Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer artwork

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

344 episodes - English - Latest episode: 14 days ago -

Dating can be a hot mess, from being ghosted by your crush to realizing that you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Why Won't You Date Me? is here to help.

Join Nicole Byer, the perpetual singleton, as she invites fellow comedians, friends, and ex-flings to talk romance and share their wildest dating tales, from cringeworthy first dates to jaw-dropping hookup stories. Nothing is off-limits.

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Secrets To a Long, Loving Marriage (w/ John Leguizamo)

May 05, 2023 08:00 - 48 minutes - 44 MB

Actor John Leguizamo (Encanto, Moulin Rouge!, Ice Age) chats with Nicole about his secrets to a long, loving marriage, how he balances work and relationships, and his efforts to boost Latin representation in media.    Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's...

Lesbian Sex (w/ Ashley Gavin)

April 28, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54 MB

Comedian Ashley Gavin (host of We're Having Gay Sex) teaches Nicole all about lesbian sex and relationships. They cover scissoring and tribbing, having secret girlfriends in high school, and the details of her open relationship. Ashley also shares her experience being the first openly gay comedian on Carnival Cruise Line, and the homophobia she encountered on the job. Nicole witnesses a bouncer get stabbed at a lesbian bar.  Watch Ashley's new comedy special at: youtube.com/watch?v=Ay6jUYPH...

"Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Poly Relationships (w/ Zoe Lister-Jones)

April 21, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 59 MB

Actress/writer/director Zoe Lister-Jones (Slip) shares her experience opening and closing her "don't ask don't tell" poly relationship, what she's learned after exiting a 17-year marriage, and delves into the empowering nature of "dating to fuck". Nicole really wants to crash the cool teen party down her block.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  ...

Staying Friends with your Ex (w/ James Marsden)

April 14, 2023 12:47 - 1 hour - 68.2 MB

Actor James Marsden (Sonic The Hedgehog, Hairspray, Jury Duty) joins Nicole to talk about his new singledom, remaining friends with all of his exes, his romantic side, and reviews Nicole's latest Tinder profile. Nicole teaches Marsden about bussies and scat porn.    This episode was specially recorded in-person at Team Coco's studios. Thank you engineer Rich and the whole team for putting this together!    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to ...

A Love Queen (w/ Sasha Velour)

April 07, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MB

Drag queen icon Sasha Velour (winner of Drag Race S9) chats with Nicole about coming out to their dad at a TGI Fridays, the challenges of working with their boyfriend, and speaks out on the current backlash against drag.    We just recorded a fabulous LIVE episode of Why Won't You Date Me with Gigi Goode! It's available on video on demand until April 19th. Stream it now at moment.co/dateme.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudate...

Why Won't You Go Get a Transvaginal Ultrasound? (w/ X Mayo)

March 31, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 61.1 MB

Comedian and writer X Mayo (The Daily Show, American Auto, Swarm) chats with Nicole about her success making friend connections on Raya, how she positively re-framed her outlook on dating, and her life changing experience shooting a nude scene in Swarm. Plus, a PSA on pussy health and why you should go get a transvaginal ultrasound.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   ...

Marrying for Tax Purposes (w/ Jeff Hiller)

March 24, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MB

Comedian and actor Jeff Hiller (Somebody Somewhere) reunites with Nicole to share how he met his husband on Chemistry.com, his experience acting on a reality TV dating show, and how a fight on Fire Island saved his marriage. Plus, Nicole reads the DM that lead her to deactivate a dating app.    We're live streaming a new episode April 5th!  See a live video recording of Why Won't You Date Me? with VOD available for 2 weeks after. Tickets at moment.co/dateme   Write to Nicole! Submit your...

Being 'In Like' vs Being 'In Love' (w/ Gabrielle Dennis)

March 17, 2023 08:00 - 56 minutes - 51.3 MB

Comedian and actress Gabrielle Dennis (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Luke Cage) chats with Nicole her philosophy as to why falling "in like" with your partner is more important than being in love, opens up about her experience dating a pedophile, and her love for writing Yelp reviews. Plus, the story of the murdering Disney dad.    See a live recording of Why Won't You Date Me?! April 5th in Los Angeles. In-person tickets: elysiantheater.com/shows/nicolebyer. The show will also be live-stream...

Mormon and Closeted (w/ Bridger Winegar)

March 10, 2023 10:00 - 53 minutes - 49.4 MB

Writer Bridger Winegar (host of I Said No Gifts!)  joins Nicole to discuss his experience being closeted to himself until the age of 26, being raised Mormon, and the thrill of setting people up on dates. Nicole reads some nasty messages she's received from the Bahamas.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebye...

