Wake Up or Break Up!
53 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 14 ratingsWhat do you do when “happily ever after” blows up in your face?
For me, I decided to break the cycle of silence and share my awkward story of infidelity, separation and making marriage work after betrayal. Join me each week as I explore the pain and pleasure of second chances. It’s time to WAKE UP or BREAK UP!
Note from the host: The stories shared on this podcast are real, and the outcomes will vary from person to person. I’m not here you give you the magic formula to fix broken relationships (I don’t know if one exists). I’m here to encourage you to seek support (socially, emotionally, psychologically), to deeply explore your thoughts and emotions, and to find meaningful ways to process and move forward from your experience. Healing and forgiveness take time, and they are not always complete. Be patient with yourself and your process. Good luck beautiful listener! ❤️
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Episodes
Better together: Part 3 of 3
June 09, 2021 04:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBIn the final installment of this 3 part series, I sit down with Marcel and Alicia to get the low down on how they repaired their marriage and learned more about themselves in the process. Forgiveness after infidelity may not work for every relationship, but for this couple, it brought them closer together. Out of respect for his marriage, Marcel is no longer on social media, but you can follow Alicia on Instagram: @alicia_maria83 You can also find me... On Instagram: @wakeupelsie On You...
Marcel shares his side of the story: Part 2 of 3
May 21, 2021 23:00 - 37 minutes - 25.5 MBIn part 2 of our unexpected 3 part series, Marcel shares his perspective on how love and loyalty drifted to infidelity and regret. Marcel candidly describes the contributing factors that led him to cheat, as well as the drastic yet necessary measures he took to keep his marriage together (and thriving). In part 3, I sit down with Marcel and Alicia to get the real deal of how they repaired their marriage and if their love is still going strong today. I hope you stay tuned for part 3! Out...
Alicia shares her side of the story: Part 1 of 3
May 14, 2021 20:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MBI strongly believe, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger," and the same can be said for my beautiful guest Alicia. She is a mom of 3 teenagers, overcame infidelity after 18 years of marriage, and is a breast cancer survivor. In part 1 of this unexpected 3 part series, Alicia shares her journey of falling in love, motherhood, cancer, and forgiveness after infidelity. In part 2, we'll hear her husband's side of the story. And in part 3, I'll sit down with the both of them and get the ...
Tamisha Breaks Up...and Spiritually Wakes Up!
April 22, 2021 02:00 - 40 minutes - 28.2 MBIn this episode I talk with Tamisha, a podcaster, singer/songwriter, spiritual coach, entrepreneur, and Vibe Queen! Tamisha shares her story of separation, self-discovery, spiritual awakening. I was incredibly honored to have Tamisha share her story for the first time on my podcast. If you're on a spiritual journey, or if you're feeling lost after after infidelity and separation, this is a great episode for you! You can contact Tamisha... On Instagram: @vibequeenmusic and @vibetalkawake...
Tamisha Breaks Up...and Spiritually Wakes Up
April 22, 2021 02:00 - 40 minutes - 28.2 MBIn this episode I talk with Tamisha, a podcaster, singer/songwriter, spiritual coach, entrepreneur, and Vibe Queen! Tamisha shares her story of separation, self-discovery, spiritual awakening. I was incredibly honored to have Tamisha share her story for the first time on my podcast. If you're on a spiritual journey, or if you're feeling lost after after infidelity and separation, this is a great episode for you! You can contact Tamisha... On Instagram: @vibequeenmusic and @vibetalkawake...
Katharine Wakes Up...and Speaks Out
April 16, 2021 02:00 - 50 minutes - 34.4 MBIn this episode I talk with Katharine, a blogger, social media influencer, and married mom of two. Katharine shares how she discovered her husband's infidelity shortly after the birth of their first child, and two days after their 1 year wedding anniversary. Katharine's story of family obligation, transparency, post-partum depression, and acceptance is truly inspiring. I hope you take a moment to listen to her story. You can follow Katharine's journey... On Instagram/Clubhouse/all Soc...
Katharine Wakes Up...and Speaks Out!
April 16, 2021 02:00 - 50 minutes - 34.4 MBIn this episode I talk with Katharine, a blogger, social media influencer, and married mom of two. Katharine shares how she discovered her husband's infidelity shortly after the birth of their first child, and two days after their 1 year wedding anniversary. Katharine's story of family obligation, transparency, post-partum depression, and acceptance is truly inspiring. I hope you take a moment to listen to her story. You can follow Katharine's journey... On Instagram/Clubhouse/all Soc...
