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Tongue Tied Talkshow

45 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 21 ratings

Between all the stories of contemporary dating, maintaining friendships, and awkward interactions, join your witty hosts Tony Bonilla and Allan Rodriguez as they present Tongue Tied Talkshow, to highlight not only their experiences but those of their guests.

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So Valentine's Day...

February 11, 2021 01:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MB

Hey whaddup y'all!  Valentine's Day is here! Join the TT crew as we discuss Valentine's Day along with the announcement of our newest team member (and host), Lauryn Darling! She joins us as we go over details such as: Is V-Day too commercialized? Social media influence on V-Day (and media portrayal) and does you significant other (or any romantic partner for that matter) have to put out on that day! It's non stop TT as usual and as we continue to grow, we'd like to remind you guys to join ...

New Year, New Terms!

February 03, 2021 17:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MB

AYOOO! Whaddup y'all! Your boys are are back! Season 5 of Tongue Tied is now underway! We appreciate all the help and support and this year we plan on really giving you the best version of Tongue Tied yet! (NSFW) We have new content, new team members joining, new merchandise all coming your way! We start off the season with new dating trends and terms that you may see this year. 2020 changed a lot of things, dating included! We're here to discuss it a bit for you so you can have a quick hea...

Friends With Benefits

November 21, 2020 00:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB

Here's the scenario: you’re great friends who just both happen to be single at the same time... so why not add a bit of “no strings attached” fun into your friendship? In order for a friends with benefits (FWB) relationship to blossom there needs to be a strict set of rules. Join us as we host the "12 Rules of FWB" with our guest Lory! We discuss setting boundaries, difference between FWB and Booty calls and also knowing why you started the arrangement in the first place. It's a lot of inf...

Ouija Board and the Red Light

October 28, 2020 22:00 - 47 minutes - 32.9 MB

Boo! It's TT's first ever Halloween special! The boys talk spooky stories and Tony shares his experience with a Ouija board....*gulp* On top of that, the boys discuss their ghost hunting adventures and what is to come on the show. You don't want to miss out on the scares. Just remember, listen in the dark, don't listen alone, and make sure you say good bye... or who knows, your story could end up on the show!  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Liar, Liar, Ghosts & Liars

October 15, 2020 05:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MB

Whaddup y'all! Your ghost hosts are back and this week Allan shares his paranormal experience. He says he has an answer or explanation for it... but how do you explain a spirit jumping on top of you???!  Shout out to your 2020 NBA Champions... The Los Angeles Lakers!! Let's go! #cantbeatLA Also, when is it okay to lie? Who lies more: Men or Women? Don't miss out on this week's episode as the boys discuss the art of lying! Don't bite that tongue! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/...

Expectations vs Reality! (ft. Lory, Aneessa, & Donna)

October 10, 2020 00:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MB

“So learn one thing; that to expect is bad and that the world is not here to fulfill your expectations.” It's sad but true, sometimes things don't turn out the way we expect them to be. From cat-fishing on dating apps, to social media perceptions, life has a funny way of not living up to all the hype at times. On this episode of Tongue Tied, we have three wonderful ladies join us as we discuss our thoughts on Expectations vs Reality in dating.  Also, Lory shares her halloween story on the ...

Gaslighting Memories

October 02, 2020 04:00 - 38 minutes - 26.3 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! It's the TT boys, back with new content! This week, our goof friend of the show Aneessa joins us to discuss Gaslighting and associating things with bad memories. From work, to friends and family to romantic entanglements, we discuss and give our two cents about the topics.  Also, be ready! It's the spooky season and we're going on a ghost hunt soon. Our side project, "Here We Ghost" is set to begin this October! Stay Tuned for more details.  Lastly, don't forget to submi...

The Cuffing Season!

September 16, 2020 19:00 - 38 minutes - 26.4 MB

Ladies and Gentlemen! It's time of the year again... Cuffing Season 2020 (COVID edition)!! This is that time, Cuffing season is here! This is the run-up to winter when previously contented single people start seeking shelter in the cosiness of a committed relationship – or... at least until the weather heats up again. October is the time for “tryouts”, as you assess your roster of contenders for an autumn-winter mate to “cuff” (as in, handcuff) yourself to. It could be a short sentence. By...

Guess This Is Growing Up...

