Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
383 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago - ★★★★★ - 1.2K ratingsFind out why everyone’s talking about Almost Adulting Podcast.
Get read to immerse yourself in the largest self-love podcast and movement - your #1 destination for personal growth and mental health. I'm your host Violet Benson, known as Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker, but most importantly, I'm YOUR big sister.
Each month, we explore a new topic with amazing guests, inspiring conversations, and life-changing solo episodes. Drawing on my own personal experiences (where I learned everything the hard way) and researched expert advice, we'll tackle critical areas like self-improvement, mental health, and relationships with plenty of useful tools, relatable humour and candid advice. Get ready to feel empowered, liberated, and seen like never before! Don't wait another moment to become the best version of yourself - Change your life and subscribe to Almost Adulting!
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Episodes
How to Detach in 24 Hours
July 06, 2024 07:00 - 45 minutes - 41.5 MBWhen your man doesn’t value you, then he DESERVES to lose you. Want to teach him a lesson? Then tune In! Sometimes detaching doesn’t mean goodbye forever; it means giving yourself the time to figure out what you want and deserve. Today’s episode is for anyone who: Needs to reassess their relationship and feelings. Wants to wake up a partner who's taking them for granted. Is ready to walk away from someone they love. Needs help with anxiety and detaching from stress over uncontr...
How Men Fall In Love - A Step by Step Guide
June 28, 2024 07:00 - 45 minutes - 41.9 MBEver wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF. Well... kinda. On today's episode we cover: The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out! Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making...
Date Smarter, Not Harder: 9 Game-Changing Rules
June 23, 2024 07:00 - 34 minutes - 31.7 MBReady to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's...
Do You Think I'm Special? The Price of Perfectionism & Betrayal with Kaitlyn Bristowe
June 13, 2024 11:00 - 48 minutes - 44.7 MBEver been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal. In today's episode, we discuss: The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work. Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Ag...
10 Things Emotionally Healthy People Do
June 11, 2024 09:00 - 39 minutes - 35.8 MBIn this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think. Get ready for some tough love and practical wisdom to boost your emotional intelligence. What You'll Learn: Embrace Pain: Why avoiding pain is holding you back and how to let it flow through and pass. Pain’s Role in Happiness: Discover why pain is necessary for true happiness and personal growth. Emotional He...
What He WON'T Tell You
June 06, 2024 18:00 - 31 minutes - 28.6 MBHey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches! Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into t...
Love Magic: Manifest Your Soulmate Using 369 Method
June 04, 2024 09:00 - 33 minutes - 31 MBHey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal life and then diving into the manifesting secrets behind Project 369: The Key to the Universe - Final Edition. This isn’t just woo-woo talk; it’s a step-by-step guide to manifesting your soulmate and living your best life. Episode Highlights: Vibe High: Get on the right vibration level to attract your soulmate. Self-Love Magic: Learn why l...
#1 Reason Why Couples Break Up
May 30, 2024 09:00 - 38 minutes - 35.3 MBIn today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of miscommunication? Well, it's time to uncover the juicy truths about the different emotional needs between men and women. Violetta dishes on: The #1 reason couples break up 💔 Why you're failing at dating 😬 why you're turning each other off The six primary emotional needs that...
CBD Magic: Game Nights, Chocolate Shrooms & Life-Changing Transformations with CBDistillery's VP
May 28, 2024 09:00 - 43 minutes - 39.5 MBEver wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the beans on her unforgettable game night, featuring a magical mix of CBD and chocolate shrooms that made for the best night of her life. Violet sits down with Ellese Symons, the powerhouse VP of Marketing at CBDistillery, to uncover her inspiring journey from battling chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia to finding renewed vitality with CBD. Th...
Secrets, Lies, and Alibis: Alex Hall Breaks Her Silence
May 23, 2024 09:27 - 1 hour - 57.3 MBGet ready for an unforgettable episode of Almost Adulting! This week, Violet Benson is joined by Alex Hall, the star of Selling the OC, who’s here to spill the juiciest tea and set the record straight once and for all. From the cheating allegations to what really happened in Dubai and everything in between, it's about to get frosty. In this exclusive interview, Alex reveals a side of the story that’s never been told before, dropping a bombshell about a mysterious third party. Whate...
Protect Your Energy: Avoid the Unhappy & Unlucky
May 21, 2024 09:00 - 39 minutes - 36.2 MBIt's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!! In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": "Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky." Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to d...
Love After Loss: A Journey of Hope and Healing
May 16, 2024 07:34 - 33 minutes - 30.7 MBAnna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening. Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his yo...
Your Happiness Is a Problem
May 14, 2024 10:16 - 28 minutes - 26.2 MBOn today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths. She then explores if happiness is an algorithm we can crack or if we’re just wired to be a bit miserable. Why do we suffer? Is pain necessary for survival? Are we all just masochists in denial? and why blaming others is the perfect cop-out!! Violetta then delves into how dissatisfaction is baked into our DNA and why the greatest truths...
The Reason He's Not Choosing You
May 09, 2024 09:01 - 33 minutes - 30.8 MBBabes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill. Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of dating with 7 Game-Changing Dating Tips that will Transform Your Love Life forever!! Learn why men pull away, how to spot early dating red flags, why he won't commit, and the real reasons he’s not choosing you. Violetta share personal stories of her recent dating experience, including why she cried at Stagecoach, and insights on how...
