This insightful discussion delves into personal agency, control, identity, and the profound impact of systemic racism, with a focus on transforming understanding and fostering societal progress. 


In an enlightening and deeply moving conversation with Rev. Brig Feltus, founder of the Remember Institute, we embark on an exploration of the nuanced and multifaceted nature of race, power, oppression, and community healing. Through Brig's wealth of knowledge and compassionate perspective, we delved into the historical roots of oppression, the psychological underpinnings of privilege and bias, and the transformative power of community and awareness.


Emphasizing the importance of mental health, community involvement, and the rejection of consumerist complicity in oppression, the Remember Institute’s 'Heal Thyself’ program aims to foster a collective understanding, empathetic dialogue, and a dedicated movement towards healing racial divisions and transforming societal structures.


 


00:00 Exploring Control and Identity in Relationships


00:36 Reflecting on Parental Influence and Generational Differences


02:17 The Evolution of Parenting: From Boomers to Gen X


05:55 Embracing Community and the Value of Shared Experiences


07:06 The Impact of Industrialism and Capitalism on Family and Community


10:38 Navigating the Challenges of Modern Parenting and Societal Expectations


11:27 The Power of Community in Personal and Societal Well-being


17:16 Redefining Value and Success in a Capitalist Society


30:25 Confronting the Realities of Systemic Oppression and Seeking Change


42:56 The Urgent Need for Societal Transformation and Collective Action


50:09 Unveiling the Shadows: The Evolution of Fear and Control


51:12 Historical Roots: From Religion to Propaganda


51:59 Cultural Appropriation and Historical Misconceptions


54:13 The Power of Community and Empathy


55:44 Personal Journeys: Race, Identity, and Advocacy


56:02 The Impact of Ethnic Background on Advocacy


59:49 Confronting Racism and Embracing Diversity


01:05:26 Understanding Privilege and the Need for Change


01:16:25 The Role of Education in Combating Racism


01:34:32 A Call to Action: Community Involvement and Personal Responsibility


 


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🎙️ Who Should Join Heal Thyself? Ideal for people passionate about personal growth, this course is for those racialized as white seeking to be effective allies and agents of change.


 


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