Marrying Your High School Sweetheart (w/ Adam Pally)

March 03, 2023 09:00 - 54 minutes - 50.3 MB

Comedian Adam Pally (101 Places to Party Before You Die, Who Invited Charlie?) chats with Nicole about why an easy relationship is a often sign of a good one, marrying his high school sweetheart, and how the both of them broke Steve Harvey on the set of Celebrity Family Feud. Plus, what's it like filming with Sonic the Hedgehog? Nicole is dying to know.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to hav...

Being The Only One Left (w/ Michael Cruz Kayne)

February 24, 2023 09:00 - 57 minutes - 52.5 MB

Comedian Michael Cruz Kayne's dating strategy involves being the only guy left available. He joins Nicole to explain the approach and the success that's come with it.  They also discuss how race affects relationships, moving on from them, and his experience getting hit on by the rich kids and moms he was private tutoring. Nicole wishes she was a ~woman~. Season 2 of A Good Cry returns March 9th. Listen to Nicole's episode here.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating st...

Dating a Groupie (w/ Steph Tolev)

February 17, 2023 09:00 - 55 minutes - 50.7 MB

Comedian Steph Tolev joins Nicole to discuss what it's like to date a groupie, getting matching tattoos with her partners, her experience dating a 60 year old, and shares SOOO many crazy awful dating stories. Plus, is it weird if your parent keeps in touch with your ex? The answer is YES.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer I...

Having Sex On-Camera (w/ Jordan Firstman)

February 10, 2023 09:00 - 58 minutes - 53.8 MB

Comedian Jordan Firstman (Big Mouth, Ms. Marvel) joins Nicole to talk about his experience being involved in a threesome where everyone had COVID, having real sex on-camera for a movie, and finding love in Berlin after a drug-fueled bender. Plus, Nicole shares why sucking dick is so joyful.    Disclaimer: This episode contains discussion of homophobia, including some strong language, such as the F word.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to w...

Celibate for 18 Years (w/ Debra DiGiovanni)

February 03, 2023 09:00 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Comedian Debra DiGiovanni joins Nicole to discuss her experience being single and celibate for 18 years, importing her current boyfriend, and shares what it was like to date a feeder.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitte...

Nicole's Boyfriend Speaks His Truth (w/ Dan Black)

January 27, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 60.5 MB

In January, Nicole shocked the world with an Instagram post announcing her relationship with comedian Dan Black. On this episode,  Dan joins Nicole to respond to some of the comments they've received about their relationship, discuss their kinks, and reflect on their decision to hard launch the relationship.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Cli...

The Sex Lives of Artists (w/ Ilia Isorelýs Paulino)

January 20, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 61.8 MB

Actress Ilia Isorelýs Paulino (The Sex Lives of College Girls)  joins Nicole to chat about her sex life at Yale, being 6′2, growing up brainwashed by her pastor dad, and Curvy Wife Guy's new rap career.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow N...

Pandemic Divorce (w/ Punkie Johnson)

January 13, 2023 09:00 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Comedian Punkie Johnson (SNL) joins Nicole to discuss how the pandemic lead to her divorce,  learning to love her partner's ugly feet, and tiddy pain. Nicole reports on the unhappy couples she witnessed while in the Bahamas.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial...

Stories from Nicole's Road Dog (w/ Christi Chiello)

January 06, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 58.3 MB

Comedian and Nicole's opener Christi Chiello joins the podcast to discuss having 5 of her ex-boyfriends come out as gay, why theatre kids are so horny, and crazy stories from touring together. Nicole reminisces about the time she fell down a man's staircase.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different th...

Living Your Hoe Phase (w/ Atsuko Okatsuka)

December 30, 2022 09:00 - 58 minutes - 53.5 MB

Comedian Atsuko Okatsuka returns! She chats with Nicole about dating her community college teacher for 7 years, exploring the world of swing parties, and discusses whether hoe phases are overrated.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicol...

Eloping on Christmas (w/ Manila Luzon)

December 23, 2022 09:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

Drag queen legend Manila Luzon (Drag Race S3, All-Stars 1 & 4, Drag Den) joins Nicole to discuss her Christmas Eve eloping in Las Vegas, dating after mourning the loss of her boyfriend Sahara Davenport, and some of the most iconic moments from her seasons of Drag Race.    For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a cha...