August 12, 2020 19:00 - 50 minutes - 34.8 MB

Hey whaddup y’all! This week join the fellas as they discuss at what age do you stop giving a sh*t? From what you wear, who you go out with and even changing jobs, there comes a time when you feel you've grown up and learn to let go of things that used to be big deals for you when you were younger.  Maybe it's not that you don't care after a while, because you always care. Just about different stuff as you realize what’s actually important in life. Tune in this week and let the guys know wh...

Put A Ring On It... (Ft. Felipe)

August 05, 2020 19:00 - 50 minutes - 34.4 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! We're back and this week, our guest is a local business owner, FELIPE! He owns and operates an apparel company and he joins the shenanigans this week to discuss... the promise ring! Felipe gives us a personal anecdote of his experience and what he thinks a promise rings means and symbolizes. As usual, Allan and I chime in with questions and our thoughts about promise rings. You don't want to miss you on this or some of our business talk too! Don't Bite That Tongue y'all!...

Peruvian Puff Pepper

July 29, 2020 14:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MB

Whaddup y'all! This week Amy is back on the show to discuss online dating, more specifically dating with intention vs dating for sport. The swipe culture is our main topic and we go over using digital platforms for dating, such as dating apps and social media.  We also discuss profiles on these apps and how honest are people really being. Tune in for all the shenanigans as usual. You don't wanna bite that tongue! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Ex's and O's (ft. Amy)

July 22, 2020 14:00 - 51 minutes - 35.3 MB

Is it a good/bad idea to get back with an ex? Whaddup y'all! Tony and Allan here and this week we discuss getting back with an ex. We're joined by the fabulous, Amy! It's been a little while since she has been on the show but we're glad to have her back on. She chimes in on our discussion as we break down getting back with an ex?  Should you or should you not? Tune in to hear what we think and add some personal stories and experiences to the mix as well. You won't want to miss this episode...

Big Daddy (Ft. Jon )

June 24, 2020 14:00 - 33 minutes - 22.9 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! Thank you for tuning in! In honor of Father's Day (a couple days late), we decided to tackle the topic on dating someone with kids. How does society look at this? Are you ready to take on this experience? We have our friend Jon call in and discuss this topic with us. He has personal experience, share some thoughts and his insights on dating someone with kids.  Also, hope you guys are ready for new merchandise!! Tune in to find out our special offers and how you can get you...

Two Chicks, One Clapback (ft. Lori & Sarah)

June 17, 2020 14:00 - 54 minutes - 37.6 MB

Hey y'all! Allan and Tony here and we are back with more TT shenanigans. This week we are joined by our lovely lady friends, Lori and Sarah and we discuss double standards but through the ladies' perspective this time. Body Count, Casual Sex and dating etiquette are some of the main points we cover in this week's episode. Tune in as they school us a bit and let us know what they thought of our insights on dating double standards. You might even get some crazy stories from our guests. Don't m...

Game of Terms

June 10, 2020 19:00 - 22 minutes - 15.2 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! Allan and Tony here with another episode of Tongue Tied for ya! This week I test Allan's dating terminology prowess with some terms we didn't even know existed for dating. We've seen these things happen in relationships and now we know the terms they've been dubbed with. This week is also a preparation for Part Two of our double standards episode, and this time we'll be getting the ladies perspective on dating double standards. Don't miss out on our shoutouts, announcemen...

Three Dudes, Two Standards

June 03, 2020 14:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! This week, we have our buddy Erik join the shenanigans. We discuss double standards through a guy's perspective. Body counts? Who should pay on the first date? Tune in and find out our takes and how we think about double standards in dating! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Three Dudes, Two Standards (ft. Erik)

June 03, 2020 14:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! This week, we have our buddy Erik join the shenanigans. We discuss double standards through a guy's perspective. Body counts? Who should pay on the first date? Tune in and find out our takes and how we think about double standards in dating! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Date 19

May 30, 2020 06:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

Whaddup y'all! Thanks for tuning in again! This week's episode is about online dating during the COVID-19 pandemic. This week welcome a special guest join the shenanigans, Aneessa! We discuss what affect the pandemic has had on dating online and how people are adapting to the current situation. Tune in to find out our thoughts on dating in quarantine. If you have any thoughts or would like to bring up some points, please feel free to message us! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/ton...

