Love Shouldn't Hurt: Do Not Ignore the Signs of Narcissist Abuse with Dawn Ranae
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"Be True to Yourself "to Heal from Narcissist Abuse
Love Shouldn't Hurt: Do Not Ignore the Signs of Narcissist Abuse
You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Believe the victim when they reach out for help. Don't believe the act the narcissist presents to the outside world.
Protect yourself, DO NOT take responsibility for other's actions. When dealing with a Narcissist the cost could be your life, your children, your sanity, your safety, and more!
Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1 800-799-7233
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[00:03:47] And, , they're grieving and they're struggling. And I just want people to know that that doesn't have to define you
[00:06:00] you made me so angry if you had just done X, if you had only said this, if you had only worn something different, it was always on me.
[00:09:28] They really cut their self esteem low. They cut it low in order to continue to put themselves up and to control you.
[00:11:11] And it's because by the time that happened, he had told me so many times that, you know, you deserve this. This is your fault. Look what you made me do. And that became. I deserved it. Well, if I, I should have said something different, I should have not said anything.
[00:12:07] At one point, he had me convinced that this never happened. It was all in my head and I made it all up. And this is my proof that this really happened because he admits to everything in these letters, he admits to everything that he denied. To the world, but to me, he admitted it and this is my validation that I am not crazy and that I didn't deserve any of this.
[00:18:02] And so I agreed to marry him because he had changed. He was better. Yeah. And like, as soon as we got married, It started.
[00:25:26] It wasn't okay to play music and dance in the kitchen and laugh and tell jokes. That's what they were learning. And that is when I realized that's not how I wanted to live. And when I confronted him about it, we had a big argument and he told me to leave and I refuse to leave. And he took a handgun out of the closet and held us in my head and started pulling the trigger.
[00:29:11] Dawn Ranae Hanlon: if I could tell my 12 year old self, just one thing, it would be,
[00:29:19] be true to you because if you don't take care of you. And let your light shine, then you've already lost. You've lost yourself and you are too precious to lose.
GRAB free Narcissist Survival Guide Book PDF
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Mentioned in this episode:
Trauma 2 Triumph Virtual Summit
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"Be True to Yourself "to Heal from Narcissist Abuse
Love Shouldn't Hurt: Do Not Ignore the Signs of Narcissist Abuse
You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Believe the victim when they reach out for help. Don't believe the act the narcissist presents to the outside world.
Protect yourself, DO NOT take responsibility for other's actions. When dealing with a Narcissist the cost could be your life, your children, your sanity, your safety, and more!
Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1 800-799-7233
Full show Webpage Guest links on page.
[00:03:47] And, , they're grieving and they're struggling. And I just want people to know that that doesn't have to define you
[00:06:00] you made me so angry if you had just done X, if you had only said this, if you had only worn something different, it was always on me.
[00:09:28] They really cut their self esteem low. They cut it low in order to continue to put themselves up and to control you.
[00:11:11] And it's because by the time that happened, he had told me so many times that, you know, you deserve this. This is your fault. Look what you made me do. And that became. I deserved it. Well, if I, I should have said something different, I should have not said anything.
[00:12:07] At one point, he had me convinced that this never happened. It was all in my head and I made it all up. And this is my proof that this really happened because he admits to everything in these letters, he admits to everything that he denied. To the world, but to me, he admitted it and this is my validation that I am not crazy and that I didn't deserve any of this.
[00:18:02] And so I agreed to marry him because he had changed. He was better. Yeah. And like, as soon as we got married, It started.
[00:25:26] It wasn't okay to play music and dance in the kitchen and laugh and tell jokes. That's what they were learning. And that is when I realized that's not how I wanted to live. And when I confronted him about it, we had a big argument and he told me to leave and I refuse to leave. And he took a handgun out of the closet and held us in my head and started pulling the trigger.
[00:29:11] Dawn Ranae Hanlon: if I could tell my 12 year old self, just one thing, it would be,
[00:29:19] be true to you because if you don't take care of you. And let your light shine, then you've already lost. You've lost yourself and you are too precious to lose.
GRAB free Narcissist Survival Guide Book PDF
Grab all links and full transcript on our website Ravenscott.show
SHOP Raven's Girl Talk Merch Store! :
Raven Show Mug
Restorative Tote
Compassion T Shirt
Spiritual Mantra Sweat shirt
Gorgeous Journal
Empath & The Narcissist Book :
Mentioned in this episode:
Trauma 2 Triumph Virtual Summit
Free ticket with VIP access
YouTube: Raven Scott Girl Talk
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