BEST Advice You'll Ever Hear
May 08, 2024 18:19 - 13 minutes - 12.1 MBPrivet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays! Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and touch your beautiful heart and mind. From a letter to your younger self to boundaries to dating advice. To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-s...
Stagecoach Confessions: Stars, Drama, and Lana Del Ray
May 07, 2024 09:00 - 29 minutes - 26.7 MBGet ready to saddle up for an unforgettable adventure as your Russian big sis, Violetta, takes you through her first-ever Stagecoach experience on Almost Adulting! In this wild and insightful episode, Violetta shares: The Patron house Crew included: Violetta, Kat stickler, Jason tartick, Kelsey Anderson and Joey graziadei from the bachelor, Georgia v, Erin falter, Nick dio, Nick norcia, Polly B and Alex Hall from Selling OC, and last but not least Lana Del Ray and Nikki Lane. Meet...
Is It Love or OCD? With Dr. Patrick McGrath
May 02, 2024 07:00 - 45 minutes - 42 MBUnraveling Relationship OCD: A Deeper Look with Dr. Patrick McGrath Is it just a quirk or could it be Relationship OCD? This misunderstood form of OCD often masquerades as simple jealousy or relationship ups and downs, but there's much more beneath the surface. In this compelling episode, we dive into the intricacies of Relationship OCD, exploring: What exactly is Relationship OCD, and how does it differ from other types? The fine line between normal jealousy and this form of OCD...
9 Types of Codependency With Mark Groves
April 30, 2024 08:00 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MBHey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises! Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering ...
Get Your Ex Back With Dating Expert Adrienne Everheart
April 25, 2024 07:00 - 1 hour - 97 MBHey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire. In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about ...
My Therapist Once Told Me...
April 24, 2024 21:45 - 18 minutes - 16.6 MBHello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse of the Wednesday premium episode!!! To listen to the FULL episode and get AD FREE weekly plus TWO EXTRA episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps! See Privacy Policy at https://art19....
In Case You Missed Me
April 23, 2024 07:00 - 34 minutes - 31.9 MBHey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled...
It's Okay to Not Be Okay
April 18, 2024 08:00 - 45 minutes - 41.6 MBHey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it ...
How To Win An Argument
April 16, 2024 07:00 - 29 minutes - 26.7 MBHey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keepi...
Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS
April 11, 2024 07:00 - 29 minutes - 26.6 MBHey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch. GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men wil...
20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think
April 09, 2024 07:00 - 23 minutes - 21.5 MBHey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing...
How to Handle Conflict
April 07, 2024 21:46 - 14 minutes - 13.1 MBHello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy! To listen to the FULL episode and get ad free episodes plus two extra episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS
April 04, 2024 07:00 - 38 minutes - 35.5 MBHey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!! Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't ...
P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary
April 03, 2024 08:47 - 8 minutes - 7.49 MBHello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we discuss some things I WOULD NEVER share on my regular podcast since I am afraid of a lawsuit or people coming for me so if you want to hear the full story, go listen and subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Pri...
Get People to Like You Instantly
April 02, 2024 07:00 - 26 minutes - 23.9 MBHey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment. Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with si...
The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It?
March 28, 2024 07:00 - 46 minutes - 42.2 MBHey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today'...
When to Have S*x
March 26, 2024 07:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBHey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, emp...
4 Confidence Hacks To Transform Your Life
March 24, 2024 07:00 - 17 minutes - 15.7 MBHey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast. Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty...
What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin
March 21, 2024 07:00 - 1 hour - 56.8 MBHey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style,...
INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS
March 20, 2024 07:00 - 15 minutes - 14.6 MBHello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into sliding into dm's, my intrusive thoughts and lots more. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Priva...
From Lovers to Strangers - What Went Wrong?
March 19, 2024 07:00 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MBHey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe to tho...
5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast)
March 14, 2024 07:00 - 1 hour - 77.5 MBHey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders. Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships wh...
Use a Man’s Mind Against Him
March 12, 2024 07:00 - 36 minutes - 33 MBHey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complexi...
The Nervous System Explained w/ Sarah Baldwin
March 07, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 61.8 MBHey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. She focuses on showing individuals that they are safe and can get unstuck, which leads to thriving and living the life they're meant to live. Violetta and Sa...
BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL
March 06, 2024 08:00 - 13 minutes - 12.6 MBHello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - ht...
What Motivates Men to Commit
March 05, 2024 08:00 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MBHey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them. Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From und...
Why He Doesn't Want You
March 03, 2024 21:53 - 9 minutes - 8.76 MBHello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL epi...
Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back
February 29, 2024 08:00 - 29 minutes - 26.9 MBHey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of ...
Feeling Ungrateful
February 29, 2024 00:10 - 11 minutes - 10.8 MBHello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast....
She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)
February 27, 2024 08:00 - 57 minutes - 52.3 MBHey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own mus...
You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford
February 22, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 60.4 MBHey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”. Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some s...
Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer
February 20, 2024 08:00 - 35 minutes - 32.3 MBHey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether i...
Love is Not Enough w/ Mark Groves
February 15, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 74.9 MBHey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection. What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, del...
16 Reasons You Don't Have Love
February 13, 2024 08:00 - 23 minutes - 21.6 MBHey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honori...
4 Ways To Self Love
February 08, 2024 08:00 - 45 minutes - 41.4 MBAnd no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves. And remember, n...
Let Your Rage Fuel You
February 06, 2024 08:00 - 34 minutes - 31.5 MBThey always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet? Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed r...