Date 19 (ft. Aneessa)

May 30, 2020 06:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

Whaddup y'all! Thanks for tuning in again! This week's episode is about online dating during the COVID-19 pandemic. This week welcome a special guest join the shenanigans, Aneessa! We discuss what affect the pandemic has had on dating online and how people are adapting to the current situation. Tune in to find out our thoughts on dating in quarantine. If you have any thoughts or would like to bring up some points, please feel free to message us! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/ton...

We're All Mad Here... (ft. Aneessa)

May 27, 2020 14:00 - 49 minutes - 33.7 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! We're back and season 4 is under way. We welcomed back a Tongue Tied veteran, Allan on this week's episode. May is Mental Health Awareness Month, so to kick off the season, we are discussing points of how mental health can affect relationships, and tips for being prepared to help and pull through this type of situation. It's not easy to talk about mental health but here at Tongue Tied, we're always ready to tackle tough relationship topics. Sit back, grab a drink and join ...

We're All Mad Here...

May 27, 2020 14:00 - 49 minutes - 33.7 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! We're back and season 4 is under way. We welcomed back a Tongue Tied veteran, Allan on this week's episode. May is Mental Health Awareness Month, so to kick off the season, we are discussing points of how mental health can affect relationships, and tips for being prepared to help and pull through this type of situation. It's not easy to talk about mental health but here at Tongue Tied, we're always ready to tackle tough relationship topics. Sit back, grab a drink and join ...

Kevin... It's Wednesday! (ft. Kevin)

February 14, 2020 16:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MB

What time is it?! About time! Tongue Tied is officially back! New episodes, new topics, new guests are on the way! Thank you all for listening and keeping up during our hiatus. Tonight's episode features Kevin, a friend of the show and probably one of the coolest coworkers I've ever met. We just get right into it and I ask dating questions and his opinion on topics like workplace dating, keeping your ex's number and a few more. Tune in and don't miss the shenanigans! Support the show (https...

Kevin... It's Wednesday!

February 14, 2020 16:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MB

What time is it?! About time! Tongue Tied is officially back! New episodes, new topics, new guests are on the way! Thank you all for listening and keeping up during our hiatus. Tonight's episode features Kevin, a friend of the show and probably one of the coolest coworkers I've ever met. We just get right into it and I ask dating questions and his opinion on topics like workplace dating, keeping your ex's number and a few more. Tune in and don't miss the shenanigans Support the show (https...

Outta Your League!

July 31, 2019 15:00 - 24 minutes - 16.5 MB

Dating someone out of your league.... does it exist or is it simply a mind set? This week, join your hosts Tony and Gabby as they break down what they believe means to date someone out of your league. From personal standards to social status, from perception to reality, shallowness and if this is just an excuse to avoid rejection? Tune ine to hear our thoughts and don't miss the nonsense! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Do Things Happen For A Reason?

July 24, 2019 14:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MB

Everyone experiences losses or pain during their lifetime. It can be through work, family, friends, love, sports... it's unavoidable. What makes the difference is choosing to move on or remain the victim. Gabby and Tony discuss it on this week's episode if things happen for a reason. Do they actually happen as if life is scripted in some way? Or is that an excuse to help cope with hardships? Tune in to hear our insights! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Crazy Jealous!

July 17, 2019 05:00 - 23 minutes - 16.4 MB

Hey whaddup y'all!! Tongue Tied is back! We are ready for season 3 and new stories and topics to discuss. Joining us on the show is our new co-host, Gabby "Gee_Bites" Sandoval!  She originally made her debut in season 2 on the "Hairy Cookies" episode! We liked working with her so much that she is now a member of the Tongue Tied Team! This week we discuss what is worse in a relationship: being crazy or being Jealous? We give our opinions and insights on the topic and hope that you guys can te...

Hairy Cookies

June 19, 2019 14:00 - 48 minutes - 33.4 MB

Do Nice Guys Finish Last? Do you choose the bad boy or the nice guy? Does the friend-zone exist? Gaby Gee-Bites joins the nonsense this week as we dive into these topics and she gives us some female insights on what it comes down to for the nice guys and the bad boys, and who really ends up being in the friend zone, or at least what it means! And just what the hell are HAIRY COOKIES?! Tune in this week and choose for yourself! Who's side are you on?  Support the show (https://www.patreon.co...