Full Circle Radio Interview w/ Ms. Wanda
April 04, 2021 00:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MBLast week I was blessed with the opportunity to share my story of love, betrayal, forgiveness, and growth on Full Circle Radio with Ms. Wanda. She is such an amazing human and friend, and she's passionate about lifting women up through her podcast and radio show. Download episodes of Ms. Wanda's Full Circle Radio wherever you listen to podcasts, or check out Full Circle Radio LIVE every Saturday on 97.5fm (Sacramento). You can also follow Ms. Wanda on Instagram at https://www.instagram.co...
Tracy Wakes Up...and Finds Herself
March 26, 2021 17:00 - 39 minutes - 26.8 MBIn this episode I talk with Tracy, a married mom of four. Tracy shares her story of emotional betrayal after 15 years with her husband. Tracy sheds light on the multiple layers of betrayal and forgiveness. Cheating is not black and white, and what you choose to do after cheating is completely up to you. Tracy's story of marriage, trust, and healing is truly powerful. I hope you're inspired by her honest perspective! You can follow Tracy's journey... On Instagram: @infidelityandhealin...
Tracy Wakes Up...and Finds Herself!
March 26, 2021 17:00 - 39 minutes - 26.8 MBIn this episode I talk with Tracy, a married mom of four. Tracy shares her story of emotional betrayal after 15 years with her husband. Tracy sheds light on the multiple layers of betrayal and forgiveness. Cheating is not black and white, and what you choose to do after cheating is completely up to you. Tracy's story of marriage, trust, and healing is truly powerful. I hope you're inspired by her honest perspective! You can follow Tracy's journey... On Instagram: @infidelityandhealin...
Elizabeth Breaks Up...and Keeps Moving
March 19, 2021 19:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MBIn this episode I talk with Elizabeth, a single mom from Little Rock, Arkansas. Elizabeth explains how her experiences with infidelity drove her to work on herself, put her needs and wants first, and strengthen her ability to talk candidly about her failed relationships. Elizabeth's story is one of love, betrayal, confusion, and reinvention. I hope you're inspired by her honest perspective! You can follow Elizabeth's journey... On Instagram: @lizzy_beee You can also find me... On Ins...
Elizabeth Breaks Up...and Keeps Moving!
March 19, 2021 19:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MBIn this episode I talk with Elizabeth, a single mom from Little Rock, Arkansas. Elizabeth explains how her experiences with infidelity drove her to work on herself, put her needs and wants first, and strengthen her ability to talk candidly about her failed relationships. Elizabeth's story is one of love, betrayal, confusion, and reinvention. I hope you're inspired by her honest perspective! You can follow Elizabeth's journey... On Instagram: @lizzy_beee You can also find me... On Ins...
Chloe Wakes Up...and Seeks Support
March 12, 2021 01:00 - 40 minutes - 27.7 MBIn this episode I speak with Chloe, a wife and mother who uncovers her husband's acts of infidelity one month into their marriage. Chloe shares how professional counseling and the support of their family, gave her and her husband the strength they needed to stay together. Her love story is far from perfect, but her and her husband are committed to creating their own version of happily ever after. Follow Chloe's Journey: On Instagram: @chloexxwilliams You can also find me... On Instagra...
Season 3: Was Cheating the Best Part of 2020?
March 04, 2021 00:00 - 17 minutes - 11.8 MBIt's been a year since Joe cheated. Here's an update of my life since we last talked. New job...new perspective...new opportunities! Let's Connect and Collaborate... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wakeupelsie/ Clubhouse: Elsie Bobo @wakeupelsie Coaching: https://www.wakeupyourpassion.com/ Music Produced By: Deshawn Sinclair
Season 2 Finale: Elsie Re-Defines Cheating
January 27, 2021 20:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MBIt's just you and I today! I want to invite you to see things a little differently. To guard your heart, open your mind, and welcome a new way of thinking. What if we defined cheating differently? Not normalizing it, not excusing it, just changing our interpretation of it. What if we stopped blaming ourselves and refused to take cheating personally? What if we changed the language? Instead of saying THEY cheated on ME...switching it to THEY cheated on THEMSELVES. We're not changing the a...
