Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer artwork

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

355 episodes - English - Latest episode: 25 days ago -

Dating can be a hot mess, from being ghosted by your crush to realizing that you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Why Won't You Date Me? is here to help.

Join Nicole Byer, the perpetual singleton, as she invites fellow comedians, friends, and ex-flings to talk romance and share their wildest dating tales, from cringeworthy first dates to jaw-dropping hookup stories. Nothing is off-limits.

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Episodes

Dominant Women (w/ Clark Jones)

June 28, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 55.5 MB

Comedian Clark Jones joins Nicole to discuss a wild hookup after a drug-fueled comedy show, the experience that turned him onto dominant women, and the story of performing stand-up naked. Plus, he shares his scheme of joining a ballet team in order to lose his virginity. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Your Relationship Needs a Song (w/ Keith Robinson)

June 21, 2024 08:00 - 42 minutes - 39 MB

Comedian Keith Robinson has faced two strokes that have affected half his mobility and speech. He shares with Nicole how he experienced a stroke after taking Viagra on an airplane ahead of a date, his crazy run-in with the police,  and his advice on why every relationship needs a song.  See Keith Robinson's new special, Different Strokes, on Netflix.  Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:...

Anxiety (w/ Tony Hale)

June 14, 2024 08:00 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MB

Actor Tony Hale (Veep, Arrested Development, Inside Out 2) joins Nicole to discuss how he accidentally themed his marriage proposal around a play about suicide, how he overcame his anxieties in a relationship, his experience working as Beyoncé's 'assistant', and provides Nicole with some heartfelt advice on dating.  See Inside Out 2, now playing in theatres.    Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book...

Ted Danson & Woody Harrelson Are Reunited!

June 12, 2024 16:00 - 2 minutes - 2.04 MB

Ted and Woody are back together to bring you a brand new podcast from Team Coco! It’s called “Where Everybody Knows Your Name with Ted Danson and Woody Harrelson (Sometimes)" and it’s out right now! They’re talking to guests like Conan O’Brien, Will Arnett, Jane Fonda, Billy Eichner, Kristen Bell, and so many more. Head over to “Where Everybody Knows Your Name with Ted Danson and Woody Harrelson (Sometimes)" to subscribe and listen now!

You Smell Like Me (w/ David Gborie)

June 07, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 58.1 MB

Comedian David Gborie (voice of Comedy Central, All Fantasy Everything, My Momma Told Me) joins Nicole to discuss the hottest porn, why two comedians can't date, how women improve the lives of men, and looking like a pervert at The Nutcracker. Nicole daydreams about what she would do if she had a dick for a day, and shares the story of hooking up with a coworker, which led them to quit. Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's b...

The 90 Day Fiancé Interview (w/ Alex Roshon)

May 31, 2024 08:00 - 44 minutes - 40.3 MB

Relationship therapist and star of 90 Day Fiancé: Love in Paradise, Alex Roshon, is here to answer all of Nicole's burning relationship questions. What's it like to apply for 90 Day Fiancé? What's her foolproof method for approaching someone for a threesome? Alex shares her terrible dating stories that led her to date overseas, and her experience dating a man who loved to wear women's panties. Nicole tries to find love at the Sonic The Hedgehog-themed cafe. Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @n...

Interview with a MILF from MILF Manor (w/ Crystal)

May 24, 2024 05:15 - 51 minutes - 47.1 MB

This season of MILF Manor takes a wild turn as MILFs date young men and their fathers at the same time. Nicole sits down with MILF and celebrity makeup artist Crystal Jennings to discuss how she got cast on MILF Manor, her preference for dating younger men versus their fathers, and to answer all of Nicole's burning questions about the show. Plus, she shares her expert sex tips for giving 'pornstar head.' Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/...

The Hookup Queen (w/ Mistress Isabelle Brooks)

May 17, 2024 08:00 - 58 minutes - 54 MB

Drag queen Mistress Isabelle Brooks (Finalist of RuPaul's Drag Race S15) joins Nicole to discuss her dating life as 'The Hookup Queen,' their body counts, and what she items she stole from the set of Drag Race. Mistress shares the story of the time she broke her ankle on stage in front of 1000 people. Nicole remains horny.  For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: p...