Friends with Benefits

June 12, 2019 16:00 - 46 minutes - 21.5 MB

Hey! Whaddup y'all! This week's episode features a very special friend of the show. All the way from Pennsylvania, Maddie! Maddie joins the shows to discuss friends with benefits with me (the topic, mind you!) She tells us personal experiences and I ask her a few questions of what the term means and if FWB actually can work out. Tune in and you'll hear all the nonsense for this week, coast to coast! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Sarah Marshall

May 29, 2019 14:00 - 31 minutes - 14.6 MB

Hi guys! This week's episode gives all you listeners a small taste of the bonus content that is up on the PATREON page. Patrons of the show will receive bonus material such as extra episodes, behind-the-scenes photos and videos, and exclusive blogs and newsletters. You might also get script material and the inside scoop for future episodes. There are a lot of perks, you just have to sign up! In this episode, we break down the 2008 Rom-Com, "Forgetting Sarah Marshall". Mind you this is just a...

Moving On

May 22, 2019 14:00 - 41 minutes - 18.9 MB

Moving on ain't easy! That one who got away isn't an easy situation to deal with either, and I briefly discuss my experience with that! But everyone has their way of dealing with these occurrences. Lauren (from "Down In The DM") joins the nonsense this week and we  discuss and break down some things we have experienced and what we did to move on. It just really varies but I think time is a big factor and really just separating from that past can help a person grow and not dwell on it. Tune i...

Under the Same Roof

May 16, 2019 02:00 - 58 minutes - 26.6 MB

Cohabitation. Living with your significant other/partner before marriage. Is it beneficial? Is it a necessity? Some people think it's against social norms. Others like the idea of "test driving" their relationship and marriage. In this episode, I am joined by the host of the Vlog Series "Blunts & Bibles" Cynthia, and we dive into this cohabitation topic. We discuss our personal experiences and what we think of that living situation. We mention possible outcomes of cohabitation and events tha...

Love, Planes and Hurricanes

May 08, 2019 14:00 - 54 minutes - 25.1 MB

There's something comforting about knowing someone so well that you can complete their sentences. But there's also something terrifying about feeling as if you've reached the mutual knowledge saturation point as a couple. The future suddenly looks peaceful but boring as hell. Is it even possible to grow closer once there's nothing left to discover? It becomes a question of falling in love versus staying in love? Tune in as my guest, all the way from Puerto Rico, joins the nonsense as we di...

Cunning Linguist

May 01, 2019 14:00 - 59 minutes - 27.1 MB

Hello hello! We are back! Tongue Tied is back y'all! We kick off season two with some spicy topics: Oral Sex and is porn healthy for a relationship? We were asked about these topics when Tongue Tied hit the streets in Las Vegas!!! We heard some great stories and Lauryn (LoLo) joins the nonsense as we discuss and analyze both topics! Oral sex in a relationship: how important is it? If your partner doesn't perform it on you, is that a deal-breaker? All I know is, some "cunning linguist" (get i...

Tongue Tied

April 11, 2019 02:00 - 14 minutes - 6.78 MB

Hi everyone! Your host with the most here to tell you that  season one was a success. I'm beyond grateful and excited to have been able to get Tongue Tied on the air and I'm really looking forward to whats in store for the show. In this season finale, I recap some of the topics we've discussed, feedback and what my favorite moments were! More importantly, I am ready to set the tone for the next season! We're going to hear more stories and really start picking brains here and understanding de...

Blue Balls

April 03, 2019 14:00 - 39 minutes - 18.1 MB

Hey whaddup y'all! Your host with the most is joined by Gio and Cesar as we take on questions some of the ladies have asked me. We discuss topics such as sleeping with someone on the first date, are exes really all crazy, who should pay on the first date and are blue balls a real thing! It's funny stuff so you're not gonna want to miss out on this episode. We also share some funny experiences we've had with women, including Cesar losing a tooth! What in the literal f**k!! Tune in and don't m...

Lovepuff

March 27, 2019 14:00 - 58 minutes - 27 MB

Whaddup y'all! We thought we'd change things up a bit this time around and we decided to have Jackie (from Apt 201) our producer, join the show and ask me questions about dating! I thought it was great so the listeners can get a better idea of who I am and how I feel about certain dating topics. We discuss a lot of the polls I've posted and some random a** questions that all pertain to dating. Tune in and don't miss the shenanigans! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalksh...