Season 2 Finale: Elsie Re-Defines Cheating!
January 27, 2021 20:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MBIt's just you and I today! I want to invite you to see things a little differently. To guard your heart, open your mind, and welcome a new way of thinking. What if we defined cheating differently? Not normalizing it, not excusing it, just changing our interpretation of it. What if we stopped blaming ourselves and refused to take cheating personally? What if we changed the language? Instead of saying THEY cheated on ME...switching it to THEY cheated on THEMSELVES. We're not changing the a...
Sedalia Wakes Up...and Grows Stronger
January 13, 2021 07:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBIn this episode I talk with my dear friend Sedalia. She is a mother of 6, a fitness lover, and a survivor of a brain aneurysm! After Joe and I broke up, Sedalia was the first person to share her story of infidelity and forgiveness with me. She was a listening ear whenever I needed to vent, she offered me advice with no judgement or criticism, and she answered so many of my random questions. Before I heard Sedalia's story, I thought a strong woman would leave her husband (no questions asked)...
Sedalia Wakes Up...and Grows Stronger!
January 13, 2021 07:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBIn this episode I talk with my dear friend Sedalia. She is a mother of 6, a fitness lover, and a survivor of a brain aneurysm! After Joe and I broke up, Sedalia was the first person to share her story of infidelity and forgiveness with me. She was a listening ear whenever I needed to vent, she offered me advice with no judgement or criticism, and she answered so many of my random questions. Before I heard Sedalia's story, I thought a strong woman would leave her husband (no questions asked)...
Lauren Explores Her Options...and Wakes Up
January 06, 2021 05:00 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MBIn this episode I talk with Lauren, a podcaster, mindset coach, and entrepreneur on the rise! Lauren shares her unique story of finding love, asking for an open relationship, falling in love with someone else, and then marrying the man of her dreams. Her experience is far from traditional, but that is what makes it powerful. If you're looking for a modern alternative to the typical relationship, this episode is a must listen! You can follow Lauren's journey... On Instagram: @laurenmkeple...
Break-up, Divorce and More with Simon Ravona
December 30, 2020 04:00 - 49 minutes - 34.2 MBIn this episode I talk with Simon Ravona, a trained mediator, lawyer, negotiator, and divorce coach. Simon helps clients (including myself) manage the realities of relationships, break ups, and divorce by creating a life of purpose and meaning. For today's conversation, Simon and I talk about the top reasons for couples to break up, the differences between coaching and therapy, what keeps couples together, and his top tips for making relationships work. If you are in a relationship, thinkin...
Mary Breaks Up...and Reinvents Herself
December 23, 2020 05:00 - 42 minutes - 28.9 MBIn this episode, I talk with Mary, a former bikini competitor, grandmother of 2, and one of my dearest friends. Mary explains how the loss of her unborn son resulted in infidelity and divorce from her husband of 5 years (15 years together). She also shares her uncharacteristic method of coping, and what she wishes she would have done differently. Mary's story is one of heartbreak, loss, and reinvention. I hope you're inspired by her journey! You can follow Mary's journey... On Instagr...
Mary Breaks Up...and Reinvents Herself!
December 23, 2020 05:00 - 42 minutes - 28.9 MBIn this episode, I talk with Mary, a former bikini competitor, grandmother of 2, and one of my dearest friends. Mary explains how the loss of her unborn son resulted in infidelity and divorce from her husband of 5 years (15 years together). She also shares her uncharacteristic method of coping, and what she wishes she would have done differently. Mary's story is one of heartbreak, loss, and reinvention. I hope you're inspired by her journey! You can follow Mary's journey... On Instagr...
Japji Breaks Up...and Levels Up
December 15, 2020 06:00 - 34 minutes - 23.7 MBIn this episode, I talk with the brilliant Japji, an interdisciplinary qualitative researcher, a playful yogi, a poet, a dancefloor mama, a mom of two, and a Ph.D! Japji shares her powerful story of allowance, betrayal, and finding the strength to leave an unhealthy relationship with her two young sons. She also opens up about learning to trust again with someone new. You can follow Japji's journey... On Instagram: @wordmamaword Or Coaching Page: www.flourishwellbeingsass.com You can als...
Japji Breaks Up...and Levels Up!
