episode of Zara’s "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post Ep. 7 – Lie: “They Didn’t Mean It” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 6 – Lie: “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 2]

February 19, 2021 05:00 - 36 minutes - 66 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s finish uncovering whether you’re living the lie that nothing’s changing, as we close out the second part of this 2-part talk of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 6 – Lie: “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 2] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 6 – “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 2]

February 19, 2021 00:00 - 36 minutes - 66 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s finish uncovering whether you’re living the lie that nothing’s changing, as we close out the second part of this 2-part talk of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 6 – “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 2] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Ep. 5 – Lie: “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 1]

February 12, 2021 05:00 - 18 minutes - 33.7 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that nothing's changing, in this 2-part talk of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 5 – Lie: “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 1] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Ep. 5 – “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 1]

February 12, 2021 00:00 - 18 minutes - 33.7 MB

Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that nothing's changing, in this 2-part talk of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. The post Ep. 5 – “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 1] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

S02E04 – Lie: “It’s My Fault”

February 04, 2021 05:00 - 20 minutes - 37.6 MB

Love doesn't lie, or expect you to live one. Let's uncover whether you're living the lie of misplaced fault in this brand new season of Zara's "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post S02E04 – Lie: “It’s My Fault” appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

S02E04 – “It’s My Fault”

February 04, 2021 00:00 - 20 minutes - 37.6 MB

Love doesn't lie, or expect you to live one. Let's uncover whether you're living the lie of misplaced fault in this brand new season of Zara's "What Kind of Love Is This?" podcast. The post S02E04 – “It’s My Fault” appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

S01E03 – WriteNow Audio Podcast | Is Silence the Only Protection?

March 24, 2020 12:00 - 13 minutes - 23.9 MB

Zara talks about black women and relationships through storytelling, with highlight on the recent Netflix series "Self Made" inspired by Madam C.J. Walker's life. Listen to her discuss the part about how silence has been the only protection black women can count on...and the power in telling our stories, anyway. The post S01E03 – WriteNow Audio Podcast | Is Silence the Only Protection? appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

S01E02 – WriteNow Audio Podcast | Broken People Can’t Help Us Heal

March 16, 2020 22:38 - 38 minutes - 69.7 MB

Zara's talks about black women and relationships through storytelling with guest, Eshon Burgundy. Listen to them discuss why we must not depend on broken people to help us heal. The post S01E02 – WriteNow Audio Podcast | Broken People Can’t Help Us Heal appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Shook: How Doubt & Miscarriage Affected My Faith [Full Video]

January 07, 2020 00:00 - 27 minutes - 50.6 MB

While I included intimate details about my miscarriage experience in a NYE IG post, there was so much more to the story people just didn’t know. In this video, I reveal it. The post Shook: How Doubt & Miscarriage Affected My Faith [Full Video] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Protected: Shook: How Doubt & Miscarriage Affected My Faith [Full Video]

January 07, 2020 00:00

There is no excerpt because this is a protected post. The post Protected: Shook: How Doubt & Miscarriage Affected My Faith [Full Video] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

What It’s All About | WriteNow w/ Zara Hairston [AUDIO Podcast – S01E01]

October 17, 2019 00:00 - 10 minutes - 19.3 MB

"Zara, what's WriteNow about? Please explain!" Ok, here's the details. Click play to listen. The post What It’s All About | WriteNow w/ Zara Hairston [AUDIO Podcast – S01E01] appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

What It’s All About | WriteNow w/ Zara Hairston – Audio Podcast – S01E01

October 17, 2019 00:00 - 10 minutes - 19.3 MB

"Zara, what's WriteNow about? Please explain!" Ok, here's the details. Click play to listen. The post What It’s All About | WriteNow w/ Zara Hairston – Audio Podcast – S01E01 appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

S01E01 – WriteNow Audio Podcast I What It’s All About

October 17, 2019 00:00 - 10 minutes - 19.3 MB

"Zara, what's WriteNow about? Please explain!" Ok, here's the details. Click play to listen. The post S01E01 – WriteNow Audio Podcast I What It’s All About appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

Your Top 5 Questions, Answered | It Came 2 Pass, Book 1: In the Beginning

June 22, 2019 17:20 - 6 minutes - 9.5 MB

Find answers to your most common questions about author Zara Hairston's debut novel series, "It Came 2 Pass." The post Your Top 5 Questions, Answered | It Came 2 Pass, Book 1: In the Beginning appeared first on ZaraHairston.com.

Your Top 5 Questions, Answered | It Came 2 Pass, Book 1: In the Beginning [VIDEO]

June 22, 2019 17:20 - 6 minutes - 9.5 MB

Find answers to your most common questions about author Zara Hairston's debut novel series, "It Came 2 Pass." The post Your Top 5 Questions, Answered | It Came 2 Pass, Book 1: In the Beginning [VIDEO] appeared first on Zara Hairston, Truth Tribe.

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