How To Think Like a Narcissist (Without Being One)

The most common question I get from my clients or readers is, “What if I'm the narcissist?” This is a question wrought with fear. And it often comes from the actual narcissist, accusing you of being a narcissist.  If you think you're a narcissist, then that means you are concerned about other people's feelings, as well as questioning your own behavior and taking accountability for it. This is the exact opposite of how a narcissist thinks and operates.  

Your biggest problem with a narcissist isn’t worrying if you are one, but instead, it's how you think of them, how you see them, and mostly how you see yourself. In this episode, I break down how you view the narcissist in your life may be working against you and what you can do instead.  Thinking like a narcissist does not mean you are one. But it does mean you are no longer stuck in a frenzied, scared mindset.  

Episode Highlights: 

Why you must stop fearing what a narcissist says, does, or thinks of you The importance of breaking down the illusions and thought distortions we once used to survive our childhood or past traumas The reason you must see a narcissist as a squirrel and not as a bear  How a narcissist sees you, is ultimately how you see you A narcissist is terrified to be seen as who they really are, but so are you