Let's Talk About The Bag Dress (w/ LaLa Ri)

December 16, 2022 09:00 - 57 minutes - 52.8 MB

On Drag Race, Nicole guest judged one of the most iconic outfits in franchise history - LaLa Ri's gift bag dress.  Today, Nicole finally sits down with the queen to express her thoughts that never made it to air. LaLa introduces Nicole to BLK, a Black version of Tinder, and shares the crazy sexual requests she gets from fans on Grindr. Nicole goes to the LA Auto Show for some dick.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@...

The First Black Chippendale Dancer (w/ Quentin Plair)

December 09, 2022 09:00 - 59 minutes - 54.1 MB

Actor Quentin Plair (Welcome to Chippendales) chats with Nicole about the fetishization faced with being the first Black Chippendales dancer, the empowering nature of stripping,  and whether playing football or dancing attracts more women.   Want to write to Nicole? Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on-air.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you ca...

How to Hack Into Your Partner's Phone (w/ Keke Palmer)

December 02, 2022 09:00 - 43 minutes - 40.3 MB

Emmy-award winning actress Keke Palmer (Nope, Lightyear) shares with Nicole how she got her first kiss from MySpace, why she avoids posting relationships on social media,  and how she's learning to trust again after her boyfriend slept with her best friend.  Plus, is it ever okay to hack into your partner's phone? Keke teaches us, in great detail, exactly how to do it.    Crazy dating story? Looking for advice? Let Nicole and her guest help you out. Submit your stories, questions, or dirty...

Building Your Date's File (w/ Larry Owens)

November 25, 2022 09:00 - 1 hour - 57.3 MB

Multi-award winning actor and comedian Larry Owens (A Strange Loop, Abbott Elementary) chats with Nicole about his experience attending a bear festival, being the fixer-upper in a relationship, and the dangers of Googling someone after a first date. Plus, Larry teaches Nicole some complex new vocabulary.   Crazy dating story? Looking for advice? Let Nicole and her guest help you out. Submit your stories, questions, or dirty pick-up lines to [email protected] for a chance to...

Open Relationships (w/ Cole Escola)

November 18, 2022 09:00 - 52 minutes - 48.3 MB

Comedian Cole Escola (Difficult People, Tuca & Bertie) helps Nicole craft the perfect answer for dating app small talk, shares the secret to their successful 3 year open relationship, and the terrible time they had taking a Tinder date to Paris. Plus, Nicole learns about the new dating app "The League", which costs $99 a WEEK!    Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicol...

Nicole's Kicked off Hinge (w/ Julie Klausner)

November 11, 2022 09:00 - 59 minutes - 54.4 MB

Comedian Julie Klausner (Billy on the Street, Difficult People) chats with Nicole about the corny messages she gotten from dating apps, why Nicole was kicked off Hinge, and whether or not Nicole would've met the love of her life at Heidi Klum's Halloween party. Plus, they discuss their favorite New York restaurants.    Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Inst...

Set Up (w/ Aimee Carrero)

November 04, 2022 08:02 - 1 hour - 63.4 MB

Actress Aimee Carrero (She-Ra, Elena of Avalor) joins Nicole to discuss hookup hygiene standards, marrying the man she was set up with, and running into her ex on his honeymoon. Also, Nicole snatches a baby.  We're nominated for a People's Choice Award! Cast your vote for Why Won't You Date Me everyday until Nov 7th. Vote at bit.ly/PCAVOTE2022.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:...

Self-Sabotaging your Relationships (w/ Caleb Hearon)

October 28, 2022 08:00 - 51 minutes - 47.4 MB

Comedian Caleb Hearon (Human Resources) joins Nicole to discuss self-sabotaging relationships, dating while still in the closet, and an awful date he went on at a Chipotle. Meanwhile, Nicole plans to fly to Houston for some dick.   We're nominated for a People's Choice Award! Cast your vote for Why Won't You Date Me everyday until Nov 7th. Vote at votepca.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2022.   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do...

Playing an Extra in a Porno (w/ Rose Dommu)

October 21, 2022 08:00 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Writer Rose Dommu (Out Magazine, Like a Virgin podcast) joins Nicole to chat about the story behind her transition, the dangers of dating a trans chaser, writing fan fiction, and her experience appearing as an extra on the set of a Cock Destroyers porno. Plus, they answer a listener's question about how to respond to someone when they say call themselves fat.   Got a dirty message, question, or comment for Nicole? Email it to [email protected].   Black Lives Matter.  Clic...

