Sexual wisdom versus sexual folly

“So, what constitutes wholesome sexual activity? It is consensual, and is accompanied by good communication and caring about each other, and it has the effect of strengthening the connection between people. If any of these four elements are not present, it’s not wholesome. And the wholesomeness or lack thereof is not determined by the exclusivity of the relationship. Be cautious of your own biases in attaching judgments to sexual situations. I have found that many people tend to be more likely to wrongfully label sexual activity outside of a committed relationship as unwholesome or unhealthy, whereas they tend to underestimate the amount of psychological damage caused by sexual activity (whether in an exclusive relationship or not) in the absence of clear consent, good communication, and caring.” -Alex Zorach. “I’m porn-positive and erotica-positive.” -Antonio Myers.

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