Love in Theater (w/ Jesse Tyler Ferguson)

May 10, 2024 08:00 - 55 minutes - 50.4 MB

Actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson (Modern Family) joins Nicole to share his proposal story and how it was hilariously overshadowed by Sofía Vergara. They chat about food as a love language, their shared love for musical theatre, and the aftermath of the "Take Me Out" Broadway show nude leak. Jesse reflects on the challenges of working on Modern Family during a time when there were no gay writers. Plus, the wild story of getting hit by an accidental squirting. Watch this episode here:  https://yout...

Forever Single Friends (w/ Jessica Gao)

May 03, 2024 08:00 - 55 minutes - 50.8 MB

Writer Jessica Gao (She Hulk: Attorney at Law, Rick & Morty) joins Nicole to discuss male friends who are "single for a reason", the pressures of dating in the Chinese culture, people sticking in bad relationships in order to avoid dating again, and how hormones from an IUD can significantly affect your attraction levels. Plus, she shares her experience writing Rick and Morty's iconic 'Pickle Rick' episode, and the targeted backlash she received from fans.    Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter:...

Catfished! (w/ Kamie Crawford)

April 26, 2024 08:00 - 54 minutes - 49.7 MB

Kamie Crawford (Host of Catfish: The TV Show)  joins Nicole to explore the most bizarre catfishing schemes she's witnessed, and reveals the tricks catfish use to deceive you. She shares how being crowned Miss Teen USA immediately affected her dating life in a creepy way, and discusses her frustrating experiences as a plus-size model.  Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746    

Winning a TV Dating Show (w/ Craig Conant)

April 19, 2024 08:00 - 51 minutes - 47.6 MB

Comedian Craig Conant joins Nicole to discuss how sleeping with a chucklefucker led to him to become a baby daddy, his experience winning MTV's hit dating show "Next", and having sex at the movies on a first date. Plus, his many tales of farting on authority. Check out Craig's tour dates here: www.craigconant.com/#tour

Dating as an Olympian (w/ A'ja Wilson)

April 12, 2024 08:00 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MB

WNBA superstar and Olympic gold medalist A'ja Wilson joins Nicole to discuss how her 6'4" height shapes her dating experiences, what it's like to be single and mingle amongst Olympians, and the special treatment of being a WNBA icon. Meanwhile, Nicole is enjoying her own singledom.  Check out A'ja's new book, Dear Black Girls, wherever books are sold.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524...

A Partner to Invest In (w/ William Stanford Davis)

April 05, 2024 08:00 - 52 minutes - 48.4 MB

Actor William Stanford Davis (Abbott Elementary) joins Nicole to share how he met his wife in an improv class, the unique dynamic of her managing his career, and the importance of finding a partner who truly invests in you. William also offers a glimpse into his unconventional teenage years DJing in adult clubs and reflects on his experiences with segregation growing up.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebou...

Addicted to Love (w/ Moshe Kasher)

March 29, 2024 08:00 - 48 minutes - 44.5 MB

Comedian and writer Moshe Kasher chats with Nicole about being a ho, going to a 12-step program for sex addicts, and his experience going through therapy 8 days a week. Plus lots of dating horror stories, including the tale of the biting blowjob. Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Meeting Singles in the Wild (w/ Franchesca Ramsey)

March 22, 2024 08:00 - 54 minutes - 49.6 MB

Comedian Franchesca Ramsey (iCarly) joins Nicole to discuss what she's learned after going through an expensive divorce, finding singles in the wild, queer speed dating, and how dogs can sense when the end of a relationship is coming. Nicole tries to flirt with an older man on a bike. Check out Franchesca's new podcast, Black History, For Real. Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Love is In the Air (w/ Zach Woods)

March 15, 2024 05:00 - 55 minutes - 51.3 MB

Comedian Zach Woods (Silicon Valley, The Office, In The Know) joins Nicole to discuss shooting your shot with your crush, having vulnerably romantic encounters on airplanes, and the time he professed his love to a recording of Moonlight Sonata. Plus, Nicole receives a very special "dirty message" to the podcast.  Stream In The Know, on Peacock. See Nicole's in episode 3! Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound...