Rewriting the Tinder Bio (w/ John Stamos)

October 14, 2022 08:00 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MB

Actor and heartthrob John Stamos (Full House, You, Big Shot) is here to figure out the core of Nicole's dating issues. Stamos tells the story of how he met his wife while acting together on Law & Order: SVU, shares his favorite memories of Bob Saget, and rewrites Nicole's dating app bio.  Plus, Nicole continues to match with some wackos on Tinder.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer...

Praise Kink (w/ Jujubee)

October 07, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 57.6 MB

Iconic drag queen Jujubee (Drag Race S2, All-Stars 1 and 5) joins Nicole to reminisces over her many seasons of drag competitions, her sobriety, playing a matchmaker, and having a praise kink.   For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: pods...

Sex Contracts (w/ Guy Branum)

September 30, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 58.2 MB

Comedian Guy Branum (Billy On The Street, Bros) chats with Nicole about establishing sex contracts before a hookup, being a dom/sub in the bedroom, and the perfect sized bed for sleeping with your partner.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Chased by the KKK (w/ Brandon Kyle Goodman)

September 23, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 64.4 MB

Actor and writer Brandon Kyle Goodman (Netflix's Big Mouth, Human Resources) chats with Nicole about the time he was chased by the KKK, the struggles of doing a long distance relationship, and the adorable first date story with his husband, and saving money by getting married at the courthouse.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merc...

Comedy Dominatrix (w/ Nori Reed)

September 16, 2022 04:00 - 59 minutes - 54.8 MB

Comedian and writer Nori Reed (Raven's Home) chats with Nicole about getting her breast augmentation, how she soft-launched her transition process, and what it's like being a comedy dominatrix. Plus, Nicole continues to beef with Magic Mike Live.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound....

A Halloween Wedding (w/ Mary Holland)

September 09, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 61.1 MB

Friend and comedian  Mary Holland (Corked podcast) chats with Nicole about having a spooky Halloween themed wedding under a blue moon, managing her codependency in a relationship, and her time working as a wench at Medieval Times. Plus, Nicole shares her first time trip to Disneyland.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswa...

Relationship Baggage (w/ Justin Cunningham)

September 02, 2022 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54.5 MB

Actor and co-star Justin Cunningham (Grand Crew) chats with Nicole about recognizing toxic relationships, finding a partner who has a mutual respect for your baggage, and how his selective erectile dysfunction has become a indicator of true compatibility with a mate.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nico...

The Art of Online Stalking (w/ Sona Movsesian)

August 26, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 58 MB

Conan's assistant, Sona Movsesian (author: The World’s Worst Assistant) is here! Sona shares how she met her husband at Comic-Con, the art of online stalking a date, giving your number to your waiter, and dating guys who just wanted to get close with Conan. Plus, Nicole pitches her new business idea: Rent-A-Baby.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagra...

Throupled (w/ Mae Martin)

August 19, 2022 08:00 - 59 minutes - 55 MB

Comedian Mae Martin (Feel Good) chats with Nicole about being in a throuple relationship, their experience addicted to drugs, and starting a fresh life in new country.  Plus, they share their changing theory on love and relationships, and why they were kicked off Hinge.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Ni...

Dealing with FBoys (w/ Nikki Glaser)

August 12, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 59.6 MB

Comedian Nikki Glaser (FBoy Island, Good Clean Filth) chats with Nicole about being in a 9 year on-and-off again relationship, how to deal with an FBoy, why men struggle to express their feelings, and offers tips on how to attract a partner.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/...

Hired a Matchmaker (w/ Amy Aniobi)

August 05, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 59.6 MB

Writer/director Amy Aniobi (Silicon Valley, 2 Dope Queens) joins Nicole to discuss her experience dating with the help of a professional matchmaker, what it was like being raised by parents of an arranged marriage, and making the mistake of posting your significant other on Instagram. Nicole has injured herself singing karaoke.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicol...

Dating a Mom (w/ Lil Rel Howery)

July 29, 2022 08:00 - 54 minutes - 49.8 MB

Comedian Lil Rel Howery (Get Out, Keepin' It Rel with Young Wayne  podcast) chats with Nicole about dating a single mom of 4, getting thrown off a horse on a date, matching with Lizzo on Raya, and shares his tips on how to hit on women at bars.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podsw...