December 15, 2020 06:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MBIn this episode, I talk with the brilliant Japji, an interdisciplinary qualitative researcher, a playful yogi, a poet, a dancefloor mama, a mom of two, and a Ph.D! Japji shares her powerful story of allowance, betrayal, and finding the strength to leave an unhealthy relationship with her two young sons. She also opens up about learning to trust again with someone new. You can follow Japji's journey... On Instagram: @wordmamaword Or Coaching Page: www.flourishwellbeingsass.com You can als...
It's Our Anniversary...10 Years of Marriage w/Joe
December 09, 2020 07:00 - 39 minutes - 26.8 MBI didn't think we'd make it to this day. I didn't think we'd have anything to celebrate. I didn't think we'd still be married. Our story is far from perfect. Joe and I are a tragic example of what happens when two people become disconnected and fall apart. We’re also proof of what’s possible when two people focus on reconnecting, communicating, and becoming more present. This year wasn't our best...but we're still here...together. Cheers to many more years of figuring out life and love. F...
Ashley Breaks Up...and Finds Love Again
December 02, 2020 18:00 - 30 minutes - 21.2 MBIn this episode, I talk with Ashley, a mother of 6 and mompreneur on the rise. Ashley explains how her experience with young love and betrayal helped her redefine her idea of "happily ever after." Ashley also shares how trusting God's timing for her life helped her heal her wounded heart and find love again. If you're looking for inspiration or clarity in your personal love life, this episode is a must listen! You can follow Ashley's journey... On Instagram: @ashleys_point_of_view Her M...
Destiny Wakes Up...Breaks Up...and then Wakes Up with Mikhail
November 25, 2020 07:00 - 35 minutes - 24.4 MBIn this episode, I talk with my dear friend Destiny about her on again off again love story with the father of her daughter, Mikhail. She shares how his initial acts of cheating and dishonesty led to her engaging in her own acts of infidelity. She's not proud of the direction her relationship took, but she OWNS and ACCEPTS what happened between them as a necessary part of their love story and personal growth. Destiny is a mother of one, a podcast host, a master waxer, entrepreneur, and b...
Destiny Wakes Up...Breaks Up...and then Wakes Up Again
November 25, 2020 07:00 - 35 minutes - 24.4 MBIn this episode, I talk with my dear friend Destiny about her on again off again love story with the father of her daughter. She shares how his initial acts of cheating and dishonesty led to her engaging in her own acts of infidelity. She's not proud of the direction her relationship took, but she OWNS and ACCEPTS what happened between them as a necessary part of their love story and personal growth. Destiny is a mother of one, a podcast host, a master waxer, entrepreneur, and body posit...
Destiny Wakes Up...Breaks Up...and Wakes Up Again
November 25, 2020 07:00 - 35 minutes - 24.4 MBIn this episode, I talk with my dear friend Destiny about her on again off again love story with the father of her daughter. She shares how his initial acts of cheating and dishonesty led to her engaging in her own acts of infidelity. She's not proud of the direction her relationship took, but she OWNS and ACCEPTS what happened between them as a necessary part of their love story and personal growth. Destiny is a mother of one, a podcast host, a master waxer, entrepreneur, and body posit...
Season 2 Intro: I'm Baaaack...And I Brought Friends!
November 22, 2020 17:00 - 4 minutes - 3.13 MBPrior to getting cheated on, I thought I only had ONE OPTION if someone ever cheated on me, and that was divorce. After reading the stories of strangers and friends who had been cheated on, I quickly realized there were multiple possibilities. There were stories of making things work, walking away, seeking revenge, and starting over. Although the circumstances were similar, the end results were different. There was no rhyme or reason to why people chose what they did. They simply chose...
Episode 9: Tough Questions with Joe (Part 2)
November 04, 2020 08:00 - 24 minutes - 17.1 MBIt's not easy talking about the past...especially when it involves hurting someone you love. Here's part 2 of my question and answer session with Joe. Follow our Journey... Instagram: @wakeupelsie, @giant_asian YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wakeuporbreakup Coaching: https://www.wakeupyourpassion.com/
Episode 8: Tough Questions with Joe (PART 1)
October 28, 2020 16:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MBIt's not easy talking about the past...especially when it involves hurting someone you love. On today's episode, Joe opens up about how we met, what pushed him to cheat, and why he wants to stay together. Follow our Journey... Instagram: @wakeupelsie, @giant_asian YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wakeuporbreakup Coaching: https://www.wakeupyourpassion.com/
Episode 8: Tough Questions with Joe
October 28, 2020 16:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MBIt's not easy talking about the past...especially when it involves hurting someone you love. On today's episode, Joe opens up about how we met, what pushed him to cheat, and why he wants to stay together. Follow our Journey... Instagram: @wakeupelsie, @giant_asian YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wakeuporbreakup Coaching: https://www.wakeupyourpassion.com/
Question: Why Do We Keep Lying?