Roommate Sex Drama (w/ Asha Ward)

March 08, 2024 09:00 - 50 minutes - 46.6 MB

Comedian and writer Asha Ward (SNL) joins Nicole to share her wild roommate sex drama, reflects on being raised by a gay dad, having her first kiss after karate lessons, and discusses the dynamics of having 'fuckboy' energy.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

The Art of Kissing (w/ LU KALA)

March 01, 2024 09:30 - 58 minutes - 53.9 MB

 Musician LU KALA joins Nicole to discuss why the dating world feels so broken after COVID, the skill behind a good kiss, planning what should happen to your sex toys when you die, the stigma around dating a plus sized woman, and roleplay flirting with each other. Plus, Nicole receives an unexpected large black dildo to her door.  Check out LU KALA's new single, Looking for Love.   Nicole has a new crowd working special! Watch it on YouTube.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer ...

Proposals (w/ Rory Scovel)

February 23, 2024 09:00 - 46 minutes - 42.9 MB

Comedian Rory Scovel joins Nicole for a chat about their Valentine's Day experiences, dealing with horny audience members, his cute proposal story, and the ways parenthood has transformed his relationship dynamic. Nicole shares her fun time smoking weed before performing.  Check out his special, Rory Scovel: Religion, Sex and a Few Things In Between, on Max.   Nicole has a new crowd working special! Watch it at youtu.be/OMrZshGJORg?si=5de666DSXrnlKfBU   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @n...

Dating with Anxiety (w/ Lamar Woods)

February 16, 2024 07:00 - 1 hour - 58.9 MB

Comedian Lamar Woods (New Girl, Grand Crew) joins Nicole to discuss their 2024 vision boards, taking yourself on self care dates, the best ways to manage anxiety while dating, and how to be open about your sensitivities to a potential partner.   Check out Lamar's new album, Highly Sensitive Person at lamar-woods.com.   Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Nicole has a new crowd working special! Watch it a...

Valentine's Day (w/ Laurie Kilmartin)

February 09, 2024 09:00 - 59 minutes - 54.5 MB

Comedian Laurie Kilmartin (Conan) joins Nicole to discuss all things Valentine's Day - the gifts, their dream dates, and Nicole's regrettable Valentine's Day experience. They open up about their most regretful hookups, the time Laurie's date called her out in a YouTube comment, and Nicole's experience sleeping with a member of her audience. Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  See Nicol...

Singles Mixers (w/ Rashida "SHEEDZ" Olayiwola)

February 02, 2024 09:00 - 56 minutes - 51.4 MB

Comedian Rashida "SHEEDZ" Olayiwola (Jury Duty) joins Nicole to discuss the best places to go for singles mixers, the time she learned her date was homeless, and the struggle of finding men who can listen to your basic needs. Plus, Nicole realizes her birth control is making her depressed.   Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podsw...

Faking Orgasms (w/ Stavros Halkias)

January 26, 2024 09:00 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MB

Comedian Stavros Halkias (Fat Rascal, Stavvy's World) joins Nicole to discuss hooking up with audience members, why he believes he would be perfectly cast for 90 Day Fiancé, and faking an orgasm during a disgusting fling just to be polite. Plus, is the golden age of dating apps over? According to Bustle, it is.    Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @n...

Heartbreak at Homecoming (w/ Garrick Bernard)

January 19, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

Comedian and writer Garrick Bernard (Rick & Morty, Solar Opposites) joins Nicole to discuss finding love at BuzzFeed, the awkwardness of audience members hitting on him while on stage, and why homecoming was the worst day of his life. Plus, they explore their mutual obsession for cars. Vroom vroom!    Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Me...

Orgy Invitation (w/ Mark Rennie)

January 12, 2024 09:30 - 1 hour - 58.3 MB

Comedian and friend Mark Rennie (The Onion) joins Nicole to share his experience attending a gay meetup on a Star Trek cruise, and being invited to an orgy. Nicole shares her idea of a dream orgy to attend, plus the plans for her funeral which involves inviting all of her ex-lovers to talk about her pussy. They also discuss determining your needs in a relationship, their goals for 2024, and Nicole's recent attempt to date a redhead in Dublin, which didn't quite go as planned.   Write somet...