Down in the DM

March 19, 2019 02:00 - 1 hour - 29.5 MB

Social Media... It plays such a huge role in our daily lives. I mean we're basically attached to our phones and constantly checking what's going in the world via social media. But can social play a role in our relationships? I have my guests, Lauren and Millie join the shenanigans this time around and we discuss what social media means for people and their relationships, friendships and just their social image. We discuss sliding in the DM's, posting pics with your significant other and more...

Sexperienced

March 15, 2019 14:00 - 1 hour - 35.2 MB

Dating... drinking... adulthood... You guys already know how this goes. I'm joined this week by the fabulous Lauryn (aka Lolo) as she sits down with me and discusses bisexuality vs pansexaulity, ideal situations to meet people in, follow up texts and ghosting! All this while downing some drinks, and having some great laughs! I learn a new term and get a better understanding of bisexuality. Even though we give our insights on these topics, just remember, we're not "sexperts", just "sexperienc...

Save it for the Fourth Date!

March 14, 2019 05:00 - 15 minutes - 7.1 MB

Okay guys! Just got back from PODFEST 2019 in Orlando! That was a dope a** trip! Super, super informative and I met some very cool people. I really had no clue as to how many people host a podcast! I mean hundreds of them! All kinds of shows each with their own reason for doing so. It was massive, or as I enjoy saying, TREMENDOUS! Anyway, this episode here is a quick run through of my experience and I even share a dating story (maybe two) I heard while interviewing some people there. Check i...

She Likes Me Now...

March 02, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 31.4 MB

The ladies asked and we delivered! My dude Allan joins the show and we discuss some juicy topics that I was asked recently. We just give some great feedback on the "f**k boy" syndrome, what we think about love, and the dreaded, "what are we" talk! Now I tried my best but.... we talked so much that there will be a part 2, that's right, a part 2 for this episode!! So tune in for some laughs, grab a drink and enjoy the shenanigans! Lastly.... there is a great surprise that I reveal! Support th...

Face Plant

February 22, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 32.7 MB

Good friends will take your drink from you when you're drunk off your a**! Your best friends will say "You better finish that sh*t! We don't waste drinks like that!" This time around on tongue tied, Amy joins me and we discuss how we met, some drunk stories and we discuss our thoughts on my dating polls I posted. Amy has been my drinking buddy for a minute and we definitely have some stories to share! But it was great hearing what she thought about first dates, relationship milestones and wh...

Crush Out

February 14, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 28.6 MB

Happy Valentine's/Singles Awareness Day! This week I have two guests join the show, The girls of Apartment 201, Jackie and Jasmine. We discuss some of our dating stories and reflect on past experiences, give our insights on dating topics, discussing crushing on someone and slowly crushing out and slam a few drinks while enjoying the laughs. Tune in to hear our tales of first dates, holding hands and how much is too much liquor on a date! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedt...

Battle of the Siblings

February 02, 2019 08:00 - 20 minutes - 9.38 MB

How well do you know your sibling? My sister (spoiler: shes also the producer for the show) joins the nonsense this time and we duke it out in a trivia game, with the loser having to share an embarrassing drunk story on the air!  What crazy drunk adventures have you been on? Tune in this week to find out what went down and who had to reveal this embarrassing drunk story! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Blurred Lines

January 17, 2019 08:00 - 26 minutes - 12.3 MB

It only took me 10 years... but I finally got her number! We talked, we drank, we ended up breaking into the city pool and a little Netflix to end the night! This week's episode highlights an age old question: What happens when friends cross the boundary and decide to date? Is it better because of the previous knowledge you have of each other? If it doesn't work, what happens then? Tune in and find out what happens! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)

Drink and Swipe

January 13, 2019 05:00 - 24 minutes - 11.5 MB

Hi guys! My name is Tony! Glad you're tuning in. In this first episode of Tongue Tied, I give a quick background on how the show got its name and what I plan to share with everyone! Stories of dating, adult life, career and everything in between. So go on, indulge in the show, kick off those shoes, lean back in your seat, plug in those headphones and enjoy the shenanigans! After all, everyone has a story to tell! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/tonguetiedtalkshow)