October 26, 2020 03:00 - 7 minutes - 4.98 MBTelling the truth is hard. We don't want to admit we messed up. We don't want to be embarrassed. We don't want to hurt someone's feelings. We don't want to get uncomfortable. We don't want to be honest. Our inability to embrace truth is holding us back from becoming our true authentic selves. We need to do better. We need to be better. Stay tuned for Episode 8 where Joe and I get open and honest with life after infidelity. Special Shoutout to Deshawn Sinclair for the amazing soundtrac...
Episode 7: Final Words for Everyone Involved...
October 21, 2020 22:00 - 18 minutes - 12.6 MBAs we transition into the next phase of the podcast, there are few last things I'd like to say. I don't know if this will episode will make much sense, but I wanted to get some stuff off my chest before moving forward. So here I go...in all my random glory! Enjoy! Follow my journey... Instagram: @wakeupelsie YouTube: www.YouTube.com/wakeuporbreakup Coaching: www.wakeupyourpassion.com
Question: Is There Anything Left to Say?
October 18, 2020 23:00 - 6 minutes - 4.25 MBWe're coming to the end of season 1 and building up momentum for season 2! For the past 6 weeks...I think I’ve covered almost everything I’ve experienced from infidelity to forgiveness. Now it's time to transition into the next phase of the podcast. As much as I've enjoyed sharing my journey with all of you, I'm excited to share the stories and experiences of people who have cheated or been cheated on. Before we move on to Season 2, there are a few things I'd like to get off my chest. Tu...
Episode 6: Intimacy After Infidelity
October 14, 2020 02:00 - 25 minutes - 17.7 MBLet's talk about SEX baby...Let's talk about YOU and ME...Let's talk about all the GOOD things and the BAD things that may be...Let's talk about SEX!
Question: How Do We Introduce Intimacy After Infidelity?
October 12, 2020 02:00 - 11 minutes - 7.99 MBFirst of all, I totally EFFED UP on this episode. I guess that's a side effect of being human! You'll hear me refer to Episode 5 multiple times, but it's actually Episode 6. I also decided to remix the question. Before we begin, let me share this disclaimer: "There is not a one size fits all solution to relationships and infidelity. I am simply sharing what worked for me, and encouraging you to honor what works best for you." That being said, I hope you enjoy this episode! Follow me on I...
Episode 5: Cheating Didn't Kill Me...It Made Me STRONGER!
October 07, 2020 01:00 - 20 minutes - 14.2 MBI was definitely channeling some..."I am Woman hear me ROAR" vibes when I recorded this weeks podcast. Eight months ago I was faced with a devastating reality that was meant to destroy me and my marriage...and I SURVIVED! I took the pain, the hurt, the anger, and I made the most of it. In fact, I came out stronger, wiser, and more confident than I've ever been in my entire life! I'm not special guys. I don't have any life altering secrets to success or cheat codes to help salvage a marri...
Episode 5: How cheating made me stronger
October 07, 2020 01:00 - 20 minutes - 14.1 MBI was definitely channeling some..."I am Woman hear me ROAR" vibes when I recorded this weeks podcast. Eight months ago I was faced with a devastating reality that was meant to destroy me and my marriage...and I SURVIVED! I took the pain, the hurt, the anger, and I made the most of it. In fact, I came out stronger, wiser, and more confident than I've ever been in my entire life! I'm not special guys. I don't have any life altering secrets to success or cheat codes to help salvage a marri...
Episode 5: Cheating Made Me Stronger!