Married to a Man-Ho (w/ Lisa Ann Walter)

January 05, 2024 09:00 - 41 minutes - 38.3 MB

Comedian Lisa Ann Walter (Abbott Elementary) joins Nicole to share her unique marital experiences, from a husband who eventually came out as gay to another who was an absolute man-ho. She shares the struggles she's faced touring as a mom, comedy clubs now allowing her to work "blue", and reflects on her time in the industry being recognized as "The Body". Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole By...

Baby Daddy Drama (w/ Liz Barlow)

December 29, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 56.3 MB

Comedian Liz Barlow discusses breaking up with a boyfriend who doxxed people, her challenging experience dating women, the story of a stalking chucklefucker, interracial threesomes invitations, and unravels some jaw-dropping baby daddy drama. As an exercise, Liz and Nicole roleplay talking to men.    Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Mer...

His & Hers: Home Decor Compromises (w/ Katrina Davis)

December 22, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 55.6 MB

Comedian Katrina Davis joins Nicole to discuss holiday gift giving, the delicate process of home decorating when moving in with a partner, and her experience being cock blocked by racism. Plus, the story of a forced double date that lead to a car theft.     Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indie...

Being a WOMAN (w/ Sasha Colby)

December 15, 2023 09:00 - 53 minutes - 49.1 MB

Drag queen mother Sasha Colby (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S15) sits down with Nicole to discuss the unique challenges of dating as a trans woman. Sasha shares her experiences of dating in the closet during high school, recounts where she's had heartwarming meet-cutes, and delves into her personal interpretation of what it means to be a ~Woman~. Nicole pays for the Raya feature that shows who's liked her.   Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] fo...

Surprise Date Ideas (w/ Lisa Gilroy)

December 08, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 56.9 MB

Comedian Lisa Gilroy doesn't want you to think about her little tiddies, okay? So she shares her adventures in surprise dating, complete with tips on how to execute your own fun surprise date for your partner. Lisa reflects on her journey as a 'teenage bride,' recounting her marriage to her high school sweetheart. She pitches an innovative concept for a live dating show to help Nicole find love, and Nicole opens up about her humiliating experience on Celebrity Dating Game.   Write somethin...

Cancelled (w/ Kathy Griffin)

December 01, 2023 10:00 - 56 minutes - 51.6 MB

Comedy icon Kathy Griffin sits down with Nicole to tackle the burning question: Is she still cancelled? She discusses her relationship with her tour manager, who supported her through a tumultuous five-year period marked by FBI investigations and a struggle with pill addiction. Kathy shares stories of her past relationships, including dating Quentin Tarantino, lying about her age to date Joey from NSYNC, and sleeping around with her students at the Groundlings. Plus, get the scoop on what it...

The Celibacy Choice (w/ Kel Mitchell)

November 24, 2023 17:51 - 1 hour - 62.7 MB

Comedian Kel Mitchell (Kenan & Kel, Good Burger) joins Nicole to explore his evolution from teen heartthrob to youth pastor. They delve into the merits of building romance on the foundation of friendship, the transformative impact of three years of celibacy on his relationship, and the art of mastering conflict resolution in partnerships. Kel recounts an unforgettable wingman adventure, plus, Nicole dishes on a juicy juicy couple's argument she overheard.     Write something dirty to Nicol...

How to Spot a Hobosexual (w/ Alesha Reneé)

November 17, 2023 09:30 - 1 hour - 58.1 MB

Actress & TV personality Alesha Reneé (Grand Crew, Girl Code) joins Nicole to delve into the world of 'hobosexuals,' revealing her experience dating one and offering tips on how to spot if you are too. She opens up about a past partner's breach of trust, when she found out he had been secretly reading her diary. They review the "worst" places to go on a first date, and Alesha shares the bizarre story of how she got robbed by a clown. Plus, Nicole opens up about her first attempt at cooking f...