Main Character Energy (w/ Willow Pill)

July 22, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 67.2 MB

Reigning drag queen Willow Pill (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S14) is here! She chats with Nicole about selling mushrooms as a pandemic side hustle, her thoughts on the iconic catchphrase RuPaul gave her on the show, and partying with fans while tripping on Molly. Plus they celebrate her iconic win being the first disabled person to win Drag Race, and Willow discusses the toxicity of hustle culture and the expectations on herself to work as the winning queen.   For more drag queen intervie...

The Story of a Kissless Virgin (w/ Benton Ray)

July 15, 2022 08:00 - 50 minutes - 45.9 MB

Comedian Benton Ray is a kissless virgin. He chats with Nicole about the circumstances of this choice, they learn new terms for different sexual orientations, and what it means to go "basket shopping" for a partner.  Plus, Benton matches with straight guys on Tinder? There's a lot to unpack here.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitt...

Bringing Down Your Walls (w/ Penn Badgley)

July 08, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 57.8 MB

Oh my god, he's here. Penn Badgley (You, Gossip Girl, host of Podcrushed) joins Nicole to discuss why people are infatuated by his serial killing character, why love is not depicted accurately in media, bringing down your walls to connect with people, and the existential insecurities he had when dating.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken ...

Caught Cheating... Twice! (w/ Ketra Long)

July 01, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 55 MB

Comedian Ketra Long joins Nicole to tell the story about how she got caught cheating twice in her relationship. She also shares the time she convinced Ne-Yo to come see her stand-up show, which she proceeded to absolutely bomb. Ketra teaches Nicole how she manages to get flown out of the country for expensive dates, plus talks about her first kiss and first fingering.  This is a wild episode, folks.    Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can ...

A Stalking Ex-Boyfriend, a Gang Member, and a Gun (w/ Aaron Jennings)

June 24, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 56.2 MB

Co-star Aaron Jennings (Grand Crew) and Nicole discuss grade school romances, talking finances with your partner, the benefits of dating an older man, and that iconic Oscar #slap.  Aaron shares a wild date story involving a stalking ex-boyfriend, a gang member, and a gun. Plus, Nicole's crazy neighbor pays her a visit at 3:00AM.  For more Aaron Jennings, stream Grand Crew on Peacock, and the upcoming A League of Their Own TV series on Amazon Prime.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an ...

Having a Drama-Free Divorce (w/ Grasie Mercedes)

June 17, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 57.1 MB

Co-star Grasie Mercedes (Grand Crew, Access Hollywood) reflects on her 14-year relationship and the breakthrough she had in therapy which led to her divorce. They also discuss getting back into the dating scene at a later age, why white men love drinking milk, and what it means to Afro-Latina. Plus, Nicole shares her rave review for a Broadway show which featured many exposed dicks.     Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support ra...

Setting Yourself on Fire (w/ Vanity Jay)

June 10, 2022 08:00 - 46 minutes - 43.1 MB

Stripper and exotic entertainer Vanity Jay chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. She shares the complicated nature of dating both customers and strippers from clubs, the time she accidentally burned herself lighting her pussy on fire, and the challenges of dating a jealous partner. Plus, they help give advice to a listener seeking sex position recommendations for their partner who isn't the most endowed.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 ...

Farting in Bed with your Lover (w/ Sudi Green)

June 03, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 59.7 MB

Comedian and writer Sudi Green (SNL, I Love That For You) joins Nicole to discuss their awkward encounters with celebrities, having baby fever,  and farting in bed with your lover. Sudi shares a horrible hookup story where her partner was into "intense sex", but failed to preform. Nicole realizes she's horny for magic.   Black Lives Matter. Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.     Follow Nicole Byer:  Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nic...

Quit your Job (w/ Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté)

May 27, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 63 MB

Drag queen and reigning Miss Congeniality Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté (RuPaul's Drag Race S14) joins Nicole for a live episode, where they discuss her favorite kind of dick, the bad jobs she had before drag, and the men in prison who are contacting Nicole. Then, they answer audience questions about their favorite sex toys, the weirdest compliment they've gotten on a date, and blowjob tips.   For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag   Blac...

Guests

Ron Funches
2 Episodes
amber ruffin
1 Episode
Baron Vaughn
1 Episode
Blair Socci
1 Episode
Brittani Nichols
1 Episode
Giulia Rozzi
1 Episode
Michelle Buteau
1 Episode
Niccole Thurman
1 Episode
Rae Sanni
1 Episode
Sam Jay
1 Episode
Yassir Lester
1 Episode

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