October 07, 2020 01:00 - 20 minutes - 14.1 MBI was definitely channeling some..."I am Woman hear me ROAR" vibes when I recorded this weeks podcast. Eight months ago I was faced with a devastating reality that was meant to destroy me and my marriage...and I SURVIVED! I took the pain, the hurt, the anger, and I made the most of it. In fact, I came out stronger, wiser, and more confident than I've ever been in my entire life! I'm not special guys. I don't have any life altering secrets to success or cheat codes to help salvage a marri...
Question: But Did You Die???
October 04, 2020 16:00 - 9 minutes - 6.41 MBAfter Joe and I broke up, I found myself asking over and over again (in my Mr. Chow voice)...BUT DID YOU DIE??? And yes, that might be a little harsh and insensitive because I in fact did not die...but nonetheless...it was a good question to ask! Asking myself, "But Did You Die?"was a helpful way for me to shift my focus from victim to victor (if there was a victor in this situation), allowed me to own my circumstances and start the healing process. I needed a personal mantra. I needed som...
Episode 4: Forgive...YES! Forget...Not So Much.
September 30, 2020 15:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MBEvery situation is different. Every couple has a different drama, dynamics, and connection. I can't tell you that forgiving and forgetting is necessary or even possible for you and your partner. All I can do is share my story and my insights. Do I think it's possible to forgive and forget? Absolutely! Do I think it's necessary? Well, that depends on your personal situation and how you want to move forward in your life. If you want to stay together...If you want to move on...If you want to...
Question: Is It Possible to Forgive and Forget After Cheating?
September 28, 2020 02:00 - 7 minutes - 4.86 MBMy original answer to this question was HELL FREAKING NO!!!!!! There was NO WAY in the United States of America that I would ever forgive someone who cheated on me. Now here I am...eating my words. Although I found a way to forgive Joe, I am still trying to find a healthy way to embody the "forgetting" part. It's definitely a process, but I think I'm on the right track. Oh the joys of making things work! Episode 4 launches Wednesday! Follow me on Instagram: @wakeupelsie Relationship Coac...
Episode 3: Who is to blame?
September 23, 2020 01:00 - 23 minutes - 16 MBIt's easy to point fingers, and throw the blame on someone else. Blaming Joe for what happened did not make me feel better, it did not erase what happened, and it did not help us move forward. So I decided to take a different approach. I decided to work on myself and take responsibility for my emotional disconnect, judgement, and frustration in our relationship. It wasn't pretty, but it helped me see things in a different light.
Episode 3: I Don't Blame Him For Cheating...
September 23, 2020 01:00 - 23 minutes - 16 MBIt's easy to point fingers, and throw the blame on someone else. Blaming Joe for what happened did not make me feel better, it did not erase what happened, and it did not help us move forward. So I decided to take a different approach. I decided to work on myself and take responsibility for my emotional disconnect, judgement, and frustration in our relationship. It wasn't pretty, but it helped me see things in a different light.
Episode 3: Not My Fault...Not His Either.
September 23, 2020 01:00 - 23 minutes - 16 MBIt's easy to point fingers, and throw the blame on someone else. Blaming Joe for what happened did not make me feel better, it did not erase what happened, and it did not help us move forward. So I decided to take a different approach. I decided to work on myself and take responsibility for my emotional disconnect, judgement, and frustration in our relationship. It wasn't pretty, but it helped me see things in a different light.
Question: Who is to Blame for Cheating?
September 21, 2020 00:00 - 6 minutes - 4.59 MBIs one person to blame for cheating and infidelity? Or do all participants play an equal role in the destruction of a relationship? It's easy to point fingers and blame everyone else. To feel like life is unfair and terrible stuff only happens to YOU! Something that helped my healing process, was recognizing my role in the situation and taking personal responsibility for my contribution to the decline of our relationship. Now let's be clear, I'm not taking the blame or making excuses for w...
Episode 2: Confronting the Other Woman
September 16, 2020 03:00 - 17 minutes - 11.8 MBI wanted to hate her...I really did, but we all played a part in the demise of my marriage. Accepting my role and acknowledging what I could have done differently was a HUGE step in my healing process. I was no longer the victim in my story. I became an active participant. And just because I chose to forgive her…does NOT mean I will forget what she did! LESSON LEARNED!
Question: Is She a Bad Person?
September 15, 2020 08:00 - 6 minutes - 4.59 MBI know people will have different opinions on this one...but I'm super curious. Do bad decisions make you a bad person, or can you make bad decisions and still be a good person? This is just my humble opinion. Let me know what you think!