Reading Nicole's Fortune (w/ Witch Sutton Crawford)

November 10, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

Ever wonder what it's like to have your tarot cards read? Witch and intuitionist Sutton Crawford gives Nicole an on-air reading regarding her love life. Sutton shares her journey to recognizing her own intuitive gifts, and chats about the mystical effects of eclipses and the cosmic influences you might be feeling. Plus, she shares a chilling ghost story and teaches how to set firm boundaries with the spirit world to keep those unwanted ghostly visitors at bay.  Meanwhile, Nicole opens up abo...

Saying I Love You (w/ Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins)

November 03, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54.5 MB

Actress Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins (Dear White People, Grand Crew) joins Nicole to chat about her perfect engagement story, getting over the nerves to say "I love you", and learning how to enjoy the beauty of being single. Meanwhile, Nicole is living her "horny for love" era. While some of her manifestations are starting to come true.... the question remains: can she manifest the partner of her dreams?   Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to [email protected] ...

Kink Gone Wrong (w/ Jonathan Van Ness)

October 27, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 57.6 MB

Hairstylist and icon Jonathan Van Ness (Queer Eye) shares with Nicole an unforgettable and horrifying story about his first foray into the kink of watersports, what it was like to have his wedding over Zoom, and consults Nicole on her Instagram page, offering savvy tips on how to up her dating game on the app.   Submit a dirty message to Nicole! Write it to [email protected] for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at li...

Relationship Manipulation Tactics (w/ E.R. Fightmaster)

October 20, 2023 09:00 - 57 minutes - 53.1 MB

Comedian E.R. Fightmaster (Shrill, Grey's Anatomy) joins Nicole to discuss the benefits of keeping romantic partnerships out of the public eye, how dating reality TV shows are normalizing abuse in relationships, and the common manipulation tactics to watch out for in your love life. Plus, they share horniest they've ever been in their life, and what it's like to write horny music. Check out E.R.'s new EP, VIOLENCE, out today.   Submit a dirty message to Nicole! Write it to whywontyoudatem...

Hurt People Hurt People (w/ Kenny DeForest)

October 13, 2023 08:30 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MB

Comedian Kenny DeForest joins Nicole to explore how an amicable split after 8.5 years can transform someone from a 'fuckboy' to a 'boyfriend without a girlfriend'. He shares how being an only child can lead to challenges entering the dating pool, the extremely addictive nature of dating apps, and tackles the ethical dilemma many comedians face: should you give your ex a heads-up if they're the subject of your latest stand-up routine? Check out Kenny's new special, Don't You Know Who I Am?, ...

Advice From an Intimacy Expert (w/ Shan Boodram)

October 06, 2023 08:00 - 57 minutes - 52.2 MB

Sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram (Sexology, Lovers & Friends) joins Nicole to teach her how to radiate better vibes on dates, master the art of life goal prioritization, and explore the intriguing concept of marriage pacts. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be the intimacy coordinator on 'Too Hot to Handle'? Shan spills all the beans on that and more. Plus she gets personal, revealing how she turned a fuckbuddy into a spouse, and shares the guidelines governing her n...

Breaking Up (w/ Eric Andre)

September 29, 2023 08:00 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MB

Is it worse to break up with someone, or get broken up with? Comedian Eric Andre (Bombing with Eric Andre) joins Nicole to delve into the heartache of breakups, including the time Eric was dumped via note. He also shares the nerve-wracking story about losing his virginity, talks first crush, first boner, and hard drugs. Plus, they answer your submitted questions, from awkward run-ins with exes to how to get your partner in therapy. Have a question of your own? Submit it to whywontyoudatemep...

Positive Affirmations to Change Your Psyche (w/ Leslie Jones)

September 22, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54.6 MB

Comedian Leslie Jones (SNL) chats with Nicole about the challenges of adjusting to a new relationship, strategies to eliminate negative self-talk, and offers Nicole advice on her latest breakup. Plus, Leslie talks about the married chucklefuckers approaching her after shows, and reveals the dating app that's been a game-changer for her. Follow Nicole Byer:  See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/date...

