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We're Not Together with Zack & Haley

84 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 90 ratings

Zack and Haley are both gay, but they are definitely not together. Every week Z & H tackle queer topics from a gay and lesbian perspective featuring guests from within the community and the occasional straight-of-the-week!

DM us or email us with your own burning questions so we can answer them on the show! :D

Hopefully educational. Hopefully funny. Definitely gay.

We're Not Together
instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast

Zack
instagram.com/zackogre

Haley
instagram.com/haley_manrique

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Episodes

Episode 32: Drag ft. Luis AlvarezSchacht

September 11, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 60.9 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by Luis AlvarezSchacht! They chat about Luis’s time as Bob the Drag Queen’s assistant, his own experiences in drag, using the art form as an outlet for creative and gender expression, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 31: Bigender ft. Robyn Blake

September 04, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 75 MB

This week, Zack and Haley are joined by comedian Robyn Blake! They discuss being bigender, navigating the cis comedy & roast battle scenes, come up with a new ad campaign for Angry Orchard, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 30: EQUUS Pony Play Event

August 28, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 58 MB

This week Zack and Haley recap their visit to the EQUUS International Pony Play Event and share interviews with participating ponies, judges, and handlers! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 29: Queer Anxiety ft. Anne Hodder-Shipp

August 21, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 66.7 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined again by sex & relationship educator Anne Hodder-Shipp! They discuss the ways queer people may feel like they’re “not enough”, the anxiety some bisexuals feel when interacting with the rest of the community, tools that can help build self-esteem, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter....

Episode 28: Daddies ft. Adam Ramzi

August 14, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 71.1 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by adult film actor Adam Ramzi! They discuss Adam’s "Favorite Daddy" award win at the GayVNs, what makes someone a "daddy", working in the porn industry, being a mental health professional, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 27: Religion (Part 2) ft. Seth Daniel

August 07, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 69.1 MB

This week Zack and Haley continue discussing religion with actor Seth Daniel! The gang talks about Seth's Jewish upbringing, finding acceptance from family and peers, Judaism’s relationship with the gay community, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 26: Nightlife ft. Ian DeVoglaer

July 31, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 57.9 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by Ian DeVoglaer! He dishes about what it’s like to work with iconic drag duo The Boulet Brothers, pros and cons of working in nightlife, selling underwear online, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast [email protected] Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 25: Kinks (Part 2) ft. Emily Browning

July 24, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 68.9 MB

This week Zack and Haley talk kinks with comedian, writer, and host of the "Making Love & Growing Up" podcast Emily Browning! Together they chat about attending kink parties, open communication with partners, dish about their own kinky experiences, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast [email protected] Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/r...

Episode 24: LGBT D&D ft. Carlos and Katie

July 17, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 95.5 MB

This week Zack and Haley play Dungeons & Dragons with Katie and Carlos! Listen as the gang encounters hags, wigs, and minotaurs, oh my! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast [email protected] Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

LGBT D&D Pre-Show

July 16, 2019 19:01 - 23 minutes - 21.2 MB

This is the pre-show for We’re Not Together’s Dungeons & Dragons campaign! Listen to the full D&D episode this Wednesday. We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast [email protected] Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 23: Coming Out (Part 3), A Year Later ft. Jon

July 10, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 61.3 MB

This week Zack and Haley's friend Jon returns to give an update on life after coming out! Together they talk about gaining acceptance from friends and family, feeling accepted in queer spaces, exploring the world of gay dating, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast [email protected] Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 22: Listener Advice #1

July 03, 2019 17:22 - 59 minutes - 54.1 MB

The doctors are in! This week Zack and Haley read messages from listeners and offer advice for their sticky situations. Email or DM your questions for a chance to be included in the next advice episode! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast [email protected] Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 21: Religion ft. Joey Comes

June 26, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 77.6 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by their friend Joey Comes! Together the gang talks about Christianity’s relationship with the queer community, coming to terms with being gay while being raised Christian, inclusiveness in the church, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 20: Bisexual Brunch (Part 2) ft. Molly Cohen

June 19, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 83.4 MB

This week Zack and Haley do brunch with Molly Cohen! The gang chats more about the misconceptions of bisexual people, dating while bi, coming out, feeling out of place sometimes in both straight and queer spaces, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 19: Asexuality ft. Mikayla

June 12, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 62.6 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by their good friend Mikayla! The gang chats about the spectrum of romantic and sexual attraction, navigating dating as an asexual, asexual representation in media, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 18: The Workplace ft. Carissa Dorson