Achieving 'Couple Goals' (w/ Michael Jai White)

September 15, 2023 08:00 - 54 minutes - 49.9 MB

Ever wondered what lies behind those picture-perfect 'couple goals'? Action star Michael Jai White (Black Dynamite, Outlaw Johnny Black) joins Nicole to spill his secrets to a happy, argument-free relationship. He shares why he doesn't believe in 'dating' and offers a fresh perspective on building a relationship with a partner.    Follow Nicole Byer:  See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme N...

Sex and Love Addict (w/ Maria Bamford)

September 08, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 54.6 MB

Ever wondered what it's like getting intimate with a clown? Deep dive as comedian Maria Bamford (Arrested Development, Big Mouth) unravels her experiences as sex and love addict, the relationship tools she's learned in her 12 step programs, and her mental illnesses. Plus, for those seeking lasting love, Maria shares the 4 behaviors to avoid divorce.  Follow Nicole Byer:  See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: po...

Feeling Safe in a Relationship (w/ Uzo Aduba)

September 01, 2023 08:00 - 57 minutes - 52.9 MB

The Emmy-winning Uzo Aduba (Orange Is The New Black) chats with Nicole about how her dating app DMs changed after booking Crazy Eyes, finding love at a mixer, the deep connection between her personal grief and art, and the importance of honesty in relationships. Plus, Nicole fails to hit on a cashier.   Recorded July 13th 2023. For more information on the SAG-AFTRA strike, see sagaftrastrike.org. Consider donating to the Entertainment Community Fund to assist struck entertainment workers. ...

Nicole Eats a Banana from a Sex Worker's Pussy (w/ Naomi Rodgers)

August 25, 2023 09:00 - 56 minutes - 51.9 MB

Broadway star Naomi Rodgers (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical) opens up about secretly dating her co-star while on tour, and offers advice how to grieve and get over a breakup. Nicole shares her latest European dating mishaps, including an unforgettable visit to the Red Light District.   Follow Nicole Byer:  See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Merch: podswag.com/dateme Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746...

300 Episodes of Why Won't You Date Me (w/ Sasheer Zamata)

August 18, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 62.7 MB

It's episode 300! But how is Nicole STILL SINGLE?  On this milestone occasion, she's joined by her best friend Sasheer Zamata (co-host of Best Friends) to get to the bottom of it. In this special retrospective, they explore: How Nicole's dating life has evolved with the podcast The highs and lows of her love life Their favorite dates they've been on The best dating advice they've received Their new favorite sex toys they've been using And they answer your questions about whether you sh...

Romancing Overseas (w/ Zurin Villanueva)

August 11, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 58.6 MB

Broadway superstar Zurin Villanueva (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical)  joins Nicole for a discussion about the awkwardness of working together with a past hookup, safety precautions when dating abroad, and the best grocery store to find a good man. Plus, don't miss Zurin's recounting of a date gone awry when her phone rang, and on the other end? Her date's ex.   Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyo...

Gay Orgies (w/ Jay Jurden)

August 04, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 64.2 MB

The hilarious comedian Jay Jurden joins Nicole to talk about his secret relationship with a frat boy, working at Abercrombie & Fitch during its peak era, the best app for threeways, and what goes on at a gay orgy. Plus, Nicole gets hit on by a 911 responder.   Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to [email protected] for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode.   ...

Dating an Asexual (w/ Gigi Goode)

July 28, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 98.2 MB

Drag queen Gigi Goode (Drag Race S12) joins Nicole for a supersized live episode of the podcast! They talk about her trans journey during the pandemic, how the type of people who are attracted to her has changed since transitioning, making friends through Tinder, and shares her experience being in a long term relationship with a partner who's asexual. She also tells just so many, bad, no awful, date stories.   Plus, an audience Q&A: Do queens get cozy on the set of Drag Race? Is it possible...

Guests

Ron Funches
2 Episodes
amber ruffin
1 Episode
Baron Vaughn
1 Episode
Blair Socci
1 Episode
Brittani Nichols
1 Episode
Giulia Rozzi
1 Episode
Michelle Buteau
1 Episode
Niccole Thurman
1 Episode
Rae Sanni
1 Episode
Sam Jay
1 Episode
Yassir Lester
1 Episode

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