June 05, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 69.6 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by cinematographer Carissa Dorson! Together they chat about working in the "boys' club" of Hollywood, workplace discrimination against women and queer people, office no-nos, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 17: Body Positivity ft. King Hassan

May 29, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 67.3 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by comedian and straight of the week King Hassan! Together the gang discusses body dysmorphia, the pressure to be conventionally attractive in the gay community, "metrosexuality", creating a more body positive environment, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 16: Commitment ft. Brittany Rosoff

May 22, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 64.6 MB

This week Zack and Haley talk commitment with Brittany Rosoff! The gang chats about setting the right pace when seeing a new person, why many gay men settle down later than lesbians, commitment phobia, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 15: Pet Play ft. Tony & Anne

May 15, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 73.4 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by pet play experts Tony & Anne! The gang dives into the world of pup and pony play, talk about sexual vs non-sexual roleplaying, what draws people to the community, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 14: Gay Porn ft. Beaux Banks

May 08, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 80.1 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by adult film star Beaux Banks! Together they discuss Beaux's beginnings, porn's best kept secrets, stories from the set, the difference between work and pleasure, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Beaux Banks instagram.com/beaux_banks twitter.com/beaux_banks Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 13: Toxic Masculinity ft. Logan Rees

May 01, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 70.8 MB

This week Zack and Haley sit down with writer and “straight of the week” Logan Rees! They chat about all things toxic masculinity from male privilege, women being portrayed as sex aliens, and what it really means to be a “nice guy”. We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 12: Open Relationships ft. Michael & Michael

April 24, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 56 MB

This week Zack and Haley chat with Husbands Michael Feldman and Michael Rockless. Nothing is off limits as they discuss orgys, "sex toy people", and… adding another Michael? We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 11: Queer Films ft. Clarke Wolfe

April 17, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 66.6 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by film buff and “straight of the week,” Clarke Wolfe. Together they chat about all things queer in cinema from casting Emma Stone as Billie Jean King, feeling represented in media, and all the crimes that may get you thrown into lesbian prison. We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Bonus Episode: The Orgy House

April 10, 2019 07:00 - 20 minutes - 18.5 MB

In this special bonus episode Haley recounts a truly wild incident that you must hear to believe. Tune in next week for an all-new episode! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 10: Vibes ft. Ean Weslynn

April 03, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 67.3 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by their good friend Ean Weslynn. They chat about reading situations, differences in interpretations, preserving the culture, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 9: Kinks ft. Phil

March 27, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 67.2 MB

This week we get kinky with Phil! The gang chats about the fascinating things that get people off, talk about their own kinks, speculate about the sub/dom status of famous characters, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 8: The Future ft. Ashley Bratland

March 20, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 64.7 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by Ashley Bratland. They chat about planning for the future, learn about the miracle of childbirth, play a celebrity baby name game, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 7: Bisexual Brunch ft. Emily Pearse

March 13, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 61.7 MB

This week Zack and Haley do brunch with their good friend Emily Pearse! They chat about bisexual stereotypes, compare the experiences of bi men and bi women, play a very difficult game of F**k, Marry, Kill, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Emily Pearse instagram.com/emily.pearse Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 6: Coming Out (Part 2) ft. Jon

March 06, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 70.9 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by their newly out of the closet friend Jon! They talk more about coming out, chat about the types of people they're attracted to, give advice for baby gays, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 5: Coming Out ft. Travis Campbell

February 27, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 65.8 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by friend and “straight of the week” Travis Campbell! They chat about coming to terms with your sexuality, early gay encounters, coming out to parents, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 4: Queer Bars ft. Carlie Craig

February 20, 2019 08:00 - 51 minutes - 47.4 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by numbers expert Carlie Craig! They chat about gay bars, the disturbing lack of lesbian bars, working with Todrick Hall, and more! Follow: We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Carlie Craig instagram.com/carliecraig twitter.com/carliecraig Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 3: Sex Ed ft. Anne Hodder

February 13, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 60.3 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by sex and relationship educator Anne Hodder! They chat about her background as an educator, human sexuality, mental and spiritual health, and more! Follow: We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 2: Dating Apps ft. Cole Marshall

February 06, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 61.5 MB

This week Zack and Haley are joined by their friend and “straight of the week” Cole Marshall! They chat about dating app etiquette, hookup culture, horror stories from dates, and more! Follow: We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

Episode 1: Animal Kingdom ft. Eric Jaffe

January 30, 2019 17:42 - 49 minutes - 45.7 MB

In their first episode, Zack and Haley talk about the gay "animal kingdom", create some lesbian tribes, and quiz their straight guest Eric Jaffe on some queer slang! Follow: We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast Zack instagram.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

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